En Dieu
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En Dieu
achievements come in countless forms… getting your first job is one but so is making your bed. getting a degree is one but so is eating two meals in a day. making the first payment on your first car is one but so is finishing the math homework you’ve been dreading.
Having hope seems delusional, but then so does rampant pessimism. I no longer have profound aspirations. Gratitude for what's available to me will keep me busy until I can rest for good.
Things a person that loves you does not do:
• Criticize or belittle you
• Call you names or use bad words to hurt you
• Ignore or dismiss your feelings
• Give you the silent treatment as punishment
• Break your trust through lying or cheating
• Physically harm or intimidate you
• Control your actions, decisions, or relationships
• Make you feel unworthy or not good enough
• Disrespect your boundaries or privacy
• Withhold affection or love to manipulate you
• Mock or humiliate you in public or private
• Blame you for their mistakes or failures
• Use your insecurities against you
• Prioritize their needs over yours consistently
• Disregard your opinions or desires
• Threaten to leave to gain control
• Compete with you instead of supporting you
• Discredit your accomplishments or dreams
• Avoid accountability for their actions
this chapter of my life is called:
knowing my worth and acting accordingly.
2024 LESSONS
jan: being alone does not have to mean being lonely
feb: you don’t have to have everything figured out to move forward
mar: you can’t take back the things you’ve said, but you can apologize for them and that is worth something
april: being productive can come in many forms
may: the small things in every day life can be so beautiful they make the days bearable
june: your negative thoughts do not equal your reality
july: new beginnings can be beautiful if you let them be
aug: there’s no right or wrong way to move on if you’re not hurting anybody
sept: you can’t be productive if you’re drained. take time to recharge.
oct: spending time with just yourself can bring you so much peace and a whole new sense of freedom
nov: the only person you truly need in life is yourself but other wonderful people in your orbit are a bonus
The sexiest thing a woman can do is move on. Whether it’s from their partner, career, family, etc. Society has programmed women into believing there’s a moral reward for enduring and staying. Fuck that. Get a new partner, new career, move to another state/country, please just MOVE ON.
discipline is a form of self love. getting up every morning and night to do your skincare routine, taking your time in the shower to exfoliate and double cleanse your entire body and moisturizing right after, having good dental health and setting appointments for the dentist, feeding your body nutritious foods and exercising even if it’s just walking daily, being up on all of your assignments and turning them in on time, keeping your room and bathroom clean and tidy, pampering yourself and making sure you look neat and clean, doing a hair mask on your wash days! Being disciplined enough to take care of yourself and things around you is a way of showing self love!
anything that brings out your childlike wonder is worth giving your attention to
Black Girl Hairstyles | French Roll
For old times sake is actually such a heartbreaking and beautiful sentiment. Like, let’s do it for the love that used to be here. It is reason enough.
December reset for 2025✨
Create a vision board for the upcoming year
Set your word or theme for the new year
Update or create a financial plan/budget for the next year
Organize digital files & pictures
Plan a new daily or weekly routine
Write a gratitude list for the past year
Think about lessons learned & how they shaped you
Set intentions for health & wellness
Refresh your living space with a new layout or decor
Treat yourself to a self care day (spa, bath, meditation)
Figure out which relationships to nurture and those to release
Write a letter to your future self for the end of next year
Create a reading or learning list for personal growth
Plan experiences or trips you want to prioritize
Celebrate your progress, big or small, from the past year
Unsubscribe from unnecessary emails or services
Practice forgiveness for yourself & others
Set aside time to reconnect with loved ones
Start a new journal for the upcoming year with clear intentions
Therapy is like learning to retrace your steps but this time with tenderness instead of shame