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Hello! I love your blog but have noticed that Yukhei and Jungwoo are often left out of series that involve the whole group. I was wondering why that was.
bc i haven’t been active for weeks and stopped writing consistently about a year ago! :)
I hope this’ll be worth a read! I actually really enjoyed writing this! Jungwoo and Yukhei have really unusual personalities, unlike any of the other members, so it was a joy to write this. I’ve made sure to make them slightly longer than I have done for the others purely because they are very new to NCT and I want to get some quality content out there and, I think I’ve captured their personalities quite well lol :)
Do you want me to do them in the POV series?💖
Jungwoo:
The main thing Jungwoo is looking for here, is a soulmate. Don’t be hitting up Jungwoo if you’re looking for something that is, not only long term, but forever. He’d like someone who doesn’t hold back with their feelings. He’d actually be an incredible listener, with a very warm and understanding heart; he’d want to put it to good use. Jungwoo would be attracted to someone who appears to be in need, someone who needs his protection or support - this doesn’t mean he wants an inferior, submissive or weak partner, however. He’ll be just as in need of strength and support from his partner. He’s a dreamer and needs someone who doesn’t dismiss his flights of fancy, someone who will entertain his dreams and help make them a reality. Be a little be of a dreamer yourself. He’s likely to suffer from chronic-shyness so someone gentle and on the quieter side would be better for his personality; they’re less likely to drain him out. Someone whose highly sensitive to the feelings of others and incredibly caring and aware of the wider picture. Someone who, although a dreamer, will always pick a movie and take-in date over an outdoors one. Someone who embraces meaning and symbolism and likes to ponder of life’s biggest questions. Someone who will dominant the relationship but only slightly (like 55/45). Someone with a lot of love and affection to give.
Yukhei:
As much as Yukhei is a very playful and laid-back guy, his preferences in a partner are much deeper and complex than you might expect. He would still really want someone who had the same kind of playful attitude (even if it was occasionally), or at least understand and be able to tolerate his. He also wants someone whose going to be upfront with him and tell him their feelings; it doesn’t matter if you feel like they’re stupid or don’t need to be heard. It matters to him that you that him how you’re feeling because this guy will commit and be so loyal to you if you put the same amount of effort in. Someone with a humble knowledge; he has a thirst for it i know, surprising and loves to have the occasional intellectual conversation (it would also really help boost his self-confidence because he’d feel clever). Someone who is confident and won’t experience unreasonable jealousy. He’ll like a harmonious relationship so someone who shares a lot of the same views on things or someone willing to make healthy adjustments for the sake of the relationship. Someone with a (good) unpredictable nature who loves a little bit of fun and play here and then. But someone who can also be a dependent figure for him in his life; I have a feeling he doesn’t have many people like this in his life and having someone to be his rock and pillar of support, will work wonders for him. Someone friendly, happy and “alive” and just as afraid of the future as him (it’d reassure him).
This is a sister-post to another post I’ve done (NCT 2018: They love it when you...).
I think this is the longest reaction I’ve ever written but I think it’s also my favourite. So I apologise for the length of each reaction. Feel free to read two or three at a time and come back later to read the rest in instalments because it is LONG lmfaoooo. I totally prefer writing about their personality and emotions rather than physical reaction, which I think you can see here? ANyway, please, enjoy reading this post, I hope it was worth your time! ;)
Taeil:
Despite being the oldest and maturest (in my eyes at least), I think there’d still be aspects about a relationship that would intimidate and scare Taeil a bit, no matter how long you dated. One of these would be anything concerning self-confidence, self-image or self-hatred. It wouldn’t be that he’s suffering from anything of these negatively himself, but he’d find it a touchy topic and just uncomfortable to speak about. So, for that, he would hate it when you put yourself down.
Hearing you basically insult yourself, saying you were useless or ugly or whatever other negative word you could conjure up, and then to sometimes see you break down in tears would be hard on him. He’d have no idea what to say, how to reassure you, how to make you see what he sees in you everyday all positive btw obvs. He’d just hate these kind of moments because he’d feel so useless and uncomfortable; sure, he’d love that you trusted him enough to open up like this but, frankly, he’d hope these weren’t regular occurrences.
Johnny:
No doubt all the members would throw everything they have into a relationship, but Johnny would really go that extra mile. It would kind of be his “thing” and he’d really try to make a conscious effort to always be polite, courteous and selfless. Sometimes he’d prioritise you over his own needs and wishes which’d really demonstrate his loyalty towards you.
The only thing he’d ask in return is some appreciation or thanks from you. It wouldn’t need to be anything dramatic and he wouldn’t be waiting for it after every little thing he does. But showing a bit of affection and love, pulling your weight of the relationship, would be all he’d hope from you.
You might, however, grow comfortable with this, forgetting to thank him for his selfless behaviour and this would irritate Johnny and he would hate it when you don’t appreciate what he does for you. If you forget/don’t do it and he’s in a good mood, he probably wouldn’t mind. But if you forget/don’t do it and he’s in a bad mood (e.g. stressed, tired), you can expect him to get quite snappy and moody around you. His emotions would already be heightened and he’d just be a little sensitive so his reaction would be understandable.
Taeyong:
I’m pretty certain I’ve touched on this heavily before (e.g. in this post) but Taeyong is, in my opinion, going to be one of the most emotionally invested and attached members in a relationship. He’d really need that emotional reassurance and physical touch to feel safe or confident in the relationship. Of course, he wouldn’t be obsessive or controlling either, a misconception I feel I should just clear up quickly; he’d just need more from a relationship than other members and would get more easily upset if this wasn’t attained. Therefore, Taeyong would hate it when you forget* to tell him you love him.
Any other member (mostly all) wouldn’t need to be constantly told they’re loved – they’d know you do and hearing it once in a while wouldn’t hurt anyone. Taeyong, on the other hand, wouldn’t have the same mindset. He’d fret that you had suddenly fallen out of love with him, that he had done something wrong, that you were upset with him. He’d basically just take your forgetfulness as you not loving him anymore. He’d sulk a bit and frown, until you realised why he was upset and then reassured him that you do love him. It really wouldn’t be too hard to get his moods up again though.
* when I say forgetfulness I’m not saying you had to say you love him because that’s what you need to do in a relationship and you’re a horrible partner if you don’t!!1!1! I just mean you’d forget that he needs to be told he’s loved a lot and forget to say it often, since his need for this would be unusual in comparison to others does this even make sense??
Yuta:
Yuta would hate it when you distance yourself from him, whether that be a conscious move or a unconscious act. This wouldn’t be a very common thing and him being upset by this wouldn’t be usual either, but it’d still be something he’d loathe when it does happen (because inevitably everyone does it at some point). I don’t think it would be the fact you distance yourself from him that he hates the most – it would be not knowing whether you did it without realising because you’re busy or stressed, or because he had done something wrong.
The suspense of waiting for things to return to normal again would kill him. I don’t think he’d be particularly great at reading your behaviour or putting two and two together and realising either: “oh Y/N is busy now so that must be why she’s not messaging me lately” or “wait, I said something insensitive the other day so that’s why they keep ignoring my calls”. He’d try very hard to make the distinction, but he’d still rather you just tell him up front than blank him unintentionally or intentionally. To be fair to Yuta though, this would be a good, healthy thing for your relationship – it would encourage you both to communicate with one another and tell each other how you were feeling.
Kun:
Kun would hate it when you cry in front of him, or he finds out you’ve been crying just before seeing you. The main reason why I think this may be is because I don’t think he’s had a lot of experience with people crying in front of him. Don’t ask me specifically why I think this but I can imagine that there would have always been someone else present or on hand if something like this had happened before. There’d always be someone who’d be exceptional at reassuring people or someone who wouldn’t get overwhelmed by the situation and could handle any tears well. He will definitely have had seen it first-hand but, especially due to his soft and gentle nature, he’d just allow others to deal with them.
So, being in a relationship where there’s only you and only him obviously duh and no one extra who can bear the emotional load, would be quite a daunting experience effort him. Lost as to what to do, he’d be afraid of saying the wrong thing or making you cry even more. There’d be this looming cloud of negativity and uselessness over both of you. It just wouldn’t really be a good time – the situation would usually persist for longer than necessary.
