Ramblings of a Nerd

Whether you want to listen to my ramblings or be listened to, I'll be here. So if you ever need advice or even just someone to talk to feel free to ask, as an anon or otherwise.

[ohmyshenanigans]

Check out this mix on @8tracks: "mashup madness"

[ohmyshenanigans]

Songs from Teen Wolf season 3

[ohmyshenanigans]

A single memory,

A brief thought flicks behind my eyes,

And suddenly it all comes back.

Curled up on that couch,

Wrapped up in your scent.

The soft fleece of an old sweatshirt,

Clearly made for you

But perfect for me

To hide in 

When things get scary

Or just when I want to be near you.

How I miss that old sweatshirt.

[ohmyshenanigans]

Fact 8

I'm a fighter.

As in I've always been the one to fight for myself and my friends. It feels like I've been the only one fighting for myself for a long time. It's not that my friends and family intentionally stopped fighting for me…but some can't and some forget….some get distracted…and that's ok it's just…I really desperately want someone to fight for me. I want someone who will always be there at my back. Someone who will let me fight my own battles but will be there for me when the battle is done and I just need a hug or a kiss, I want him to be my reinforcements, my tap-out, my fighter. I want someone who will always be in my corner, someone who won't leave at the first inconvenience. I've never been in love before and it hurts to know what I'm missing…I want a guy who will love me and fight tooth and nail for me.

[ohmyshenanigans]

Live in the moment by *FudgeNugget

[ohmyshenanigans]

[ohmyshenanigans]

Thank you this really helped! And no I haven't talked to her cause I thought I could've trusted him.

Oh I'm glad that I could help, I feel like I didn't do much though D: but I know from way to much personal experience that even just talking out loud about something, or making yourself write it all down can be really clarifying and therapeutic. If you still have doubts about his side of the story you could always find some covert way of getting her to fess up about it, whether it be directly to you or through a friend or what. Best of luck in everything dear~ and if you ever need anything again I'll be right here! ^^

[ohmyshenanigans]

He didn't want to break up with his ex but he did and then went out with me. His ex then started to like him while we were dating and they made out at a graduation party and he wasnt intoxicated im pretty sure (for short the part where he cheated). We were goin out 3 months before it all happened. He said that he didn't tell me about it cause he wanted to know who to choice cause it was a hard choice. So I'm pretty sure it's mid-term affair

Well I'm not sure I can tell you what to do, but I can give you an example of something similar that happened to a friend of mine. 

She had just started dating this guy who was recently out of a long relationship and then he started to have feelings for his ex again so they broke up. I'm not sure if he ever actually cheated but there was enough discomfort in it all that they ended it. But then they started hanging out soon after and a couple weeks later they were back together. It's been over a year and a half now and they're still together and very happy. 

But every case is different. In my opinion once he cheats he's reeeeeeaaaaaaalllllllyyyyy gotta prove himself worthy of you again. Whether it be with big romantic gestures or what he needs to know that if he wants you he can't just have you whenever he wants, he's gotta work for it and stick with it.

Chances are he will probably always have some connection to his ex(s) and you probably will to (to the ones that make an impact), it's the natural progresssion of life. Have you talked to the other girl at all? Not yelling or anything but really talked? Or gotten her opinion on him and all? Because that's important, reigning him in would be a lot easier if he didnt just have her lying around waiting for him. If she knows how you feel she might back off, or if you make it clear to her that she cant have him.

[twoukofukawa]

the sexual tension when u and ur crush are online on fb at the same time and u just stare at their lil green dot

[fiantodurri]

and suddenly you know what gatsby felt like

[jwisser-deactivated20130714]

This is actually the most profound and appropriate literary allusion I’ve encountered so far this week.

[walkinintomordor]

Holy shit.

Thats so accurate.

[ohmyshenanigans]

Fact 7

I like to be alone.

I know it might sound strange, in a world that's so globally connected and wired up it's hard to ever truly be alone in this life. But I really enjoy just taking time to disconnect from life and from people in the summer. I spend my entire year surrounded by people constantly, and I love all my friends dearly. But in the summer I just want to get away from it all, from the guys who I know only want me as a 'booty call,' to the people who just live to complain about work or their lives over the summer break. I know I'm selfish in this but I really just wish that people would take 'no' for an answer and not get overly offended by my longing for some quiet time. 

[therelatableimages]

[ohmyshenanigans]

Reality Check

It amazes me that people still in their teens and in college think it's a good idea to get married. Sure you've been dating for a few years ever since high school, but good lord do you people even realize how much you will change in the next decade?! Hell men's brains don't stop maturing until at least 23, and even then there's plenty of room for growth. Every adult I've spoken to over the age of 30 agrees that there is a massive difference between someone who is 18 vs 21, a 21 year old vs a 25 year old, and an even bigger difference between a 25 year old and a 30 year old. Those last five years end up really defining a person it seems, so why would you ever think it a good idea to get married at 18 when you still have so much left to do and see? Sure you might think that they're your soul mate, and sure maybe one in a million they might be, but typically, no. I'm sorry but let's just be realistic here, kids are getting married and the divorce rate is going up. It's a ridiculous world that we're living in where kids who are still getting gas money from mom and dad and can't even cook anything more than TV dinners and cereal are getting engaged and wed. I'm a big believer in true love and all, but I'm also a proponent of being realistic. And hey- if they are your soul mate or your one true love, then why are you so worried about losing them? You can't force love, and rushing into something you'll likely regret later in life won't do anyone any good. If it's meant to happen it will happen, so don't worry so much, let love take it's course and may it always find it's way back to you. 

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Never ignore a person who loves you, cares for you, and misses you. Because one day, you might wake up from your sleep and realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars.

Nico Lang (via theereasoniholdon)

[ohmyshenanigans]

I know the truth

That we can't be together

And it kills me.

So I lie to myself

And dream my happy dreams

Praying for a future

Where we might meet again

And fall in love once more.

[ohmyshenanigans]

Why must it be so easy to care about you? Why is it that when I close my eyes all I can see is pictures of you and me together, all the time we could have…should have, had. It’s so easy just to picture our life together, going to one another’s graduations, road trips full of singing along to the radio, bonfires on the beach, traveling the world, living and working in Germany together, until one day- you get down on one knee and then I say yes with all my heart. It’s so easy to picture you waiting for me at the end of that long aisle, filled with loved ones on either side, my white train flowing behind me. I don’t care where or when in these daydreams, all that matters is that it’s you there for me. Every time. And then buying our first house, having paint wars while we try and decide on what colors we like best for the baby’s room. A home full of children running and laughing, using your tall body as a jungle gym, it’s all there. Even the fights, the bickering and the squabbling, and then your warm embrace later that night. I don’t care when; I don’t care where, or even how. Just that’s you and me, together forever. Because…I think I’ve fallen deeply, irrevocably, madly in love with you.

[ohmyshenanigans]

What do you do when you feel as if you might've met the one too early in life, and now you're terrified that you've had your shot and missed it?

[ohmyshenanigans]

“You're happiest while you're making the greatest contribution.”

Robert F. Kennedy