NP3

Nonbinary, polyamorous, pagan, and a parent. Life is strange. I post feminism, nerd culture, cat videos, polyamory stuff, pagan stuff, and strange humorous things.

[funnymemes-and-kinkydreams]

[traumasurvivors]

Consent does not just apply to sex. It goes for anything. Whether that is hugs, or a pat on the shoulder, or even a handshake. 

People also do not need to disclose their trauma as validation for why they do not want to be touched. People are allowed to say “no” to any form of contact, whether they have trauma or not. 

Quit taking “please don’t touch me” as a personal attack on you. 

Respect people’s bodies. Respect their boundaries. Please. 

[littlepinkbeast]

you know how most of the things humans use as spices are poisonous or repellent to most other mammals? and you know how anything vaguely d&d inspired has dwarves being way more poison resistant than even humans?

dwarf cuisine shouldn’t be bland, it should be unimaginably spicy and potentially harmful or fatal to humans. like green potato and rhubarb leaf salad with a festive garnish of yew berries and deadly nightshade berries, that kind of thing.

[the-rear-admiral-reborn]

Concept: humans think it’s bland cuz rather than memorizing what kills humans it’s safer to just pass on the spices.

[loreofcardigan]

#‘should we add salt? everyone eats salt right?’#‘no that’s a rock there’s no way humans eat rocks

[sadlyinlovewithlove]

How to feel like a goddess:

- eat pomegranates

- walk barefoot in nature

- ignore men

- smell the flowers

- wear long flowy dresses

- bathe in honey

- find peace in solitude

- leave your hair wild

- put yourself first

[feministism]

[kiwianaroha]

She took up acting because the malnutrition she suffered under the nazis permanently damaged her health and prevented her from pursuing her dream to be a ballerina. During the war, she danced to raise money for the resistance - even though she was literally starving, she used what strength she had to make sure more nazis got shot. 

[neveria]

She and her mom also denounced their royal heritage because of the Nazis in their family

[antiracistfeministanarchy]

Also Audrey was a humanitarian until her death, though ill with cancer, she continued her work for UNICEF, travelling to Somalia, Kenya, the United Kingdom, Switzerland, France and the United States.

[virginiaisforhaters]

she hated nazis (they murdered her uncle, and as a child she regularly witnessed people being put on the trains to concentration camps) and she would hate your white supremacist asses too

[mousesmiter]

I disappeared

I’m having a good life... I still spend way too much time on Facebook I guess, but have very little time to do more than scroll and occasionally bitch.

I’m in 2 bands. Im still poly, still a parent, still a pagan.

Just moved to a new apartment. Have all kinds of bills to pay, and I’m apprenticing under my mother as a seamstrix making draperies, pillows, duvet covers, bedskirts, and the occasional upholstery. I love my job- I get to use sewing machines and power tools. I like making things.

Soon I hope to start making clothing as well.

[retrowar]

[angstbotfic]

AKA why the electoral college has gotta go. 

though looking at the comments the folks who live in the red part think this is why the electoral college has got to stay. because they like getting 3.5 votes per capita. 

[spacemonkeyg78]

Tyranny of the few is a pretty sweet deal if you belong to the few.

[drst]

“Why should the coast’s vote count more?” BECAUSE THAT’S WHERE THE PEOPLE ARE AND THIS IS SUPPOSEDLY A DEMOCRACY.

[seriouslyamerica]

A Map Of Where The People Live

[showgirlsteve-blog]

hey so you know that vicious cycle of mental health making you unproductive which makes your mental health worse? don’t worry friend I am here with something that can help

just get one thing done. break the cycle. it doesn’t have to be some big task. in fact it’s better if it isn’t. decide on something that takes five minutes or less. keep it tiny and manageable - the key is to feel like you’ve accomplished something, so when your brain is all, you can’t even do a single thing all day except lay in bed being useless, you can be like, oh but I did do something, brain, suck on that. it might not seem like much at the time but it helps a lot to have something tangible you can point to

do you have dirty dishes in your bedroom? get rid of ‘em. you don’t have to wash them, just put them in the sink with soapy water. done. easy.

do you have a pile of empty water bottles sitting there? good for you staying hydrated. but you don’t need a mountain of plastic reminders. throw a few in the trash or in recycling. don’t worry about chasing down every single one, just pick a number. get rid of 5 or 10. easy, manageable even if you feel terrible. done.

