leny . 30yo femme leather queer . please do not follow if you’re under the age of 18, this blog is occasionally NSFW . gnc & genderqueer tme . sexually attracted to women, nonbinary people & other dykes sometimes into leathersex with folks of all genders that said: i am not really attracted to men, queer or otherwise . single but not particularly looking emotionally underavailable switch bottom, pillow princess-ish . not remotely good at virtual communication i will forget to respond to messages takes frequent social media breaks . simp for dykes on bikes & leather doms . my own pronouns aren’t particularly important to me but I’ll always respect yours they/them is the most “accurate” choice if you care to refer to me in any meaningful way . i am not going to give you a detailed list of: my disabilities mental illness or health conditions my political views my kinks my triggers where i live if you’re deeply curious: i’m sure there are posts here and there that mention some of the details. snoop if you must . terfs & other fascists will be blocked on sight . respectability politics gays will also be blocked i’m not fucking with that nonsense . no quarter given to sealioning, devils advocating or other unserious tomfoolery . mutuals and anyone running an nsfw blog can ask for the url of my slutty(er) blog
Made this post about 15 minutes after the repair guy who fixed the pump on my dishwasher packed up his tools and left, as the dishwasher was whirring along doing my dishes from that morning.
He said the exact same thing, which I did not know before that, so spreading this knowledge.
Hate how much A Little Treat has infested me. Any small discomfort and I'm immediately like oooo maybe exchanging money for goods and services will fix this situation.
Male loneliness this, male loneliness that. Have they tried lobotomies? Tranquilizers? Being fingered by medical professionals? Tearing the yellow wallpaper off the walls of the attic room where your husband keeps you locked up?
Whatttt is with the tendency of Tumblr users to seek absolution from every single person who offhandedly posts about disagreeing with something they do
I say this not unkindly, but firmly: to function as a member of a social species, you have to get comfortable with the idea that not everyone will like you
The cat understands the assignment perfectly. The assignment is "dig cool holes with friends". The fact that sometimes the friends find things they like is just a bonus.
"drug seeking" as a patient one of the most dogshit stupid concepts of all time. fuuuck everybody look out this guy came in here expecting medical treatment. better watch out in case he goes to a restaurant and starts food seeking
can we please acknowledge that tma/tme is a meaningful distinction? a justice of the US supreme court is openly saying that it's legal to discriminate against trans women because the same laws do not target trans men. the transmisogyny is what makes it permissible. your transphobia is fine as long as it has carveouts for men.
since i posted this, many comments and tags have accused me of not caring about trans men's feelings. let me go on the record: they are correct; i do not care about men's feelings. i especially don't care about men's feelings when the US Supreme Court rules that categorical bans on trans women's participation in women's sports are constitutional, overturning precedent from multiple lower courts, and establishing a legal basis for weaponizing Title IX against us.
describing this as generalized transphobia flattens out the differences in how variously trans people are variously discriminated against. framing this as transmisogyny correctly focuses our attention on the ways in which discrimination which uniquely targets transfems is weaponized. there will no doubt be downstream effects felt by any number of transmisogyny exempt people, and they will rightly feel upset about the injustices they will experience. i do not want those things to happen, but they will and it will be bad and wrong when they do. but the first people targeted will be those least able to exempt ourselves from transmisogyny, those named explicitly in the majority opinion.
you'll pardon me for not sparing much consideration for future injustices when my sisters and siblings are already suffering, already being cast out and labeled as dangerous, things whose inclusion is a bourgeois luxury reserved only for when we have the time to weigh the complications and the nuance.
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