[onlinecounsellingcollege]

“You need to learn to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life … work on the mind.”

— Elizabeth Gilbert

[theambitiouswoman]

[theambitiouswoman]

I’m going to be extremely honest with y’all because I see that a lot of people don’t get it. But when someone loves you, the LAST THING they will do is hurt you. Hurting you feels like they are hurting themselves. And they will definitely never blame you for your actions, even if you’re wrong, even if you’re not wrong but you’re hurt.

If you’ve never experienced this it’s okay. But this reality very much exists and it saddens me to see what everyone settles for and puts up with these days and call love.

Love is an easy word to say and a hard word to prove. Don’t be so thirsty for love that you fall for words and justify toxic actions.

[grungegoths]

[disastergaykillua]

I know it’s been said before but I literally can’t get over the fact that Killuas hatsu is called Godspeed and Gon made his up on accident by stuttering

[londonfoggs]

senioritissss. had to read some articles about the recent uptick in conservative school board candidates to get angry enough to work on my thesis

[paintiq]

I’m absolutely in love with my new set-up ✨

[id1367]

[programaticallydelicious]

Maybe he’s ordering a decaf because he has a heart condition, and you’re about to give him a heart attack and send him to the hospital.

Or maybe he’s just ordering a decaf.

Maybe she’s ordering sugar free because she’s diabetic, and you’re about to put her six feet under.

Or maybe she’s just ordering sugar free,

Maybe they’re ordering non-dairy because they’re intolerant, and you’re about to ruin their day. Maybe they’re allergic, and you’re about to sponsor an all black event in an open field.

Or maybe they’re just ordering non-dairy.

Maybe they ordered gluten free because they can’t process it, and you’re about to destroy their digestive tract.

Or maybe they’re just ordering gluten free.

Maybe they’re ordering this way just because they don’t want the food, for whatever reason.

But are you willing to bet their life on it?

[desolator-thedragon]

Also, please remember that some people with sensitivities may get sick hours to days later. Just because they don’t have an immediate reaction doesn’t mean they are “exaggerating” or “lying”.

Whether illness or personal preference— just make their dang food the way they ask!!!

[politicandhp]

Who is this post for? Are food/coffeeshop employees regularly sneaking sugar and caffinated coffee out to their customers? Os this a thing thats happening?

[fairytalepsuedonym-deactivated2]

A while back there was a post on an anaonymous cofessions about about a person who said whenever she sees a thin woman ordering a diet soda she just gives em a regular bc they dont “need to be dieting.”

[beaniebaneenie]

Every coffee shop I have EVER worked in had at least one barista who would regularly change orders without the customer’s knowledge or permission, for reasons like

she doesn’t need to be dieting

Ugh, non dairy milk is so hard to steam, and drinking soy is a fad anyway

Life is short, eat the damn cheese bitch, it won’t kill you

I’d have to go open another bag of the gluten-free, and I don’t wanna walk all the way to the back room to go get it

At least once, I caught it maybe 3 seconds from disaster- someone with a life-threatening dairy allergy had ordered a soy latte. She told me at the register that it was a deadly allergy. I even wrote on the cup “ALLERGY- NO DAIRY”.

I caught the barista in question rolling her eyes and saying under her breath, “skinny bitches and their fake allergies, trying to get shit for free” (this particular coffee shop had a policy where a dairy allergy meant you didn’t pay the extra fee for non-dairy milk).

I saw the barista rinsing the dairy pitcher, put 2+2 together, and yelled out to the customer to stop her. She hadn’t started drinking yet, but she did lick the drips on the lid- she still needed her Epi-Pen and to go to the hospital.

Suffice to say that barista was fired on the spot… but there are many more people like that. Far too many.

Make the food/drinks people order, the way they fucking order them.

Even if she had just been trying to save the 50 cents…. so what?

Don’t bet people’s lives on your decisions.

[defiantsuggestions]

No child deserves to feel like their existence is a burden.

No child deserves to feel like they shouldn't exist.

No child deserves to hate themself.

No child deserves to live their life in fear of angering their parents.

No child deserves to live their life in fear of disappointing their parents.

Children deserve to be loved. They deserve to feel safe, cared for, and wanted. They deserve to enjoy their life.

It is never the child's fault when the parent fails to provide these things. It is the parents fault.

The child never asked to be born. It is the parent who wanted this, and therefore it is the parent's responsibility.

[777honey]

I LOVE BOUNDARIES AND I LOVE SAYING NO

[mentalhealth]

sending love to anyone with a sore heart today

[starei]

hug me so tenderly that I melt into you

[galina]

Our table finally arrived, it’s so nice! I was really torn between this type of wood and a darker finish but I’m glad I went with this because it suits the room so well. Having somewhere to work that is not on the floor is a nice change, but we still don’t have any chairs so perching on a stool for now :’-)

[mercifulstudie]

— before and after

[darkmacademia]

makes a connection between disparate academic concepts: I am shakign very fast I am so intelligent and can see god

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Most people want to know when they're making you uncomfortable so that they can apologize and stop. It's only abusers and toxic people who get upset when someone establishes a boundary. Most people want you to do it.