I don’t usually reblog stuff, but this is actually super important. PLEASE, if you are a minor, do not interact with these people. Sexual predators of any form are not a joke. Also, if you don’t already know the general ‘met this person online’ safety rules, here they are:
● Be careful who you meet online. Always be aware that they could be lying. Just because they claim to be your age, doesn’t mean they are. (If you find out they are lying, do not confront them–simply block and walk away.)
● Keep personal information safe. Don’t share your address, phone number, etc. Seriously, unless you want a stalker, just don’t risk it. There are other ways to communicate and stay safe.
Other things you shouldn’t share: High School, City, Appearance, etc. If they ask these type of questions, don’t answer. If they know what High School you go to, they can find you. (Also, this is another warning sign. Tread carefully.)
● Meeting in person can be very dangerous. This is the main concern in regards to safety. There is a very realistic risk of abduction, this is why online predators are so dangerous. Here’s some general rules to follow:
If someone wants to meet up, DO NOT go alone. There’s safety in numbers. Bring friends.
Tell others where and with whom you are going. This way you have a safety-net in case something happens.
Bring pepper spray. As the saying goes, “it’s better to have it and not need it, then need it and not have it.” Most people won’t be offended. If they are, that’s a warning sign. (This is honestly the best tip to follow…it is very effective.)
Google before meeting. It’s not weird, it’s being smart. If they refuse to tell you their name, DO NOT meet them.
If you’re the secretive type (I get it, teenagers like their privacy), at the very least, have a back-up plan. Leave a note containing the information surrounding the meet-up. Give authorities a better chance of finding you should anything happen.
No one wants to believe they’ve been fooled. If someone’s acting sketchy, it is 100% acceptable to be suspicious. If nothing else, someone who’s being honest will think you’re cute and smart for checking your bases. It’ll be a sweet story for the future.
