Nika’s Nuggets

34 • awareness coach • dutch born • chilean flair • queer

[nikasnuggets]

Hi, I’m Nika!

I’m an awareness coach who adores the black sheep of the flock. We often slip between the cracks, trying to fit in and at the same time struggling to live a life we love. We stand out in ways that seem to bother others and, as a result, we adjust and readjust until we lose sight of who we are and what we want.

Black sheep are deliberately put into a flock to accustom the rest to “different” and moving shadows, keeping them calm(er) when exposed to new situations or around the shepherd’s dog(s). I loved learning this, cause it immediately relieved some of the pressure of fitting in. I’m here deliberately to make sure the rest don’t scare so easily. We’re here to safeguard the rest.

So, are you ready to step into who you really are and help save the world in your own way?

DM for more information on my program “Night Skilled” or single sessions, and check out my website for other services:

Nomadic Nika

Nomadic Nika

Check out my Etsy store for more spiritual materials such as rituals for milestones in women’s (inclusive! There’s even ritual especially to celebrate transition!) lives:

WyrdWonder - Etsy

Shop Wyrd: lotsbestemming, vreemd + Wonder: onverklaarbaar by WyrdWonder located in Grave, The Netherlands.

LGBTQ+ friendly. Zero tolerance for racism, terfs, and other such anti-human ideologies. People are people first, foremost, and always.

Blank and ageless blogs will be blocked.

[free-my-mindd]

[pradadada6]

Learning how to stay calm when you feel disrespected is a different kind of growth.

[whimsykey]

IF THE ROUTINE NO LONGER SERVES, YOU MUST ALTER THE PATTERN, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?? YOUR LIFE STARTS WITH YOU

[raylangivins]

[queerspacepunk]

not to be all "these two words will change your life" or whatever, but I promise you, programming in "good catch!" as your response to people correcting you/pointing out errors or whatever removes so much friction from interactions, and comes with a delightful happy meal toy of "not hating yourself so much for making mistakes"

[madgastronomer]

I use "I stand corrected" a lot. The mild silliness of the outdated language makes it work for me.

[knitmeapony]

I had a high school science teacher who would say "if you admit you're wrong and change your mind..." and the whole class would respond back "... you aren't wrong anymore!"

And when a kid would assert something incorrect In class, he wouldn't tell them they were wrong, he would help lead them to the right answer and then when they admitted/ accepted the new information, he'd say "now we're both right! Nice work!"

For a bunch of gifted kids whose identity and reputation often was staked on knowing more than most people, it was a great safety valve. No shame in making a mistake, because if you accept it you have learned! Now you are smarter! It always made me feel better.

[rawhoneybliss]

Even if you're scared, don't be afraid to let a good thing happen to you. It might change your life in the best way.

[estrellah]

[bhloomest]

[petaltexturedskies]

via kitagar instagram 💌

[vollzeitherz-deactivated2026012]

Emotions aren’t masculine or feminine. they’re human. normalize them.

[milkandvoid]

[vollzeitherz-deactivated2026012]

as you get older, you start realizing that you are not always right and there’s a lot of things you could have handled better and many situations where you could have been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person.

[wetheurban]

Breathe. You don't have to borrow stress from a future that hasn’t happened yet.

[bloodbornebutch]

please don’t forget you’re loved. anxiety lies. people care. you are loved. It’s ok.

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

idk who needs to hear this rn but relapsing doesn’t mean you’ll never get better. it doesn’t make you a failure. it makes you a human on their healing journey.

[sixgrl]

[sunsbleeding]