Doyoung:
To be honest, with Doyoung’s, I think his thing he’d hate is perfectly justified and rational (as in, it’s a completely understandable thing to hate when someone does as it is partly the fault of the other person, so I can imagine many people IRL experiencing the same). He would hate it when you misunderstand his humour or jokes for rudeness or insensitivity.
If you were going to start dating Doyoung, I think it’s perfectly reasonable to realise and accept that he’s humour, or general conversation, is naturally a little dry and ruthless and then not be overly offended by his behaviour in the future. It’d just be part of the relationship and his personality you’d have to accept and learn to love, just as you would with anyone in any relationship. So, to hear you whine or call him out suddenly for his “crude” or “insensitive” words, would really wind Doyoung up. You’d both know (usually, when you weren’t getting offended) that his words never held any malice or offence behind them – he’s definitely not the kind to be unsophisticatedly spiteful with some weak joke (e.g. his usual humour) – and it’d be obvious to everyone when he was teasing/joking and when he means his words unkindly.
I’d expect that he’d make quite a fuss about the whole thing (whether that is really the wisest way to react, I’m not too sure) and he might say some things to you that truly aren’t kind (unfortunately), which may just trigger a full-blown argument. But thankfully, this’d only be rare – generally, you’d get his tone of conversation.
Ten:
I personally think this is quite sweet and innocent but Ten would hate it when you try to change who you are or what you look like.
Like any other person, you would (and Ten would too of course) experience some self-esteem issues or want to change any aspect of your personality or physicality. This is quite similar to that of Taeil’s but I think there’d be a different reason behind it. Whereas Taeil wouldn’t know what to do to make you feel better about yourself, Ten would know how to cope but he’d hate even more the idea that you’d want to change yourself when he had fallen in love with this you and this personality and these looks. He’d completely understand that everyone matures and at some point in life, your personality does change a little bit (for the better); and he’d also understand if you wanted to change a personality traits of yours that was negative or reasonable to change.
But if you wanted to change your laugh because it’s “horrible to listen to”, or change your nose because it’s “too big and ugly”, or change the fact you “try too hard” because you feel as if you get nothing in return, Ten would hate to hear it. He’d find it incomprehensible why you’d want to change such small, unique or charming thing about yourself. When he had fallen for you, he fell in love with all your characteristics, trait-wise and physically, so finding a way to tell you this and change your mentality would really be a task for him and one he’d loathe.
Jaehyun:
Despite having a hectic schedule that he basically has no influence or control over, Jaehyun would go to a lot of effort to prioritise you in any free time he’d have. Even if he couldn’t, even if he couldn’t be with you physically, a text message or call wouldn’t be unheard of. There’s no be such thing of a day-without-having-seen-or-heard-Jaehyun. Likewise, he’d hope you do the same thing for him; as much as he’d love to be the one calling you or asking to meet up, he’d also love when you were the one sending him text messages saying you were thinking of him or asking him if it was okay for you to come over. He’d like the feeling of wanting to be seen and the balance between him and you both making an effort. For him, making time for the other equals your effort in the relationship.
Ultimately then, he would hate it when don’t try or don’t make time for him. I honestly believe he’d take it very seriously and find it quite insulting, which would kind of be justified as he wouldn’t ask for much in a relationship apart from balance ayeee pd yixing any idol producer fans here??? im sad it’s over ☹ and effort. If there was a genuine reason why you were unable to do so, I think he’d understand quickly and drop it; but if there wasn’t, he’d be incredibly bitter and sour about the situation. In return, he might ignore you for a few days or bring it up in future disputes. He wouldn’t take it lightly and the aftermath could be messy; I doubt, however, this would happen often. One mistake from you or one misunderstanding between you would be enough to prevent a repeat of this.
WinWin:
Like with Taeyong, I’ve mentioned this with WinWin before (e.g. here) but communication really would be key with Sicheng. Not because either of you do the “wrong thing” if you don’t or because there might be some kind of misinterpretation of signals if you don’t. But Sicheng would find it quite hard to know what was happening in the relationship if you don’t say anything does that even make sense lol?. Basically, he wouldn’t misinterpret your behaviour or feelings, he literally wouldn’t understand what was going on. Telling him how you were feeling or what you were thinking (and vice versa) would be essential to the development of your relationship until he learnt your tendencies and body language and didn’t need to be physically told.
Understandably then, WinWin would hate it when you don’t say anything. Nothing directed towards you personally though, it’d just be a general thing he’d hate. Whether that be not opening up and revealing your feelings, not telling him anything, literally not saying anything because you are taking a breathe before carrying on speaking. It may sound slightly irrational but this would only last a few months until he grasped body language.
Another reason why he’d hate when you didn’t say anything, would purely be because he’d find silence a very awkward experience. Even if it was something useless and boring, any kind of conversation would be bearable for him – any but silence (again only for the first few months).
Jungwoo:
An organised environment would mean an organised mind and life – at least, for Jungwoo. We’re all aware he’s very much into his cleaning and tidiness so it’s no surprise he would hate it when you don’t clean up after yourself. It would be more of a pet peeve generalised to everyone, rather than direct and personal towards you. You wouldn’t need to be as tidy or clean as him but some kind of organised mess or general cleanliness rules being met would be enough for him. If you were to leave the kitchen messy and dirty after cooking or leaving the bedroom floor littered with food wrappers or dirty laundry, Jungwoo would get irritated easily, clearly bothered by the mess and dirt. You’d know whenever he was annoyed by this by his heavy sighs and melodramatic eyerolls.
The main reason why he’d absolutely loathe it if you didn’t clean up just even a little bit would be because he’d already know he’d be the one cleaning it up in the end since he was the only one who really cared. He’d feel slightly taken for granted and like he was being walked all over. It would just be a matter of respect and appreciation after this. If he said you were making mess, he’d hope you’d help him tidy it up a little or the very least, thank him for doing it for you and be genuinely grateful, rather than irritated that he was pointing it out. If you didn’t, I think only then would it become a bigger problem for you both.
Yukhei:
It may seem dramatic but Yukhei would hate it when you tell him to calm down. I think we can all agree that he’s probably quite an active and vibrant person to be around and this’d probably be even more so if you were in a relationship with him. He, himself, probably already knows that he’s loud, incredibly outgoing and hyper majority of the time. And sometimes, naturally, this hyperactivity of his might get to you and tire you down. If you’re gentle and sweet about the whole situation, asking him to tone it down or distracting him with a calmer conversation or activity, he’d be understanding and attentive without taking offence.
But if you were to tell him to “calm down” (and those words exactly), he’d find it insulting and frankly, quite rude. There’d be something about those two words – “calm down” – that would bother him and wind him up. He’d automatically feel like a young child being told off by their parent; he’d feel lectured and patronised, degraded just by those two words. I imagine he’d snap and get defensive about it, beginning to argue with you and criticising you for your choice of words. Ironically, he’d start acting like a child in a strop making a bigger deal of the situation than it needed to be.
However, if you handled the situation well immediately (before he starts acting like an implausible child), he’d quickly calm down, cool off and forgive you. It’s understandable why he’d feel like you were being condescending towards him, but there’s no doubt he could quickly become unreasonable if not apologised to soon enough.
Mark:
Perhaps it’s the politeness in him and the sincere manners he has, but I think Mark would hate it when you interrupt him when he’s speaking (or anyone else for that matter). He’d find it incredibly rude and surprising if you did – why would you want to suddenly cut someone off if they were speaking and you were supposedly listening to them? He’d hate how he’d suddenly lose his train of thought, unable to continue talking, when you finally let him speak again.
It would not only be the fact you’d cut him off but the fact he would basically make a fool of himself when he can speak again, especially so in front of others (he wouldn’t mind so much about this if you were alone together). He’d stutter and murmur, cheeks red with embarrassment; his main worry would be that he’d get teased or mocked for forgetting what he was going to say. Seeing you there smiling innocently and sweetly at him (after having interrupted you) and waiting for him to finish speaking, would bother him even more. He’d find it difficult to distinguish whether you intentionally cut him off, if you wanted to embarrass him, if you even knew how embarrassed he was because of it or whether you were sorry at all.
I’m not too sure what would happen next; it would all depend on what he was saying in the first place, the situation and who you were with. Mark would just really value politeness and manners so seeing you crush them in front of him would be bothersome for him.
