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How to deal with a cheating husband ! Tips to help you.

How to deal with a cheating husband !

There are generally two types of cheating husbands 1.One who wants to desert his wife for the other woman. 2. One who wants to keep both and enjoy both the sides of life. No two situations can ever match for different individuals but the anguish, pain and the feelings of neglect and sadness are almost the same for everyone. Yes! Of course the response to the situation may also vary from person to person depending on his/her emotional psyche. Below are some tips on " How to deal with a cheating husband !"

Having another woman in your husband's life is torturous:

You are likely to go through feelings of disgust ,anger. pain and betrayal which may stifle and provoke you to such  an extent that you may consider walking out of your marriage. But that is not a sensible decision always. Without even trying to solve a problem and giving up is a job of a coward. The tough fight and win. Think before you leap because these kinds of affairs are generally very short lived. Focus on your family and husband too,showering him with care and love to disassociate him from the extra marital affair.  The investment it takes to save your marriage is always less than the rewards that you get. On the other hand if the husband is hell bent on separating from you for the other woman , set him free and fly solo to achieve the altitude that you have always dreamt of. Always remember that partners are mere companions in your journey of life and nothing more. If they hinder your progress then they are not worth it. Sometimes the man is playing a double game. You may not have known about it and it may come to you as a rude shock. In such case count on your wisdom and take an appropriate decision for the best of your future.

Men compartmentalize emotions

Men and women have different ways in handling their feelings and emotions..  In general, men can segregate their work from their family , their sex from love, and their lover from their wife more easily in comparison to a woman..  They  have all these feelings in different mental “boxes” and can mentally switch from one to another throughout the day.  "Out of sight is out of mind." is generally what a man follows. These mental boxes help him to be real in every situation and when one mental box starts dominating the other ,the sparks of trouble originate. That is why he can really touch your heart at one time  while some time later he can be the same with his girlfriend. A woman can can never be real in both these situations, but a man can have  two relationships going on simultaneously and that too sincerely. It is not a one day affair! Some men live this dual life for years because of their ability to box their feelings and especially if this has been done secretly.   The other woman is made to believe that there is trouble in the marriage and she assumes that the cheating man has been wanting to come out of his tumultuous marriage, though, it is a farce..  Always remember that a  man who lies to one woman can lie to another easily.

Why do men decide to leave ?

“Sex workers” (prostitutes) and “fun girls” are not interested in  a relationship with a married man, though they may pursue him for his attention or money on a regular basis.  Some men are addicted to them .These women do not wish to snatch away your husband , although they don’t care about its impact on your relationship. But the  'Other women' is looking for a loving companion , and a secure and committed relationship.  Eventually, this puts the man in a decisive situation where he has to choose one out of the two.  Now here the biggest deciding factor is the quality of the relationship that he enjoys with his wife.Men generally don't want to lose something which they love and value.

Mistakes that women commit  trying to get their cheating husband back

Coping with a man who wishes to leave is different from coping with a man who has been caught red handed and wants to stay,.  Any negative emotion or anger that is imposed on him is only going to push him further from you. Pleading with him is also not going to help.  The decision is neither about the other woman nor about you (although it seems so).  The choice is about him and his future.  Anykind of resistance or disapproval is going to push him further away. Although what he is doing is very wrong, you can’t make him stay by proving him wrong. Your blaming, offending, or pleading with him will do nothing to protect your relationship .This all makes you more repulsive. This action shows a lack of concern for your husband.

Reconnecting the only solution at this time

The disconnect and the distance between you and your husband is the cause of this horrible situation. It is not that he really loves the other woman but he has grabbed onto the first opportunity that came his way. He is actually looking for emotional compatibility which has deprived him for long. Had it not been this woman then it would have been someone else. More than marriage it is the connect between the two partners which is important to him. He wouldn't mind leaving you for the sake of connectivity and emotional fulfillment with anyone else. Although it may be a recent discovery for you but good.....that you know it now. So what are you waiting for .............. Try bringing back that connection that you once shared with him. You may still be lucky to get him back.  Don’t assume that if he doesn’t care about your relationship now,  he never will.  While separated, try connecting with him not just telephonically but emotionally and mentally too. Listen to his problems. Do not bombard him with your own crying stories but rather help him sorting out his emotional conflicts without criticizing him  These are skills that you may not be aware of, but which you can learn.

