im really not quite sure how to phrase this, but the way some of yall treat southern and midwestern queers and people of color sounds to me like yall dont actually value us as community members and victims of the same oppressive systems yall claim to hate so badly. now is not the time to tell queer and trans people in kansas to move away, to pack their shit and never look back. they know, theyve been aware for a very, very long time, the state of human rights in the united states has only declined since the new presidential term began, and we've had these same conversations for far longer. northern and western queers pretending it isnt that big of a deal to just leave is, in fact, an issue, and yall arent helping. these are our HOMES and a lot of yall will never understand the reality of loving a home that will never love you back. growing up in a liberal area is a privilege in itself, it comes with its own struggle because nowhere is free of poor legislation and societal prejudice, but there's a difference between living in a safe haven state and living in a state thats actively trying to track, detransition, and kill you; there's a difference between living in a historically very blue state and living in a state that has made your DRIVERS LICENSE null and void overnight with no warning for the simple act of changing your gender marker to reflect your identity. yall do not care when our states strip us of our personhood, yall do not care when our states make it impossible for trans feminine people to go to the fucking bathroom, yall do not care when our states make it impossible for transmasculine people to get their hormone therapy without risking prison time, yall do not care when our states force us into corners and make us choose between living inauthentically, living with a constant target on our backs, or just straight up killing ourselves. "just move away" has never and will never be feasible for every person, and even if every trans and queer and black and brown person had the option, we still have a right to want to exist in OUR communities that WE built through blood and sweat and tears. we have a right to our music and art and food and heritage, and you do not get to make blanket statements about how all southerners and midwesterners are stupid and deserve to suffer when a lot of the things you celebrate are things OUR COMMUNITIES CREATED.
im linking some trans charities based in the united states for anybody willing and able to help; the first few are national charities and organizations, the first one is based around relocation for trans individuals, helping us find jobs, housing, community, and financial assistance while relocating to colorado. beyond that, i break down some charities by state based off of this article by them.us, the states i include in this post are: KANSAS, GEORGIA, FLORIDA, TEXAS, SOUTH CAROLINA, and TENNESSEE. these are states with trans populatuons in dire need of support.
Trans Continental Pipeline (TCP)
"The majority of our work is community building. We are bringing together out of state organizations, national diy networks, local business partners, LGBT organizations, and our queer community to welcome recent transplants. Current initiatives include:
- Developing a queer housing network to find a room/roommate, this will be open to the Colorado queer community but will be immensely helpful to transplants
- Developing our moving assistance grant program to address the largest barrier to moving. We take a holistic approach to granting that determines what it would take to get the transplants here and filling that need With $1,000 dollars in donations, we can help up to 5 people find sanctuary in Colorado. With extremely low overhead characteristic of a grassroots movement, donations are going right back out the door to the people who need it.
- Developing a temporary housing network. By providing temporary housing in with vetted locals, transplants can come here quicker without fear of having nowhere to go or putting further strain on local resources. We are in perpetual need of volunteer housing!
- Continuous outreach to out of state and national organizations to build strong partnerships, disseminate our resources to communities in need, and ease the transition to Colorado. We are always open to suggestions on organizations to contact.
Black Transmen Inc. and Black Transwomen Inc.
Black Transmen Inc (BTMI) is the First National Non-Profit Organization of African American transmen solely focused on acknowledgment, equality, social advocacy and empowering transmen with resources to aid in a healthy transition and human experience
Our mission is to ensure that all transgender men and TLGB individuals are acknowledged and provided equal access and protection under the law thereby enabling them to contribute towards a productive society.
Our vision is to build an organization that secures a quality reputation that is socially responsible and economically beneficial for the transgender community; To remain the indispensable source that brings together people who both need and provide reliable resources that support a healthy identity and; To educate and inspire a social movement that secures human rights, nurtures the human experience and uplifts the soul.
Black Trans Women, Inc (BTWI) is a national nonprofit organization established to specifically address the urgent concerns facing African American trans women in minority communities.
Since 2012, BTWI has committed to empowerment, providing the trans-feminine community with programs and resources to help inspire individual growth and contributions to the greater good of society to meet its mission of uplifting the voice, heart and soul of black trans women.