Renjun:
I honestly don’t think Renjun would find much of your behaviour or actions irritable at all, nothing to the extent of hating one minor thing you might do occasionally. He seems like he has a very high patience and calmness in him; there might be some behaviours of your’s others would find annoying, but not to Renjun.
However, he would hate it when you don’t stick to your word and are indecisive i feel like hate is too strong here but for the sake of my reaction and putting it bold im using hate okay lol it’s really more like dislike. If you already were a indecisive person, I don’t think this’d really be something he’d get irritated by; like I said, he’s a very patient person and if he started dating you, he’d already be aware of this in you so essentially wouldn’t find it irritable – it’d be part of the personality he fell in love with.
However, if you were occasionally indecisive or suddenly cancelled/forgot plans, he’d find it annoying just because he isn’t used to it. To see you from saying or promising one thing to suddenly saying or promising another thing within seconds, would vex him slightly. For him, he probably finds it quite easy to pick an option/time/date and then stick to it – he seems like he likes organisation and routine. I think he’d just find it hard to empathise and understand your hesitation if that wasn’t your “usual” behaviour does that even make sense lol.
Jeno:
This may sound a little odd and cheesy but Jeno would hate it when you don’t smile back – but he’d hate the act of you not smiling back not you personally. I definitely think he’d be one of the best members at reading body language and picking up signals from you. If you didn’t smile back at him, even if it was a small one, he’d automatically know something was wrong. And generally, it would be something quite big and important rather than something trivial like “I couldn’t buy the top I wanted to because they ran out of stock”. He’d know it was serious if you did that and a long, emotional conversation was to be anticipated.
He wouldn’t be the best in emotional situations but he wouldn’t be the the worst either, just a little awkward and stuff but still very sincere and moved. It is a bit generic – that he’d hate it when you don’t smile back – but with Jeno especially, you’d usually always smile back no matter what. No smile would mean something bigger and fairly upsetting was happening to you, making his dislike more understandable. On a positive note though, I do think it’d be a good indicator of how well you two understand each other.
Haechan:
As much as Haechan does joke around and is quite laid back, I think he is quite sensitive as a person. Perhaps not overly sensitive or unreasonably sensitive, but it would be a sharp contrast to his usually carefree self. For that reason, Haechan would hate it when you snap at him. There’d be occasions where this’d be totally justifiable, like if you were very stressed, had found out some bad news or were genuinely angry at him. He’d quickly back off and quietly apologise, either leaving you alone if that is what you wanted or being a pillar of support and reassurance.
But if he saw it as being totally random and unexpected, he’d get totally emotional and distressed. I don’t think he’d take it lightly; he’d think he was some sort of monster, making you upset and hurt, and that it was his fault that you were reacting like this. He might shut down for a while, being unresponsive to anyone’s words or reassurance that it was going to be okay. Unlike the other members, he’d have quite a pitiful and sorrowful reaction to the thing you do that he hates, rather than one of anger or un-comfortableness. If anything, it’d be something you’d curse yourself for and feel bad for doing, what with seeing him so distraught and upset over this.
Jaemin:
I have this feeling that Jaemin really wouldn’t want to come across as clingy or pushy in a relationship, so Jaemin would hate it when you pretend you aren’t upset. The reason for this would be that, if you were to put up a front and act as if something wasn’t bothering you, it would have to be Jaemin who would need to entice it out you - it’d be unlikely you just tell him straight up so you’d need some coaxing before you tell him anything. It would need a lot of patience on his part (which he would have, no doubt about that) but also a lot of questions (which he would mind).
He just doesn’t seem like the type to necessarily enjoy asking “are you okay”, “are you sure?”, “please, tell me what’s wrong”. He wouldn’t like being asked himself, thinking they’re too nosey and generic and plain useless in the long run. He’d feel awkward asking you them, so would much rather you just tell him when you’re upset rather than hide it behind a front he will eventually need to break down. I’m aware this sounds like a weird thing to “hate” when someone does, but I think it makes a lot of sense and it isn’t actually something he’d always hate. It would show how much he values communication in a relationship. He doesn’t want to be kept in the dark when it comes to your feelings, so the fact he’d hate it when you pretend you’re upset, would show how much further your relationship can develop, but also a very mature side to him.
Chenle:
This wouldn’t happen all that often, but Chenle would hate it when you tell him to “grow up” or act more mature. This would usually just be a spur of a moment comment, one that you’d just blurt out without realising out of frustration, but they’d carry a lot of spite in Chenle’s eyes. He is still young and playful, but I can imagine you might get a bit irritated if he was being immature or using the fact he’s young as an excuse to avoid things (like arguments or tidying up). But with a young age, comes a sensitive heart which you could occasionally forget.
He’d have a very similar reaction to that of Haechan’s; he’d essentially give you the silent treatment and refuse any kind of apology or resolution. Being in the music industry so young would have taken a toll on him; one moment he needs to perform a cute, young concept then the next moment, he’s performing an older concept, then he’s told to be cute and adorable to fans, but then he’s also told to be mature to fit in with the older members. It must’ve been confusing and hectic for him, and he would’ve hoped that you would have understood this and sympathised with him. He’d kind of see it as a minor act of betrayal, but he wouldn’t be able to stay mad at you for long especially after how many times you’d apologise.
Jisung:
Honestly, I’m not sure what Jisung would hate… I think he’s still figuring himself out let alone thinking about what he “hates” when someone else does it. He would, however, have a few dislikes but again for the sake of my reaction and making it look neat im using hate lol, like he would hate it when you frown or furrow your eyebrows. Usually, if you were frowning, it meant you were irritated or angry at something (but not emotionally upset or hurt does that make sense?).
He wouldn’t really be able to deal with angry or irritated people, even if it were you, because of his lack of experience. It’d scare him a little seeing you frowning, knowing that something was bothering you. On top of his apprehension, he’d worry if he was the reason you were frowning. Although he knew what it meant when you’re frowning, he wouldn’t know why exactly and what/who had triggered it. All the suspension and not-knowing would put him on edge, but he’d hope it wasn’t because of him and it usually wasn’t and that he’d soon figure out a way to help you out.
Thank you for waiting so long for this! I got a lot of requests for this and it’s taken me a while, but we’re here! Finally! 💗 💗 💗
I think the style and way I’ve written this is defiently a little different to my previous ones. I don’t know how feel about it, but I think it sounds way more mature, sophisticated and put-together. Let me know how you feel about it! ;)
what a beautiful boy :’) wow i missed ya nana
hello my friends :))))
here is the next instalment of the series with the infamous nana ayyy, im sorry its nearly one year late lmfao
i’ll try to make this long, longer than haechan’s which iS LONGGGG
anyway enough chat
it’s nice to see u again (: enjoy the read!
I’m just gonna start off kind of going over what his kissing style is going to be like generally, covering both general kissing and a little bit of making out
Jaemin is going to be the bold one in the relationship
Yes, he’d have his moments where he’d turn into this blushy fool with pink cheeks and ears
If you ever initiated any skin ship, he’d blush a little and stutter, coughing quickly to cover up his shivering voice
On a more extreme scale, he’d turn a fiery red and probably retract his hands back from you to cover up his face and squeal internally
But, in my opinion, he’ll be quite fiery and dominant, very impulsive and brave in his actions
But somehow, just somehow, his actions will always have a gentleness to them too
He might press his lips hard against yours but then brush his fingers gently through your hair
Or he may have a tight arm around your waist but kiss you quickly and lightly
To be fair, it’d be a hard thing to articulate or describe – the gentleness and courtesy he’d have would be like none other
Jaemin’s kissing style will be incredibly charismatic, always accompanied with a little “je ne sais quoi”
He has a natural flare and swagger, something that would’ve made you swoon for him when you first met him
Amongst other things like his smile and his natural sweetness, there would be something about the ways he carries himself and acts that’d really impress you
He would be naturally charismatic and charming without coming across as arrogant or narcissistic
Plus, he’d have a heart of gold – a literal added bonus
This would mean that anything you did with him was basically like a theatre show, showing out of a movie or drama
Even in your most personal and intimate moments, you’ll find him putting on his best performance that would never cease to amaze you and leave you breathless
There’s no such thing as performance anxiety for him; he knows how to deliver the kinds of kisses that make you melt and curl your toes
He’ll give you the kind of kisses you want and need
Feeling sad and need a pick-me-up kiss? Jaemin’s got you with a sweet peck on the lips
Feeling very romantic and want to be kissed with some meaning? Jaemin has the perfect kiss for you
Just passed an exam and need an exciting kiss to match your mood? Guess who? Here is Jaemin
Want a casual kiss, accompanied with some sweet compliments? Jaemin has some good ones to use!