Sometimes it is impossible to get him back from the other woman

In situations where there is no contact between the husband and wife it becomes almost impossible to reconect.  No more contact means no relationship.  Secondly there should be a will to get your cheating husband back.It needs hard work.Another situation is when he has already committed to the other woman by moving in with her,  married her, had a child with her, and other such indisputable commitments. Dating or flirting is not commitment.  He may also been going around with someone for long but still it is not a sign of commitment.  There have been times when a man stays with another woman only out of convenience  rather than commitment.

How to get your cheating husband back ?

When a man has been caught red handed and does not want to lose his wife , then a lot of stiffness is required.  In such a situation counselling can heal a relationship.  First of all , communicating with your husband without fighting or being neutral has to be learnt..  You should be able to prove to your husband of being a better choice without looking needy. Then, you needs to  make him choose at the appropriate time.  When men are not made to choose they don’t.  And, if you don’t do this ,  the other woman will. Try to bring back the fun in your marriage and try to revive the old flame that existed before. Emotions run very high at this time and emotional reactions are very common at this time.  End of communication means end of relationship.  You can’t keep the communication alive by just being  nice .This may make him exploit your emotions and at the same time enjoy the other woman too.  You also can;t be too tough as this will just push him towards the  other woman.  Always confide in your loved ones who will give you the peace of mind that you desperately need at this time. Wish you good luck for restoring your marriage. Please do like  us on facebook http://www.facebook.com/pinkdomblog/   Read the full article

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Colon Cancer Survival - Please Don’t Avoid These 4 Dangerous Signs

Colon cancer comes in disguise of very common symptoms. A normal person will pass it for a common ailment. He would try to treat the symptoms with over the counter medications but to no avail. He keeps running from pillar to post while in the mean time the hidden monster grows leaps and bounds. So, the early symptoms of colon cancer should be nipped in bud to stop it from spreading.

Please Don’t Avoid These 4 Dangerous Signs

1. Sudden weight loss Sudden weight loss is a symptom of several illnesses. But It could be a warning sign of the beginning of colon cancer. Weight loss should never be taken lightly and should be brought to immediate notice of your physician. It could be an alarm bell of the onset of a malicious disease. 2. Acidity or abdominal pain A mild pain in the abdomen is taken lightly and common pain killers are taken to subside the pain. Constant recurrence of this pain should be taken gravely and doctor's advise should be immediately taken. On the other hand, an intense pain with blood in stool could be a sign of colon caner. 3. Constipation There are various causes of constipation.  A persistent and obstinate constipation should never go unnoticed as it could be a sign of colon cancer. This is only to aware you not to scare you. Please immediately consult your doctor for further clarification. 4. Anemia Excessive blood loss, lack of nutrition, any disease could all lead to Anemia. It's a symptom of a disease, not a disease itself. Low blood pressure, weakness, heart palpitation are some signs to be taken care of. Genetic transfer of colon cancer is also common but may vary from person to parson. For any further questions and clarifications about the symptoms of colon cancer, please consult an expert for the same. He would be able to guide you and further throw light on your points of doubt. This will equip you for your further course of action. Please do like us on Facebook -> Pinkdomblog Read the full article

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What Your Nails Say About Your Personality? Must Read!

Our body language is our personality's mirror. Our body posture, our natural gait, our hand movements etc. all reveal our personality. There are other things as well which help us know our personality. In this blog post we shall discuss what your nails say about your personality. I tried to check its authenticity by confirming my personality traits according to the shapes of my nails. I was amazed to find this theory correct considerably. So, I thought of sharing this secret with the readers and help them improve their personality. Why don't you check yours and post your comments below ...So let's start...

1.Vertically long nails : An easy going romantic person

Image Source: jdsremedies Your romantic and imaginative right brain overpowers the logical and practical right brain.You are easily moved by emotions and sentiments. You are highly credulous by nature and hence are easily deceived by people. You find it very difficult to take practical decisions and your left brain is always in conflict with your right brain.

2. Broad shaped nails : Ill-tempered

Image Source: jdsremedies Eloquence is your forte.You specialize in transforming thoughts into words,which projects you as a person who calls 'a spade a spade.' However, your impatience and peevishness may put you in trouble very often so you need to practise self restraint at times. Your practical attitude keeps you away from emotional fools who only use their heart for taking decisions. 3. Round or oval-shaped nails: Serene and laid back attitude

Image Source: fashioninpix Your  tranquil and relaxed nature attract friends to you as bees to honey.Your friendliness makes you popular with friends and you love to pour water  on arguments and squabbles as you love peace and calm.At times this turns out to be negative for you as you are taken to be non serious kinds because of your laid back nature. 4. Square shaped nails: You’re no-nonsense and unrelenting types

