My Journey As A Sugar Baby

I am a 25 year old black female from NYC. Sugaring one day at a time.. enjoy my journey.

[mattysmithson]

[theluxemiss]

Affirmations

God’s greatest gift is life; and I cherish and honor mine.

I love and accept myself for who I am.

I am the best version of myself, and I am working hard to become even better.

I accept my body exactly the way it is, and I constantly work on improving it.

I am grateful to my body for all the things it does for me.

Every cell in my body is healthy and fit, and so am I.

I set myself free from all the guilt I carry around the food I chose in the past.

I inhale fresh energy that fills my entire being and I exhale all toxins and body fat.

I enjoy life by staying fit and maintaining my ideal weight.

My body is my temple, and I attentively take care of it every day by exercising and eating healthy foods that heal and nourish me.

I have great personal hygiene. Every part of my body always smells great. 

All things lead to my success, happiness, and wealth, no matter what.

Everything I have is in my name and completely paid off. 

All the money that I circulate returns to me multiplied, in a never-ending cycle of increase and enjoyment, thank God.

I always get checks in the mail.

I always have a good standing bank account.

I always have at least $5,000 in my bank account. 

I am a magnet for prosperity, happiness, and abundance.

I am a woman with a tremendous amount of money.

I am financially free, dollars want me.

I am healthy, wealthy, and wise.

I am rich. I see it and feel it. I am rich in love, happiness, success, prosperity and money.

I am so grateful that people want to give me money, even when I don’t need it. 

I am wealthy, I am prosperous.

I can afford to use dollars for my happiness.

I have a perfect credit score.

I have clothes, food, books, entertainment, and whatever I need for health, happiness, friendship, and service to others.

I have everything in abundance.

I have more money than I know what to do with.

I have multiple streams of income. 

I have no question of expenditure.

I have whatever I desire.

I make money at everything that I do. 

I make money every day without any effort. 

I receive large unexpected lump sums of money.

It is so easy for me to make money. 

Money comes to me in expected and unexpected ways.

Money constantly flows to me

My life’s purpose brings me prosperity and happiness.

People always offer me money, they love giving it to me.

Prosperity overflows in my life. 

Wealth constantly flows into my life.

What I feel that I need, I purchase.

Whatever money I use, I get it right back.

I love being my own boss, every day I live my dream. My work fulfills me. I am always in alignment with my life purpose.

I have it all! I’m beautiful, smart, and come and go as I please.

My career allows me to work at my own pace and schedule.

I am always creating new, successful, streams of passive income.

I am so grateful that I have been able to make a living from sharing my gifts.

I have constant success in my business.

Others know and respect my great work ethic.

People trust that I will go above and beyond to get the job done.

I have no problem attaining clients; people seek me for my services.

I love that my line of work allows me to be creative and do what I enjoy. 

There is always work for me to do and money for me to make.

I am a positive resource and people want to do business with me.

I respect my abilities and always work to my full potential.

I am so lucky!

Life is amazing, it is what it should be.

I always told the word “Yes!”

I am always finding money.

Life is always happening FOR me.

Everything is for my greater good. 

Every day, I get something for free.

I get approved for everything I apply for.

Mistakes in transactions or bank errors ALWAYS go in my favor. 

I stay in gorgeous, 4 & 5-star hotels frequently.

Every day I do something that makes me feel good and happy.

I am always early to where I need to be.

I am exactly where I am supposed to be.

Everyone is always polite and kind to me.

I always find the best words to articulate myself. 

I love to meet other people and make new friends.

Every day I meet someone who can help me reach my dreams. 

People value my opinions and views.

People appreciate my innovative ideas and want to help me.

I meet and have relationships with like mined people. 

I have many organic personal relationships and friendships with celebrities, professional athletes, and people of greater influence. 

I have a small, fly group of friends that I go out and travel with. 

My friends always provide support and vice versa. 

I can get any man I want.

I meet and date successful men from many professional backgrounds.

The men I date SPOIL me and enjoy doing so.

I am wined and dined in the finest restaurants.

