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Holding onto old grievances often hurts us far more than the people who caused them, but choosing to let go can feel difficult without the right guidance. Embracing a compassionate, tenderhearted approach to life helps soften hard feelings and creates real space for inner peace. Ashley D. Wille published an encouraging article titled Forgiving as the Lord Forgives: Being Kind and Tenderhearted that dives into the transformative power of spiritual grace. The post offers practical wisdom on replacing anger with understanding in daily interactions. It is a beautiful read for anyone looking to heal relationships or lighten their heart. Link to learn more below:
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I’ve decided to fully be my own Muse—and that took a life time to accept.
Because I always sought creative refuge in other people; including their ideas. It’s the Neptune in me: I have the ability to effortlessly embody artistic vision. I just wasn’t discerning in whom it belonged to.
There’s a rage inside of me to be who I’ve always imagined. I have a distinct memory of being fascinated by Digimon in childhood and lying back on my bed, looking up at the ceiling without really seeing it, and imagining growing wings. To evolve into someone truly beautiful.
I loved creating worlds around people too. I crafted narratives and made them much more fascinating, noble, and well-intentioned than they really were. In combination—these are talents. I learned that by becoming what others wanted and seeing the beauty in them, it meant that their greatest expression is being my own world.
I’ve always known who I am on some deep level. But I made me uncomfortable. My bones felt larger, my stature seemed strange to myself, and I constantly monitored who was aware of me like I’d grown eyes out the back of my neck.
And despite all that discomfort, the grislier and more difficult to swallow truth was that the ‘others’ watching me knew I was special long before I did.
They tried to harvest or be close to me in subtle or unsubtle ways. Even if it meant giving me advice to give them the satisfaction that if I centered their counsel, it meant I’d center them when others wouldn’t. But in hindsight, I learned that my core essence burns so vividly and high octane that people will conspire and lie to be in my presence.
No one ever looks down on me. They’ve always looked up.
Now I understand why.
To me, beauty and presence are frequencies. They’re not a weight, a skin type, bone structure, or a standard of beauty discreetly designed with predators in mind. They’re visual weights that can be felt beyond logic; they’re spiritual. Invoking natural fascination and inspiration. And I’ve decided I’m comfortable with being seen while decentering desirability.
I only aim to be desirable to myself. I no longer exist wondering if a random guy fiddling on his phone as I’m walking by finds me attractive. While I can manifest that he, and every guy ever, can—I find it hollow. It’ll inevitably happen because I’m not blind. But I’m more interested in existing as something much, much higher.
Being beautiful isn’t about being conquerable to me anymore. When awe or lust accompany devotion, you’re transported into a new space that holds that captivation. You forget that the world exists and you simply just behold something—that’s what true beauty is to me. It’s ethereal and effortlessly transformative. You’re not the same person afterward. That’s what I’ve decided to naturally invoke.
That’s why attraction alone isn’t satisfying to me. You need to be moved and shifted. And I sincerely believe that’s why being perceived was so hard for me. In addition to relentless bullying, harassment, and sexual assault I experienced, I was conditioned to believe that my zenith of worth was encompassed in a second’s worth of flat assessment. And if I’ve checked boxes that will randomly rearrange, add, and subtract from themselves when we least expect it. I reduced myself to how I compare to others.
I’m simply incomparable. I’m a world to experience and I’m meant to be seen and felt viscerally. By being my own muse, I’ve embodied the power to do that. Not for empty validation but to genuinely symbolize magic in motion. Esoterics. Walking enchantment with swaying hips of glamour. Being hunched over when we want to be but not confining our experiences to that. Because glamour is more about how the inner world shows itself and reveals how its been nurtured. Tended to, stroked, held, and deeply adored.
I’m both a world and a living, rich, and weighted experience as a woman. A cosmos that breathes. I’m everything that I knew I secretly was deep down but lived too fearfully to embody. I’m no longer going to suppress who I am because I find that it simply...takes too much energy to pretend that I’m not special.
I thank all my harvesters for teaching me that I am a force of nature. And I’m a leader to the woman who is ferociously her own muse who centers her love in herself. Her needs and why she needs them instead of simply being told that a man finds her worthy.
It is my greatest pleasure to present Myself. Not for approval, but to exist in radiance.
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