Naughty Missy

NSFW 18+ Thoughts, moods, fantasies, fears, hopes... a reflection of my chaotic mind. Always eager to learn and grow. No DickPics... in case that needs to be mentioned.

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I don't think this is what they had in mind, but Campsnap offered me a partnership. You can get 5$ off any off their website with this link

[naughty-missy]

Ink and Ropes ❤️‍🔥

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need

[naughty-missy]

Tell me everything will be ok...... 🖤

[cherishedproperty]

The Uncompromising Submissive

“You’re not really all that submissive.”

This came from a man who messaged me, intrigued by my submissive heart. He said I was clearly a natural submissive—someone who needed it to the core of my being. So far so good… But then he said he appreciated a woman who knows her place. And seriously, fuck that. I felt compelled to correct him. I responded that I am not a woman who knows her place; I am a woman who is seeking to create a place at the feet of a person who has earned it. Then I wished him luck in his search for someone. He was stunned that I would stop talking to him over “something small” like the way he phrased a sentence. He called me rigid, and he challenged my identity. Not really all that submissive. 

But the thing is, dating as a submissive is fundamentally different from dating vanilla. There’s a weird duality that submissives must balance. Single submissives must look for someone they want to follow while also maintaining strong boundaries. It’s hard to hold back when you are a person who yearns to please others. But they have to be someone who deserves it—someone who has proven they are worthy of devoted submission. So when I’m dating, I have to hold back. I don’t give up control to anyone until I am overwhelmed by the need to submit. It’s only then that I know I’ve found someone worth following—someone who has inspired me to kneel.  

That doesn’t happen often. I am looking for a very specific thing—a long-term relationship with ownership and power exchange at the core, woven into everything we do. I’m looking to build a life with someone. I’m looking for a person to be my person—to sleep by my side, to raise children together, to live an everyday kind of love. That is not an easy thing to find under normal circumstances. With the added layer of D/s, I know I may be searching a long time. 

And yet, I would rather be alone than compromise. It’s because I know the inevitable pain of compromise. I have left a man I loved deeply because he was incapable of D/s. I have been devastated by the loss of a Dom who knew he could never be the everyday love I needed. I don’t regret those relationships, but I’m also not eager to repeat that pain. No, I will not date you if you are married and/or polyamorous with a primary partner. I will not date you if you want a vanilla relationship plus bedroom kink. I will not date you if you are long-distance. I know those roads. They almost never lead where I want to go. 

I have been called uncompromising—and as a result, unsubmissive. But I’m uncompromising precisely because I am so deeply submissive. When I give, I give my whole self. I take down all my walls, and I put my Owner’s needs first. I see ownership as all-encompassing and nearly limitless. There is no part of me that my Owner shouldn’t know or see or touch. To build that kind of bond, I have to be careful who I choose as a partner. I can’t compromise what I know I need. If I do, I will never have it. 

I can’t give my submission to just anyone. I have to give it to someone who needs the bond of ownership as much as I do. I have to give it to someone who shares my dreams and my vision for the future so that when I let them lead, I can follow with my whole heart. So yes, I am uncompromising—right up until the moment when I give everything. And I will settle for nothing less. 

[remanence-of-love]

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knowing you mutually masturbate to the thought of each other is so fucking hot

[naughty-missy]

This…. 🖤

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🍭Little space asks (my version)🍭

Strawberry milk or chocolate milk?

Kitty’s or bunnys ?

Paci’s or thumbs?

Bottles or sippys ?

Hello kitty or carebears?

Chicken nuggets or pizza ?

Pancakes or waffles?

Princess or fairy ?

Mermaid or unicorn ?

Juice or soda?

Stuffies or dolls?

Snuggles or hugs?

Onesies or footed sleepers?

Skirts or dresses?

Disney or pixar?

Pampers or panties?

Powder or lotion?

Polka dots or stripes ?

Powerpuff girls or my little pony?

Spongebob or patrick?

Lullabys or bedtime stories?

Purses or backpacks?

Ice cream or cake?

Pudding or jello?

Gummy bears or gummy worms?

McDonald’s or burger king ?

French fries or tater tots ?

Coloring or painting?

Knee highs or furry socks ?

Fireplace or campfire?

Nightmare before Christmas or beetlejuice ?

Girly girl or tomboy ?

Straight or lgbtq+ ?

Dolphins or jellyfish?

Seashells or sandcastles?

Spring or winter?

Fall or summer?

Sweaters or daddy’s hoodie?

Daddy or mommy?

Baby boy or babygirl ?

Cinderella or Ariel ?

Rainbows or hearts?

Bubble baths or bath bombs?

Little or big ?

Roses or wildflowers ?

Rubber duckies or plastic fish ?

Glitter or glitter glue ?

Live forever or have super powers?

Castle or tree house?

Enjoy my lil followers !!! :) xoxo

[naughty-missy]

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[naughty-missy]

Anyone knows???

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Nostalgic ways to decorate your regression space in your home

Lava lamps

Posters of your favorite cartoon characters or your favorite singers or even movie posters !!

Cool vintage character sheets or blankets like hello kitty or Barbie or even Disney princess (depending on your favorite character you can find them at Walmart or even online for cheap prices) !!

Cutesy cd players or radios with your favorite cds/music

Fairy lights with cool colors like pink or purple or blue

Plushies from your first childhood

colored sticky notes with your favorite quotes (mine have barbie movie quotes on them )

Cute artwork that you made yourself or that someone else made for you !!

Beaded curtains for your doorways

Cute shelves for your wall to put books from your childhood on

Storage bins with cute designs on them

An area to put your snacks for when you're regressing !!

A small tent to use as a fort

Things with your first initial on them like throw pillows or letter signs for your wall

Caboodles for your makeup or hair accessories

A secret spot for your diary or dream journal

Cool toys from y2k on your nightstand

Unicorn ,mermaid, or fairy themed rooms

[naughty-missy]

Lava lamps…. 😍

[arianalyneebabcock]

[naughty-missy]

Mood…

[cozyautumnspices]

[remanence-of-love]

[tinta-y-cometas]

Por mi culpa ya no dejaras entrar a cualquiera... ¿no será que te hice un favor?

Villasmil

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Aesthetic wallpapers

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when he says no

I love begging him to extend my bedtime. I love when he says no. 

I love asking if I can buy a sugary latte. I love when he says no.

I love asking if I can skip my workout because laziness. I love when he says no.

I love begging to watch an extra hour of TV on a weeknight. I love when he says no.

I love asking if I can buy that pretty top I saw when I went to return something, even though my credit card bill is ridiculous. I love when he says no.

I don’t ask because I want to be denied. Not really. I ask because I want something I’ve always immediately granted myself. I ask because I have desires and impulses and I need to express them. And even though there’s the teeniest bit of disappointment when he says no, there is also relief and inner peace. I feel taken care of. I feel like I’m becoming a better person with improved habits. I feel healthier, happier and less stressed. No more guilt. It’s gone.

It makes his yeses so rewarding. The latte tastes sweeter. The next episode of that TV show is funnier. The top is prettier and feels worth the money.  With his permission, I can have guilt-free indulgences. I can find joy in things I’d often shamed myself for, the things you’re supposed to enjoy. That was no way to live.

 I said it before it was my reality, and I’ll say it again:

Everything just feels better when you have permission.

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[dirtylittlebookworm]

Texts from last night. Belonging to this man does something to me. I love him so fucking much it’s gross.

[naughty-missy]

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