An introduction of sorts
I want to start by saying hello to you. You can call us Nox if we don't indicate who's fronting. We're a 38-year-old system that has DID, making us traumagenic with a CDD. We're also pro-endogenic because we literally don't see a reason to hate on endogenic systems for existing. We've felt more welcome in mixed origin communities than we do around anti-endos, and believe me, we've been in their spaces before. We can tell the differences between the two of them.
Our body is African American, and we are a trans man. Things are somewhat working out with the spouse, so we're back together for the time being. We're taking care of our cat daughter, Queen. Not to mention we also have borderline personality disorder and autism, if you must know. We used to involve ourselves in syscourse until many-blogs (they're on tumblr) decided to include us in a document about the plural community saying that we're just here to get revenge and that we don't actually care about endogenic systems.
We do care about them, but understand that the things we did in the past may have left people feeling that way, but honestly, we're not here to hate anti-endos, we don't hate them, we hate the way they treat and talk about endogenic systems. Just because you're a trauma survivor does not give you the right to hate other people because their experiences are different than yours. We see endogenic systems as having one big thing in common with us: experiencing being more than one.
That's literally what plural is about when it comes to this community. Plural people all have the common experience of being more than one. And anti-endos want to cry "but alters aren't the only part of DID" and we're like duh everyone is aware of that. Endogenic systems may have day to day struggles. No one is required to put their negative business online to be valid, especially when people will take it and use it against you.
Notes under the cut!
At some point in time, we are going to rewrite the intro post for our blog when things are a bit more stable. Life is hard, but we'll survive through it.