Dem Bois Inc. was founded in 2016 by Shawn Aaron, a Black trans man who began his medical transition in 2013. Shawn recognized his “transition privilege” when he saw a post from a fellow Black trans man who shared that he might as well accept his chest because surgery would never be affordable for him. That moment inspired Shawn to create Dem Bois Inc. an organization committed to removing financial barriers for trans men of color to access life-saving, gender-affirming care.
Through our Gender Affirming Surgery Grants, we empower trans men of color to live authentically, relieve the burden of dysphoria, and increase visibility by sharing their transitions and stories. By reducing financial stress, our work improves mental health, self-confidence, and overall well-being—propelling trans men of color to thrive within their communities.
Black Trans Advocacy Coalition
Our Mission help improve the black transgender human experience by overcoming violence and injustice in the world through the power, value and love of all people! Our Motto “Become The Change You Want To See In The World”
Trans Lifeline is a grassroots hotline and microgrants 501(c)(3) non-profit organization offering direct emotional and financial support to trans people in crisis – for the trans community, by the trans community.
Trans Lifeline connects trans people to the community support and resources we need to survive and thrive.
We envision a world where trans people have the connection, economic security, and care everyone needs and deserves – free of prisons and police.
Advocates for Trans Equality
Leveraging decades of experience on the frontlines of power, we shift government and society towards a future where we are no less than equal. A4TE was founded in 2024 as the National Center for Transgender Equality (NCTE) and Transgender Legal Defense and Education Fund (TLDEF), two long-time champions for the trans community, merged together as one organization. A4TE builds on their successes to boldly imagine a world where trans people live our lives joyfully and without barriers.
Transgender Law Center is the largest national, trans-led organization working to set all people free. We champion the right of all transgender and gender-nonconforming people to make their own choices and live freely, safely, and authentically. Prioritizing BIPOC, disabled, and HIV+ communities, we advance community-driven strategies that harness trans knowledge, power, and joy to ensure that we all not only survive but thrive at all ages and phases of life.
We envision a world where transgender liberation intersects with racial, economic, and social justice. In this future, every person, regardless of identity or background, has the autonomy to define and pursue their own path to happiness and fulfillment. We believe that our liberation is interconnected and that none of us are free until all of us are free.
Our mission is to help trans youth and adults access necessary, life-saving health and wellness services.
PRISM works to expand access to LGBTQ-inclusive education and sexual health resources for youth in South Florida. It's our goal to make sure everyone feels included in their community, regardless of race, ethnicity, religion, sexual orientation, gender identity, or gender expression.
We advocate to protect and defend equality for all Transgender and LGBTQ+ individuals in South Florida by building trust and relationships with community providers to end discrimination, stigma, and racial disparities to address social determinants of health.
Unity Coalition | Coalicion Unida
UNITY COALITION|COALICIÓN UNIDA (UC|CU) is the organization for the Hispanic, Indigenous & Of Color LGBTQ+ communities,
advancing Equality & Fairness, through Arts, Education, & Awareness, since 2002, with programming in Florida, Colombia & Perú
UNITY COALITION|COALICIÓN UNIDA (UC|CU) es la organización para las comunidades LGBTQ+ hispana, indígena y de color,
avanzando Igualdad desde el 2002, a través de artes, educación y concienca, con liderazgo en la Florida, Colombia y Per ú
Southern Fried Queer Pride
Southern Fried Queer Pride (SFQP) was born out of a lack of space for Black and brown queer folks to build community, a lack of queer art, and in opposition of the established narrative of Southern queers. The South is home to the country’s largest population of LGBTQIQAP2+ individuals, yet we’re confined to a narrative of stigma, statistics, and struggle. SFQP fights that notion, and is aiding in uplifting an honest narrative of resilience, rich history, and vibrance.
SFQP envisions a world where Black and QTPOC artists and leaders are employed and owners in the regional South. Black and brown queer folks are often the drivers of culture, but often lack the autonomy and resources needed to support themselves and their communities. Our mission to uplift them, give them the platforms they need, and help create an environment and culture that sustains them.
We are a grassroots collective of trans caregivers and doulas for trans people having gender-affirming surgeries.
Together, we have a broad history of direct caregiving experience to suit your needs.
As trans people ourselves, we know how important this time is for each of us.
We believe in our community. We believe in caring for each other.
And we know that no one else understands the trans experience like another trans person.
