Lavender

she/her 🏳️‍⚧️ | late 20s | +18/MDNI | ABDL/ageplay/petplay

[padded-lavender]

Temporary pinned post for boundaries:

Open to platonic chatting about kink and non-kink topics. But I might not always reply, sometimes I need a little more time, and I'm often a bit socially anxious.

Playfully teasing is ok if you're sure I'd appreciate it (as in you know me / my blogs well enough to safely assume what I might like)

No explicit themes. I will block/remove or ask you to remove as I see fit.

If in doubt don't scream and shout. You can simply ask me before commenting or adding to my posts. I get that the lines can be blurry sometimes.

DNI: Bigots, Minors

Mainblog is @not-so-padded-lavender from where I primarily chat with non mutuals.

[shushythedl]

Yeah sure CG/l sex is amazing obviously

But it’s also about the other stuff - it’s about being allowed and encouraged to be soft, and small, and needy, and silly, and taken care of, and loved for the vulnerable and gentle parts of you that are trying so hard to come out

[serene-doge-enrico-dandolo]

age play can range from being an itty bitty baby in diapers to a moody teen in diapers

[padded-lavender]

✨ bunnies, dresses, diapers ✨

[padded-lavender]

I usually avoid this, but sometimes I'm generally afraid that people would find me boring if I chatted with them on here. Besides my anxiety to talk people in the first place. Idk maybe it's just that I spent so many years in survival mode and I'm a little exhausted and just want to exist without any expectations.

[pamperpixie]

nothing more healing than crying for mommy and being picked up and held really close and getting to just cry

[darlinglilmia]

Hey, honey ♡

Mommy's tired from a long day of work. Can you play maid for me, pretty please?

Good girl~

Now go get Mommy a beer from the fridge

[orbitoclast-bear]

As fun as humiliation/punishment/unfairness in ABDL is, on occasion there’s a part of me that really does just want “this is the baby and they’re 9 months old, so you have to treat them very tenderly, watch them very carefully, and understand they might make a mess or do something that would be considered bratty if a bigger kid did it, but they truly don’t know any better and punishing them would be pointless because they wouldn’t understand.” I think a well planned and discussed day of being treated like I’m that small or treating someone else like they’re that small would heal me in ways I can’t even begin to explain.

[discordiaazaezal]

it needs to lock a girl into diapers and then feed her a bottle that she doesn't know is full of laxatives. She'd look so fucking cute squirming on its lap as she finally starts to realize that her body is going to do this with or without her input. Begging to be allowed to go deal with it properly but it would simply never let go. Squirm for it, little one. Squirm for Mommy. 😵‍💫

[padded-lavender]

What if you had to say no complicated words, have no thoughts about conversations or misunderstandings.

The only thing you have to communicate are your most basic needs.

You’re hungry or hungwy, you’re communicating you need to be fed.

Maybe your diaper feels yucky, you’re communicating that you want to be changed. Taken care of.

You get closer the one that watches over you, with grabby hands. You want the comfort of proximity. You want to feel the one that takes care of you closer.

Or you yawn and get fussy, you’re assumed to need a nap. You don’t have to say it out loud.

No complicated words or thoughts or words.

Just baby.

[mangosmoothiebaby]

no one can tell, right....?

[futchling]

I hope I am not just a parasocial creature to you but also a fetish object or perhaps masturbatory subject

[secrethyena11]

From big girl to little girl 🙈

[padded-lavender]

Fear play but it’s just me not going to bed padded

[padded-lavender]

Okay in the last two weeks I woke up soggy. Probs 12 out of 14 times and maybe I also want to be like an edgy middle about it

[padded-lavender]

Fear play but it’s just me not going to bed padded

[shhhhdl]

If u weren’t supposed to pee in my lap, why is it so warm and comfy and cozy and I’ll rub ur back and tell you what a good job you’ve done and

[pamperpixie]

queer diaper girls we are all holding hands and skipping in a big circle together WEEEEE 🩷