I receive an enormous monthly allowance.

I have many romantic experiences to places that require a passport, where I stay in 5-star hotels/resorts, enjoy fine dining, multiple shopping sprees, and create endless memories.

I fly out frequently to see the men I’m dating on commercial and private flights at their expense.

I date men who contribute financially and morally to my business endeavors.

I appreciate the random romantic surprises men do for me.

Men are so thoughtful, they are always sending me unexpected gifts of affection. 

I love hanging out and spending time with other wealthy wives and girlfriends.

I love being a spoiled girlfriend/wealthy wife and the perks that come with it.

[goddess-lair]

Words have power, use them wisely.

[ke-ray92-deactivated20201217]

💕Venus in Retrograde Protection Spell💕

May the goddess of love give me extra support with beauty, money, and romance. May I learn and grow from this retrograde, especially in regards to self-love 💕💕💕

[criminallychic]

[red-r0ses]

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[play6irl]

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My dreams 💞

[magickalmenagerie]

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[fucklovepayme]

How to Not Have The Generic Sugar Baby Profile

I’m sorry, but I’m tired of seeing you hoes have the same generic sugar baby profiles and wonder why you’re not getting the responses that you want! We always talk about what “sugar daddies” like to mention on their profiles, but we don’t discuss what sugar babies mention on their profiles that no one gives a fuck about or is a lie. 

Sugar daddies don’t give a damn if you’re “hard-working” or you like to volunteer at animal shelters. You need to make your overall profile stand out from the rest and get the money you deserve from these men! You have to sell yourself as a sexy fun bombshell that every rich man wants to have and will pay for. Men are more focused on how good you look and how you can add to their social lives, save mentioning your volunteer work or your love to read for when you already reeled in a POT and you’re already on your date. You cannot sound boring on your profile, sex sells honey! I got time tonight and I turned on my Pandora, so I’m going to give you tips and tricks on how to have a bomb ass profile bitch!

Avoid using these words/phrases on your “about me” sugar profile:

I’m hard-working

I’m a student in college

I like to work out/I’m fit

I like to (insert generic interest or hobby like read or cook)

I like to go out

I don’t go out a lot

I like to travel

I hope to have a career in ______

I’m _____ years old/I’m young

I’m a princess

I love to be spoiled/pampered

I like to go shopping

What to include in your photo section:

There’s a whole new way of writing your profile to make yourself stand out and attract legitimate SDs, and it involves photos. Anybody can talk shit about how great or attractive they are, but you have to show it to get the results you want on sugaring profiles. Walk the walk, not just talk the talk. For example, instead of mentioning how “fit” you are, show how fit you are in your profile photos! Post at least 2 body pictures, one from the torso up, and another a full body shot. Make sure you look sexy and showing some skin, wearing flattering clothes that accentuates your features or a nice swimsuit. You’re a bad bitch with full lips and smooth skin or “exotic” facial features? Show that face off in your profile pictures. Have one or two selfies with a nice glam makeup look and one photo with a natural makeup look. I’ll make another post on how to take and edit photos for sugar profiles in the future. Don’t just mention how attractive you are in your profile, prove it with clear, nice photos as well. Bonus: Keep two or three “private” risque or swimsuit photos of yourself for serious POTs only. Don’t give away private access to your photos to men who can’t even properly introduce themselves. Private photos adds mystery to your profile and can attract more men.

What to include in your “about me” section:

I cannot stress this enough, YOU HAVE TO REALLY SELL YOURSELF! You are the product and you have to convince these men that you are the one they want. It’s best to build up your persuasive writing skills in order to have the best profile you can. 

Instead of mentioning a bland and generic “I like to go out”, give examples of how you like to go out. Saying, “I spend my leisurely weekends on the roof tops of the best bars in the city and sailing on a yacht in my favorite red bikini, maybe you can join me?”, sounds a lot more exciting than “I like to go out and have fun”. It’ll give the POT an idea of what you really like to do and he’ll be willing you invite you out on a yacht so he can see that red bikini in real life. Your college major is nursing? So say, “Helping and taking care of others are a few of my life passions, so nursing became my college major. Let me nurse you when you’re feeling sick or is stressed from your busy career and personal life, by being your fun sugar baby.” 