Our Spot KC is a hub for resources that support, advance and equip LGBTQ+ individuals to ensure sustainability and improvement in and of the community.
Our mission is clear, to offer safe, accepting, and affirming programming, services, and resources that empower the LGBTQ+ community. We strive to build a world where everyone can feel valued, supported, and empowered to be their true selves.
The Center of Wichita’s current focus is securing resources and educational opportunities for Wichita’s LGBTQ+ community.
We have a central meeting place for people and organizations interested in LGBTQ+ awareness, we are continuing to grow an LGBTQ+ library, and have literature and contact information for other LGBTQ+ organizations throughout the city and state. We hope to continually expand to make available many more resources for all of our community.
Mission
To improve the quality of life for all LGBTQ+ people in Upstate, South Carolina.
Vision
A thriving Upstate, SC community where all LGBTQ+ people are strong, safe, and successful.
The mission of the Harriet Hancock LGBT Center is to provide education, social support and resources related to current and evolving concerns of the LGBTQAI+ community in South Carolina.
The Harriet Hancock LGBT Center is dedicated to fostering a safe and inclusive space that supports, educates and builds resilience and collaboration among the LGBTQAI+ community, allies, and neighbors in the Greater Columbia and Midlands region.
For nearly 40 years, OUTMemphis has provided community, refuge, and dedicated support for LGBTQ+ individuals of all ages. Today, we are the only organization of our kind in the region.
Founded in 1989, OUTMemphis was a community member-driven, volunteer-run project for our first two decades, reliant on the teamwork of the LGBTQ+ Memphis community to create a shared space—whether a storefront on Madison or the basement of a volunteer’s home—to gather and be simply In 2008, supporters and leaders purchased our bungalow community center on Cooper Street, began to hire full-time staff and formalized programs. Over the last five years, OUTMemphis has grown from a staff of 8 to a team of 23, built our Youth Empowerment Center, opened our Donation Center facility, and began conducting lifesaving direct services and driving forward relentless advocacy through the hardest obstacles of the modern LGBTQ+ movement.
My Sistah’s House was founded in 2016 by two transgender women of color, Kayla Gore and Ellyahnna C. Wattshal, who sought to bridge a gap in services for transgender and queer people of color (TQPOC) in Memphis, TN. in response to a crisis they were witnessing among their own community members.
Executive Director, Kayla Gore, converted a six-bedroom house she owns into an emergency housing facility with eight beds available for TLGBQ people in need of shelter. My Sistah’s House primarily serves TGNC people of color, many of whom have recently been released from incarceration, are experiencing intimate partner violence, and/or are experiencing homelessness or housing insecurity.
Expanding on our emergency housing program, MSH volunteer staff set up a bail fund for incarcerated trans women in the area and began offering our clients advocacy, legal, and multi-level resource assistance to help them secure permanent housing and stable income.
Fiesta Youth is a secular organization that serves LGBTQ+ youth, their families, and their allies. Our goal is to empower youth to build a future where ALL people are accepted, affirmed, and loved as they are. We create safe spaces for meetings, events, trainings, and programming that aims to support our youth and grow together as a community.
Transgender Education Network of Texas
TENT is an organization dedicated to furthering gender-diverse equality in Texas. We work to accomplish this through education and networking in both public and private forums. Through our efforts, we strive to halt discrimination through social, legislative, and corporate education.
Trans Pride Initiative is working to provide assistance and support for transgender and gender diverse persons in areas of healthcare, housing, employment, education, and public accommodations.
TPI undertakes our efforts with a vision of creating a world where all identities related to gender are free from stigma, where relationships are subject to no administrative regulation beyond that of individual agency and desire, and where all individuals may freely express themselves in terms of gender and relationships without fear of violence.
if you actually want to help with support and relocation, please consider checking out these organizations and work toward educating yourself on the experiences of queer people, especially black queer people, in the south and midwest. if you're only going to moan and groan about how we're all stupid and lazy and poor, you can feel free shut the fuck up and move on.
if you read this far, thank you, and if youre a trans person, especially a black or brown trans person, in need of support, i encourage you to add to this post and link your commissions, shops, services, or other pay links, regardless of where you live in the world.
here are my links if you're interested in supporting me as i continue to live my life as a biracial queer person in the south
any further resources for charities or educational sources are much appreciated and encouraged