do you need to do something early tomorrow? get something ready now. just one thing. lay out an outfit. fill the coffee maker so you can just press a button tomorrow. pack your backpack or purse. bonus benefit, future you will have an extra few minutes to breathe in the morning.

do you have a pet? spend 5 minutes with your pet. cuddle them. play tug of war. make baby noises at them. your pet loves you. I bet they miss you when you’re sad. you’ll both feel better.

has it been 3 weeks since you did laundry? pick your clothes up off the floor and put them in a laundry basket. don’t actually wash them or even take the basket anywhere. just collect the clothes for later so they aren’t spread all over. it’ll make actually doing them that much easier when you have more energy

did you manage to wash your clothes but not put them away? fold something. fold another thing. and one more. put them away. three things. you got this one.

did you do your one thing? good. I’m proud of you. even if it didn’t make you feel better, guess what? you did a thing. you got something done, you can be done now. you can go back to bed if you want.

[plain-flavoured-english]

I have learned from experience that doing nothing generates its own momentum. The longer you sit on the sofa doing nothing, the harder it is to get up. The best way to break the cycle is to get up. Just get up and do something small, the tiniest thing, it doesn’t need to be important. Some of the best things to accomplish are drinking a glass of water or going for a short walk and getting some fresh air.

[septmilleneurones]

Can I just say how much I LOVE posts like this?! You’re telling people how to get stuff done, but you’re being constructive about it rather than just being all “DAMN KIDS AND THEIR BATH BOMBS!!!!!!”

[mousesmiter]

Why. Are. Porn. Blogs. Following. Me.

[gotitforcheap-deactivated201611]

[mousesmiter]

I am that rotti

[awwww-cute]

Sweet dreams, little one! (Source: http://ift.tt/1Mekk9d)

[mousesmiter]

I got medicated for my PPD. It’s slowly evening out in my system, and I’m still triggered like hell by overbearing family members that don’t respect my boundaries/wishes regarding baby. There’s a particular aunt who is so passive-agressive I could scream, who likes to tell everyone what to do and gets so huffy when you call her on that shit. Just being around her spikes my blood pressure and has me thinking homicidal thoughts. So I’m hiding out in a public place with my laptop on a holiday weekend to avoid dealing with her. Partner has the baby. He understood my need to not be there and gave me support.

I love him. I just don’t like some of his family much.

Self-care is hard.

I can’t wait until we can go home.

[skellydun]

can u imagine a life without anxiety and depression. what a dream

[cosmicwitchcraft]

me casting evil spirits out of me home

“ get the fuck you you fucking pieces of shit I did not ask for you * waves incense* this smells so good get the fuck out”

[just-shower-thoughts]

We celebrate someone’s birthday by having them blow their germs all over a cake, then serving that to everyone around

[mousesmiter]

Cops Threaten Not to Protect Kaepernick While Providing Extra Security For Rapist Brock Turner

On the same day that Santa Clara Police Officer’s Association have threatened to stop providing security for 49ers games in response to Colin Kaepernick’s protests against brutality, Ohio police have dutifully volunteered without complaint to give additional protection to convicted rapist Brock Turner following his release. Turner outraged the nation after getting caught raping an unconscious …

Convict vs. Law-abiding Citizen, 

And how the police in this country respond to each. No this isn’t the Twilight Zone, this is Patriarchy. This is white supremacy. This is systematic inequality at work.

[mousesmiter]

Police: Sovereign citizen attempts to reach for gun while resisting arrest in Slidell

A man identifying as a sovereign citizen resisted arrest during a traffic stop and attempted to reach for a gun, a news release from Slidell police says.

Man refused to comply with the law. Man reached for a gun while resisting arrest. Man taken into custody. No injuries reported. Man was white. And black men and women being told they should have 'complied with requests' and they wouldn't get beaten and killed by police. Shouldn't have 'reached for a cell phone, could have been a gun" that "officers fear for their lives" This is a wake-up call for my fellow white people. The discrepancies in how police treat black bodies as dangerous vs. white bodies as non-threatening and how courts allow this discrepancy in refusing to hand down indictments... The system is not equal. This is racism.