You’re smart and educated? Say, “I am current on world events and I can engage in intellectual conversations on several topics that can enlighten us both.” You have to include that POT into your interests/hobbies and your social life. He has to imagine himself doing your favorite interests/hobbies with you. If you don’t like going out, it sounds a lot better just to say, “Who needs to go out when we can make our own fun indoors with a nice cooked meal and cuddle while watching a great movie!” You like to travel? Say, “Let’s spend our summers in the Caribbean with cocktails and enjoying the view of the beautiful blue beach and sun.” Get it now?

What to include in your “what I’m seeking” section:

Now this is the part you can mention how you struggling to pay tuition or need help with rent, but please don’t come off as demanding, picky, and most importantly, desperate! Don’t say, “I need help paying for student loans/college tuition”, say, “I’m seeking a generous man that sees the value and importance of a college education, and would love to invest in me to reach my goals and start a successful career.” Please for the love of God, Allah, and Buddha, don’t say, “I want to be spoiled like a princess and go shopping everyday”, that is cringe-worthy as fuck! You sound like an entitled brat. Instead, just say, “Don’t like shopping? I can make the experience a lot more fun and sexy for you as I try on dresses, heels, and lingerie for you while shopping downtown. I can become your personal shopper and spark your closet with clothes that will make you look great!” You want to have your own business? Say something like, “I am seeking to have a business-minded SD that would love to invest in my future business endeavors in _____.” The point is to convince the POT/SD to spend his dough on you and that he will be getting something in return other than sex, like appreciation and gratification. Mention how you will show your appreciation and add value for the right man that takes care of you, by showing physical affection and by other means. That’s the point of a mutually beneficial arrangement. Make sure to put a disclaimer that intimacy will occur organically and when an arrangement is in place, SA salts are notorious for expecting sex on the first date, especially without paying you cash. A real SD is not going to rush into sex and has to prove his worthiness by spending cash in order to get it.

Two last things, keep the basic information like your age, location, and lifestyle budget out of the about me section. That information is already stated when you initially filled in your profile. Last but not least, if you’re using Seeking Arrangements, don’t ever ever ever put “negotiable” as your lifestyle budget, that will attract the low and gutter men of the websites. Always have it at least on moderate.

Now go get that money and the man you deserve!

[snakesugar]

I am going to use this, this advice is gold

[it-queen]

Health, Skin care, & Beauty tips pt.I💋💋 ©reds to @AmbitionVEVO on twitter!

[faronmckenzie]

35 Powerful Affirmations That Can Change Your Life

Life extends from the thoughts and emotions that you experience. This means that employing affirmations of positive words can have a powerful effect on how you feel and help boost you to new levels of achievement.

Affirmations are proven methods of self-improvement because of their ability to rewire our brains. Much like exercise, they raise the level of feel-good hormones and push our brains to form new clusters of “positive thought” neurons. In the sequence of thought-speech-action, affirmations play an integral role by breaking patterns of negative thoughts, negative speech, and, in turn, negative actions.

Repeat the below aloud and with conviction in the morning and after a few days you will notice the shift in your mood, perception, and interpretation of any given situation.

1.) I am the architect of my life; I build its foundation and choose its contents.

2.) Today, I am brimming with energy and overflowing with joy.

3.) My body is healthy; my mind is brilliant; my soul is tranquil.

4.) I am superior to negative thoughts and low actions.

5.) I have been given endless talents which I begin to utilize today.

6.) I forgive those who have harmed me in my past and peacefully detach from them.

7.) A river of compassion washes away my anger and replaces it with love.

8.) I am guided in my every step by Spirit who leads me towards what I must know and do.

9.) (If you’re married) My marriage is becoming stronger, deeper, and more stable each day.

10.) I possess the qualities needed to be extremely successful.

11.) (For business owners) My business is growing, expanding, and thriving.

