Everyone's gay until proven otherwise

30^ | nonbinary masc-ish lezbean | neutrois | switch | any pronouns idrc | here to feel good & make others feel good

[papayamango]

This blog is only used to explore my fantasies, kinks, and to discover new ones. I may from time to time put my writings or other art on here as well.

Most of the content on this blog is going to be for wlw or nblw folx. I can't stop you from perusing if you are not, but I reserve the right to block, delete and not answer to anything that is rude or that makes me uncomfortable.

Nothing that I write is meant to reflect real life characters or scenarios. Nor are they a reflection of who I am as a person IRL.

Many of the posts on here are 18+ contents. If you are a minor, please don't interact with such posts. I don't want to accidentally have nsfw interactions with y'all and have your parents or cops come after me. However, if you have any questions on how to navigate being gay; questions on top surgery or discussion on gender identity an such. You are welcome to ask & I shall try my best to respond.

Don't be a jerk because of race/sex/religion/gender/what you think someone else's identity should be etc. Life's too short & no one needs that toxic energy. Heal your own trauma and grow the f* up. No one can do it for you nor should they be expected to.

Feel free to ask questions, you may get an answer if I feel like it.

Regardless of any heated(in the sexy way) exchanges I may have with anyone on here, I am not looking for any romantic relationship.

Current icon : from a manga/manhwa I am desperately trying to remember the title of.

[iffy-effigy]

the only thing i ever saved from @ 0rgasmic tips for girls

[flrcurious57]

A good lesson to learn, and keep coming back to this lesson, onlyen will you learn how to truly satisfy your lady.

[dagoatman83]

PROPER EDUCATION IS PRICELESS!!!!!

[midnightmoons28]

9/10 times that im late it’s because i had to cum before leaving the house 🫠

[papayamango]

Damn. I have no idea what that's even like! /lies

[icygrlx-deactivated20190103]

REBLOG if you don't mind horny lesbians sending you dirty messages 💦

[x-badcat-x]

💦🍑💦

[desperate-dyke]

being tied up is so good. what are you going to do? tease me until i’m begging? make me cum until i can’t anymore? fuck the life out of me? leave a vibe in me and just walk away? grind your pussy on my face and use me as your personal fuck toy? i don’t know, but i’d love to find out!

[hornytome]

sometimes she takes a while to cum, and i never want to make her feel bad for that. i want how long it takes to be part of the fun—so what if i gently eat her out for 45 minutes straight? she has so much shame attached to sex, i want how she experiences pleasure to be a feature, not a bug. i want to take my time opening her up, making her feel loved and wanted. never rushing her, never expecting more than she wants to give. being in control but letting her take what she wants. she deserves to be worshipped, to have my lips and hands and tongue run along the seams of her being. kissing all over her face after she cums, letting her curl up in my arms to be hugged however long she wants. calling her my sweetheart, pretending we’re the only two people who exist, who have ever existed. taking joy in soft, caring sex is good for the soul.

[papayamango]

[papayamango]

For a new strap with a posable spine, I am enjoying it a lot.

[headspace-hotel]

Fuck self-sufficiency. It's time for Interdependence. Always offer help and always accept it. Cook meals for the people you love. Grow fruits and vegetables and give them to your neighbors. The "independent" person is merely the perfect version of a Consumer, eating directly from the palms of Corporation. Fuck self-sufficiency. Need one another.

[slitherysrpent]

Kinky feral sex is fun but sometimes I just want to give her slow soft sex where I can relish in her body, absorb every sound, every reaction, every facial expression. Keep going until the night turns to morning and we fall asleep blissfully satisfied.

[radiofreederry]

The union busting firms are scared

[esoteric-merit]

As a fine dining cook, I found work in a union workplace around a year ago. My 40 hours a week are guaranteed except for Jan/feb/mar when there’s not enough customers, I get paid almost twice what I did at any other restaurant, if I work overtime, (more than 8 hours in one day, or more than 40 in a week), I actually get overtime pay, (and it’s 1.5x my normal rate!). I get holiday pay, and in addition I get to either bank or pay out my holidays if I work those days, (either a paid day off when I want it, in addition to the holiday pay, or I get paid an add’l 8 hours at 1.5x that week). I also get two floating holidays, 4 paid random sick days, 2 paid family sick days, and 4 paid “doctor’s note” sick days, (paid out by our health insurance), as well as general allowance to take as many unpaid sick days as I want without worrying for my job security. (I’ve been told that taking multiple months off is where we start to be concerned about abuse, so if I want to do that, I can go through our leave of absence procedures instead, where I’m allowed three 2-week periods a year generally for whatever reason I want, (If my manager wants to disagree, he has to get the union president’s approval), and after that it’s up to my manager to decide if he’ll accept them). I get two weeks of paid vacation time a year, and an add’l week per year for every 5 years I work there. We get our legally mandated breaks, which, I know that sounds like a low bar, but taking anything other than a smoke break in a kitchen?!?! Unheard of! I get two 15′s and a lunch every shift! I get to sitdown and rest my legs and not get flak for it! I get a bonus at the end of the year, there’s official procedures for if my manager isn’t happy with me or wants to get rid of me, (three meetings, during which my union representative has to be present), (and getting rid of my classification doesn’t work, there’s rules for how someone ‘bumps’ other people if classifications are gotten rid of), and severance pay for when full-time employees that are downsized out of the company, there’s a pension plan, like . . . Guys, I have a 40-page handbook which details all of the rights my union has won me, and believe me, I’ve never had any of these at any prior workplace. And you know what my union dues are? $4 a paycheck. Of course I’m going to pay my union dues for all of those benefits.

