Monochrome

Mona . 22 . he/they . gay . disabled.

[palevirgin]

I am so desperate and frustrated😞💔

🙏Please help me I want to provide for my

family's needs in Gaza🍉💔

🙏We urgently need to reach 1000 € as an initial goal to buy a good waterproof tent before winter returns⛺️🌨️

‏EXTREMELY LOW FUNDS! Only 805€ raised of €25,000 goal!!😞

Maybe 10€ makes a difference to us.🙏

⭕️Donation link:

https://gofund.me/ffbae8a0

‏ Verified by :@gaza-evacuation-funds ✅

May you receive all the help you need ❤

[palevirgin]

Hello this is me Aya.. ‏🇵🇸

having everything and suddenly you wake up with nothing left.That's exactly what happened with us .we moved from having everything to having nothing.In a blink of an eye ,we lost everything, our house ,dreams,

memories belongings and our works. We are starting from zero and need your help to climb the leader step by step from scratch.

All the positive words cannot express how generous you are, especially in sharing my posts to inform other donors about the people of Gaza who are still suffering from the terrible conditions caused by the unjust war on Gaza!

Please continue to support us by donating directly or by sharing the link to let others know. Don't hesitate to help people in difficult and miserable times until the dark days are over.

https://gofund.me/c4c2cf82

I wish you the best ❤

[palevirgin]

Hello dear🌹

hope that you are well

Please help us,May God bless you 🙏

I'm Etaf from Gaza Palestine

I am a mother of five smart children.

speaking to you with a heavy heart on behalf of my family who urgently need help.

The war has destroyed everything we own.

It destroyed everything my husband and I built for these children.

Now we don't have anything, We do not have the price of rent, or education. We want you to contribute to open a project for my husband, please.

read and Share the link Private in my campaign

,My campaign has been verifiedBy Operation Olive Branch . 🌿

donate, not hesitate to do so and rest assured that God will reward you because we are in dire need of that. And share the link on social media that would be kind of you. May Allah make you happy all your life dear Thank you. 🙏

https://gofund.me/bf3d1248

May you receive the support you need. I will share the link of your campaign on this blog and around me.

[butchgender-remade-deactivated2]

Disabled people deserve a safe future.

[butchgender-remade-deactivated2]

Even when we're not independent.

[mamoru]

if you personally think that accusing strangers of faking their conditions helps “real” disabled people then you are so, so, so fucking wrong and i want you to know that you are an ableist and that the disabled community almost universally hates you!

yes this includes leaving notes on the cars of strangers who look “too healthy” to be in the disabled spots. we hate you!

yes this includes yelling at strangers who walk out of disabled spots. we hate you!

yes this includes yelling at strangers who use their legs while in a wheelchair. we hate you!

yes this includes accusing a wheelchair user of faking because you saw them walking the other day. we hate you!

yes this includes trying to “disprove” disabled strangers on the internet. we hate you!

yes this includes telling someone they are too young to be disabled or use a mobility aid. we hate you!

yes this includes telling someone that someone else has it worse and that they should suck it up. we hate you!

yes this includes telling someone that they must be lying about their symptoms. we hate you!

yes this includes telling a stranger they should save mobility aids for people who “really” need them. we hate you!

yes this includes telling strangers that they are wasting disability resources. we hate you!

yes this includes telling someone they do not act disabled enough. we hate you!

yes this includes telling someone that they are too happy/good looking/etc to be disabled. we hate you!

(: hope that clears some things up!

[adoring-suggestion]

When your dad tries to guilt trip you into visiting him: “well I guess I’ll just spend the weekend all by myself...”

You say “glad to know we’re on the same page.” Slowly, he will have to adapt to just outright telling you what he thinks instead of playing mind games.

When your friend tries to hint that they’re mad at you without saying anything: “Oh, I’m fine, clearly you don’t need to worry about me,”

You say: “I’m glad you’re doing well. Call me if you want to talk, though!” Soon enough, they will accept that they can’t be passive aggressive with you.

When your boyfriend says: “All your friends are great, I really love *insert male friend* especially.”

You say: “I’m so glad you like my friends! I should invite them back soon.” He needs to understand that if he has a problem with your friends, he needs to just voice his concerns instead of being sarcastic and accusatory.

As someone who has lived through several toxic relationships and has an abusive father, I think one of the most important manipulation tools a toxic person has is excessive subtext and hidden meanings in their conversation. It hides all of the actual fighting from the eyes of onlookers while still hurting you, which is scary and makes you feel like you’re making it all up. Don’t put up with this bs. Make them stop hiding.