Image Source: nailarts Your determination, perseverance and grit puts you in  category of ambitious men . However, your unrelenting attitude and obstinacy is a blot on your impeccable personality. If you compromise with these negative qualities then you would have an unblemished personality. 5. Triangle ( upright and inverted) shaped  nails: You’re the sensitive genius

Image Source: notey You’re highly innovative and meticulous. People with inverted triangle type are persuasive in nature, while upright triangle types are extremely  sensitive .They generally can't tolerate easy going people who do things at their own pace. 6. Almond shaped nails: Loyal and honest

Image Source: totalbeauty Benevolence , trust , and loyalty are your characteristics. You are well mannered and polite, but are less tolerant. People who cross their morals make you annoyed. Practice self restraint to control your temper at times when you are about to burst. 7. Sword-shaped nails: You are ambitious by nature 

Image Source: ladylife Always with a sword in your hand you are ready to defeat all the obstacles that come in your way. You toil hard to attain your goals. You believe in the policy of  'Everything is fair in love and war' You can do anything to achieve your goals. However, you’re an unfit  in the cooperation department. You uncontrollably snap at people who are unable to maintain pace with you. It would be advisable to become more tolerant with others. Hope, you found what your nails say about your personality article interesting. Please share with your friends and family members. Read the full article

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5 Simple Tips to Look Stunning - Pinkdomblog

Looking gorgeous and killing is a dream of most of us. Lot of people suggest us tips to look stunning but many a time they are shams. We are giving you some never failing techniques to look stunning and smashing.

Planning to kill your lover with your wonderful makeover! Try these tips to look stunning:

#1 Use your hairband for a comfortable sleep and a new hair look. The steps are given in the video below.

#2 Rub your hair gently while drying it. To give it a lively and a shiny look. Learn the right way of drying your hair in the video given.

#3 A new technique to remove split ends. Have you ever thought that a flame off fire can add beauty to your hair. Checkout video below...

#4 Dandruff removing miracle mixture Sick of dandruff? Use this magic portion to get rid of dandruff.

#5  Try this simple & innovative techniques to create a new hairstyle for getting a thunderous applause.

Unlock the mystery of looking stunning. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fmB95Bu-D3Q Video Source: youtube Read the full article

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7 Things You Should Immediately Delete From Your Facebook Account - Pinkdomblog

Have a Facebook account? Remove these pieces of information from your Facebook account to save yourself from any risk. Facebook is the new Google of social net

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Child Rape - The Rapist In Disguise Of Your Loved Ones

