guys iβm so sorry to say this but exercising and indulging in hobbies rather than scrolling on your phone for 200 hours actually does improve your mood and overall mental health, this has deeply upset me more than anyone

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guys iβm so sorry to say this but exercising and indulging in hobbies rather than scrolling on your phone for 200 hours actually does improve your mood and overall mental health, this has deeply upset me more than anyone
It never fails to amuse me when I get βhello influencerβ emails wanting me to push questionable products to my followers.
Like worstie, I can barely promote my own published book without wanting to curl up and die.
The fuck makes you think Iβll shill your discount wish shit?
Also, it's Tumblr. If I try to tell anyone about your knock-off Wish-quality sex toy thereβs going to be a horde of Autistic lesbians doing a power point presentation in the notes about safe sex toy material and correct battery storage.
Which I am 100% down for, but it will not get you any sales.
I was trying to figure out if you were someone important on a other platform, because there's no way in hell anyone actually thinks you can be classified as "Influencer" if you have a big Tumblr blog.
And then also think advertising to this mob would be a good idea
There are actually lots of people who sell stuff successfully on here, usually drop ship stuff.
Theyβre just not disclosing it as ads, which they are supposed to do, and instead it's marketed in a very Tumblr-esque way which can be summed up as βomg guys look how CUTE this isβ followed by a different account underneath going βomg found it!!β and it links to a drop ship site with the item(s).
And the link usually has an affiliate tracker in it, which you may or may not be able to spot unless youβre familiar with them, which is also something you are legally supposed to disclose.
I used to get a lot of offers from around 2016-2020 to sell βmoon lampsβ on here, yβknow those orb lights that look like a moon? Yeah. I was offered a higher kickback to make it look like I wasnt posting an add because these sellers know Tumblrites donβt like ads.
They wanted it to look as organic and hyped up as possible and then Iβd just so happen to be like βomg you guys it's on saleβ and post a link. Which is skeevy as shit and also illegal af in the US.
Itβs like the insta/tiktok girlies saying βlink in bioβ to get around saying βhereβs a product I make money on if you buy itβ because they want to sound like your friend because people are more likely to impulse buy stuff if a βfriendβ is recommending something.
Theyβre also trusting that everyone knows βlink in bioβ means βaffiliate linkβ which is technically not enough of a disclosure but whatever.
This is why I tag all my own book promos with βaffiliate linksβ because depending on which storefront you buy Hunger Pangs from, I may get a kickback from the vender which I do to help mediate the fees I lose from distribution. Itβs not muchβliteral pennies in some casesβbut Iβm still legally required to state it.
Itβs also why when I do post products I use or like, I make a point of letting people know Iβm not an affiliate and not sponsored because despite the legal ramifications these people are flirting with by not disclosing their affiliate status, I want to be fully transparent with my followers when it comes to me trying to sell them things.
Yβall keep my lights on by reading my work and through my ko-fi and patreon. I am not about to risk that trust for the sake of some shitty vibrator sales from a sketch-ass drop shipper who wants me to pretend Iβm not selling you things.
So, yeah. People do successfully sell stuff on here. A lot of us small indie creators sell our own work all the time.
But there are also drop-ship sellers on here who get enough of a kick-back from affiliate links to make selling cutesy kitsch stuff worth their time on here. Theyβre just making sure you donβt know youβre being marketed to.
those product posts thinly disguised as "omfg look at this cool thing!/I found it online!" seem to come in waves and once you've noticed the pattern they're just annoying - unless they're marine biology/dinosaur plushies of course in which case it's just an opportunity to gawp
The most recent one I can think of is that jellyfish light. That's 100% an ad, just hidden in tumblr-speak.
