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I’m thrilled to announce that my book “Thoughts which turned into poetry” has been officially published on Amazon US, UK, Canada and throughout Europe. Unfortunately the paperback is not available in India but it could be shipped to India from the available countries. The kindle / ebook version of the book is yet to publish, once it’s published it’ll be available on Amazon India for purchase.

I’d like to heartily thank everyone who has been supporting and encouraging me so far, do continue to show me your love.

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Things to do when angry or frustrated ˖⁺‧₊˚✦

Things to do in the heat of the moment

Think before you speak, to avoid saying something you'll regret later. Take a few moments to collect your thoughts before saying something, and allow others in the situation to do the same.

Take a break and give yourself some time and space to cool down before you try to address the situation.

Things to do to calm down afterwards

Go for a walk.

Listen to some music.

Do some exercise.

Do something you enjoy, like painting.

Read a book.

Take a hot bath.

Treat yourself to your favourite food.

Watch a movie.

Things to do to fix the issue

Write it out. Writing down your thoughts and feelings can be a great way to release some of the tension and frustration you're feeling. Grab a notebook or journal and write down everything that's bothering you. You might find that putting your thoughts on paper helps you gain clarity and perspective on the situation.

Talk it out. Sometimes it can be helpful to talk to someone about what's bothering you. Reach out to a friend or family member who you trust and who can listen without judging. They might be able to offer you some advice or a different perspective on the situation.

Problem-solve. Once you've had some time to cool down and process your feelings, it's time to address the situation that made you feel angry or frustrated. Try to approach the situation with a problem-solving mindset. Identify the issue, brainstorm potential solutions, and evaluate the pros and cons of each option. Once you've come up with a plan, take action to address the situation and work towards a resolution.

Remember, it's okay to feel angry or frustrated sometimes. It's a normal part of being human. The key is to find healthy ways to cope with those feelings and address the underlying issues ♡

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life is just humiliating yourself over and over and learning to live with the inherent shame of being alive !! do what makes you happy !! it is impossible to live life without embarrassment, so why bother trying !!

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“The other day, lying in bed, I felt my heart beating for the first time in a long while. I realized how little I live in my body, how much in my mind”

-Rodger kamenetz, from Terra infirma

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Fyodor Dostoyevsky // Alanis Morissette

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[what-iz-life]

If I ever stop talking to you & remove you from my life, just know how hard it was for me. I have a bad habit of holding onto the little bit of good in ppl & giving too many chances. So if I don’t fw you anymore, it’s bc you pushed me way past my limits—but when I'm done I'm done

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[free-my-mindd]

The older I get the more I realize that everything really is that deep. The people you confide in, trust, date, become friends with, the opportunities you take. What you eat and even what you consume. It’s very deep and shouldn’t be taken lightly.

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A girl stands alone in a field. The weight of the world is placed on her shoulders.

A farmer walks past. “please. help.” The girl says.

The farmer responds. “can’t you see I’m hauling this load of hay? How selfish must you be, asking me to set aside my own burden to help you”.

The farmer leaves.

A girl stands alone in a field. The weight of the world is placed on her shoulders.

A noblewoman walks past. “please. help.” The girl says.

The noblewoman responds. “Help you? You seem to be managing well on your own. How lazy must you be, asking for me to help a burden you can very well carry”.

The noblewoman leaves.

A girl stands alone in a field. The weight of the world is placed on her shoulders.

A knight walks past. “please. help.” The girl says.

The knight responds. “Whoever would I help you? Every man is given a burden to carry. How weak must you be, asking your burden be relieved”.

The knight leaves.

A girl stands alone in a field. Tears flow down her face. Her back is breaking. Her arms are so weak. She hasn’t felt her legs in days. The weight of the world is still on her shoulders. She lets it go. She is crushed.

News of the girl’s death reaches the capital.

“What a shame” said the farmer. “if only I could have helped”.

“What a shame” said the noblewoman. “if only I could have helped”.

“What a shame” said the knight. “if only I could have helped”.

A great memorial is erected in the capital, honoring the girl who gave so much.

“So selfless” said the farmer.

“So driven” said the noblewoman.

“So strong” said the knight.

“If I had met the girl” says the farmer, “I would’ve taken the weight from her. It would be easy for me to stow it in my cart”.

“If I had met the girl” says the noblewoman, “I would’ve taken the weight from her. I carry so little, it’s the least I could do”.

“If I had met the girl” says the knight, “I would’ve taken the weight from her. I am strong and noble, I could surely carry such a burden more readily than she”.

The girl is still dead.

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Men are supposed to fall in love with you falling in love with yourself

For years I never quite understood the whole you have to love yourself first in order for others to love you.

But now I do and I’ll explain it as best as I can:

When you walk into a room, the only thing you have going for you is your appearance and attitude (aka confidence)

You could be a loving, creative highly intelligent woman beneath the layers of insecurity, but if you act insecure, don’t take up space and speak negatively of yourself, people will just accept that conclusion about you because again they can only know what you show them, they’ll assume that you must have something to be insecure about.

Similarly, you could have previously been the ugly duckling, could have been bullied at school, picked last, a victim of trauma, but if you act confident and speak highly about yourself, that’s the only conclusion people will take with them, they’ll assume you have a good life going for you because you’re confident.

You are a walking advertisement for yourself, everywhere you go, through your confidence(or lack of)you’re telling people how you feel about yourself and how they should expect to treat you.

We are wired to want the best for ourselves, so given the choice between a confident and insecure person we’ll choose the confident one, because they carry the promise of a good time!

Think about weddings, there’s always that one bridesmaid who’s a bundle of light, she’s talking to the DJ, and helping the staff serve food and chatting up the elder family members, everyone loves her and remembers her. Think about the cool girl you meet in the bathroom of a club, she lets you borrow her lipstick and gives you an uplifting compliment and makes you feel good about yourself, and you think wow I’d love to get to know her.

THAT’s the impact of self confidence, it’s this luminosity that’s so addictive and that draws everybody in.

In dating too, you will have the best outcome if you carry yourself with utmost confidence knowing that you’re adding more and contributing to anyone who walks into your life.

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For all the people that:

•feel like they wasted their potential

• feel like they could've been something more

• feel like they could've done better,

• feel they could've made the people around them more proud of them

• feel like they could've made a better use of their situations and opportunities

• regret the chances that they didn't take

Don't beat yourself up for it, you did the best you could at the moment to survive, and you did, and I'm proud of you for surviving. Sometimes its hard to see opportunities when you're focused on just making it through. Your time will come, a time where you feel like you can live and don't constantly have to survive and feel like every day is another hardship. Im proud at you for surviving.