Phoenixie

Call me Nixie. Blog used to be sexloveandkittys Main blog | 38 Gemini | Twitch @phoenixie_nox Other blogs: @phoenixies-library - bookish content @nixie-afterdark - 18+, mature content

[phoenixie-nox]

Hi, howdy, welcome.

I'm revamping this blog and my others, so good time for a reintroduction.

I'm Nixie, though I've gone by Shae, Kya, and more over the years. That's all still me, and I'll answer to any, but Nixie is the current running name as far as my online presence goes.

For anyone new, you don't know the lore so a quick version: I am 38, a wildly random, ADHD-ridden, sex positive, Fandom hoarding, mostly woman, and book dragon. I use primarily she pronouns with a side of they. I am queer, pan in all the ways, polyam with a huge side of trauma and mental illness which present plenty of challenges around that, a writer when I'm not smothered, an artist, and a lot of other things. I am kink positive, my body is my temple, and I have rules of engagement.

1. My content, on all my blogs including the adult one, can be reblogged, tagged, etc. I read all tags, they are little treats, and I love them. I will engage back often.

2. My inbox and asks are also open. I'm friendly, but not open to unsolicited nudity, sexual propositions, etc, especially from strangers. Come at me with respect or I will share your shit publicly.

3. Respect, as mentioned above, is currency for me. Treat me kindly, I'll be your best friend. Don't, and I'll burn that bridge to ash and never look back.

If you were/are one of the mutuals, I love you all. I am coming out of a rough couple of years, including an attempt that I'm glad to have survived. I may not be the same person entirely that you knew before, I've grown and changed, but I am happy for you to get to know the new me too. 💕

I do have other ways to contact me, but these are provided privately and only to people I know well. Otherwise message me here.

All my blogs:

@phoenixie-nox - my main catch all blog. All the random things I find, my thoughts, selfies, my life, Fandom stuff, etc.

@phoenixies-library - the book blog. Current, previous, future reads, quotes, my writing, etc.

@nixie-afterdark - the adults only, mature and explicit content. Don't follow if you're not comfy with all that entails, including kink content, and are over the age of adult consent (18+ typically)

If there are tags, triggers, etc, that any follower/mutual need or want, I'm but an ask away. You are deserving of the same respect I ask for.

[chocolatecakecas]

damn we got 2024 tomorrow

[chocolatecakecas]

damn we got 2025 tomorrow

[chocolatecakecas]

damn we got 2026 tomorrow

[celestialcherubicangel]

[theshunbun]

Atesh 💚

[liberalsarecool]

Finland has a goal to improve the lives of its citizens, not just the shareholders.

Working three jobs is to survive is exactly how capitalism creates billionaires.

End homelessness by providing housing.

[theshunbun]

I cant stop drawing the high slit dress 🩵

[mevil]

[guooey]

please please please help me find more cats smelling a smelly smell 

[glourp]

A compilation from the notes: stimky

[potatowitch]

she hates hand sanitiser

[none-sex-left-gay]

I was chopping onions

[anxietyproblem]

[thememedaddy]

[andhumanslovedstories]

I miss when everyone on my dash listened to Welcome to Night Vale so there’s be a good chance that on any ole day someone would reblog a quote that would grab me by the throat and forcibly ascend me to a higher plane where I understood myself and the universe better and with more kindness but also a little spook

[andhumanslovedstories]

“The past is gone, and cannot harm you anymore. And while the future is fast coming for you, it always flinches first and settles in as the gentle present” are you kidding me this quote has propelled me through at least three emotional crises

[willkill4pudding]

“The desert seems vast, even endless. And yet scientists tell us that somewhere, even now, there is snow.” That quote literally got me through grieving my brother like WTNV goes HARD

[barebitchinbodkin]

A List of Some of My Favorite Quotes From This Insane Podcast:

"You are beautiful when you do beautiful things."

"The present tense of regret is indecision."

"We understand so much, but the sky behind those lights-- mostly void, partially stars-- that sky reminds us we don't understand even more."

