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not to alarm anyone but is anybody else worried about how everybody is fucking stupid

honeeystars

goodnight my friends

i hope i have good dreams

tahthetrickster

it’s december 1 where’s the christmas tail kitten bring him to me

tahthetrickster

i have to do EVERYTHING around here

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3/7/18

this is a call out post for my little trash man who wont let me go anywhere

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just in case anyone wanted to see him in action

shadeykris

they’re lumpy and late but they still deserve your love.

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one-true-houselight

[id: an animated gif of a number of pumpkins carved to look like cats. Various pumpkins blink occasionally, and one yawns. The light from all glows and flickers like a candle. There is a sky full of stars behind them.]

bodyfeeling

op turned off reblogs but i want this post on my blog

zzoupz

I know basically nothing about tarot cards but I absolutely need to make this a reality

zapatism

"oh, if you make out with friends, you could ruin the friendship" so who am i supposed to kiss? my enemies? get a grip

zapatism

i'd like to take this time to apologize for my prior lapse of judgement. listening and learning

mmcoconut

In another world.

#Ooohh this looks lovely

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littlehen

stuckinapril

do u ever walk from a social interaction like damn. this is why i keep my mouth shut most of the time

#Hella...

sienvega

It still feels like horses are my only friends in this vast empty world of Hyrule

#Beautiful #loz totk #loz link

thedankmemes

#Gahsgsygssys

leeleebug3

It was funnier in my head shshsb

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aqueerkettleofish

#i know people have started criticizing the#‘men are afraid of getting laughed at women are afraid of getting killed’#but this is real?

Oh, yes.

A few years ago I went to pick up a woman I met on OKCupid for a date, and a friend of hers was there. They kind of over-explained “Oh, she just showed up to say hi” and there was a vague nervousness in the air that even my autistic ass was picking up on. Her friend was playing conspicuously with her phone. I went “Ah, the safety. Need to get a picture?”

Dead silence for about a second and a half, then the friend took a picture, looked at my date, and said “Have fun” and walked out the door.

(I would ordinarily have been clueless, but I’d just been asked to be the safety the previous night.)

My advice to male-presenting folks: recognize that this not your problem. By which I mean, this sort of security check isn’t a problem for you. It doesn’t hurt you. You aren’t being insulted or disrespected. And if you treat it like what it is– a reasonable adaptation to an unreasonable situation– and just roll with it, your dates will be more comfortable, and you will have a better time as a result.

The same applies to phone calls mid-date. Let them answer the damn phone without drama.

They aren’t accusing you of being a dangerous person. The very fact that they are willing to go on a goddamn date with you means that they have extended a certain level of trust. But the fact remains that there isn’t really a way to distinguish between “a man who isn’t dangerous” and “a man who knows how to behave like he’s not dangerous.”