Getting termed is a transfem rite of passage here

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[newfoldrin]

I was trying to do some good for someone. I was trying to be someone safe for someone wading into a sea of unsafe people. I was trying to make it clear that I was not a part of that sea. Rather than dealing with that sea of unsafe people, Tumblr dealt with me. Funny how it's the trans woman who's trying to do more than Tumblr could ever do to help victims of abuse who loses everything rather than the abusers who are given so much time to continuously prey on their victims with little meaningful action taken against them.

RIP ninefoldrin.

I'll be here unless and until tumblr fixes this.

[aruemon]

happy pride, ya’ll! just a reminder; asexuals, aromantics, aroaces, and everything and everybody in-between belong at pride ^~^

[meggriffin24]

men be like “apparently hating women makes u a misogynist 😂😂”

[phantomrose96]

Personally? I would never deny Hiromu Arakawa her right to a short bratty braided blond character in a kickass red coat

[phantomrose96]

Invent a look this iconic and I think you should get to use it in every series.

[phantomrose96]

[never-obsolete]

Nintendo.com June 2000

[cloevr]

[queeranarchism]

Let me settle the 'is it fetishism and is it bad?' debate once and for all:

Being attracted to any kind of body is normal. Fat bodies. Trans bodies. Disabled bodies. All normal. Being extra attracted to a specific kind of body is normal too. Totally normal to have a type.

Not unlearning the societal stigma attached to those kinds of bodies, the people who inhabit those bodies, and the people who fuck them, to the point where you do any of the following:

Only want to date/fuck the person in secret.

Reduce the person to the feature that you desire and ignore the rest of who they are as a person.

Expect the person to be a walking porn fantasy instead of a real person with their own sexual preferences and boundaries.

Would no longer love the person if the stigmatized aspect of their body changed.

Consider yourself superior to the person, think the person should be 'grateful' that you love their body, etc.

See the person as a temporary adventure while planning to eventually settle down with someone whose body isn't stigmatized.

Is bad and harmful and you shouldn't be dating anyone until you've worked on your shit, because this makes you a very terrible partner. This doesn't mean you are a bad person with bad-fetishist-desires who can only desire people badly, it means you need to unlearn societal stigma so you can be a better partner to the people you desire.

Thank you for coming to me ted talk.

[tgirl-tamag0tchi]

I wish I wasn’t a ball of trauma… it’s keeping me from being the kind of girl I so desperately wanna be.

[sanae-noncon]

btw if ur seeing this ur tits are growung 3 cup sizes ok gn

[queer-as-city-folk]

5 minutes of research on what American troops did in Vietnam will make you understand why people called them baby killers

[queer-as-city-folk]

[mousidy]

i think people need to realize that children are subject to sexual violence, both at the hands of their peers and at the hands of adults, regardless of assigned sex at birth. it's just that intra-group violence (violence that occurs within a sex group, within a family, between peers, etc.) is severely underreported, despite being at least as common as inter-group violence.

my theory as to why there's more stigma around discussing intra-group violence is that it conflicts with some of the "solutions" people come up with for sexual violence (like sex segregation or finding safety within the family). when you examine intra-group violence it becomes more obvious that it's about power rather than attraction, but people don't want to address these power imbalances in society (especially if they benefit from them)

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[sreegs]

turning a big dial taht says "pjackk is banned" on it and constantly looking for approval like a contestant on the price is right

[sunnyplushie]

what if we were so small and had a sleepover and watched lots of cartoons and cuddled

[depsidase]

[arctic-hands]

[Image Description: a rain-soaked U.S.P.S shipping label, stuck on an outer wall or junction box, on which has been sharpied, "How many beautiful, kind people have I killed ["killed" in red] just buy paying my taxes". End I.D]

[discolor3d]

The person I reblogged this from deserves to be happy.

[calebwittebane]

annoying bloggers are having another Gossip Season it seems and its mad stupid and evil but this is making me laugh so hard im gonna throw up. fuuuuuuuck #staysafe

[maja-paja]

its touch her boobs tuesday

[newfoldrin]

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