I find I can generally tell when it's an ad posted by a corp/dropshipper vs someone extremely passionate selling something they made and love, but there's a lot of the former floating around
God, thank you for saying something. I seriously considered making this same post back in July when I started noticing more and more posts of this kind with thousands of notes. Some of them were getting pushed onto my dashboard from a few of the most popular tags I track (like "artists on tumblr") but a few were getting shared by actual people who I follow (omg these ethereal dragon hair clips are perfect for cosplays... π)
(Screenshots I took at the time - this particular blog has been thoroughly scrubbed from existence in the meantime.)
There is an extensive interconnected network of blogs with URLs like haha-lol-cute-funny, daily-meme-inspiration, omg-wow-tiktoks, etc. that bulk post vast quantities of stolen memes with broad appeal, spam them in a million popular tags, and then reblog them back and forth from each other. Once any given meme takes off, the OP is edited and the meme replaced with one of these stealth ads. Then, because of the inflated note count, the ad version of the post will get pushed to the dashboards of anyone tracking those tags.
If you go into the notes of any of these, half the reblogs will still be of the original meme. Here's an example: Original meme / the ad it turned into.
(The OP of this one has already been taken down - screenshots because the images in this post are also liable to get scrubbed.)
The note count has the added benefit of making it look like thousands of real people are excited about the item in the post, and, for better or worse, people are strongly motivated by things they think others in their community are doing.
I see all the linked posts have already been deleted lmao.
lol theyβre deleting things so fast tonight.
They really donβt like being called out.
oh im gonna be weird about this for so long
And after a while you just stop. You stop watering your plants. You stop watching netflix. You stop reading. You stop replying to your friends as fast as you used to. You stop buying yourself nice things. You stop putting an effort into how you look. You stop taking care of yourself like you used to. You stop sleeping. You stop eating healthy foods. You stop petting your dog. You stop socializing.
You stop with everything. You find yourself sitting in your room for hours on end, without doing a single thing. Days feel like years. And you think you canβt do it for much longer.
My therapist told me that you donβt only spiral down. You can spiral up again. So maybe one day
You water your plants for the first time in a while. Surprisingly theyβre not dead yet. You remember a movie that you really enjoy and you find the energy to watch it. You feel better afterwards. Maybe you still canβt find the motivation to reply to your friends but you buy yourself a nice scented candle and read your book. You take a nice long shower and you feel refreshed, so you put on an outfit you find cool. Then after what seems like forever, you get a good night of sleep. You wake up with more energy than usual so you play with your dog. Then you cook that healthy meal you really enjoy. You reach out to a friend.
You start remembering what brought you joy. You start again with the little things. You look back on the days that have passed and feel relieved theyβre over.
Remember, you donβt just spiral down. You spiral up as well, even if it takes more effort to get started.
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I am writing an article for a queer forum in India about butchphobia, particularly among Gen Z heavy online spaces. As my own experiences are limited to my own city and closed circles (trust me, Kolkata isn't a good or safe place for butches and gnc folk), I would like some more voices to chime in. If you identify as butch, stud, masc or gnc, what do you feel about the common and pervasive microaggressions among exclusionary lgbtq spaces that
"butch lesbians are almost always confused closeted trans men because of rejecting femininity"
"sapphics who are singularly attracted to masc/butch/stud lesbians actually do not want to acknowledge their secret attraction to men"
the discourse around the "soft butch" label and what it implies / doesn't imply for other butches, particularly stones
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i don't remember the last time i actually typed a text post but i am so extremely anxious it might help??
anyway. i'm waiting to hear back from a phd program i applied to and they're being pretty radio silent. for context - it's been nearly three months and outcomes were meant to be released a few days ago. i guess not getting a rejection is a good thing, but i've spent so long trying to convince myself that i don't really want this in order to stave off what feels like an inevitable disappointment that it's actually taken me until now to realise i might actually want this. and what a time to realise it lol. realistically, i know my chances are limited but i'm still hopeful. ugh i don't know what to do with this anxiety over the weekend. i'm trying to make plans/make art/throw myself into other things but i feel really consumed with anxiety!!!!!!!!!!
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