srry that was pretty criNGeY lmaoooo
Never would there ever be such a thing as a “boring” or “bad” kiss with Jaemin
Even if they’re quick or rushed, they’d never be boring or unmemorable
Another way to describe Jaemin’s kissing style, but this’d especially apply to making out, is as unhindered and wild, yet liberal with his kisses
His kisses with have a fierceness and some nibble (literally) to them
By this, I don’t mean he’d be rough or messy with you - remember I did say he say some gentleness in his kisses
It would be like “organised” fierceness (like “organised mess”) - they’d be exciting and unpredictable and playful
Accompanied by giggles and cuddles, these kisses would be exhilarating and amusing
It’d be a chance to relieve some stress and just spend a casual moment with one another
And then there’d be occasions where he’d be extremely soft and delicate with you, taking things very slowly
His lips would barely touch yours, just hovering above them but still so close you can feel his breathe
Naturally, your eyes would flutter shut waiting for him to press his lips onto yours
But instead, he’d keep his distance eyes still open and filled with adoration, and he’d smile watching your face
They’d just be very calm moments does this even still count as making out lol?
But generally, you’re going to be experiencing these “organised fierceness” kisses of his
To let you in on a secret, before I continue, Jaemin’s kisses are never spontaneous even when they seem to be
Although Jaemin can certainly give in to an impulse and give you an impromptu kiss, in his head, it is definitely a final and live take
The performance has been rehearsed and perfected in his head long before it was performed in reality
Thus, this’d make him a secret romantic - there’s no way you’d find this out unless he literally told you this
He’d always be thinking of you and replaying memories you had created together in his mind
He’d be “whipped” for you basically
lol really did not want to use that word but idk any other word that fits what i want to say
Not only would you not be aware to the extent of his romanticism, none of the other members would realise either
I guess he’d be leading a secret double life in a way
but again
let’s save all this chat for another series post ;)
Jaemin would greatly appreciate making his partner feel adored yet arriving them into a pledge is the enormous test
He likes a little bit of a challenge, he likes being the one charmed and wooed
You need to place everything in you in those kisses to try and somewhat charm him
Just by acting naturally and certainly by not attempting to overwhelm him, will you achieve this
Let’s move onto what he’d be like whilst you make out, now we’ve covered the basics of his general kissing style
These occasions (aka making out) wouldn’t be rare but they also wouldn’t be a daily occurrence; there wouldn't be much of a pattern of consistency and it wouldn’t be as if a certain situation might trigger a session unlike with other members
This is part of the spontaneity and playfulness of Jaemin’s personality, although I’m pretty sure you’d know if something was about to happen so you wouldn't be completely taken by surprise
And he wouldn’t really have much of a crazy nature either
On the one hand, you may be pounced upon, grabbed or even tackled and it would be 100 percent worth it
Remember everything has still been thoughtfully planned by Jaemin even if its just a few seconds
Or you may be romanced, pursued or pampered and the kiss would still be 100 percent worth it
What I mean by this is that, the lead up to making out might happen during something completely normal or he might love you up a bit and spoil you before initiating it
You might be scrolling through social media on your phone and then Jaemin comes and off you go
Or he might charm you up, taking you out on a date and just dazzle you in compliments
But what about the actual kiss?
You can expect Jaemin to be quite...vocal? about the whole thing
Obviously, not in *that* way, I don’t mean it like that
i know hes underage kjandjksds before anyone attacks me im anti-minor-sexualisation trust me
But no doubt he might sigh into the kiss with content
Just a little happy sigh, where he’d giggle and smile at you
He’d make lavish declarations of love before, during and after
And a lot of compliments his signature move with these declarations
“Oh, Y/N, I love you you know tha- also I love your eyes and your hair…oh yeah, I love you”
He’d place so much passion and love and precision into those kisses, he’d be panting and gasping for air stupid boy u breath while u kiss u fool
Occasionally, he might innocently groan or murmur your name accidentally - it’d never been purposely but sometimes he’d get too excited about the whole thing
Or sometimes he just groans because his leg is starting to ache because he’s putting all his weight on it anD ITS GOING DEAD BUT HES TOO SHY TO SAY ANYTHING SO HE JUST HOPES THE PAIN WILL FADE BUT THEN HE JUST GETS PINS AND NEEDLES AND #GAMEOVER
And his hands would play quite a big part in the whole experience too
He’d be completely infatuated with your hair, no matter how long, what colour, what texture, whether you liked it or not or whether you had brushed it or not
Almost automatically his hands would reach for your hair, playing with the tips or softly holding the back of your head with his fingers laced through your locks
His hands would never stay in one place for too long but they’d never really go that far either
He’d have his “hot spots” you could say, places he’s usually place his hands
Sometimes it’d be in your hair, or on your head, or by the back of your neck, or your arms or shoulders
All very conservative and respectful of course, but it’d be another one of his “things”
You, on the other hand, would still to one of two ways of touching him or holding him idk how to word it
You’d simply put your arms around his neck and gently pull him down (or up) to your height
Or you’d simply place your hands on his chest so you’d be able to feel his heart beat
So, overall, there’d be a little bit of variation with Jaemin
But there’d always be the reoccurring theme of romanticism, respectfulness and hands aha
so here we have it, the end of the post
i hope this was okay?
i haven’t written a headcannon for months now, so im kinda rusty with all of this whoOps
anyway, I hope this was okay, thank you for reading it all (and this!), I’ll see you in another post and the next instalment of this series :)
Following the release of Baby Don’t Stop and it being Ten’s birthday, I thought I might as well just add Ten to this reaction, plus people keep messaging me and telling me to just say he;s in NCT U.
Just to clarify, by affection I mean their love. It doesn’t always have to be through physical affection and it doesn’t always have to be the “stereotypical” gestures of affection; it can be anything they do to show you they love you.
Also, this is a different style to my usual reactions; it’s basically as list/headcannon form. I think it’s pretty cute to be honest.
If you’d like me to do the rest of the NCT, send in a request; I’d actually be so excited to do so!
