a moment alone

It is both a blessing and a curse to feel everything so very deeply. 21 | she/her | infp

[myownvineandfigtree]

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[myownvineandfigtree]

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[myownvineandfigtree]

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[myownvineandfigtree]

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[phoebe-does]

I think something we all need to remember is that even when it seems like everything’s going wrong, we are the authors of our own narratives. We are in control of our outlook on life, our emotions and reflections towards our environment and our attitudes towards anything that comes our way. Even when it looks like everything is going wrong, we are in control for catching that voice of negativity and turning it around, re-wording outlooks and thoughts to make ourselves better because, and I truly believe this, what we constantly think about, complain about, worry about, we give power. When you’re constantly complaining about a situation, you are giving that situation power over you and your life! And this process can take days, weeks or even months to gradually change your outlook on your own narrative but if you practice and practice, you’ll be able to catch yourself falling back into this habit and snip it within a couple of hours. So take control of your own narrative! And make yourself a bad-ass!

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[garfield-baybee]

Reblog to have something good happen at 1:42 tomorrow

[annajoganiyan]

[toastbutteregg]

[iameverysparklywoman]

Being gay is a completely neutral thing that’s just like a natural variation in a population that some people have and it’s not good or bad and it doesn’t mean anything it just exists but also gay people are literally better than everyone else

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

things to do more:

take a journal and camera everywhere I go.

write down lovely words that people said to me, poems, ideas, and quotes that inspire me.

plan fun itineraries for weekends and bucket lists for seasons.

eat fresh fruits.

don’t let my insecurities stop me from enjoying things.

do everything I want to do that takes daily practice, patience and some discomfort.

collect recipes to make.

tell people i love them and compliment what I like about them.

watch classic movies.

hug people tightly.

let myself calm down and relax.

break tasks down so I don’t get overwhelmed.

drink tea or fruit infused water.

put on my favorite perfume, even if i’m not going out.

don’t wait for the perfect day to start a new thing.

make plans with friends and actually follow through.

give myself permission to not be perfect, and remember something is better than nothing.

make my bed in the morning.

tidy my desk and remove things and tabs i don’t use often.

go to inspiring places like gardens, art museums, old cafés, oceans or forests.

make playlists or write to cope with emotions.

take photos of everything i love.

[treachreous]

reblog and tag which you prefer: // candles or bathbombs // foggy mornings or rainy evenings // holding hands or locking arms // poems or long stories // tea or coffee // spearmint or peppermint // sweet or savoury // raspberries or strawberries // dresses or jumpsuits // flowers or greenery // photos or paintings // long walks or long drives // guitar or piano // concerts or theatre // beach or forest // sci-fi or horror // bunnies or cats // green eyes or brown eyes // gum or mints // pink or red //

[1995june]

i just want to have my own cute little apartment with big windows and bake fresh banana bread every morning and have lots of plants everywhere and read a lot of books and go on adventures w/ friends and watch sunsets from my rooftop

[oriononfilm]

[amormedarei-deactivated20200116]

[birdasaurus]

Anna Wolf

[eunnieboo]

so a few days ago i sat down for dinner and my mom handed me the camera with a strange look on her face. all she said was “you need to see this” and i was like ?? okay

but then

that is my dad with a pigeon on his head.

SO OF COURSE MY REACTION WAS JUST “WHAT?! HOW??? HOW” and APPARENTLY when my dad was outside gardening, he saw it land on the roof of our house. and then it just. flew down. and landed on his head

BUT NOW IT WON’T LEAVE

like the other morning i stepped outside to call my dad in for lunch and the pigeon was just sitting on the front porch watching him work

best friends forever

[cecaeliawitch]

I firmly believe that unless the couple has discussed and agreed to marriage ahead of time, nobody has any business making a surprise public proposal.

[cisnowflake]

Okay except some people want a surprise public proposal. 

[boreragnarok]

Girl my husband took me to Spain and gave me a kinder egg on the beach, the ring was inside the capsule (Lord knows how he did that) if any feminist tried to take that away from me I may cut a bitch. Best surprise of my life.

[cecaeliawitch]

I wish people were capable of analyzing larger social trends and figuring that a significant number of women end up getting pressured into engagements or marriages they don’t want bc the audience that comes along with a public proposal will think she’s a bitch if she says no - instead of thinking “i liked it when it happened to me, therefore it could never turn out badly for anyone, not ever!!!!”

[rifa]

I think what people are misunderstanding here is that agreeing to marriage ahead of time doesn’t need to be like, asking permission to propose? I surprised my now spouse with a proposal in Disneyland but before that we had several conversations about the future of our relationship, future plans for our retirements and how we’d have to get married eventually for immigration purposes. I didn’t go to her and say “so would you say yeah if I proposed?” or hash out deets ahead of time, but we had enough of a mutual understanding and communicated desire to get married that, although it was a surprise for when and how I proposed, it wasn’t out of left field at all.

This is exactly like conversations about consent, people get up in arms thinking that it means you have to have contracts and serious sit down conversations before doing anything when its REALLY EASY to simply COMMUNICATE with your partner so things like this are done properly, yeesh

[thorvaenn]

“proposal can be a surprise, engagement shouldn’t be“ - saw that somewhere, thought it was the most accurate

[wetwareproblem]

“You expect us to talk!? To our partners!?” - Straight proverb