Nephelae་ ☕͢･⁺

Depresión - Desamor ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ Hay tres velas que iluminan toda oscuridad: Verdad, Conocimiento y Naturaleza. ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬

[system-lgbt]

Galactian System (Expanded!)

I couldn’t get in contact with the original person who coined the Galactian System (and also can’t tag them for some reason?) and some of the terms were a little confusing (sollunarian = novarian, but both terms exist?) while others were missing (no demi-solstellarian, for example). 

The original chart only covered the firstly coined types. (Singularian was not coined by the same person who coined the rest.)

(( This chart’s wrong as hell, btw. Solarian + Stellarian is Eclipsian, Solarian + Lunarian is Novarian. ))

Unfortunately this chart doesn’t account for demi-alignments with those in the center trifecta. Or even a fluid alignment.

So I made some!

Dawnian, Duskian, and Celestian (with new flags to match the rest of them)

Singularian (with a new flag to match the rest), Twilightian, and Equinian

Solstician, Constellian, and Aurorian!

(( Sorry @nonbinarywiki, I was working on this when you asked me for permission to use my chart, I know I whipped this out so quick after your post, I forgot to warn you!))

So what are these new alignments? Let me introduce the first three and the demi- definitions so you can get an idea.

Solarian: In many cultures and religious systems, the sun is associated with masculinity, and male energy. As a result, a Solar Nonbinary Person, or Solarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with men. The term functions as a less easily abused form of “male aligned.”

Lunarian: In equally many cultures, where the sun is man, the moon is woman and feminine energy. As a result, a Lunar Nonbinary Person, or Lunarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with women. It functions as a less easily abused term for “female aligned".

Stellarian: With as many possible identities and presentations as there are stars in the sky, a Stellar Nonbinary Person, or Stellarian, would be someone who does not experience strong alignment with either binary gender, or who rejects such alignment.

Demi-Alignments, like duskian, have a partial connection to their alignment. Example: Duskians have only a partial connection to lunarian, with the other part being something else. So they’re sorta like demigender versions of the main three, since it’s a partial connection to one of the alignments, instead of being both stellarian and one of the other two. 

So if you are both male- and female-aligned, you’d use Novarian. However, if you only partially feel female-aligned, and the other part is ambiguous/undefined, you’d consider yourself Duskian. 

**Keep in mind, the ‘other part’ IS NOT part of Singularian. Singularian is rejecting the binary completely, in fact reducing gender alignment to zero/a single point. It’s not agender, or gender neutral, or gendervoid - it’s the absence of the gender alignment completely.**

Here’s each flag and what they mean!

Demi-sollunarian, or Twilightian! (Optional: Twilian)

Twilightian is to identify partially with male-aligned, partially identify with female-aligned, and partially identify with something else. 

Demi-stellunarian, or Equinoxian! (Optional: Equinian)

Equinoxian is to identify partially with female-aligned, partially identify with non-binary alignment, and partially identify with something else. 

Demi-solstellarian, or Solstian! (Optional: Solstacian)

Solstian is to identify partially with male-aligned, partially identify with non-binary alignment, and partially identify with something else.

Demi-solstellunarian, or Constellian! (Optional: Constellatien, intentionally misspelled)

Constellian is to identify partially with male-aligned, female-aligned, non-binary alignment, and partially something else. 

Fluidity between alignments, also known as Aurorian!

Aurorian is to identify as one alignment, that changes (fluidly or suddenly) to another alignment. What these alignments are doesn’t matter, but you can list them as well!

So now the chart should look like this!

**NOTE: While I do coin these terms, you DO NOT have to use them. If you prefer stellunarian, that’s okay. If you don’t want to use the new singularian flag, you DO NOT have to. These are in place for optional use, and are in no way meant to REPLACE anything from the original creator’s creation.**

More info (and the new dawnian/duskian/singularian/celestian flags underneath!

Seguir leyendo

[system-lgbt]

Galactian System (Expanded!)

I couldn’t get in contact with the original person who coined the Galactian System (and also can’t tag them for some reason?) and some of the terms were a little confusing (sollunarian = novarian, but both terms exist?) while others were missing (no demi-solstellarian, for example). 

The original chart only covered the firstly coined types. (Singularian was not coined by the same person who coined the rest.)

