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Hi all! I have a new project in which I made soft plushie alligators with a very protected secret of mine inside of them. You can view them on my NEW website strawberrytrellis.com and I so so so hope you see one you like that you want to take home with you to share your own secrets with. they’re all listed 🐊❤️

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life is so subtle sometimes that you barely notice yourself walking through the doors you once prayed would open.

justnoodlefishthings

please don't do what I think you're gonna do

justnoodlefishthings

sir please that's my hummingbird feeder :(

justnoodlefishthings

well ok then have a good nappy nap sir

heavyweightheart

eating for comfort is extremely natural and not a problem. eating and emotional experience are inextricable. food is a perfectly legitimate aid in emotion regulation.

the problem begins when this behavior is hidden, feels shameful, arouses fears of weight gain (this is a BIG one), leads to compensatory restriction or promises of “healthy” eating starting tomorrow, is the “last time,” “ruins” your diet, or is otherwise judged to be bad and wrong. disorder festers in shame and hiding and fear.

eat the thing you want when you crave it! and eat your meals, and your snacks. and when you have the extra thing/s bc your gf broke up w you, eat it openly and w relish! ice cream is always there for you! then eat breakfast, lunch, snack, and so on… and repeat as needed.

if you go thru a phase of life that involves more comfort eating than usual and you gain a little weight, so what? your body is reflecting your life course. you won’t fly out of your set point range, or if you do, it won’t be for long, unless you fight the process and give way to misplaced shame

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it’s 2020

hafermensch

this is the most 2020 photo i’ve ever seen

anxietyproblem

thedogist

Gwen, Chow Chow (5 m/o), 8th & 5th Ave., New York, NY • “She made more money than me last month, modeling.”

mina-ahavi

shiftythrifting

cabbage boy..

thepoolofthedead

I collected these. My very first one was the cabbage pup. I think they were called Homegrown pets or something. This one is my favorite

shiftythrifting

oh my GOD

phrawwg

Is no one gonna talk about

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lynnsfics

but consider... HER

thedogist

Vida, German Shepherd (1 y/o), Randolph Dog Park, Randolph, MA • “She was rescued from a puppy mill when she was seven-months-old. She was scared of everything and now she’s afraid of far fewer things. We’re the first home she got to live in; before, she lived in a cage. When she got too old to be sold they dumped her at a shelter with her litter. They have a short time period for socialization – between 3-5 months for shepherds. They can end up being aggressive in ‘fear of everything’ or ‘attacking everything’. She went the fear route. She doesn’t like eye contact from strangers.” A rescue via @arlnh

sirfrogsworth

They almost don’t need the books anymore!

“Keller and Sullivan are both completely blind. They were born with a condition called microphthalmia, which prevented their eyes from fully developing. They are happy, healthy, friendly, funny kittens and can live completely normal lives despite their lack of vision.“

–Playschool for Wayward Kittens

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