Iāll never forget the last in person conversation I had with with a woman I was on and off with for years because whenever there was an issue, she would just stop talking to me for months at a clip.
At one point she straight up blocked me and bragged to mutual friends about it. Friends went to me and told me to move on and that itās her loss. Her and I didnāt talk for 2 years. In that time, I moved on to the point of getting married. Soon after I got married, she popped in to see if I was single still and lost her shit when she found out I had gotten hitched.
She tried to convince me to get a divorce and called me and idiot for getting married in the first place.
The best partā¦ When she asked why I didnāt wait for her to ācome aroundā. I told her she gave me no choice but to move on when she blocked me.
This was her answer: well a block is only temporary. You should have just waited for it to end then hit me up!
Yeahā¦. Iām so glad I didnāt.
fuck those people who play these games
People who play these games should be kneecapped
My dad nearly fell into this trap. He was engaged to a woman who would go silent for a while after an argument. Dad finally told her, āEither youāre by my side or youāre not. Iām not playing these high school games anymore. If you love me, talk to me. Otherwise, weāre done.ā
He ended up marrying another woman who never played games with him and helped his better side come out.
This advise can go for anyone out there: if your SO is doing this shit, tell them to cut it out or youāre leaving. And follow through on that threat.
Get you a significant other who has good communication skills and will resolve problems together like a fucking adult
Yep. Games aināt cute, and they do not make a happy, healthy relationship
