The more I learned about cuckolding and the psychological aspects behind it, the more I wanted to try new things to push the limits. After being involved in the lifestyle for a while, I really wanted to make my husband go down on me after my boyfriend finished. I had read that making your husband go down on you after your boyfriend had been there is an amazing feeling, not just physically, but psychologically and emotionally. I didn’t know if our relationship was ready to cross that threshold. I was really enjoying the lifestyle and didn’t want to scare my husband away. I realize there comes a time when the cuckold ideally has no say in any decisions whatsoever, but that wasn’t the case with our relationship. We felt strongly that while there is a definite transfer of control, we must all continue to derive pleasure in some regard, otherwise, at least for us, the lifestyle would lose it’s appeal. My husband is not bi, and he had told me before that he never wanted to do anything “too extreme.” But I wondered just how far he might go to please me given the right (gentle) persuasion.
Someone on a forum suggested I give my husband a story to read where the cuckold is asked to please his wife orally after her boyfriend finished with her. My husband was very apprehensive and said he wasn’t sure he could ever do it. I was disappointed, but of course I wanted to respect his wishes. (I am now recalling the irony in the fact that there was also a time when I never thought I could cuckold him.)
One night my boyfriend came over after being out of town for an entire week. A whole week without sex with my boyfriend was almost unbearable. All three of us, my husband included, were so sexually frustrated we couldn’t wait for that evening. I had locked my husband in a chastity device for the first time that week, so he was really desperate. That night my boyfriend and I had the most passionate sex we had ever had up until that point, and at the end, he came inside me for what seemed like ten minutes. (I could actually feel him spurting inside me!) When he finished, he went to take a shower while I lay there all satisfied.
Normally this was the time I’d let my husband release, but something came over me as he approached me, expecting me to take off the chastity devise. When I removed it, he got hard instantly and was practically begging me to help him release. I was still trying to get used to seeing my husband so vulnerable like this. As he lay on me, kissing my neck, I whispered, “Before I help you, I want you to do something for me.” As I said this, I gently pushed his head downward toward my belly. He knew what I wanted him to do, and I could feel him hesitate and start to protest. So I simply asked him, “I thought you wanted to cum tonight?” Implying that if he didn’t do it, I wouldn’t let him cum. He looked confused, so I told him that my boyfriend will be done in the shower in less than ten minutes and the only way was going to allow him to cum is if he could give me an orgasm before my boyfriend finished his shower. Otherwise, we’d have to wait until tomorrow.
That left him little choice because he knew two things for sure: He never got me off with his fingers, and having sex with me was definitely not an option. He looked around (presumably for a toy he could use), so I quickly added, “No toys.” He knew exactly what I wanted.
Again, I don’t know what came over me. I suddenly felt a little bad, and was going to give him a handjob. I said, “You don’t have to, it’s ok.” I picked up his chastity devise, which was on the bed next to me, to move it so it wasn’t in the way, but he interpreted it as an ultimatum. He thought I was going to put him back in chastity until tomorrow! He kind of got this panicked look on his face. I tried not to laugh. I told him not to let me pressure him to do something he didn’t want to do. “Plus you only have 5 minutes left,” I said, not believing he would be able to get me off in 5 minutes anyway. I realized he still thought I was giving him an ultimatum, so I let him believe that’s what was happening. I was interested to see how he’d handle the situation. He looked distraught. Then he broke.
I wish I could adequately describe the feeling I felt the moment I watched him break. The moment he realized he really only had one question to answer: How bad do I want to cum? I realized I now had complete control over him. It was so exciting, and I was so turned on.
What happened next completely took me by surprise. I felt his head slowly move downward, and then I felt his warm mouth on my sex. I could still feel my boyfriend’s seed dribbling out a little. Suddenly my husband was no longer hesitant. It was like a light switch - he made his decision and gave 100%. When I say 100%, I mean it! No one - not even my boyfriend, has ever pleased me like that with his mouth. I couldn’t believe what was happening! I don’t know if it was the wetness, or my husband’s intensity, or the idea of what was happening, or the empowerment I suddenly felt, but it was the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had with my husband. It was actually the first time I ever had two orgasms in a row with my husband.
This was a new beginning. It didn’t happen again for about a week, but when it was time, I reminded him that he’d already done it, so it wasn’t a big deal. I will never forget that orgasm. This was a great example of how cuckolding can actually strengthen the bonds between the husband and wife in the most unexpected ways. My husband was making a sacrifice for me. He was now willing to do something very humiliating for him, something he never dreamed he’d do, and something he would never do with anyone else. And he does it because it pleases me. Now when I look down at him, watching him doing that, seeing how vulnerable he is, I feel the most amazing sense of love.
