[redstonedust]

i love having the hubris to go 'sure i'll try that, how hard can it be' about every creative skill under the sun. jack of all trades master of shit fuck but who says you have to be a master??? maybe i want to sew a mediocre plushie and code a janky mod and write a bland song. im having fun. im in my lane. im learning and im thriving.

[anodymalion]

The Summer Hikaru Died is like. what if you believed you were a disgusting monster for being gay. but then you meet a real monster, and over time you start to believe that even this monster deserves to be safe and happy, and it's the first time you start allowing yourself to believe that maybe you do too. what if I cried one million tears forever

[aroloverboy]

Let’s talk about the fabulous aromantics out there

[evilios]

Rejection-sensitive or not, you have to accept when people say “no” and realize that people’s “no” is not about you. A boundary is never about you, it’s about that person’s sense of security. Do not make people’s personal limits a matter of targeted offence.

[danismilek]

[mrakobaby]

mad dog

like or reblog n don't repost

[kendrene]

Look, this is probably going to end up as an unpopular post, because God knows the level of brainrot capitalism and fast consumption caused in people's brains, but I'd rather not get TV shows for a while if it means writers get their rights defended and recognized.

Entertainment can't come at the cost of fair pay, healthy work environment and ethical practices.

[mediaheart]

i ship m/f ships but in an incredibly bisexual way

[catnippackets]

the joy of being attuned to literally every noise that happens around you whether you want to be or not

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

"You're not the main character" also applies to thinking that you're so uniquely horrible that everyone you meet is deeply invested in judging and hating you. That's just as much of a cognitive distortion as believing that you're the center of everyone's admiration. I promise you that other people got their own lives to live and their own struggles and flaws to cope with.

[napalm-nova]

An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works

Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: Batman - All Media Types, DCU Rating: Mature Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Tim Drake/Kon-El | Conner Kent Characters: Tim Drake, Kon-El | Conner Kent Additional Tags: Frottage, Friends to Lovers, Mutual Pining, Mutual Masturbation, this is so self-indulgent, Best Friends, Plot What Plot/Porn Without Plot, Some Plot, Attempt at Humor, attempt at fluff, I'm Bad At Tagging, borderline crack fic Summary:

Tim and Kon are in the middle of a long mission, they need to find shelter from the storm coming in.

[godstiel]

mostly my career goals are to hang out with friends and do whatever is funniest in the moment. hope that helps

[copperbadge]

Kids, and I say this with all love, you can have a lengthy DNI or you can get mad when strangers block you with no prior explanation, but you cannot do both and expect to be treated like a grownup. If you ask people within certain demographics not to interact, you can't be mad when they take steps to ensure they won't.

Strong boundaries are good, and vocalizing your boundaries is good. It's just that a boundary line works both ways, and if you don't want to talk to me on principle, sometimes in practice that means you don't get to talk to me. It's a difficult thing to accept that not everyone wants to interact with you either, but being able to shrug and move on is part of becoming an adult.

Or you can keep yelling anonymously into the void of my inbox, up to you. Therapeutic I suppose, even if it's also weirdly obsessive.

[blow-me-a-kis]

Saw someone on twitter the other day say their therapist told them "sometimes the people you think are toxic aren't toxic they just don't like you and you're desperate" and I think thats something ppl who view blocking as problematic should take time to absorb

[coldasyou]

i’m sorry but it is 2023 some of you NEED to let go of this belief that appearance and morality are linked you can not keep living in this disney world where all bad people are ugly and all good people are beautiful you can not

[anxietyproblem]

[succubusboyfriend]

worst relationship status to have w someone is “objectively they’re a fine person who is nice but i don’t enjoy their company as much as they enjoy mine”

[succubusboyfriend]

second worst relationship status to have with someone is “objectively they’re a fine person but they Bother You”

[succubusboyfriend]

secret third technically more harmless but in practicality more frustrating relationship status is “objectively they’re a fine person and they like so many of the same things i do but they like them in a fundamentally different way that is harmless but reads wrong to my brain and it has made attempts at forming an actual bond with them aggravating more than anything”

[succubusboyfriend]

tbh i think stuff like this is why so many people, especially younger people, fall into this trap of “well if i don’t like a person or thing, they must be bad”. it would be so much easier if you could dismiss them as bad and move on. but it’s like, no, Objectively Fine people or things can just not mesh well with you for totally subjective reasons. and sometimes when they’re people you mesh much better with their brain than they do with yours. and sometimes you have to live with that.

[cannibalchicken]