"Be proud of your place in the Cosmos. It is small and yet it is."

"Believe in yourself. You are an ancient, absent god, discussed only rarely by literary scholars. So if you don't believe, no one will."

"Death is only the end if you assume the story is about you."

“Whisper a dangerous secret to someone you care about. Now they have the power to destroy you, but they won’t. That’s what love is.”

"Are we living a life that is safe from harm? Of course not. We never are. But that’s not the right question. The question is are we living a life that is worth the harm?"

"When we talk about teenagers, we adults often talk with an air of scorn, of expectation for disappointment. And this can make people who are presently teenagers feel very defensive. But what everyone should understand is that none of us are talking to the teenagers that exist now, but talking back to the teenager we ourselves once were – all stupid mistakes and lack of fear, and bodies that hadn’t yet begun to slump into a lasting nothing. Any teenager who exists now is incidental to the potent mix of nostalgia and shame with which we speak to our younger selves."

"We are not history yet. We are happening now. How miraculous is that?"

"Wednesday has been cancelled due to a scheduling error."

"We have nothing to fear except ourselves. We are unholy, awful people."

"A million dollars isn’t cool. You know what’s cool? A basilisk."

"There's nothing under your bed. There's nothing in your closet. Nothing waits in every darkness. Nothing is the most terrifying thing of all."

"The night sky is ten miles wide, eight miles deep, and floats three miles up. Its favourite food is grape jelly. It wants to be a drummer."

"Look to the sky. You will not find answers there, but you will certainly see what everyone is screaming about."

"Ignorance might not actually be bliss, but it is certainly less work."

"And now, a special report. Crocodiles: Can they eat your children? *YES.*"

"Lie down and look up at the ceiling and breathe with those curiously fragile lungs of yours and remind yourself: Don’t worry. Don’t worry. All is as it was meant to be. It was meant to be lonely and terrifying and unfair and fleeting. Don’t worry."

"As long as I’m reminding myself things, I’m a good person, worthy of love – both from myself and others."

"Guns don't kill people! It's impossible to be killed by a gun. We are all invincible to bullets and it's a miracle!"

"Everything is exciting! Particularly existence. Existence is the most thrilling fact of all."

"There is a monster under your bed. A monster at your window. A monster any place you imagine one. You project your monsters on the world."

"You miss 100% of the bank robberies you don't commit."

"I like my coffee like I like my nights. Dark, endless, and impossible to sleep through. "

"A friendly desert community where the sun is hot, the moon is beautiful, and mysterious lights pass overhead while we all pretend to sleep. Welcome to Night Vale."

"And now, the weather."

I discovered this podcast at the beginning of high school, and let me tell you, it rewired my synapses.

Not only was it my first experience with positive LGBT representation, it was the show I clung to when everything else went to shit. Whatever was going on in my life, I knew I had this show in my corner, making me laugh, making me cry, making me feel okay about my place in the universe.

I owe the creators of this podcast more than I could express.

[nightlight-dot-exe]

"the lights over the Arby's" is such an intrinsically queer piece of writing that it hits me *hard* every time.

[avocadosmitty]

"We will never be the same again. But here's a little secret for you: no one is ever the same thing again after anything. You are never the same twice, and much of your unhappiness comes from trying to pretend that you are. Accept that you are different each day, and do so joyfully, recognizing it for the gift it is. Work within the desires and goals of the person you are currently, until you aren't that person anymore, and everything changes once again." (from Episode 75)

[roach-works]

"The universe is vast. You are also vast. So is an ant. There are different sizes of infinity."

[toast-in-a-cowboy-hat]

Someone asks what W.BG is about, I just hand them this

[fu-boss]

Real life Road Runner

[juney-blues]

i'd say i carry a normal amount of all the mild social rejection i've ever received in my body like shrapnel

[alwaysthewindneverthebird]

i want to live in a lighthouse and write books for a living and dress only in mossy colored sweaters and grow mushrooms and thyme and tomatoes and lavender in a little garden surrounded by a little yellow fence

[scorpionlafemme]

[longhairvixen]