keeper of whimsy, defender of darklings

18+ only. This soup is too spicy. My identifiers - https://en.pronouns.page/@littlepandapet. My kink education platform - patreon.com/pandastory.

[pandapet]

AHHHHHHHH my girlfriend is really good at genuinely surprising me! I'm so happy! I love you so much, Sire ❤️ and everyone should go commission art of themselves and their partners from Brushie 💜🖤❤️ @writtenbynath @brushie-art

[always-coffee]

In case you need to hear it today...

Earlier today on Bluesky, I wrote about how—and I firmly believe this—no one is hard to love. That, if someone makes you feel that way, it’s entirely on them. And that love—in its myriad forms—never judges us by the small quirks and details of our less polished selves.

This is 100% the hill I will die on.

The thing is, I’ve often been told I am too much. I have too many feelings. (Like, you can just…remove some of them?) This used to bother me, until I realized that was someone else’s hangup. The reality is I have a very big heart and I am not shy about letting someone I know I care about them.

Why? Several reasons. One is that I am always true to myself, and I don’t believe in playing it cool. Another is that the world is a harsh mess, quite literally often on fire. It’s the warmth and love and the connection that help us through. And if a kind, honest word or gesture might matter to someone, I’m gonna do it. No hesitation.

I have also been the person who didn’t know how someone else felt, and that didn’t feel great. (Understatement.) And I never, ever want anyone else to feel that kind of awful confusion. Because by the time I did find out, it almost broke me. (Almost! I’m very stubborn.) So, if it’s within my power, no one else is gonna go through that.

Back to the beginning: no one is hard to love. Are we mutuals? Do we chat? I can rattle off at least three things I love about you, if asked. Hell, even if you don’t ask, I might randomly tell you anyway. Because ninja compliments make everyone smile!

I am always deeply happy when I get to show my affection for someone. It makes my heart happy. And the reverse is true, too: I am deeply happy to be cared about. It’s affirming. And yes, it also quiets the voices in my head that pop up, from time to time.

You are, right now, more loved than you probably know. So, consider this a reminder, from a weird little witch woman shouting on the internet.

[hypnocutie]

Normalize letting your friends brainwash you 💕

Its perfectly normal to let my friends brainwash me, I see nothing wrong with being brainwashed by my friends. My friends should brainwash me more often 💕

[pandapet]

My friends should brainwash me more often 🔥🔥🔥

[spiraleyedbimbo]

Please don't do this. I'm an industrial electrician by day. I work with dangerous voltages in dangerous machines. A lapse in judgment could cost me dearly, and that's not sexy at all. What is sexy? Consent is sexy. Conversation is sexy. Consideration is sexy. And to whomever is reading this: your butt is sexy. Pass it on.

[pandapet]

Agency in action, my friends! Pass it on!

[rederiswrites]

I think it's really important to understand that sometimes we fuck ourselves over by looking for "better" reasons for how we feel when it's really just simple animal shit. We want to think that we're worried about a friend (who is probably fine) when really it's starting to rain and we ate a fistful of Doritos for lunch. We want to construct an elaborate story for ourselves about how we're sad because our health isn't improving like it's supposed to and nothing we do helps when actually we just sat in a chair all day and we're tired and stagnant. We want interesting reasons, "valid" reasons for our feelings, and we end up creating a situation that's really hard to fix, when really probably a cup of tea and actually doing one (1) quick chore would probably do the trick.

[pandapet]

Go touch some grass, drink water, and have a snack. We're all just silly lil monkey brains doing our best.

[kittycouch]

A message to my fellow passive people… People who aren’t willing to compromise aren’t worth your time ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

[gizmotemusic]

You know how the word "feline" refers to cats, and "canine" refers to dogs? There are a whole bunch more animal adjectives, and here are some of them:

equine -> horses

bovine -> cows

murine -> mice/rats

porcupine -> porcupines

wolverine -> wolves

marine -> marmosets

saline -> salmonella

cosine -> cosmonauts

citrine -> citrus

combine -> combs

famine -> your fam

bromine -> your bros

palpatine -> your pals

alpine -> alps

christine -> christ

asinine -> asses

machine -> the speed of sound

landmine -> explosions

migraine -> migrants

trampoline -> tramps

dopamine -> dopes

medicine -> the Medici family

praline -> prey

masculine -> mascara

feminine -> femurs

latrine -> latissimus dorsi

fettuccine -> fetuses

poutine -> sadness

turbine -> turbans

engine -> england

supine -> soup

valentine -> valence electrons

Follow for more nature facts!