[worldsentwined]

Reblogging for this incredibly thorough explanation of what it's like to actually have a contract in place at a union workplace. I reblog a fair number of posts about how people should organize, but if you're like me, you might not know exactly what that can get you until you've actually gone through the process. Every contract is different because you bargain for what makes sense for your particular workplace, and every few years you re-negotiate with the employer to improve things in the next contract, but some things (like the right to have union representation when you talk to your boss about leave or discipline) are universal.

It's worth every penny of your dues, I promise.

[lemonsharks]

we cannot afford to not unionize, yall

you can't even get a starbucks coffee for $4 anymore

[rainewynd]

Here's the thing about unions: my brother has been a deli clerk in a grocery store most of his adult life. He quit for three years to take care of our parents, and after their deaths, went back to working as a deli clerk. Because he had been in a union for long enough at said grocery, he still had his pension from before he quit working.

That's something that wouldn't happen in a non-union environment.

[kickair8p]

Don't think there's a labor union for you? The IWW is a union for all workers:

www.iww.org/about/

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[carmine-alexis]

Wanna wake up from their hands and tongue on me, eating my sleeping body out, maybe even fingering me, checking how horny they can get me even in this state. Not stopping once I wake up, but going faster, making me moan in a hoarse voice, while I buck my hips up to match thrusts of their fingers and flicks of their tongue, making them proud of how easily they can get me ready for them in any state.

[heyatleastitsnotcancer]

Okay I realized a lot of people don't know about this so there is this really cool product called the Ohnut. It's made for people with vaginas who have pelvic floor issues. Pelvic floor dysfunction can often cause painful penetration with sex.

It comes in a variety of sizes and can limit the depth of penetration while still allowing stimulation for the person with a penis. BUT I realized it has a lot of other uses. Vaginoplasty has a limit on vagina depth (usually 4-6.5 inches) which can be limiting for people with larger partners. This would allow for comfortable vaginal sex with larger partners! And in general for anyone with a vagina with larger partners that cause pain during sex, it would work great for that.

So I thought I'd share about this product because I have never really seen it mentioned online.

Ohnut Wearable - Painful Sex meets a feel-good Buffer

Painful sex meets a feel-good buffer: Ohnut is a revolutionary wearable that allows couples to explore comfortable penetration depths during

[glowcowboy]

oh btw just in case nobody ever told you. just because your life looks different than you thought it would doesn't mean that your life is bad or wrong or disappointing or less than. sometimes things aren't good or bad. sometimes they're just different

[alexselbyart]

Assimilate // 2019

Part 1 of an on-going body of work

I had to redact one of my photos since tumblr staff lied about nudity being allowed in art apparently

[quasistarjudgement]

HEY HEY LISTEN THE VOICE OF THE MTA TRANSIT SYSTEM, ALL THE ANNOUNCEMENTS ON THE NYC SUBWAY LINE??

SHE'S A TRANS WOMAN AND TRANSITIONED AT 66!!!!!! THE BACKGROUND HUM OF MY CHILDHOOD, AND SHE'S LIKE ME!!!! WHAT THE FUCK

[littlestpersimmon]

I hope every trans person makes it out safe. I hope we're all okay in the end. And I hope the journey to wherever the end is.. is easier from now on.. with companionship.. community.. food and stability..

[r2x2]

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

[Image description: A hand painted posterboard sign at what looks like a protest. Sign is in all caps and reads, "HRT is older than Viagra, Lasik, and heart transplants. Stop calling it "experimental" /end ID]

[kdinjenzen]

It's only called "experimental" because most of the research and dedication that went into transgender health care and trans people in general was BURNED by NAZIS.

So make sure to note that the fact we're called "NEW" or "NEVER HEARD OF" people is because people like THAT destroyed our lives and history.

[miyanoyoshi]

The man who implemented HRT into MTF transition alongside surgery was Jewish, which means his findings were directly sought after to be destroyed. This wasn't something merely caught in the crossfire of Nazi cruelty, they knew the people who wrote these things down were Jewish.

He was doing this as early as the 1920s, his clinic being open even before the 1920s. Most articles site the 60's as the years HRT was invented, but they're very USAmerican-centric.

His name is Magnus Hirschfeld, and he was also gay alongside being Jewish. He worked with gynecologists and plastic surgeons to bring us vaginoplasty.

He even recognized intersex people and bisexuals in his work. I wish I could read what the Nazis burned of his unpublished work, it would be so foundational to queer theory if only we could access it.

Oh also he's known as the Einstein of Sex

His memory is a blessing.

Links:

Magnus Hirschfeld - Wikipedia

The Forgotten History of the World's First Trans Clinic

The Institute for Sexual Research in Berlin would be a century old if it hadn’t fallen victim to Nazi ideology

[kdinjenzen]

Adding this in because YES that’s all true, and Magnus Hirschfeld was targeted by Nazis because he was Jewish and gay.