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Please. Write it. Write the thing. Even if you feel like it's shit. Even if you think no one will read it. Even if no one reads it. Even if you think the words make no sense. Even if it breaks your heart. Especially if it breaks your heart.

Please. Write it.

tomhoppusdelonge

sorry for the mixed signals I don’t know what I want or what I’m doing mostly

#I said yes to a coffee date and in the middle I realized I didn't really care what the guy had to say and I was just excited about the idea #Of a date bc I've never been asked out by anyone ever before #🫠🙃🤡

e-cryptid-deactivated20180601

It’s okay to not want to have sex ever. It’s okay to never even try it.

thefisherqueen

I was 23 before it even occurred to me that not starting with sex ever was an option. The feeling of relief was so great I actually cried.

You don’t have to if you don’t want to. You can have a fine live without ever having sex, I promise you.

impostoradult

Also, it’s okay to never date anyone ever. It’s okay to never even try it if you don’t want to.

I wrote a master’s thesis on intentionally single people, and the number of them that said in various ways, “I didn’t know not dating people was even an option at first” was absolutely tragic. They honestly thought they had no choice and it never occurred to them that opting out was even a possibility available to them.

People honestly believe these are life experience you are required to have AND THEY ARE NOT.

You can just not have sex. You can just not date people. You can completely by-pass one or both of those things. Neither of those things are required to be healthy, happy, normal, mature, fulfilled, or any of the other bullshit notions that get attached to these things.

fordtato

Sex positivity is about bodily agency which includes the choice to NOT/NEVER have sex, so inclusion of asexual/celibate/sex repulsed people will always be a pillar of any real discussion of sex positivity and sexual freedom.

nocturnal-phantom

whats the point of getting plants if they keep dying

nocturnal-phantom

my fav plant is probably going to die bc it's being eaten by some tiny cunts and I won't be able to save it from it's untimely death. If it dies I'm getting rid of everything fuck this stupid shit

whats the point of getting plants if they keep dying

reachperfection

estrogenesis-evangelion

if you've never been clinically depressed, this is the short version

beardedmrbean

lesbianmarrow

free use is kind of a funny kink bc it relies on the idea that everybody wants to touch you and have sex with you but what if they don't. what if you tell everybody at the party you're free use but they all ignore you and mind their own business

tunnaa-unnaa

taking notes

oneheadtoanother

tachyon-log

(USAmerican trying to imagine a societal environment) Okay, so picture a highway,

fishmech

inability to correctly perceive 3d objects is in fact far more dangerous when someone is driving a car next to you then when they're like, sending emails to you.

bunniope

can we focus on the gnome for a second

bunniope

wait sorry i was not wearing my glasses. that is a cat

ladyofspoons

these are the people i have to share a highway with

fyterx

satan-offical

would you still love me if I spin you right round baby right round like a record baby right round right round

gorbling

Im enjoying the longevity of tumblrs recontextualization style of humor. a seemingly innocuous post followed by like "posts that a gnome would make" or like "are you a phone"

gorbling

hapalopus

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