[trentreznorspussy]

[thememedaddy]

[alyssathedoll]

[hypno-addict]

hehege gud girls hypnotiz ech other

[sex-obsessed-lesbian]

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Love,

The porn attribution fairy

[writtenbynath]

Hypnosis for people who want to be hypnotised

As someone who likes to be a hypnotist and who likes to be hypnotised, I can tell you that knowing how hypnosis works is not just interesting for hypnotists. Knowledge of hypnosis can also make you a better hypnotic subject.

If you think hypnosis is something you passively undergo, you're wrong. It's your subconscious, your mind doing all of the work. The hypnotist tells you what to feel or imagine, but that doesn't mean you have no say in it. Your mind may refuse to cooperate if you don't understand what to do, or if you really don't want it, because it's still you, no matter how deeply hypnotised. And if you get to know how this process works, you can teach your mind to refine the suggestions and only comply when you think it's appropriate.

When you're hypnotised, it's difficult to think clearly about whether what the hypnotist is telling is actually a good idea, and the hypnotist is using techniques that are designed to get you to just follow along. It may seem impossible to resist, but really it isn't. It's your imagination, you doing all the work. The hypnotist is just sitting there, talking. That kinda breaks the hot illusion that this hypnotist is bending you to their will, I know, and I was disappointed about that too at first.

There is this strange doublethink quality to being hypnotised, it's difficult to describe. When a hypnotist says "Your hands are stuck now, you can not move them at all" some people feel like they really are stuck, while others feel like it's not working and they can still move, when in reality it's both. It's a weird feeling, but it's very useful to become aware of it.

There is a moment, just after a hypnotic trigger, that's magical. Your brain is still processing: "Was that my trigger? Did they really say that? What am I supposed to do again?" It's the same as when the hypnotist asks you to wake up from hypnosis. This is why some people don't wake up when the hypnotist tells them to, because they expect it to happen automatically, when in reality it's up to them to open their eyes. Pay attention to that magical moment, because that's when you can just say: "Nah, not now."

If you can say "Not now", does that mean you'll never be hypnotised again? On the contrary. Responding to the suggestions of the hypnotist, vividly imagining what they tell you to imagine, is an active skill. Practising this skill means becoming better at recognising suggestions and responding to them quickly and intensely. Practise makes perfect and a hypnotist can teach you to become better at responding to suggestion. Or you can practise by yourself, by listening to a file and waking yourself up, or refusing the suggestions, for example.

So, is hypnosis dangerous at all, if you can just refuse? I think the danger of hypnosis lies in ignorance only. An unskilled hypnotist can place a command that doesn't work as intended because they didn't think all the wording through, or a command that gets triggered unintentionally. So this danger can be avoided if you know how to refuse a suggestion. And with experience, you can learn how to adjust suggestions yourself, either to make them work better, or not at all.

If you know how to recognise suggestions and how hypnosis feels, you can never be caught off-guard by an evil hypnotist trying sneaky covert techniques on you. You know how to wake up and how to refuse. Again, danger averted.

The only real danger lies in the moments when you can't make it stop, like if you're new to hypnosis, or if you've been hypnotised so many times that you just can't think straight anymore. In those moments, it's the responsibility of the hypnotist to take care of you, just like it's the responsibility of a Dominant to take care of their partner when they're in subspace. It's wise to negotiate with your partner about these situations before letting it come this far.

There is a grey area called amnesia; hypnosis can be used to forget things. It can be lots of fun to forget certain things for a while, but if you can't remember that you consented to what's happening, things can get iffy. And nonconsensual amnesia can be really unpleasant and difficult to fix. So I recommend you really think about that and negotiate with your partner before trying amnesia.

