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PEBKAC: Problem Exists Between Keyboard And Chair (the user is the issue here) Lithobraking Maneuver (our rocket stopped because it crashed into rocks)

anexperimentallife

Operator headspace problem (the user is a dumbass--we used this one a lot when I was a generator mechanic)

ralfmaximus

Loose Nut Behind the Wheel -- dumbass driver

Unintended Fauna Interaction -- fucker bit me

petzah394-deactivated20250503

I fucking love these special terms, especially the ones about the user being a fucking idiot

straycatj

ボクいがいと　いいねこと思うですけど…

I think I am quite a good cat...

tophamhatkyo-deactivated2025013

we must stop this madness. what does he need three apples for

meow-moment

can you just let him live his life

beardedmrbean

woman-becomer

oh no. I've been hit with an overwhelming wave of sadness. this sucks

woman-becomer

wave over. everything rules and I rule. you rule

fishoutofcamelot

Lets say, theoretically, it was a time of myth. And for the sake of argument, lets say it was also a land of magic

disabledavocado

maybe harsh take. but. shitting on people who can't care about selves. who live with parents. who rely on partners in 'basic' tasks. (yes even body care tasks). who got chores done for them. who don't work. is ableist. even if clarify 'this specific person isn't disabled.' it still perpetuates stigma. it still ableist.

say exactly what wrong. have they overstepped someone's boundaries? have they pressured someone into care? have they manipulated abused etc.? something else? point wrong behavior. n critique this behavior.

'they're 30 n live with parents' not bad behavior. 'their parent cut their nails' not bad behavior. 'they don't work' not bad behavior.

'but they're abled!' 1) you don't know for sure. can't know for sure. undiagnosed n invisible disabilities exist. not every undiagnosed individual able to take care of self. recognize undiagnosed n invisible disabilities existence not only when they look 'nice' for you. 2) it still contributes to stigma around needing care. disabled people often not seen as disabled. even if visibly disabled. every individual presumed abled because ableism. so disabled individuals will be shitted on because need care. because presumed abled.

to destigmatize needing care. have to destigmatize getting care. even if not see as 'reasonable' n 'justified.' can't destigmatize needing care if say 'getting care depending on others living with parents etc. is bad but disabled is exception.' because still stigmatize process of getting cared.

people don't need allowance n approval of society to get care.

(not say not call out bad behavior. ask call out bad behavior specifically. not stigmatized neutral things).