(( This chart’s wrong as hell, btw. Solarian + Stellarian is Eclipsian, Solarian + Lunarian is Novarian. ))

Unfortunately this chart doesn’t account for demi-alignments with those in the center trifecta. Or even a fluid alignment.

So I made some!

Dawnian, Duskian, and Celestian (with new flags to match the rest of them)

Singularian (with a new flag to match the rest), Twilightian, and Equinian

Solstician, Constellian, and Aurorian!

(( Sorry @nonbinarywiki, I was working on this when you asked me for permission to use my chart, I know I whipped this out so quick after your post, I forgot to warn you!))

So what are these new alignments? Let me introduce the first three and the demi- definitions so you can get an idea.

Solarian: In many cultures and religious systems, the sun is associated with masculinity, and male energy. As a result, a Solar Nonbinary Person, or Solarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with men. The term functions as a less easily abused form of “male aligned.”

Lunarian: In equally many cultures, where the sun is man, the moon is woman and feminine energy. As a result, a Lunar Nonbinary Person, or Lunarian, would be someone who has similarities in identity or experience with women. It functions as a less easily abused term for “female aligned".

Stellarian: With as many possible identities and presentations as there are stars in the sky, a Stellar Nonbinary Person, or Stellarian, would be someone who does not experience strong alignment with either binary gender, or who rejects such alignment.

Demi-Alignments, like duskian, have a partial connection to their alignment. Example: Duskians have only a partial connection to lunarian, with the other part being something else. So they’re sorta like demigender versions of the main three, since it’s a partial connection to one of the alignments, instead of being both stellarian and one of the other two. 

So if you are both male- and female-aligned, you’d use Novarian. However, if you only partially feel female-aligned, and the other part is ambiguous/undefined, you’d consider yourself Duskian. 

**Keep in mind, the ‘other part’ IS NOT part of Singularian. Singularian is rejecting the binary completely, in fact reducing gender alignment to zero/a single point. It’s not agender, or gender neutral, or gendervoid - it’s the absence of the gender alignment completely.**

Here’s each flag and what they mean!

Demi-sollunarian, or Twilightian! (Optional: Twilian)

Twilightian is to identify partially with male-aligned, partially identify with female-aligned, and partially identify with something else. 

Demi-stellunarian, or Equinoxian! (Optional: Equinian)

Equinoxian is to identify partially with female-aligned, partially identify with non-binary alignment, and partially identify with something else. 

Demi-solstellarian, or Solstian! (Optional: Solstacian)

Solstian is to identify partially with male-aligned, partially identify with non-binary alignment, and partially identify with something else.

Demi-solstellunarian, or Constellian! (Optional: Constellatien, intentionally misspelled)

Constellian is to identify partially with male-aligned, female-aligned, non-binary alignment, and partially something else. 

Fluidity between alignments, also known as Aurorian!

Aurorian is to identify as one alignment, that changes (fluidly or suddenly) to another alignment. What these alignments are doesn’t matter, but you can list them as well!

So now the chart should look like this!

**NOTE: While I do coin these terms, you DO NOT have to use them. If you prefer stellunarian, that’s okay. If you don’t want to use the new singularian flag, you DO NOT have to. These are in place for optional use, and are in no way meant to REPLACE anything from the original creator’s creation.**

More info (and the new dawnian/duskian/singularian/celestian flags underneath!

Seguir leyendo

[lgbtpridestuffs-archived]

⭐☀️ Bi Galactian flags 🌙⭐

Lunarian Bi | Stellarian Bi | Solarian Bi

Nebularian Bi | Novarian Bi | Eclipsian Bi

Duskian Bi | Celestian Bi | Dawnian Bi

[beyond-mogai-pride-flags]

Dissociative Identity Disorder:  formerly known as multiple personality disorder, this disorder is characterized by two or more distinct and relatively enduring identities or dissociated personality states.

The gradient of black to white represents dissociative symptoms while the lines of color represent dissociated identities, or alters.

Note: this flag was designed by someone who has diagnosed DID.

- H

[mysticaltales]

Amalia Andrade

[if-im-only-daydreaming-deactiva]

Please correct me if I’m wrong, because I’m not sure if there’s a proper term for this, but there’s been a lot of stuff that I’ve been thinking about. I have a very strange identity, and no label really fits me. So I was like fuck it, I’ll do it myself.