Also, I’m still sorting my theme out, so please bare with me! :)
Taeyong:
A hand on your lower back to reassure you of his presence
Bringing little items or belongings that he doesn’t need but you might (like hand gel, tissues, snacks, medicine, sanitary products)
Looks at you like you’re an angel whose comes to save him
Cooks for you never bakes though hell no don’t trust him with that much
Works hard to keep the relationship balanced and healthy
Nurtures and cares for you, very paternal
Brings up sentimental and nostalgic memories and suggests ideas for creating new ones
Soft kisses of the nape of your neck
Likes to share anything
Seeks emotional validation and affirmation, by opening up to you
Doyoung:
Proud of your successes and supportive during your failures
Supports your beliefs and opinions, but likes to challenge you not bc he don’t agree he just likes the intellectualism of the convo
Is the first to let you know when you’re doing wrong
Protectively wraps an arm around your shoulders and pulls you into his side
Offers advice, help and analysis, always ensuring to keep a rational yet sympathetic mind
Shows you off to other people all the time
Opens up about his past voluntarily because he trusts you that much
Smiles at you affectionately whilst you speak, nodding to show his interest
Asks you questions and then really listens
Trusts you with all his heart and makes this known through constant and coherent communication
Ten:
Tells you straight up what he likes about you, physically, mentally and emotionally by with clear thought and meaning behind it
Giggles when you’re speaking even if it isn’t funny
Always sacrifices his alone time to be with you even if he’s cranky, tired or upset
Gives you his full attention when you’re speaking or showing him something, showing utter interest in everything
Seeks to protect you from harm and instinctively knows if a something/someone/somewhere may be potentially harmful to you
Writing love notes and leaving them randomly anywhere he knows you might find them much to the dismay of the other members
Makes you laugh through your sadness but also shoulders your pain like it’s his own, never taking it lightly
Incorporates you into everything he does whether that be music, dance, conversations, memories - he wants you to be there with him
Rubs your shoulders and neck when you’re tense or upset, whilst trying to inspirit you
Makes an effort with the people you care about and tries out your hobbies or recommendations to understand who or what exactly makes you who you are today
Jaehyun:
Never forgets dates, anniversaries or other important dates
Extravagant dates, valuable gifts and lavish lifestyles
Usually easily distracted but will give you his undivided attention
Gets excited talking about you and blushes when you’re mentioned in conversation
Realises instantly when you’re low, drained or upset and knows the best way to lift you up
Excitedly gives you quick squeezes of hugs whilst giggling shyly
Always feels a need to be in your presence or near you
Writes you sonnets or songs which you find hidden away in the form of a diary without him realising
Tends to your day-to-day needs and adapts his everyday habits for the sake of the relationship
Asks how you are, then asks again for the true answer
WinWin:
Sees your darkness and follows you into it even if he’s scared himself
Helps you find all the versions of yourself that you had forgotten, bringing the best version of you out
Does what you ask of him with ease and pleasure
Gives you an enormous amount of attention
Will learn about things you are passionate about to have something to discuss
Hugs are long and meaningful, lasting minutes on end at a time and always finish with a quick, final squeeze
Hands you all his trust with the uttermost eagerness and hopefulness
Sweaty palms when you reach and hold his hands first
Softly says your name over and over again because he loves the way it sounds
Intrigued by your life and finds the solutions you may not have considered before presenting them with patient intention
Jungwoo:
Figures out who you are and attempts to understand you on a deeper level, by studying your mannerisms and figuring out just how to make you happy
Is vulnerable and open around you, revealing his most intimate thoughts and secrets
Happy sighs of relief when he sees you
Creates fantasies about you and stays up at night thinking about them and you
Visibly distraught when he leaves or can’t be around you
Accepts your atrocities and celebrates your brilliance - he wants to see you in a constant state of happiness and self-acceptance
Gives you small, sentimental and home-made gifts constantly
Lingering kisses scattered over your skin accompanied by a sea of purple love bites
Lends you a hand when you’re struggling and lends a hand to the people you love
Plays with your hair and mutters about how beautiful you are
Yukhei:
Settles down for you and becomes a better, maturer version of himself
Finds any excuse to touch you, even if it’s just brushing your hair out of your face
Endless text messages and cute notes because he likes making you fully aware that you’re on his mind
Restores your faith in the future and helps you hope, sometimes by making you laugh when you want to cry the most
Passionate, but spur-of-the-moment, make out sessions
Casually compliments you or says something that makes you blush or stutter, whilst smirking and seeming unfazed
Wraps his arms around your wait and cocoons you into his body, rocking your two bodies side to side calmly
Always manages to seek out any practical issues and solve them before you realise of their existence
Dramatically unnecessary public displays of affection and compliments usually with a lot of swearing when he sees you in something new
Takes on your pain as his own and never stops trying to make the weight that you are bearing feel lighter
Mark:
Loves to stroke your hair and mindlessly rub your arms/back/shoulder soothingly
Shows off his talents and charms when he’s around you
Remembers details about you that they would completely disregard with other people and pays attention to you when you think he is not
Loyally sticks by you and your ‘dumb choices’ and makes solving your problems his priority
Surprises you with unexpected appearances, flowers or physical affection
Encourages your self-expression and self-esteem, offers his
Random confessions of love or admiration which would lead to him revealing an intimate thought or secret he’s had about you
Unintentionally makes you smile in the most inappropriate situations
Shares his deepest and most surprising vulnerabilities whilst accepting you completely for yours
Manages to bring your name into nearly every conversation he has (”oh, Y/N did something last week...” ,”Y/N really likes...”)
it would mean a lot to me if you made it through this whole thing!
tw - mentions of sexual assault/harassment (towards me) and of minor smut
preface: i’m aware that she (@imaginethesedorks) pulls all of this shit not only for her own twisted fantasies, but to garner attention as well - however, i think that the only way to do anything about the bullshit she’s been consistently pulling for months is to discuss it as a community
that being said, here we go - my second ever rant about sexualizing minors
here’s the first and the addition
1) @imaginethesedorks
honestly @imaginethesedorks has me blocked on this blog so sadly she won’t see this but i want to expand on a really harmful possible effect of her blog just… existing, at this point
and that is the fact that she normalizes sexual thoughts about minors and invading their space in such a frankly disgusting way not only for adults - which is horrific - but also for other minors
there are kids who have been defending her, children who are teenagers themselves who think that she’s within her rights to be writing and posting smut about individuals who are not yet of legal age, who are unaware of how her ideas can manipulate their own visions of themselves and of people in their age group
i digress for now - give me a second to be personal about this issue like i have in my previous letter/rant - i’ll try to be short about it, but likely won’t be
2) me (hi! i’m raya)
i’m pretty much going to be writing this in a very stream-of-consciousness way because i think that’ll bring across the point that i’m… i’m a pretty young kid by showcasing the way i think - hopefully it’ll remind some people of the fact that, likely, underage idols feel/think the same way
when i first wrote the letter about sexualization, i was 14 years old. the second time i wrote on the topic, adding onto that previous letter, i was 15
i hate that this is a cyclical thing, but it appears to be - i’m 16 years old now
some background on me - i started my sophomore year back in august, am a generally good student (see: top 6% in my school, top 1% in the nation), spend a lot of time reading/writing/mixing music, have some of the best friends ever, love dogs (i’m getting a lab in may i’m so hype)
i spend 2-4 hours at a college prep school outside of school a week, came home 2.5 hours late everyday up until two weeks ago (that’s when wrestling season ended for me), have almost 100 volunteer hours and am a part of clubs like rotary and model un. much of my time is eaten up by things like studying, practicing (wrestling), volunteering, and, of course - i spend quite a bit of time suppressing memories
oh.
yeah, now we’re getting somewhere
i was sexually molested at age 6 (the memories were buried really, really fucking deep in my mind and recently resurfaced. i don’t want to talk much about it, so i won’t expand. please forgive me for this) by a friend who was not honestly that much older than me. they knew what they were doing, though. it still fucks me up
by the time i hit 15 i’d been groped - mostly nonconsensually, i’m not faulting anyone i consented to - multiple times by people i called friends
by now, i’ve seen my friends and me all get messaged by creepy people our age and older trying (badly) to get into our pants
i’ve also seen far more dick pics than, quite frankly, have been necessary (0 would’ve been a good number)
most of this isn’t anything different from what many people go through at my age - reminder, i’m 16 - regardless of gender (plenty of my male friends have had uncomfortable, sexual experiences by this time, as well)
a guy friend of mine on the team recently told me that my ass, and the asses of my other female teammates, constitute some of the most vulgar locker room talk that comes up for the other male team members
i’ve been catcalled. i’ve learned to text my friends that i’ve gotten home safely after walking even ten minutes alone. i’ve learned to ask for texts in return
i’ve said it before, and i’ll continue to say it - this shouldn’t be normal. this sexualization of something that i know as my body, as my forever home, shouldn’t be considered allowable. i’m not even halfway through high school. i’ve never been kissed, but i know what it’s like to have other people’s hands all over me when i don’t want them there
i know what it feels like to know, to have an inkling that other people are using me as fuel for their fantasies. it’s disgusting. it’s vomit inducing, and, frankly, i don’t like - i l o a t h e - the idea that people can know that these feelings, that these scenarios i’ve mentioned exist and bother people my age like this, and still write smut and sexual situations about people in my age group like it’s okay to do so
children under 18 are just that - children. treat them - treat us - as such, goddamn. it’s not that hard. it’s not like we’re saying “don’t write makeout scenes” or “dont write fics where kissing happens” because that’s not it. that’s not it at all. sex scenes, however? smut? that’s crossing a line that’s put there for a reason
3) society
i’ve grown up, like most of the people reading this, actually, in an age where bodies aren’t nearly as taboo as they used to be - and i’m really, really glad, because this means that body positivity is so much more accessible and societally acceptable than before
however, it means that bodies themselves, our bodies, are so much more accessible to others. so much easier to sexualize
social media works wonders. all media does. it connects us
sometimes it exposes us to sick fuckers who sexualize people who aren’t even college age yet
just because, for example, members of nct dream are on the world stage, it does not give anyone permission to exploit their likeness/images/personalities for twisted sexual fantasies and fetishes. just because they found themselves more viewable and vulnerable than the average 15-17 year old does not mean that they’re prepared for people to exploit them like this - like writing smut about them for self satisfaction. renjun and jeno and donghyuck and jaemin and chenle and jisung never signed anything that said “yeah, you can sexualize me” or some complete bullshit like that.