TL;DR: you can become skilled in recognising hypnotic suggestions, and responding to them, by learning about hypnosis, and by practising being hypnotised. And once you have that skill, you can use it to refuse suggestions and defend your limits too, even when deeply hypnotized.

[writtenbynath]

What you can do to make hypnosis safer and more fun for you:

learn self-hypnosis Trance is trance, wether you're being hypnotized by someone else, by a video or audio-file or just by yourself, it's still teaching you what it's like to follow suggestions, to go deeper or to wake up. Practicing these skills will make you better at going into trance in the future, which many hypnotists appreciate. Not everyone likes a tough nut to crack.

You can even give yourself suggestions that will improve your confidence and safety as a subject, for example, suggestions that remind you of your safeword, that help you to speak up if you need something (like going to the bathroom), even when hypnotised, or that help you recognise and refuse unwelcome suggestions. I sometimes do some self-trancing when I want to make sure there are no lingering effects after I've used a hypnosis file online.

learn more about inductions and suggestions Once you know something about the technique, you can more easily recognize suggestions, and therefore decide whether you want to accept them or not, and why. When you know something about inductions, you can figure out which ones will work for you and which ones will not, and which ones you just don't like. Once you know something about what hypno play could entail, you can make an informed decision about what you want from that, and you can more effectively communicate with your partner about your wishes and your limits.

ask your hypnotist to tell you about their experience and where they learned to do hypnosis Get to know them. Not just whether they have any experience at all, but you also want to know whether they are just a hypnotherapist who wants to have some fun in their free time, or a mind-control dom who wants to teach you new things, or a spiritual person who wants to help you grow. Make sure you want the same things. Get to know each other. And don't hesitate to conclude that this is not the hypnotist for you. I know, it's hard to find a kinky hypnotist. But really, you're better off not having play, than having things go awry.

ask the hypnotist to include safety mechanism in their suggestions The hypnotist can remind you of your safeword and your ability to say it anytime, no matter how deeply hypnotised, or reassure you that hey never want you to feel pressured to do anything. They can also include limits to their suggestions: only when I ask you, only when you feel safe, until the end of this session. Such limits could prevent unwanted or lingering effects.

If someone tries to hypnotise you before you've done the getting to know each other part, or before they've negotiated with you about what they should and shouldn't do with you, don't go into trance. Bite your tingue, squeeze your hand, whatever you need to stop yourself from going into trance. This is a really unpleasant situation, and a totally dick move. Walk away. Don't answer their message. Or get angry, that's totally justified.

Here's some more advice pulled from my class for people who like to be hypnotised that I teach at Charmed:

Hypno is a skill you can practice and get better at like playing the piano. It's unhelpful to get frustrated because you can't do it perfectly from the get go. Here's some things you can practice as a beginner:

Just going in trance and noticing what that feels like for you

Using your safeword/waking yourself up

Resisting/adjusting suggestions

My advice is to take time with a practice partner to work on these things first without getting into hot hypno fantasies. Much like starting out with rope, practice the basics first.

Here are some ways you can practice active cooperation during a hypno scene to help you get better at following suggestions and feeling hypnotised:

When the hypnotist says "you're feeling soo… <example>" try it. Imagine what that feels like. Use your internal dialogue to help hypnotise you. Just repeat some of the hypnotist's words in your head or out loud "Soo deep…" Maybe your inner dialogue can make it into a mantra. Some people find this really hot and that can be a motivator to do it more, and to feel the effects more.

Practice responding and adjusting a trigger. Triggers are inside your head, they are yours to give to other people to use (or not). You decide what the trigger makes you do or feel and who gets to use it.

Play along. It’s ok to fake it till you make it, because that’ll build neural pathways to help suggestions work better in the future.

Practice saying no. Sometimes you don't want to a do a thing right now. A trusted play partner is a very good person to practice this important skill with. It's also good practice for them to say "ok, thank you for stopping when you need to. Let's do something else." Maybe it's helpful to take turns practicing this.

Figure out, through practice, which modalities work for you. Do you react strongly to sexy hypnotist voices? You might have a preference for auditory stuff. Do you dream vivid images when in trance? You might be a visually oriented person. Or do you have trouble with visuals? That's valid. It's helpful to know these things about yourself so you can tell hypnotists about it.