Cosm- Related to, or directly from, your paracosm. Derives from the word paracosm. Used mostly with MaDD’rs/ID’rs, who have close and personal relationships with our paracosms.

Gold for the warmth and connection we have to our worlds

Pastel yellow for coping/healing

Pink for friendships/platonic relationships/romance we have with our paras

Purple for creativity

Blue for mental health/longing

Kron- Feeling connected to space and time. Derives from the Greek root word for time, chrono-.

Blue for solidarity, the constant presence of the world around us

Light blue for stars/starlight/stardust, because we would not be here without them

Dark blue for the universe; the knowledge we have of it, and the way it works. Time and space flow, twist, turn, bend with the universe, and so does the universe with them.

Yellow for hope, because if we’re alive, shouldn’t others be alive out there too?

Gold for fluidity, the constant presence of time passing.

I want to say these aren’t genders, although you may use them as such! They’re more like vague identities. Parts of you that you love and embrace, but aren’t genders/orientations/preferences.

Thank you so much for reading <3 Please hmu if you have questions, and reblogs are always better than likes. If someone has done these before, let me know!

[buscando-letras]

“Estoy pagando el castigo de haber tenido tanto amor y haberlo desperdiciado. La vida me cobra amores que deje ir y amores que no quise ver, el tiempo se lleva mis horas de placer y los minutos de besos intensos, el viento desvanece el aroma de cariño en un domingo con sabor a café y el invierno me congela por no haber valorado el abrigo de unos brazos llenos de amor. Todo me condena ahora, sobre todo la compañia, que me hace creer que a alguien le importó, cuando sólo estoy sola. ”

— Monólogo de un alma rota. Brenda Ramírez.

[nephelaes-blog]

Yo no quiero estar en pareja, solo un café para sorprenderme y sorprender, pero queda todo en la nada misma. Porque yo soy la nada misma, no son ellos o ustedes, soy Yo

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Fuente: Nephelaes-blog

Nephelaes

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Infidelidad, si aún tu pareja no sabe nada, y estás pensando en decírselo, piénsalo de nuevo. Es preferible que calles tu error 

¿Pero no es la honestidad lo más importante? No siempre. Si no te agrada su madre, o si ha engordado unos cuantos kilos, seguramente no consideras erróneo ocultarle la verdad. Después de todo, no hay nada que pueda hacer al respecto y sólo le traerás sufrimiento. Lo mismo ocurre en el caso de una infidelidad: guárdate la culpa para ti y procura no volver a engañar a la persona que amas.

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La infidelidad en una relación poliamorosa no incluye involucrarse en una relación sexual o amorosa, pero por ejemplo si hay un acuerdo de no acostarse con un compañero de piso o de explicar a tu pareja las aventuras sexuales y éste se quebranta se supondría infidelidad.

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Nephelaes

Fuente: Nephelaes-blog

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Por supuesto, a nadie le gusta la idea de que la persona amada se involucre con otro –sentimental o físicamente-. Pero el enamorado sano confía en su pareja, y así como no se le ocurriría serle infiel, no pierde el sueño contemplando la posibilidad de que el otro lo haga.

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Nephelaes

Fuente: Nephelaes-blog

[nephelaes-blog]

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lo mejor es ser leal al que decías amar y dejarlo antes de cometer una infidelidad

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Nephelaes

Fuente: Nephelaes-blog

[eter-nxs]

Ig:dibujosenversos

[nephelaes-blog]

Nephelae་ ☕͢･⁺

Depresión - Desamor ▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬▬ Hay tres velas que iluminan toda oscuridad: Verdad, Conocimiento y...

Diferencia entre amor y obsesión

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Cuando estamos enamorados de una persona, a veces sentimos que no podemos dejar de pensar en él o en ella. El sentimiento que experimentamos nos quita el sueño y el apetito, a veces nos dificulta la concentración y nos damos cuenta de que, en lugar de estudiar, estamos inclinados sobre los libros soñando despiertos con aquel par de ojos.

