My Tiny Dilemmas

23. Nurse . This blog is a mess

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[muhendisbeey]

[jenizupan]

[recaption]

[stimman3000]

jmdragunas

[coiour-my-world]

aurora borealis ~ Burak Duman

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[neithy]

Inktober Challenge 2018

Day 10 : Amphitrite

Day 11 : Pandora

Day 12 : The Sirens

[netflixandnudez]

Most annoying part of your 20's: Feeling like you're not where you should be, while everyone else SEEMS like they are.

[minusthelove]

Exactly

[rettabaleno]

La femme damnée, Octave Tassaert

[venuskissed-deactivated20170930]

get it bitch

[snackwizard]

a fools guide to not wanting to die anymore

by me, a fool who doesnt wanna die anymore 

never make a suicide joke again. yes this includes “i wanna die” as a figure of speech. swear off of it. actually make an effort to change how you think about things.

find something to compliment someone for at least 4 times a day. notice the little things about the world that make you happy, and use that to make other people happy.

talk to people. initiate conversation as often as you possibly can. keep your mind busy and you wont have to worry anymore

picture the bad intrusive thoughts in youe head as an edgy 13 year old and tell them to go be emo somewhere else

if someone makes you feel bad most of the time, stop talking to them. making yourself hang out with people who drain you is self harm. stop it.

[wildlyannoyingdoofus]

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That’s some pretty good advice. I don’t know what’s left of my humor after ‘guess I’ll just die’ jokes but it’s worth a shot.

[snackwizard]

Personally i went from “guess I’ll die” jokes to “IF I HAVE TO BE HERE FOR 5 MORE MINUTES I PROMISE YOU I WILL BUY JUST, AN ARRAY OF CLOTHES.” and other wild hyperbolic stuff. Just replace the death part with something ridiculous and off topic. Its very entertaining

[808lien]

This also works with calling myself things like stupid, worthless, trash, etc. Even if you do this jokingly to yourself, your brain still believes it, and keeps up the cycle. Seriously, I found that when I stopped saying these things about myself, even jokingly, it made a massive difference.

[maramahan]

Here’s a tip I picked up from a friend that’s helped me a lot — replace self deprecating jokes with ironically self aggrandizing jokes

Like every time I trip and fall, instead of saying “l’m just a disaster human” I say “I’m the epitome of grace and beauty”

Or like, when I draw a picture I’m not 100% happy with, instead of saying “my art is trash” I say something like “you know I think it’s time we replaced the Mona Lisa”

When you do that you get to make a joke, but you’re ALSO getting practice building yourself up, y’know?

And eventually it becomes a reflex and you get so used to it that you can say nice stuff about yourself even when you AREN’T joking

[jkl-fff]

[scottjate]

This is so important

[bellumblake]

hermione was the sister harry never had and she was there for him when he was being a fuckup (and he was there for her when she was HEARTBROKEN over RON TWICE)and to say that they should’ve ended up together just cheapens what i think is one of the best friendships in the series

[wewereinfinitelywolfstar]

LET MALE AND FEMALE CHARACTERS HAVE HEALTHY PLATONIC LOVE FOR EACH OTHER!

[lunarrystarlight-deactivated201]

Besides Harry is better off with Luna 💙

[girlsluvbeyonce]

“I started painting portraits of women two years ago. I got hooked and wouldn’t sleep. I made this special room with saris and pillows. I would light candles, play Miles Davis and Bjork and paint all night. Whenever I finish one, I try to figure out what it represents in my life. I’ll be like ‘It’s dark behind her and light in front of her, so a dark period must be coming to an end. Something light and beautiful is going to happen” - Beyoncé

[girlsluvbeyonce]

Rare footage of Beyoncé painting

[kingevangelista]

@thefandomdropout

[ashleybreather]

[apolloandstarbuck-deactivated20]

this is social anxiety summed up in two gifs

[fuckslug]

why cat praised for being fat and covered in hair but not i

[kascaban]

can we, as a society, start to realize that having a phone does NOT mean you HAVE TO BE accsessible to anyone and everyone at ALL times??

My mom threw a fit at me for not answering my phone while i was at my friends place. Kinda hypocritical too, given how much she complains that “youth these days spend to much time on their phones”

My boss was very CLEARLY not satisfied that i only got back to his text hours after he sent it. My friend didnt speak to me for weeks once bc she thought we were having a FIGHT??? bc i didnt reply to her message on facebook? till the day after she sent it??

i HAVE a phone, that doesnt mean i HAVE TO BE availiable whenever ANYONE decides they want me to be???

what the fuck

can people stop assuming they are entiteled to my attention 24/7??

[krogulecka]