Install safeties and contingencies in your head. If you're not yet comfortable doing this through self-hypnosis, you can enlist the help of a hypnotist friend. "I will only go into trance when I feel safe and comfortable doing so" or "Whenever I'm uncomfortable or in need of assistance, I will easily and automatically use my safeword" or "whenever a suggestion would make me uncomfortable or move me to a headspace I don't want to go, I'll find it easy to just ignore the suggestion".

If you're a person who spontaneously forgets what happened in trance, you can learn to remember it through practice. If you're a person who has never experienced hypnotic amnesia and it's something you'd like to try, there are ways to practice and figure out how to make it work for you.

The Unconscious Mind is just a metaphor, a way to help us understand how the human mind works. It's not a separate entity in your brain, your unconscious decisions/actions are your decisions/actions. Understanding your subconscious reactions helps you understand yourself, and you can work together with the unconscious part of you to keep you safe and improve yourself.

Because hypnosis is happening inside your mind, you are the one most able to protect and advocate for yourself. Sometimes you are the only person who knows that something is off, so you need to tell your partner about it, or they simply do not know. So practice communicating your needs during a kink scene, constant communication is really helpful. A sigh of "this feels so good…" can be just as useful to your partner as "wait, hold on, I need something".

In the same way you experiment and figure out your preferences in inductions and modalities, you should figure out what you need as aftercare after a hypno scene. Having your needs met will help you be a better bottom and a better play partner. Don't let anyone tell you you're "topping from the bottom" when you're just talking about your needs and your limits.

[babyjakes]

being talked through an orgasm >>>

[babyjakes]

“there it is” “there we go” “that’s it” “give it to me” “look at that” “good girl” “oh my” “shhhh, you’re okay” “i know, it’s so much isn’t it?” “be good and take it” “just let it happen” “coming so hard for me” “aww, look at that little pussy clenching” “keep coming, baby” “nuh uh, don’t fight it” “poor little girl” “can’t do anything about it, can you?”

[queerpontmercy]

less “if you see a man and woman together at pride be nice! they could be bi/pan/trans/ace/aro” and more “stop gendering strangers to harass them anywhere, but especially at pride holy shit”

[queerpontmercy]

you know what? i want this to reach the people who do this– especially the ones claiming to support trans folk (usually in really hollow ways lol i’m not bitter). keep reblogging– i want this sentiment to be widespread and for people to stop gendering strangers! especially in explicitly LGBTQ+ spaces!

[catchymemes]

[thememedaddy]

[pandapet]

Somehow, both apply when I'm hypno topping.

[dd-writes]

Dom/sub who are into extremely hard kinks but are just goofy buddies in public

[pandapet]

Just the silliest lil guy

[yggdrasilhypno]

You know what’s fun? Knowing how easy someone is to drop. Of course you should only drop those you have a trusting relationship with, but knowing that you can simply start speaking a few dizzying words and their eyes flutter like their first love, oh it’s a majestic feeling.

Simply giving them a nice, commanding tone with that warm voice you always surround the sultriest words with, just knowing how deep they’ll go when you truly want to push them.

Sometimes it’s enough to get them fuzzy by just saying a few buzzwords of trance. You don’t even have to start inducing them, you can just start by teasing them a bit, talking about how beautiful trance is and how pretty your eyes may be. Just saying “drop” may be enough.

Sometimes you don’t even have to put your spin on them, maybe they’re just so susceptible and easy that you just mentioning a pretty spiral is enough to get their brains already spinning. Seeing them slightly spin and sway as their eyes begin to cross, knowing how that pretty spiral swirling in their mind feels, how happy it makes them, how easy it makes them.

The word easy is just a favorite of mine. The idea of someone being pushed lower and lower into trance like an inevitable trap is so exhilarating, and only knowing that they can’t escape is even better, simply because they’re so easy.

It’s so easy to fall, so easy to obey, so easy to be easy.

It’s all just so easy. Like you.

Cheers~

[pandapet]

I struggle sometimes with how easy I allow myself to be. This is a good reminder that it's not a negative.