Make. Them. Say. What. They. Mean.

[palevirgin]

Lily?

i don’t go by this alias anymore but yes, it’s me! is there anything i can do for you, anon? 

[gyllenholand-deactivated-deacti]

i think a lot of us are lowkey traumatized by the amount of porn we were exposed to as children and it's a very weird place to be in because generations before ours weren't in a situation where so easily you were unwillingly exposed to pornography. and now if you point out children should not have access to porn you're a prude because we are trying desperately to convince ourselves it was okay and it didn't affect us in a negative way but it did. it did and it's our responsibility to stop this from happening to younger generations

[homunculus-argument]

me meeting someone’s parents for the first time: Sooo… Which one of you was the one who traumatised the kids and which one stood by and let it happen? :)

[mamoru]

absence of a diagnosis does not guarantee the absence of an illness

[mamoru]

if someone you know has been suffering yet a doctor says nothing is wrong, which has happened to a majority of chronically ill people at some point, you have a choice. you can either believe the doctor that you probably never met, or believe the person suffering. and I cannot emphasize enough how absolutely damaging it is for a sick person to not be believed.

[mentalillnessmermaid]

Abled People: You need to learn how to take care of yourself! No one is going to be around to care for you forever

Also Abled People: What do you mean you need to lie down to recharge your energy? That sounds fake! What do you mean you need to be away from people for a while? That’s totally not how it works! What do you mean taking care of yourself doesn’t look exactly how I personally imagined it would?

[dragon-in-a-fez]

just a reminder:

kids and teens are allowed to be angry without having that anger dismissed as a “tantrum” or “hormones”. they’re allowed to be angry with adults, including their parents and teachers, without being dismissed as “disrespectful”.

they’re allowed to be sad without being dismissed as being “moody” or “whiny”. they’re allowed to feel resentment without being dismissed as “ungrateful”. they’re allowed to be uncomfortable without being dismissed as “oversensitive”.

they’re allowed to feel restless without being dismissed as “badly behaved”. they’re allowed to feel lonely without being dismissed as “attention-seeking”. they’re allowed to be tired without being dismissed as “lazy”.

young people’s emotions are valid, despite the fact that our language has an entire vocabulary designed to make them feel otherwise.

[spiderman-anti]

I NEEDED TO HEAR THIS TBH

[fuckkyliejenner]

when you’re dissociating and someone asks you a question

[noorshirazie]

“But she hadn’t been able to take root. She’d remembered the wrong things, and forgotten too much. She’d remembered how to kill and how to hate, and she’d forgotten how to grow.”

— Naomi Novik, Uprooted

[fuckyeahyoga]

[terminallydepraved]

^^^^ i work at a desk all fucking day and was having terrible shoulder pain from it and ive been doing yoga for about a month now and all the pain is gone, my posture is so much better than it was before, and i feel a lot more energized/limber. give it a try if youre having muscle aches, even like 15 mins a day will do you wonders and there are lots of free youtube channels thatll guide you through it!!

[mamoru]

hey before you call something wheelchair accessible just go ahead and invite a wheelchair user or two over because I almost guarantee you that an able-bodied person is not capable of guessing what is accessible without having ever used a wheelchair solo before

some but not all cool things nobody ever thinks of:

put hand sanitizer or a sink in the accessible bathroom stall, or alcohol wipes outside of it. people who cannot use their legs have to use unwashed hands to roll to the sink, and people who can use their legs are afraid to walk out of stalls because they get harassed and even assaulted.

enough space for wheelchair in doorway…AND ARMS. HOW DO YOU THINK THE WHEELCHAIR MOVES! if I cannot roll through it without scraping my arms it is not accessible

brick paths suck the end

gravel paths suck. make it smooth

a ramp is not accessible if it is too steep. not every wheelchair user is ripped enough or capable of using muscles enough to propel themselves up a steep angle safely. some wheelchair users have heart issues. you want heart attacks? this is how you get them

perfect 90 degree turns suck and are often impossible to turn through

some wheelchairs have foot rests. account for them

wheelchair accessible means wheelchair accessible while alone. if you expect someone to have to be helped out to use your facility, that is not acceptable or accessible

yeah

[blossomfully]

““I think I wait for people to hurt me,” she said quietly, “and when they do I feel a certain smugness at being right. And, after that, I just feel pain.”

— Sue Zhao