that’s about all i can say about society but tl;dr sexualizing u18s is nasty as FUCK anyways
4) breakdown of some common arguments (that i’ve seen on this specific blog)
1. what’s the difference between 17 and 18? they don’t just magically fucking change or anything
– yeah, you’re right. we don’t change when we turn 18. not physically, at least, or mentally right then and there. however, during their 18th year, most people leave home or experience the outside world more. worldview widens. we leave the confines of being “of school age”. it’s more a situational change than a personality one at first, but our surroundings end up impacting ourselves and senses of selves heavily. the difference between a 17 year old high schooler and 18 year old college freshman is great. very great. it’s the same all around, almost. you just get exposed to more at 18 and become mature
2. i know kids who have sex lmao why can’t i write about kids having sex
– out of my grade of oh, 500? people, none are pregnant. i’d say maybe 10% are sexually active. that’s one hell of a minority. most of us are more concerned about our end of year exams, thanks. either way, idols aren’t among those who are having sex - not only is the culture of korea far different than western countries, they have to juggle training, recording, etc. with schoolwork and other “normal kid stuff”. they just don’t have the time, so you can shove this excuse up your ass :)
3. it’s my blog, i can do what i want
– yeah, and it’s my blog, so i can call you the fuck out for your harmful behaviors. posting smut about minors can cause other impressionable young people to think that what you’re doing is acceptable, and that in itself is indoctrination. it’s gross. it has the marks of fetishizing underaged sexual relationships and that’s disgusting, especially as you’re a definite adult. the fact that you paint yourself as warm and a generous, motherlike figure is even more horrendous as you’ve managed to convince u18 kids that your twisted perspective is correct. you’re hurting the people you’re claiming to protect such as your “lovely” anons and children who are backing you up. you’re creating a pathetic monster out of yourself and blaming us of sound mind when you get called out
5) ending notes
since i don’t feel like i’m going to be organized if i continue speaking, this is all i have to say right now. i am horrified, disgusted, and in general just deeply sick to my stomach thinking of the fact that people sexualize and write smuts for kids, who likely spend more time playing overwatch than thinking about sex. @imaginethesedorks twists being a child into something hideous for her own pleasure and to gain attention and as somebody who’s seen the evils of losing a childhood, i can’t help but feel wretched thinking about how she is affecting her followerbase. there’s not much else i can say other than that i am disgusted. if you’ve read this far, thank you so much! block/report @imaginethesedorks and please, if you feel the need to talk to me about your own experiences or your feelings about this, do so! i am here to listen <3
I think someone ages ago requested this, but I deleted everything in my inbox a couple days ago so I lost it lol
I’m so sorry these variate in length! Some members’ are quite short in comparison to others, but it was literally just a case of inspiration and how much I could think about that specific reaction rather than subconscious bias! And also apologies for the repetitiveness. I did have to write 18 separate reactions and thinking of 18 different places on someone’s body without it sounding like a fetish lmfaooo was very hard. I think I’ve used the same language to describe each reaction too lol, this was definitely a challenge but I hope y’all are okay with it.
Put a “read more” after Taeyong’s reaction because it is too long hahah but I hope you enjoy 💗💗💗
Taeil:
Taeil, for the most part, wouldn’t be overly affectionate with you privately or publicly - he’d prefer to shower you with gifts and compliments.
But whenever he did choose to kiss you (or vice versa), your lips would be his favourite place to kiss you. They’d always be gentle and soft kisses, varying from quick pecks to longer ones, always accompanied by a sweet smile or giggle.
As I’ve said before about a trillion times, he seems like he’d be pretty traditional in relationships, wanting to be a complete gentleman and very polite and courteous with his every move - probably the main reason why he’d prefer your lips over anywhere else on you (unless you asked him to kiss you elsewhere).
This quite traditional view of his, however, would kinda take over him and make him quite lose the confidence to kiss you anywhere else as spontaneously and easily as he would with your mouth, hence why he’d keep to kissing you there.
Johnny:
I totally see Johnny as being so handsey and touchy with you. He’d find it so hard to not touch you in some kind of way, always needing to have your hand in his or his arm around you. It would never be overly-clingy affection that would last forever; Johnny is pretty mature and, although more extroverted than introverted, very observant and sensitive to your reactions so would know what you liked him to do and when you were most comfortable with him doing it.
Saying that however, and what probably separates him from other touchy NCT members, he’d always be kissing you - or trying to and yes there is a difference between kissing and affection in my eyes before u try to say im contradicting myself even tho i kinda am too lol. Honestly, he’d probably kiss you anywhere and everywhere he could, not being overly picky where. He’d have a soft spot for your arms though and no particular reason behind it either. If ever asked, he might say it’s because they’re so soft and dainty or not dainty idk depends on who you are or he might pull out some weird one-liner like, “these are the arms that hold me at night and at my darkest time, they need the love”. But honesty, he wouldn’t really have a reason why he liked your arms that much, but you couldn’t say you weren’t enjoying his breath all over you.
Taeyong:
Whatever affection Taeyong shows you, it’s always going to be with such delicacy, and even maybe apprehension; he’d refuse to get to overly passionate to the extent he was being low-key rough with you, especially in public, but he’d try to get just a little bit of that passion in.
He’d love to kiss you at the nape of your neck, an easy place to access and an easy spot to get a reaction out of you. Usually through a clingy back hug, his face would always find itself nestled at the crook of your neck and, as if by instinct, his mouth on the back of your neck. His kisses would linger, pressing firmly, moving on to cover the next part of you neck. They could be slightly wet i know that sounds weird but it happens okok and he’d also love to hum against your skin, enjoying how you squirmed or sighed lightly.
Kisses on the nape of your neck were kisses, for Taeyong, that would get the perfect balance between passion and acceptability in public.
Yuta:
Like Johnny, I doubt there’d ever be a time where Yuta wasn’t showing you some kind of affection by touching/kissing/complimenting you.
He’d try his luck (and do so unsuccessfully) with you sometimes, attempting to put on an utterly flamboyant display of affection, throwing his arms up in the air and yelling your name, asking why you’re so perfect. He’d learn quickly that this could make you slightly uncomfortable and embarrassed and he’d also quickly seek out your sweet points, the places where the slightest touch could turn you into butter in his hands not literally. For you, this would be your neck and the top of your decolletage and for Yuta, he’d love to kiss you there. He would dust your skin in pecks and kisses, leaving a trail of love bites behind. You’d gasp upon feeling his mouth on your skin and sighing softly, leaning back into him.
They would be totally different to Yuta’s usual playful and cheeky kisses and saved for the most intimate and private of moments; they’d literally tire you both out but it’d be worth it.
Kun:
With Kun, I see a conflict in him.
Although he’d want to, and love to, kiss you in places perhaps seen as more “daring” (like the neck, tummy and shoulders), his slight shyness and awkwardness would prevent him from having the confidence to do so. Any form on physical affection would’ve taken weeks to progressively get to a stage where both of you were comfortable with sowing it; you’d both have the chance to figure of what you liked and what you didn’t.
In my mind, Kun would have realised very quickly that his favourite place to kiss you, is behind your ear. For him, it had everything you’d “need” in an ideal place to kiss someone; easy access, not too “daring”, ideal for public and private moments and so incredibly soft.
Yes, perhaps it wouldn’t entice the most dramatic and reactive response out of you, but it’s innocent and wee and quickly becomes a sign of presence and calmness in you both. A quick kiss behind the ear would automatically soothe you. It would just become a “thing” or habit that you two do as a couple.
Doyoung:
The top of your head would be Doyoung’s favourite place. Being so naturally caring and paternal, he’d see kissing you here as a mark of warmth and kindness. I don’t particularly think he’d even be one of big signs of affection (from you to him, or him to you), even in private and as your relationship progresses – so don’t expect anything other than kisses on the lips, cheek and the top of your head.