12.) Creative energy surges through me and leads me to new and brilliant ideas.

13.) Happiness is a choice. I base my happiness on my own accomplishments and the blessings I’ve been given.

14.) My ability to conquer my challenges is limitless; my potential to succeed is infinite.

15.) (For those who are unemployed) I deserve to be employed and paid well for my time, efforts, and ideas. Each day, I am closer to finding the perfect job for me.

16.) I am courageous and I stand up for myself.

17.) My thoughts are filled with positivity and my life is plentiful with prosperity.

18.) Today, I abandon my old habits and take up new, more positive ones.

19.) Many people look up to me and recognize my worth; I am admired.

20.) I am blessed with an incredible family and wonderful friends.

21.) I acknowledge my own self-worth; my confidence is soaring.

22.) Everything that is happening now is happening for my ultimate good.

23.) I am a powerhouse; I am indestructible.

24.) Though these times are difficult, they are only a short phase of life.

25.) My future is an ideal projection of what I envision now.

26.) My efforts are being supported by the universe; my dreams manifest into reality before my eyes.

27.) (For those who are single) The perfect partner for me is coming into my life sooner than I expect.

28.) I radiate beauty, charm, and grace.

29.) I am conquering my illness; I am defeating it steadily each day.

30.) My obstacles are moving out of my way; my path is carved towards greatness. 31.) I wake up today with strength in my heart and clarity in my mind.

32.) My fears of tomorrow are simply melting away.

33.) I am at peace with all that has happened, is happening, and will happen.

34.) My nature is Divine; I am a spiritual being.

35.) My life is just beginning.

[sugaryvixen]

The very last one…💫

[zamisriza-the-resurrection]

Reblog the 500,000 dollar written check from Seto Kaiba and money will come your way.

[citysugarbabexx]

These high class Russian instagram girls are GOALS. Most of them got to where they are by sugaring/escorting, and are now married to oligarchs and billionaires. I wish they could mentor me! I’ve heard that they are absolutely ruthless when it comes to competing with other women though, and that doesn’t work for me - I need my girlfriends.

A few accounts: Instagram not tumblr - note I am not saying all of these girls were sugar babies or hookers (maybe a few just got lucky meeting a rich man or were models or whatever), but some of them were and most are “kept women”. Some have businesses funded by their husbands/partners, or investors that their husbands helped them get

Olesya_malinskaya (one of the top girls)

dashabelize

lenaperminova

Juliaadasheva

Victoriadrahan

Natayakim

Deborahhung (not Russian - half Asian and half Mexican and an idol for an Asian SB like me because she is fucking stunning. I included her because she runs in their circles as well. Sadly there is not a lot of representation for asian and black women in this world)

Marinamayer777

_liliyapetrova_

_alena_alena_

Vikel

Annetch

Ozimkova

Demivika

Lerazhuravleva

Victoriadrahan

Anya_zapolskaya

Margaritaboldashevich

Ekaterinadronnikova

Veronikaorchid

There are many more but these are just a few examples! I recommend following them because there are lessons to be learned from their lifestyles, their style, and how they conduct themselves. You can also see places where the jetset crowd frequent, and maybe if you live in those cities you can take a visit. I hope this post is helpful!

Xoxo citysugarbabexx

[sugarspicemelanin]

ATTENTION: DO NOT JUST READ THIS AND SCROLL PAST! Yes, you’ve seen it, but someone else needs to see it too.. ladies this is forreal!!! Watch OUT FOR THIS GUY!!

He’s obviously on tinder. You read his profile? Yea great. Sounds good, but no. Let me give you a back story…

This guy is a straight predator and I also take my fair share of the blame for not dipping when I saw the red flags.

He WILL consistently ask for full body and nude pictures from you. No matter how many you send…it’ll never be enough. He only goes after younger girls but he WILL tell you that he’s never been with anyone as young as you. This guy is sooo disrepectful and honestly had my head messed up during the time I dealt with him.