Pero, ¡atención! Es importante que el amor no se transforme en una obsesión. Este sentimiento es dañino y no hace sino alejarnos de la persona amada. Sin embargo, no siempre es fácil diferenciar una obsesión insana de un amor verdadero. ¿Qué los distingue?

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El amor nos hace felices

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Mientras que la persona enamorada siente que está atravesando el mejor momento de su vida, disfruta del sol en sus hombros y de posar la vista en el follaje verde porque éste es el color de los ojos de su amad@, el obsesivo vive angustiado. El amor nos hace sentir plenos y satisfechos de la vida, la obsesión nos torna infelices y nos lleva a experimentar sentimientos de autocompasión y de desprecio hacia nosotros mismos.

Claro, se preguntarán qué pasa cuando el amor no es correspondido, ¿verdad? ¿Cómo sentirse feliz en este caso? Es difícil, pero la persona que estaba saludablemente enamorada, debe saber aceptar el rechazo del otro, dejar pasar un tiempo y seguir viviendo su vida. Ya llegará otro amor. El obsesivo, en cambio, se aferra del sentimiento de tristeza creyendo que éste es todo lo que le queda de la persona amada.

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El amor nos torna bellos

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Una persona enamorada suspira, tiene la mirada perdida y una sonrisa soñadora entre los labios. Pero no por ello va a dejar de comer o de dormir, ni se consumirá largas horas llorando frente al espejo hasta que sus ojos se vean hinchados. Si conoces a alguien que, con la excusa de que está enamorado, ha adelgazado varios kilos, se ha dejado de lavar el cabello y lleva puesta siempre la misma ropa andrajosa, sacúdelo: lo suyo no es amor, es una obsesión enfermiza. El amor por otro no tiene que llevar a que dejemos de amarnos y de cuidarnos a nosotros mismos.

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El amor desea lo mejor para el ser amado

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Un auténtico enamorado desea, ante todo, que la persona amada sea feliz. Sobre todo, espera que alcance la felicidad a su lado, cierto, pero aún de no ser así, seguirá deseándole el bien. En cambio, no es raro que la persona obsesionada se vea envuelta en pensamientos destructivos hacia el que dicen amar. Por ejemplo, piensan que si l@ despiden de su trabajo, tal vez deba recurrir a ellos en busca de ayuda. Si está con una tercera persona, quieren que la relación fracase estrepitosamente, sin considerar el sufrimiento que esto le acarrearía a su ser amado. Este tipo de ideas no demuestran un amor intenso, sino una obsesión insana por la otra persona.

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El amor confía en el ser amado

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Los celos extremos son una señal de que un amor pueda estar tornándose en obsesión. Por supuesto, a nadie le gusta la idea de que la persona amada se involucre con otro –sentimental o físicamente-. Pero el enamorado sano confía en su pareja, y así como no se le ocurriría serle infiel, no pierde el sueño contemplando la posibilidad de que el otro lo haga. El obsesivo se vuelve loco con escenas imaginarias, y puede llegar a hacer cosas terribles a su pareja, tales como revisarle los mensajes del móvil, hackear su correo electrónico o aparecerse por sorpresa en su trabajo buscando atraparlo con las manos en la masa. Irónicamente, la necesidad de poseer y de controlar al otro es el mejor camino para alejarlo definitivamente de nuestra vida.

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El amor basa sus sueños en la realidad

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Está bien que los enamorados se pierdan, de vez en cuando, en fantasías y ensoñaciones. Pero para las parejas saludables, los mejores sueños son aquellos que pueden hacerse realidad: planear unas vacaciones juntos es más excitante que delirar con que a uno de los dos lo secuestran y el otro lo rescata con dos ametralladoras en cada mano. El obsesivo se pierde en delirios cada vez más descabellados, y esto le impide ocuparse de las cosas que verdaderamente suceden a su lado.

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A no equivocarse: amor y obsesión distan de ser sinónimos. Reconozcamos estos sentimientos para evitar lastimarnos a nosotros mismos y a los demás

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[anes-tesia]

[cuando-fingi-quererte]

"Ser o no ser" "sí, pero no"

He ahí el típico dilema shakespiriano. 💀

[weey-te-amo-deactivated20211103]

Hahahahaha

[el-atico-de-un-alma-rota-deacti]

Que atractivas son las personas que tienen la mente llena de conocimiento.