Child rape and child sexual abuse are terms which were rarely heard of in the olden days. People were god fearing and virtuous. Such thoughts were considered to be sinful and deplorable and such humans were ostracized by the society. Today child rapists are all around in disguise of loving human beings preying upon their soft targets i.e. children who are credulous, vulnerable and easily deceivable. The most shocking thing is that these perverts can be from one among our loved ones, who are responsible for our protection and security. I feel ashamed to mention their roles because sometimes they are the ones whom we trust blindly in. For example uncles, brothers, fathers, neighbours, friends etc. This may not be the case with all. But such incidents in the society should be eye openers for all of us to protect our children from people around them in disguise of respected and loving human beings. I am narrating a true and a very sensitive story of child rape in the victim’s words who is trying to heal her deep embedded scars even today. Lost Virginity at a Very Young Age She faced this obnoxious crime when she was only 11 years old. Her virginity was stolen when she was 11 and her life changed completely after that. The worst was that the victim was raped by her own father several times every day and her mother was in complete denial as she wanted to save her marriage. This is difficult to believe. A father is his daughter’s hero who comes riding whenever his lovely daughter needs him and protects her from all the monsters of the world. But what if he himself turns out to be a monster in disguise of a father. "Everything was normal till my father was posted in another town. He used to come occasionally for a day or two and we used to have a lovely time together. He bought gifts and chocolates for me on every visit and I started trusting him blindly. It all started when he was posted in our town and started living with us. I came to know from one of my friends that he was my step father. My mom was a working woman and her shift was from 5 a.m to 4.00 pm except Sundays. That day after my mother left, my dad started insisting on giving me a bath which I found very strange. Despite my denial he pulled me to the bathroom and started undressing me. I could not understand what is happening as I was too innocent to understand his motive. My World Shattered Retaliation was too farfetched. He started applying soap on my body with a disgusting look in his eyes. I am blocking out the horrific details, as it is nauseating. I lost my senses out of fear and fell down on the floor, rather pushed down with his body on top. I could feel his naked body all wet. Something penetrated me and my world shattered. Despite my innocence I knew that what just happened wasn’t normal. My head was reeling and I was shocked and scared. It was paining and stinking. I guess I fainted because I found myself in my bed properly dressed and my father sitting next to me with a cup of coffee in his hand for me. He asked me to relax and forget about what happened in the bathroom. I was emotionally frozen. I was raped by my own father whom I blindly trusted. I had a sharp pain down there. I was clearly penetrated. I Became an Emotional Wreck I was scared to death and on top of that threatened by my devil father of not talking about it to anyone lest he would take me to police. That night I cried a lot into my pillow not knowing what happened. I thought of sharing it with my mother but didn’t have the courage to do so. That night was a sleepless night for me tossing and turning trying to figure out what had transpired. I was scared to be alone. The next day I clung to my mother forcing her to take me along with her to office but she was clueless as to why I was behaving like that. I refused to eat if she didn’t take me but she refused. I had to go through that trauma again in absence of my mother. I was ripped apart with no one to share my agony with. I was treated like a sex toy for entertainment. Ashamed to Share the Truth I decided to write and tell my mom about what had happened as I was feeling ashamed to share the truth with her. I gathered all my courage and when my mother was working in the kitchen I went and gave her the letter. Immediately after this I ran to my room and covered myself with a bed sheet to hide my shame that was writ on my face clear and bold. I expected my mom to come and comfort me by hugging and kissing me but nothing like this happened. In fact I found the torn letter in the dustbin and my mother continued with her normal routine. She did not take any notice of what I had written in the letter. I was left alone in the hands of a devil who tortured me at his own will. I do remember sharing this with a neighbour but she was almost of my age and I wonder whether she understood it. I did lighten myself by sharing the story with her. Broke Away From This Nauseating Cycle A few years later, when I was 16 years old I decided to break away from this nauseating cycle. I had borne this torture for almost 5 years. I started hating my parents and especially my mother who denied this just to save her marriage. It is the failure of my mother to believe me, that hurts me the most. My mother never understood why I avoided my father when he wanted to hug or caress me. I guess she deliberately pretended not to understand it. It’s the duty of every parent to watch out for clues like these and to know that every dramatic behavior change is a cause for concern. I was traumatized. But my mother failed to protect me. It was only when I was 16 that I eloped with a boy who later married me. He knows about my past but the irrecoverable scars haven’t healed and they have become my inseparable companions. My Tumultuous Past Haunts Me My life has been deeply affected by my tumultuous past. I have shared this with ample number of people but not anyone who knows me personally, about my dad. It’s a huge secret to endure. I have never been able to make love naturally as for me it is linked to rape and molestation. Though I consider myself lucky to have such a patient and understanding husband. For me every man is a predator; I cannot trust anyone. It’s a horrible way of living. I don’t have words to describe my pain as I was dragged through hell. “Why? When I was defenseless?” Opening Up To Give Courage to Others I am opening up to give courage to others who are still trapped in this destructive life cycle. I have two daughters who are my life but I never trust my husband with my daughters. Sometimes my husband gets offended with my behavior but my daughters’ security is now the goal of my life. I want them to be so courageous so as to pull the eyes out of these kinds of monsters and lead a liberated life. I wanted my stepfather behind bars but due to lack of evidence he is still roaming free." This is the story of Nancy (name changed), who is now trying to bring her life back on track by passing on her learnings to her daughters. She considers herself an orphan with no mention of her parents. Her nightmare has ended but its trail still follows her. Child rape can happen with a girl as well as a boy. Mothers the Closest Confidants Generally mothers are the closest confidants of their children and it is their duty to take every single word uttered from a child’s mouth seriously. Any change in behavior should ring alarm bells in their ears. They should be quick enough to detect signals of distress and anxiety from their child’s face to protect them from any untoward incident like child rape. Children never lie and they expect you to trust them blindly for them to live a fearless life. Please do like us on Facebook -> Pinkdomblog Read the full article

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Infertility in Men - How to Increase Sperm Count Naturally

