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Nocturne | 22 | Butch lesbian | she/her I like rain and my goth girlfriend

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[ot3]

i think out of disrespect we should just start using "spamtenna moment" as shorthand for when a nothing tier yaoi ships between side characters somehow manages to eclipse in fandom popularity all of the central character relations of both the main cast and the rest of the side characters that aren't men. i think this should become such a widespread and entrenched form of fandom lingo for insulting ships that the next generation of teens will grow up understanding its meaning and not its origins in the same way teens of my generation used adjective!character parlance long before ever learning what bang paths were.

[beevomit725-deactivated20260512]

If you want more content of a ship or character you like you can always..... (hand motions)..... make it yourself? Instead of trying to shame fans of the big ship just make more content of the things you like. Share art and fanfics of the one you like.

Mlm ships overtake fandoms because the fans are passionate. Try matching that passion instead of trying to act as if they're inferior. 😐

Are they really so inferior if they are Actually Making Art?

[ot3]

shit like this is so fucking intensionally dense. femalash fans are some of the most consistently dedicated and passionate people in any given fan space. and it literally does not matter how much they make and share because, until people who are interested in female characters are not the significant minority in literally every fan space with meaningfully mix-gendered casts, it will never ever be possible for us to produce enough fan works to make up the difference. do you understand that? the gap between how much fan interest there is in female character vs male characters relative to their respective screentime is massive and acting like you can bootstraps you way out of cultural misogyny is just fucking vile. the reason you can say that m/m fans are "actually making art" with the implications that fans of female characters aren't is because like everyone else you're not interested in going out and looking for it. it exists.

here's me not shaming "m/m" fans in general. here's me shaming you specifically: you are either a misogynist, an idiot, or both. you are inferior to me because you are incapable of reflecting on fandom trends as being subject to the same social forces that any other types of group behavior on the planet are. you are thirty years old and your response to women who are frustrated with an extremely noticeable and mathematically backed up male bias in fandom that predates either of us being born is to be dismissive and pass the buck back towards us as if it's our job to become Fanart Sweatshops to try and compensate for how little anyone else gives a shit about us. no matter how central female characters narrative arcs and interpersonal relationships are to the plot of a work, if there are two male characters that are theoretically shippable in proximity to them that character dynamic will immediately become the most widely celebrated one. always. across essentially every piece of media that's developed a real fanbase on the entire planet. why do you think that is, dipshit? use your brain. you've typed enough letters in a row there that you've got to have at least something rattling around in your otherwise empty head

[jockohomo121]

Festival Queen

[itwashotwestayedinthewater]

[itwashotwestayedinthewater]

happy decade to the horrible beast i have wrought

[fduck0]

"Charlie will miss you!"

(totally didnt go insane on the bg by accident and then added charlie last minute)

[thickest-slimiest-antivirus]

this is a drawing i made for an animation project "Machine Love Wes Collab", the type where everyone reanimates part of an existing video. if you would like to participate, let me know and i will connect you :3

my full part:

[jockohomo121]

The fruitfly or the spider, Wes

[fairytaleyaoi]

another wesson up on bluesky for those who wish to see. and can

[shadowlovezyou]

suselle is butchfemme

[contemptible-scoundrel]

THE FRENCH FUJOSHI: and you will put ze tips of your penise togezher, oui? and you will insert yourself into 'iz boyhole, oui?

[lesbianwes]

@nxturn

[spongebob-closeups]

[ninjagofan26]

YOU CAN ONLY REBLOG THIS ONCE A YEAR

[nohoperadio]

Are you still bitter about it sometimes?

yes

no

Voting ended onJun 20

[creature-crow-deactivated202512]

brb trying this

[hyenangel-deactivated20241224]

[blue-the-flyingpyrochef]

[chromegnomes]

[cognitohazardous]

my idea for a shower butler. he lives in your shower and cleans the bathroom, restocks the soap, washes your back, and serves you shower beers. you can talk to him about your day and ask for advice. his suit is completely waterproof.

[mybeingthere]

Mantle, Peruvian, Paracas-Nasca, South CoastEarly, Intermediate Period, Phase 1AD 1-100, Peru, South Coast.

Design: rows of shaman figures with heads thrown back, worked solidly with wool.

Camelid fiber plain weave embroidered with camelid fiber in stem-stitch, 142 x 241 cm (55 7/8 x 94 7/8 in.)

https://collections.mfa.org/objects/36603

[batbetbitbotbut]

This textile is TWO THOUSAND YEARS OLD.

It looks like it could have been made last year. It is SO bright and whole. I am staggered.

[mousidy]

a lot of my disillusionment with the trans "community" comes down to the fact that too many of you take "gender is different from sex" and go "ah ok, so instead of saying women are fragile and men are strong, I should say afabs are fragile and amabs are strong. to be Inclusive"

then you just treat gender like a surface level aesthetic draped over what someone "actually" is. really is indistinguishable from terf rhetoric

[mousidy]

you all need to unpack your bioessentialism, but we also need a better theory of gender than "it's just dressup." I will pick my words carefully here, but the word "gender" itself refers to so many different phenomena that have been lumped together, and we need to un-lump them

[mousidy]

in a feminist context, "gender" has historically referred to externally imposed categorization and the internalization and performance of said categories. in a paper I wrote on this subject, I called this sense of the word "extrinsic gender"

"intrinsic gender," on the other hand, is what I used to refer to the sense of the word "gender" that a lot of trans people are talking about when they discuss social gender dysphoria and euphoria. it's the internal sense of category that's resistant to external impositions

but then we also use the word "gender" to refer to subconscious sex, which is the term Julia Serano coins in Whipping Girl to name the phenomenon we're talking about when we talk about bodily dysphoria. it is the "gender" being "affirmed" by gender affirming healthcare like HRT and bottom surgery

so, "gender" is: a social classing system, a performance, and at least two internal phenomena as well. and I really don't know if it's doing us a service to conflate all of these things!

[mousidy]

a lot of people lately seem to be going heavy on the "performance" use of the word, ignoring (intentionally or otherwise) social classing, intrinsic gender, and subconscious sex. this seems to have led to a lot of "progressive" people treating trans women like men "amabs" who wear womanhood as a costume, and nobody understands why that's wrong because they also think gender is just a performance

[mousidy]

see also "why can't you just be a femboy/feminine man/etc"

[fairytaleyaoi]

SPICY wesson up on bluesky they r being sweet to each other