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yuyu-bubu

i saw this in my youtube recommended feed

mark your calendars gamers

ladycreep-deactivated20201127

talkshows-deactivated20150818

the anniversary of library paste man’s death is in four days.

basketghost

One hundred and ten years ago to the day. Amazing. Incredible.

nowlle

Pfft, someone really just called me a TERF. That's a first, how exactly can one be a Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist If I ain't even a Radical Feminist to start with?

nowlle

This is what people are upset about, the fact that I find this type of thing unpleasant, besides just the history, watching a man dress up like a caricature of any woman feels insulting.

Come to think of it tho, besides not being a Radical Feminist, every drag queen I've seen has made it clear they are still a man. Like they aren't even trans so... none of that TERF stuff makes sense here? What?

Still not a Radical Feminist y'all not sure where you're getting that from

ndiecity-deactivated20241101

the only oil id consider essential is olive

thejoyfulbee

the older i get the less i want to spend my time and energy on social media - with tumblr being mostly the exception. people put an alarming amount of stock into how they’re represented online, especially as it pertains to our current political climate, but it’s incredibly draining and usually pointless. things matter so much more in person.

Pfft, someone really just called me a TERF. That's a first, how exactly can one be a Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist If I ain't even a Radical Feminist to start with?

#Its what I get for disliking minstrel shows i guess

dark-sappho

yeah.

radwolf76

kristina100000

why does ty dolla sign look like fiona apple it can't be because im high

kristina100000

it's the eyes. im going to fuckig bed

laserbitch

slopaganda

the key to being a hater and not have it be corrosive to your spirit is that you gotta balance it out by openly loving things too. trashing shit is only respectable if you’re also capable of joy and not just oozing negativity 24/7. also when you’re being positive you’re not allowed to do it with ironic detachment. all sincerity all the time babey

devilrose

kirbies

dispatchesfromtheclasswar

strinak

tags from @hiddenramen

ossuary-garden

aight y’know what FINE. I’m gonna make the damn post.

since roe got overturned y’all motherfuckers have done nothing but screech about “WELL WHAT IF YOU WERE RAPED WHAT THEN” & other equally shitty scenarios.

I was raped, and I got an abortion. I am part of that 1% of cases y’all love to use to prop up your bullshit arguments.

I did it without anesthesia. I drove myself home. I was numb for probably another two years after. when it finally did hit me, I was the most suicidal I had ever been and I stayed that way until probably last year. all total it’s been eight years since it happened.

the clinic I went to didn’t offer me help. they didn’t give me options. they didn’t have a post-op checkup. no one gave a shit. no one stopped my trafficker, no one found out, even my closest family didn’t even know until I finally escaped. it was just me, alone, throwing up in a trash can and sitting in post op until the dizziness went away enough for me to drive.

the fact that it was so easy for me to get an abortion by myself (even in a red state, no questions asked) made it easier for my trafficker to slide under the radar. because no one asked questions about why I wanted to end my pregnancy, he got away with what he had done. because no one cared enough to step in and stop me, he went on to abuse me for almost another two years. if someone had just given a shit, maybe I would have escaped that much earlier. maybe he would have faced more severe consequences. maybe I wouldn’t be so fucked up.

don’t you fuckers ever pretend you give a shit about people like me. if you did, you would have been supporting crisis centers, pro-life pregnancy centers, and places that actually care about the situations that women are in when they deal with unexpected or traumatic pregnancies. you would be encouraging pregnant women and telling them that they ARE strong enough, they ARE brave enough, that they are loved and they will be okay and supported and that having a kid will not kill their career or end their school life. you would be telling them that a disabled child, an adopted child, an unexpected child is not unworthy of life itself just because that life will be difficult.

on that note, fuck you, life will ALWAYS be difficult. but you can make it an enjoyable fight, or a miserable truce. you can spit the blood out of your mouth and stick a roll of dimes in your hand and hit back harder or you can lay down and let shit curbstomp you and swallow your own broken teeth. the difference is in how you step outside of yourself and into the lives of the people around you. the difference is in how you love, and if you actually love people, you will never advocate for their death.

stop using situations like mine to excuse your own cognitive dissonance. I’m sick of y’all’s shit.

queensectonia

OH YEAH did i ever tell you all about that time i did some disgustingly rough math to figure out how big the halberd is, using its size in brawl and comparison to the great fox as a basis?

because i did.

it’s 2.6 kilometres long.

and using some even rougher math, so this figure is guaranteed to be under estimate by some margin:

it’s got a 5.7 kilometre wingspan.

that’s 1.6 miles in length and 3.5 miles in span

anyway this is one of my favourite facts of all time it never fails to make me laugh hysterically

nowlle

I just looked up on Google maps how long a distance that is by using my commute route as a refrence and wOW.

humming-fly

a variety of meta knight incorrect quotes all at once since i was too lazy to make separate posts happy meta monday everyone

(also was anyone gonna tell me meta knight goes to literal hell in one of the light novels or did i just have to find that out myself)

smoldragonborn

“we need to stop the stigma towards drug users and addicts” and “we need to challenge the idea that being sober makes you boring” and “we need to stop acting like binge drinking to the extent you’re doing medical damage is fun and normal for young people” are all ideas that can and should coexist.

fatfemmefreaquency

just so we’re clear, the threshold for “binge drinking to the extent you’re doing medical damage” is waaaay lower than you think.

I work in an obstetrician and gynaecologist’s office. we have to tell patients on a regular basis that they are binge drinking weekly when they think they are simply consuming a normal amount of alcohol on the weekends.

having more than 3 drinks in a single sitting if you have an estrogen based endocrine system is a binge that is medically significant.

having more than 5 in a sitting is a medically significant binge for someone with a testosterone based endocrine system.

every time you do this, it significantly impacts your risk of getting breast cancer, and damages your liver. it takes time to recover from that liver damage. if you’re having a 3-5 or more drink binge on a weekly basis, you are an alcoholic, medically speaking, and your liver is not recovering.

again: the bar for what binge drinking is, medically, is so much lower than what you think it is.

alcohol is a really toxic substance and not something you should fuck around with.

again: if you have an estrogenized hormone system (common for most women), then 3 drinks is a binge. if you have a testosteronized hormone system (common for most men), then 5 drinks is a binge.

anything above that number, consumed as frequently as weekly or more, and you’re medically a binge drinking alcoholic.

also, if you’re drinking any quantity of alcohol 6 days a week or more, that’s another threshold at which, medically speaking, you meet the definition of alcoholism. your liver needs more days without alcohol in your system than just one a week to recover and be healthy.

I don’t say any of this to shame anyone—to me, alcoholism or substance use disorders aren’t a sign of weakness or moral failing. and most of us genuinely don’t know this stuff.

rather—I point this out because it’s important to reduce harm, and find ways to live healthier, happier lives. there is a life outside of constant binge drinking. it’s not always easy to find it. but it’s out there. you deserve a life where your emotional needs are met by something other than alcohol, and a life in which your liver is healthy, and the ways you cope and celebrate and find joy don’t put you at increased risk of cancer.

qweerhet

also–even if alcohol is the only way you can self-medicate, or if you choose to go on with your alcohol usage anyway regardless of other options–you still deserve to know what it’s doing to your body.

information is key. you don’t have to stop drinking, but the utter lack of education on alcohol + the normalization of binge drinking in current society leads to many people drinking without any idea of what it’s doing to their bodies.

addicts deserve accurate medical information regardless of what they decide to do with it. for some people, losing liver function is worth the benefits they get from binge drinking, but they can’t make that choice if they don’t know what the consequences are to begin with.