a woman's love is not special
a woman can virtually fall in love with anyone to fill an emotional void, in the same way a man can sleep with anyone to fill a se*ual craving
if you truly understand what i'm about to explain you will become a free woman, and decades of social conditioning and romance brainwashing will lift from your mind
a woman's love is. NOT. special
and make no mistake that yes, a woman's love can transform a man's life, nourish him, lift him to new heights, and make his health, finances and confidence flourish
but WHO a woman falls in love with is never special
women have the ability to fall in love with pretty much anyone
there are men behind bars for m*rder, r*pe and they still have wives and girlfriends writing to them every month and waiting for them to be released
i've seen women fall in love with all types of men, homeless men, bums, drunks, violent men, men with gross hygiene, misogynists, men who are literally gay and the list goes on
if a woman is desperate enough she will project love onto anyone
in the face of desperation nothing is too unappealing, disgusting or repulsive,
a starved man will gnaw on his fellow man's own flesh just to sustain himself
love (and beneath it the evolutionary instinct to procreate), is much like lust in the sense it can momentarily blind you and have you choosing whoever to fulfill it
in the same way a woman's body prepares itself to host a child and get pregnant every month, regardless if the "seed" is coming from a one night stand, abusive person, felon etc
a woman craving love and validation can seek to fulfill that need through anyone
have you ever broken up with an ex and looked back to think, he wasn't all that, was I blind?
the face card that you thought was lethal? now that you're broken up and the fog has cleared up you realize he was average looking at best
the jokes that used to make you laugh? you now realize they weren't even that funny
women can pretty much grow to love anyone, with the right amount of desperation, proximity and delusion, anyone can become THE one
love and the very chemicals it releases in the brain is capable of completely shapeshifting our perception of a person just to fulfill our momentary need for "connection" and love
reddit is full of women complaining that their husbands aren't romantic, doesn't buy them flowers, mocks their hobbies, makes them pay 50/50, but these same women will proceed to say their husband is a good guy deep down and stay with him
it's almost as if love truly is meaningless and doesn't reflect some noble selection but just a need to be validated
understand that love is a force/energy that needs to be channeled into something, think of it this way
imagine a painter, who has so much creative energy, who needs to channel it towards creating art, he has paint and brushes but no canvas, he'll pretty much use anything to channel that energy that's making him restless, he'll paint on the wall, the floor, or even his body to get his "vison" out
in the same way, a woman in need of emotional validation will project that onto any willing (and sometimes unwilling) participant, think of huda from love island "falling" for jeremiah while simultaneously complaining that he does nothing romantic for her, so what did you exactly fall in love with? almost as if you've just decided he was the one who will receive your love and didn't care if you were getting anything back
some men use women like human fleshl*ghts just to get the arousal out of their system and in that same way some women will use men as emotional fleshl*ghts to fulfill their need to be loved and validated regardless if the actual relationship is advantageous or not
whenever I hear women say "but I loOove him" I just have to laugh
i've personally seen women in my life fall for the opposite of their type, short or tall, fat or muscular, rich or poor, women aren't nearly picky as they pretend to be and we have the ability to love "anything"
loving a man is meaningless, if you were to be confined with a man for 1 month with no other human interaction you'll probably fall in love, it means nothing, the true measurement of love should be what you're getting out of it, that's why I always say, you can grow in love but FIRST secure an advantageous partnership
is this person making your life easier?
is he alleviating burdens?
is he buying back your time so you can free yourself up to more fulfilling endeavours?
is your health, confidence and self worth flourishing in his presence?
are your finances lookin better now that he's in your life?
forget about love, ask any divorced or married woman, the "spark" fades, the banging body and physique fades, and when that man is not contributing anything to your life, all you'll feel is resentment