There’d be a little story behind this being his favourite place to kiss you. At the beginning of your relationship, he wouldn’t realise how he’d automatically and subconsciously kiss the top or side of your head whenever he saw you or wanted you close to him, naturally just pulling you under his arm and kiss you as if to say, “hey, it’s me. I’m here”. And, of course, these subconscious kisses would turn into a habit and one that you’d notice and blush at. By this time, it would be quite a few months into the relationship and Doyoung would notice your blushes, finding it weird how you were suddenly really shy around him this late into the relationship. It wouldn’t take a lot for you to admit why and reveal this habit of his, resulting in him being a complete blushy fool himself.
I think one cute thing I need to quickly mention bc this is getting too long now I still have 74636 members left to write, is how it’d reach a point were either of you would get upset and clingy if you walked away too soon or he forgot to kiss you idk I thought that’s pretty cute tbh.
Again, like with Kun, perhaps this isn’t the most “interesting” favourite place to kiss someone, nor does it have that special of a reason behind it apart from being a habit – but they are kisses out of habitual and consistent love, which is something every couple should want.
Ten:
Affection with Ten is always going to be about the fun – which suitably explains that his favourite place to kiss you is on your tummy.
Of course, he’s not going to suddenly pull up your shirt and start kissing you there in public; this kind of kiss would be saved for the private moments you’d share. No doubt he’ll kiss you elsewhere in public like on your lips and cheeks – not too much but enough for you to bear. But these tummy kisses would be so rare, so occasional, you’d each treasure each one for a very long time. It’d be hard to find chances where you’d both have the time and privacy to be kissed like this. But any time one did happen there’d be a lot of laughter, kisses and jokes.
I said that kisses with him(even just generally) have to be all about the fun and would only materialise, as well as having enough time, during some kind of pillow or play fight. Kisses on your tummy would make you squirm and gasp at the sensation, only humouring Ten even more. Ten would smile widely, admiring you from further down and carrying on peppering you with kisses. There’d always be the chance these kisses would initiate something “more”, but not usually.
I think these kisses on your tummy would be Ten’s favourite only because he’d appreciate the moment so much. They’d be incredibly rare but would entice the best reaction out of you both.
Jaehyun:
In my mind, there is no doubt Jae’s favourite place to kiss you are your shoulders. He’d like the intimacy of the action and the variation it could bring depending on the situation and mood.
Kissing someone’s shoulders isn’t exactly the kind of affection you can immediately start showing someone early in a relationship. It takes time, trust and a little or a lot idk of love to get there. For Jaehyun, kissing your shoulders would show how much you’d trust him and love him to let him kiss you there whenever he wanted to. Plus, I completely think he probably has a thing for shoulders and thinks yours are so pretty and delicate and soft so has difficulty in resisting touching you there.
He’d run his hands over your shoulders and arms, smiling softly and resting his face on your shoulder before leaning in to press a warm kiss on your shoulders. Over time, you wouldn’t gasp and blush under his touch like you did when he first started doing it, but rather smile and wrap your arms around him tightly.
Variation would be his forte here. Depending on how you reacted to his first kiss and on the situation you were in (who you were with, where you were), he’d alter his kissing style, never sticking to one pace or pressure. They could be very quick and light, or harder and slightly damp, or all over your shoulders, or just on one side, or he may even start leaving a little trail of hickies.
Perhaps a conversation would start in very hushed voices, probably something quite deep or sincere and not awkward chat. Both of you would hold each other quite tight and close sometimes, and other times you might separate and go back to doing what you were doing (not necessarily very quickly, but definitely faster than if you were to hold each other for a bit longer).
I think these kisses would be both predictable and unpredictable which is something you’d really like and something Jaehyun would enjoy thinking about.
WinWin:
I honestly think being in a serious relationship with Sicheng would be so enthralling and exciting; he’d develop as a person so much by dating you and you’d literally see him blossom into a much happier, confident and open person. This gradual development of his would lead to him also being more confident in initiating affection and not shying away if someone else was there or mentioned something about it.
The relationship is always going to be a very sweet, innocent and lovable one, the early “honeymoon stage”-love never completely diminishing, and his favourite place to kiss you, even after months of becoming comfortable and confident, is going to reflect that.
Your cheeks would be his favourite place and that’s not going to change at all. He’d just love the way your eyes fluttered shut when he leans in to kiss your cheek softly. It’ll never be quick pecks unless you were really pressed for time. His lips would linger there for a moment, his eyes briefly shutting too, just savouring the moment. Perhaps he’d hum out of happiness and giggle quietly.
These kisses, because they’re not like the usual pecks people do, could sometimes look confusing or awkward to other people. They’d last a little longer than anticipated but you two would be so caught up in the moment you wouldn’t notice nor care.
That’s another thing that would really demonstrate WinWin’s boost of confidence - early in the relationship, he’d find it awkward to kiss you in front of other people even just a kiss on the cheek; but as you grew closer and more comfortable, he really just wouldn’t care and to be honest, that’s a very amazing thing to admire. A simple kiss on the cheek would really mean so much, without either of you really noticing.
Jungwoo:
“he needs some miLK”
Jungwoo totally appears to be the kind of romantic boyfriend who treats you so delicately and like royalty, basically worshipping the ground you walk on. You’d never realise, but he’d always look at you with such love and fascination, watching you intensely and nodding at everything you say which imo is literally adorable and goalssss.
I think he’d also be pretty handsey and affectionate with you, but in a very soft and sentimental way; he’d brush your hair out of your eyes, lace his fingers with yours, place his hand at the bottom of your back reassuringly and kiss you on your forehead - his favourite place to kiss you.
It’s very easy to kiss someone on the forehead in a way that’s quite patronising as in, you feel like a child being kissed by a parent and it can feel quite embarrassing. But the way Jungwoo would kiss you there would be the complete opposite. It would be a very soft and gentle kiss, as if his lips barely touched your skin. He’d run his fingers through your hair and place his other hand on your neck, smiling when he sees you flush and giggle.
It would be a very innocent kiss but there’d be an element of sensuality to it as well. Most times a kiss like this would initiate something “bigger” ;), like making out or even further. But even throughout all this, he’d be very mellow and sweet with you, always respecting your space and reacting to your body accordingly.
Yukhei:
look how amazing he looks skjfndjknskdjnfdss omg he is literally p e r f e c t i want to make a post with gifs of yukhei on it honestly he’s perfect
I don’t think Yukhei’s going to be shy in showing you any kind of affection even from very early on when you first started dating. He’d also, somehow, make you feel so comfortable that you wouldn’t mind him being clingy or affectionate around other people all the time. He’s also going to like to make you swoon which he’d so successfully but not necessarily through teasing. He’d literally give you anything you’d want but then make you weak from it. Your neck and jaw would be his favourite place to kiss you, because he’d get the best reaction out of you, by which I mean, gasps and moans.
He’d go right in, no prior pecks or anything, just sloppy and wet kisses all over your skin. He wouldnt have much of a “routine”, but he’d seek out your pleasure spot, the part of your skin you’d gasp at if kissed, and attack it with harder and slower kisses. His kisses would always be accompanied by some nibbling at your skin and an extensive collection of hickies and purple marks. His hands would wander, grabbing onto any bare skin they could fine, but he’d have to eventually wrap his arms around your waist to keep you standing once your knees give way.
The first couple times he’d have kissed you here, your cheeks would flare and you’d try pushing away; but now, you’d love it as much as him and you’d be the one teasing him, by wearing your hair up or to one side to expose your neck and jaw.
For sure, this’d be his favourite place to kiss you because it’s get his heart racing; he’d love you clawing onto him and gasping, he’d love seeing the small marks he traced upon your skin, he’d love feeling dare i say it bc i don’t want to sexy and manly. He’d feel like a different guy kissing you like this.
Mark:
sorry this one is very short bc i didn’t know what to say lol
Any kind of affection with Mark is either going to be a) awkward b) slightly weird or c) very conservative. And his favourite place to kiss you would be a combination of all three. He’d like to kiss you on your wrists and some other random places like in between your eyebrows and your temples.