His profile says he will spoil but he will not. He recently ADDED that to his profile after his friend, Alex, advised him to which he openly admitted to me. And you will not get a single damn cent from him, I can guarantee that. He said he used it just to get more swipes. He is a GROWN ASS MAN acting like a teenage fuckboy in heat.

Girls, when I tell you…he has tried to force himself on me soooo many times even in public once. I am ANGRY at MYSELF for putting myself in that postion and thinking I could be in control. And to be honest, it was scary. Scary enough that in fact, I gave in one night and just simply asked him to wear a condom once. Please don’t be arrogant. Don’t say “oh well she was just stupid and wasn’t tight on her game”. PLEASE don’t think that you’re so much better as a SB that you can outwit this man. I’m coming to you very sincerely as a person who always talked shit about what I would do if I was ever in a rape situation and how I would fight till the death of me and turned around to be raped by an EX and literally just laid there crying. Just don’t put yourself in the situation. This guy literally was bold enough to try and force himself on me at a swingers club one night. And every. Single. Time. that I fled he would apologize but kinda brush it off and do something to make me think he was serious and that it wouldn’t happen. For example, giving me $200 as an appreciation gift which is the ONLY amount of cash he’s EVER given me. He’s charming and manipulative. STAY AWAY!!!

This guy really added the cherry on top when he kept pressuring me to send him provactive pictures of my 21 yr old cousin. My COUSIN!!! At that point I felt extra disgusting and pissed. I went off on him and trust me he had NO problem letting me no how little I meant to him. I have NEVER before that day been talked to so shitty before.

He has two daughters 8&9. He’s divorced. He had a previous engagement that ended and he has a mother and sister. He should have soooo much more respect for women but he has none.

IF AT ANY POINT IN TIME YOU NEED ME TO VERIFY/CLARIFY SOMETHING ABOUT HIM, LET ME KNOW!!

I can give you anything you need from family pictures, names, ages, locations, his job info, his number, where he lives, his full name, where he went to school, where he use to live. EVERYTHING. I know it all. I dealt with him for quite sometime. I promise this is not a joke. Don’t play with fire.

[sugarspicemelanin]

FYI he’s back on tinder again promising to spoil “right girl” if you “have patience” meaning he wants you to be patient about getting money or gifts that’ll never come while he tries to push himself on you.

[glitter-sb]

Oh my damn. I was talking to that guy

[sugarspicemelanin]

Y'all this is obviously not being reblogged enough. If you already reblogged…reblog AGAIN!

[fashionsugarbabe]

Girl, I would never judge you. Some pervs are just cunning enough to get in your head and manipulate you or worse. The sugar bowl should be a “No Judgement” zone anyways! I’m just glad you’re alive and well. ❤

[sugarspicemelanin]

Xoxoxo @fashionsugarbabe 💕💕💕💕thank you

[icreatewhatibelieve]

[cwote]

[nycbrownsugar]

Lol

I wish I had an invisible cloak so I can see who TF this guy is texting. I need facts do when he thinks I am crazy I can just be like who's Hannah?! Lmao

[nycbrownsugar]

Does ...

..SA limit the amount of messages you can send ?! The guy thinks after 10 hours I'm cool with giving him my number( even if it's my faux number ) after I said I need to eat sure we are on the same page. That was last night 7:30pm. He said he would respect that. Why am I getting a message asking to text right now? Things like that bothers me and I'm already over him.

[yuricema-deactivated20230814]

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What is this..?

[imsoshive]

lmfaoooooo

[brooklynwaste]

😩😩😩

[roropcoldchain]

Ain’t. Nobody. Told. Him. To. Do. This.

[blackraincloud-deactivated20170]

I’m choking help meeee

[trufflebootybuttercream-deactiv]

😂😂😂😂😂 I needed this

[sauvamente]

He thought he was really killin it 😂😂😂

[thislifeshitistrash]

svnthdaughter bruh…

[withinawolf-deactivated20220824]

[kimreesesdaughter]

If you having a bad day, please watch this. I’m crying. Lmao.

[killareem]

lowkeyyq

[sobeitjayt]

This my jam

[magnificsandy]

What the bloody fxcckkk 😩😩😂