treat me like everything and nothing

they/them, 26, horny. 18+ only, minors dni

[rupurtbunny]

[spitblossoms]

[spitblossoms]

[ticklebait]

when i say “i want someone to wash me sexually” i don’t mean it like a romantic shower where they wash my hair and back. i mean it like a horse in a wash stall at the barn. tie me up and hose me down, touch me in a way that’s detached and task oriented. scold me for trying to move away from the scrubbing brushes and wandering hands. i’m a dumb animal and this is for my own good after all

[kinkystims]

i think sadists enjoying what they're doing to me is such a big part of my relationship to masochism. like on an individual level, i do have this fantasy and this want and this need, etc. but on a bigger level, it really is about someone wanting to torture me and play with me and getting off on my cries or my tears or my pain etc.. like that's so special to me

[pmamtraveller]

By Adipocere

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[atomic-chronoscaph]

Zora la Vampira - art by Alessandro Biffignandi

[animepopheart]

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[swampy--blog]

[graveyardpersephone]

I felt hot lol

Men and minors dni my shits not for you

[chainsawstrap]

And why are we cruel to brats? I dont mean in the way they like or ask for. I mean why is bratting equitable to annoyance, to being poorly disciplined, to being a bad sub?

Bratting is an action a sub can take to initiate scenework without directly asking, something we afford dommes the ability to do pretty handedly in many dynamics.

Bratting is a statement of trust that a sub does not have to be “good” to be wanted. That they can push back and it will not harm their dynamic or standing.

Bratting is a way to play, the same as any other form of submission, the same as any form of domming. But it is talked about as a lesser form of submission, as poor form, as an insult.

And people will justify this as “well that’s what they want” when discussing total strangers. From Dommes and subs who i know hate being treated as pleasure dispensers by strangers.

Do you want your sub to be scared to say no? Do you not want them to tease and play? Are you scared of having someone ask you to earn their submission, to show you can make them, to let them fight and be overcome and be cared for after?

[sapphling]

soft pajama pants are my friend because they make it really easy to grab a girl's ass and/or press your fingers against her perineum while you're making out. in contrast jeans feel like a low level chastity device

[therewerenoturtles]

Inktober ’day eight.’

[nucleusarmada]

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

NO THOUGHT HEAD EMPTY TOO GAY

[puppy-mommy]

handing out flyers to transmascs about estradiol cream (can be used to keep your pussy wet and healthy but without triggering periods or having any feminizing effects) and transfemmes about Cialis (works even post-orchi)

[puppy-mommy]

and then telling both to start prep too

[houndmother]

new blog same sexual health advocate. since making this post i’ve switched from cialis to topical testosterone cream though.

[houndmother]

you can take both. i do both now. testosterone cream once a week, Cialis as needed. might start taking the cialis on a regular schedule too.

[boybeetles]

Would like to add on about the estrogen for transmascs; if you get dysphoric of the feeling of your vagina getting wet, there isultra-low doses of estrogen suppositories. I take a 10 microgram suppository of estrogen twice a week. It’s enough to make it easier for me to pee, but not enough to cause me to get wet. ✌️

I know a lot of guys skip looking into estrogen suppositories bc they don’t do vaginal penetration, but even if you are a top or only do anal penetration it’s still important to consider it as an option if you’re experiencing issues. Pelvic floor dysfunction caused by vaginal atrophy can make it hard to relax the muscles in the pelvis, making it hard to pee and make it hard to relax the anus. If you find yourself having trouble peeing or trouble relaxing for anal, talk to your doctor about your options for treatments. Once I started 10 micrograms biweekly I had a lot easier time prepping for anal.

[basic-bamboo]

I also originally didn't like doing the estrogen cream because, at the dose I was taking, it made me feel like I was on my period all the time (it didn't trigger a period, just made me feel crampy and sick), but then I used a non-hormonal alternative vaginal moisturizer for awhile which worked really well, but I just so happened to be using a small amount of the estrogen for dryness stone my urethra and that small dose also worked for my vaginal atrophy as well with none of the side effects.

THERE IS SOMETHING OUT THERE FOR YOU!

[sunspotpony]

Adding along for transfemme folks that in addition to an ED medication to encourage continued use and bloodflow, that topical t-gel is not masculinizing, and helps protect the tissue and reduce atrophy, and help keeps the tissue healthy both pre and post-op. It's the same tissue being repurposed post-op, so it's still at risk of atrophy, so the same stuff can help reduce tissue atrophy. That's right, t-gel is helpful even if you plan on getting a neovagina, because "If you're asking a doctor to fold an origami cat, it's best to bring them the highest quality paper." Healthier tissue is easier to work with and more likely to result in a successful surgery. Similarly, as much as a lot of people find it gender affirming, please think carefully about deliberate long-term use of cock-cages -- those kinds that result in substantial shrinkage. If you're looking to get a neovagina, you'll want to avoid prolonged cock cage use for the same reasons-- less tissue, thinner tissue, atrophied tissue, unhealthy tissue, will have poorer outcomes for surgery. Cock cages and the associated shrinking are GREAT for transfemme folks who want to KEEP their bits/don't want surgery, but want to minimize them, keep them small, and to reduce the dysphoria of a larger, more prominent penis. But they can be a setup for FAILURE if one is trying to get a neovagina constructed. Please be safe, and good luck and much love. World may be spooky, but we're all in this shit together. Rooting for you.

[dumbdoegirl]

lesbian woman in nitrile exam gloves. and she’s kind of mean. okay?

[dumbdoegirl]

and she fingers you with a disinterested expression and you cum so hard you start crying and she looks so disgusted but she still lets you lie there shaking. okay?