At first, you may have found this to be a weird place to kiss someone but you’d grow fond of it and like the gentesnness of his actions. He’d first hold your hands, he’d always be holding your hand to be honest, playing with your fingers mindlessly before absentmindedly bringing your wrist to his mouth and pressing a kiss there. The skin on your wrists is very thin and delicate so Mark’s kisses would be very soft and light, you’d hardly feel them.
In my head, I see these kisses as being very sincere and sweet ones. Not much meaning behind it but it doesn’t really need one; Mark would probably make up for that by saying some very lovely and meaningful things towards you.
Renjun:
why does he look like an acorn here? jks he looks so soft :’)
With Renjun, I see him choosing your temples as his favourite place to kiss you. It’s somewhere easy and simple, which would perfectly reflect your relationship together.
He’s going to be very gentle and calm in a relationship; being sporadically excitable and affectionate won’t be his style although there’d, of course, be moments where he could be clingy. Choosing your temples as his favourite place to kiss you would also probably be one of the few places he wouldn’t mind kissing you without getting shy or embarrassed. He’d find kissing elsewhere usually quite uncomfortable and, unless he was feeling super soft and comfortable, he’d be quite stiff and awkward. It’s just be best to let him kiss you as he wished.
It’s pretty conservative yeah, but you’d understand he was just naturally shy and gentle so would also learn to love this kind of kiss. Before you met him, perhaps a kiss of the temples wouldn’t mean much, you would hardly see it really as affection. But with Renjun, understanding these kisses would demonstrate how well you understood him.
Jeno:
Jeno, definitely, would find your lips his favourite place to kiss - a very frank place to kiss someone.
To me, he’s a very straightforward kind-of guy. He knows what he wants in the relationship, he knows how to get there, he understands his feelings and he’s confident enough to show it. If he’s feeling a certain way, you’d know. Communication and lack of affection is likely to never be a problem that arises. And it’d be the same when it came to kissing.
A kiss on the lips wouldn’t always mean the same thing every time; sometimes it would be a goodbye kiss, other times a hello kiss, or a longer passionate kiss or a peck. They could be sad kisses, happy kisses, worried ones - a whole range of them. To be honest, there’s quite a variation and it’d just be another way Jeno would communicate his feelings to you. It doesn’t always have to be through words.
I think the most beautiful thing amongst all this, is that you’d completely understand and translate what his kisses on your lips mean that most time you wouldn’t even need to talk afterwards. You’d just “get it” and that’s pretty unique to you.
Haechan:
sorry this is going to be quite short :(
Your hands are going to be Haechan’s favourite place to kiss you. This would include your fingertips, your palms and the top of your hands.
He may be very playful and funny in your relationship, but he’d have these little tendencies, these little gestures that would hold so much meaning and symbolism to him.
Kissing your hands would kind of be his way of showing some sympathy and recognition towards you and your hard work. It’d usually be after a long day studying or a day that would’ve tested you, that Haechan would kiss your hands. Just a simple kiss and habit.
Jaemin:
Ahhh now Jaemin will be a lot like Jaehyun and Jungwoo in a relationship. He’d be in complete awe of you, basically following you around like a love-sick puppy. But he’s also at an age/maturity level where all this sappiness and romance is still quite awkward and “too much” for him. So instead of bluntly showing his affection and admiration for you, like Jaehyun or Jungwoo would, Jaemin would opt for a playful and tearful way.
Just generally, there’d be a lot of jokes and laughter shared between you two. And there’d be occasions where Jaemin would suddenly stop laughing and simply stare at you in awe, watching you as your throw your head back with laughter. You’d notice his sudden halt and start worrying for him, asking him if he was okay which would only make him smile lightly.
With any other member, the typical reaction here would be to blush, say “no! No! Not true!” and try to play it off coolly. But with Jaemin, you can expect him to react by kissing you all over your face (his favourite place to kiss you), ending with your lips. This’d stop you (again) from what you were doing and you’d begin giggling and trying to push him away.
It wouldn’t be a common occurrence - kissing you like this - because I think over time Jaemin would learn some self control and realise what he was doing before you do. But it’s definitely be very cute and playful, which sums him up.
Chenle:
Honestly, I don’t really think Chenle would be all that affectionate in a relationship. Not because he’s shy, awkward or nervous; it’d just be something he’d never really feel a need in showing (not that you’d be too bothered about it either). Dating Chenle would literally be like dating your best friend; sometimes people wouldn’t even think you were dating because the lack of affection, at least publicly, would be so limited.
He would, however, have his tendencies just as everybody does. Sometimes he’d kiss your nose as a spur of a moment thing. I know it might be kinda weird to kiss someone here in that kind of situation, but he’s still a minor and not that affectionate anyway - a kiss of the nose would be a lot for him.
Say, he found something out amazing (like NCT had reached a goal or some sort) or you found something out amazing (like passing an exam), you’d both start squealing and laughing and with all the excitement and positivity of the moment, he’d suddenly lean in and peck your nose. I don’t even think either of you would react to the kiss right there and then because 1) awkwardness between you two was practically nonexistent and 2) you were still so caught up in the moment.
Only afterwards, probably when you had to leave one another again, would you click and realise what had happened. You wouldn’t speak about it with one another, but it’d definitely get you both very blushy and smiley.
Jisung:
Of course, your cheeks will be his favourite place to kiss you. Again, like with Chenle, I don’t think Jisung is going to be all that keen on affection anyway. It wouldn’t be something he’d outgrow either, I genuinely think he won’t be that affectionate when he’s more mature either. He’s just a little bit awkward and shy, and he’d show his love for you through other things like gifts.
A kiss on the cheek would be as far as he’d really go; they’d be more likely than an kiss on the lips because he’d feel less embarrassed about giving you in front of others. The older members would probably always tease him about that, practically taunting him into giving you a kiss on the cheek to which he’d just stutter and shy away at, before eventually giving in.
You’re probably more likely to give him kisses and initiate anything than the other way around. He’d still get very shy and embarrassed from it, but he’d grow to love it and prefer it over giving kisses himself. His kisses on your cheek wouldn’t be all that regular or daily but it’d literally be a blessing when he did give you one and you wouldn’t mind waiting so long for one.
This is just a very quick post, but I hope you like it!!! I’ll do their ideal personality soon, it’s also ready to go.
Please remember that these are all just assumptions.
Jungwoo:
Jungwoo would look best with someone short to average height with a delicate appearance. I can’t really see him with someone that is “conventionally pretty/handsome”; I think he’d like someone who looks kind of unique or even someone unconventionally enticing. He’s drawn more to a cute exterior over a sexier one, but can sometimes be naturally “sexy” when doing something normal (could be when they’re cooking, doing their hair etc). Someone who dresses simply in pale colours and likes thin, silver jewellery. He probably has a thing for denim and rips in clothes don’t ask e why. Jungwoo also prefers wild and un-dyed hair, preferably a big main of dark, curly hair. Someone with a deep voice but a pretty laugh. I think he’d be open to date a foreigner, but if he was to date one, he’d end up falling for a very stereotypically “[insert their country]”, beautiful one without really realising. But he’s probably going to be drawn more to a Korean just by nature. To be honest, I don’t see him being picky in terms of appearance in a partner nor would he actively try to seek out these features in them. But, somehow, he’d manage to always fall for and end up with someone with most of these traits.
Yukhei:
Yukhei is definitely going to be drawn more to people with “sexier” appearances or people who seem more mysterious, quiet or cold - he’d kind of see it as an exterior he’d like to uncover and get the the “real”, core personality of someone (by this I mean that some people look cold but aren’t and he’d want to see if he could get to the bottom of it). Someone who appears to be very confident and sure of themselves (even if it’s just an act). A fast walker. Very open to date any race but there definitely needs to be the ability to clearly communicate bc this boy will talk a lot. He’d like big features on people: eyes, lips, hips, hair, noses. Someone who kind of looks messy in their appearance. Someone who likes to wear darker, yet very trendy, clothes with the odd colourful or eccentric piece/accessory. He’s tall so he’s probably going to date someone whose at least just above the average height; he’d find smaller people cute but taller people would usually also fit the rest of the bill for him. Someone who has pretty eyes and pretty hair and pretty hands. To be honest, I can’t imagine his ideal type apart from it being someone whose sexy and/or mysterious/cold/intimidating. As long as they managed that, their physical traits could, and would, vary.