Infertility in men has become an alarming problem of today’s modern society. Infertility may happen with men as well as women but men are often seen to suffer more from infertility than women. Infertility is when an individual is unable to participate  in conception of a child. Like diabetes it is more a lifestyle problem. Sedantry lifestyle,  obesity, lack of exercise, stress etc can be some causes of infertility. Case of Infertility in Men Elizabeth did not conceive for six years in her first marriage and it ended in a tragic divorce without any fault of hers. She was humiliated by her husband and in-laws for not being able to conceive for so many years even after regular intercourse. After remarrying another man she conceived in less than a year. This relieved her when she got to know that the problem was with her first husband and not her. Her marriage ended because nobody pinpointed the infertility problem in her husband as it is a taboo to do so in society. In such cases seeking treatment becomes difficult. Things you should know Female infertility is easily diagnosable but, infertility in men is tough to diagnose at an early stage. Diagnosis of male infertility is complex and difficult. Various tests have to be performed on semen samples to find the sperm count, its strength and other things. Hormonal levels , defects in sexual organs, retrograde ejaculation are some of the things that need to be tested. Wounded or abnormal testes can also cause male infertility. Some other causes that can cause male infertility could be  excessive medications, alcohol consumption, smoking, cancer treatments,  obesity, and vitamin C deficiency. Cure male infertility naturally SOME VALUABLE HERBS FOR MALE INFERTILITY There are plenty of herbs available that can eliminate male infertility. Some of them are being mentioned here for fast recovery from male infertility. MACA It is a plant of Peru origin available in powder form which boosts fertility and sex drive. It is also adaptogenic in nature. If taken regularly it increases sperm count, quality, and motility. This increases fertility in women also.  It is an excellent energizer too. TRIBULUS Tribulus’ root and fruits enhance male libido and vitality. It stimulates production of sperm. It also improves the quality and life span of sperm. HORNY GOAT WEED "It is a Chinese herb used for low libido, impotency and production of healthy sperm. This herb also decreases fatigue, pain, and other conditions." SAW PALMETTO Saw palmetto is a herb used for impotency, weak sexual performance, and for energizing  the male reproductive organs. HO SHOU WU This herb controls involuntary release in men and is used as an energizer that can be harmlessly used for a long time. HO SHOU WU helps maintain youth, build sperm, and alleviate impotence. ASHWAGANDHA Ashwagandha is a herb that helps body manage stress and strains, improves stamina and enhances energy. It is a panacea for sexual problems and naturally enhances fertility in a person.It lowers  blood sugar levels,  boosts brain function and help fight anxiety and depression. It improves sexual performance and fertility and it is one of the best tonics for reversing adrenal burnout. SCHISANDRA BERRY It greatly improves sperm production. In women, this herb helps rejuvenate sexual desire and improves fertility. SHILAJIT It contains over 85 minerals and vitamins, which helps prevent anemia and improves sexual vitality. It’s great for reversing male infertility. FOR EXHAUSTIVE STRESS Infertility can cause abnormal stress and can be caused by extreme stress. In extreme cases where nothing works to keep you energized  it is adaptogens that work wonders. These herbs help you tackle stress and anxiety very effectively by repairing frayed nerves.This new way to tackle stress will help improve decreased libido and help produce strong and healthy sperm. Being stress free increases libido and sexual strength. Some stress releasing herbs are: Holy Basil (aka Tulsi)–  taken in tea, or capsule Milky Oats- taken as capsule Rhodiola- taken as a capsule The above herbs if taken will help reduce stress and improve libido which in turn will help cure male infertility. Please share this information with all your peers. Please do like us on Facebook -> Pinkdomblog Read the full article

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Are You Sexually Harassed? Cut the Shame! - Pinkdomblog

A sexually harassed woman  comes across perverts all around as imposters dressed as gentlemen. They are somber and stylish, immaculately well behaved with a monstrous interior, dreadful to experience. We meet them in public places, homes, and offices but we fail to recognize them. Working women face the brunt unknowingly in the offices. Sexual harassment is passed off as normal in disguise of work culture, liberalization and modernization. Any sexually obscene and abusive act which causes discomfort, mental and emotional turmoil can be termed as sexual harassment.

Sexually Harassed Sexual harassment at workplace is definitely not confined to just physical or sexual abuse. It comes in different packages. A story of a sexually harassed victim in her own words “I started working as a graphic designer with an advertising agency... From what I remember, I was highly unproductive and unable to meet deadlines. My creativity and my designing skills which used to be my forte vanished into thin air. I quit the job after a month, clueless about the consequences and my future. It was only after self introspection that I realized why everything went topsy- turvy leading to complete destruction of my self confidence and self esteem. The torture began with the first day of my office when my boss called me to his cabin and asked me to sketch the body of a nude woman. He further asked me to highlight the sexual organs of the lady prominently. All this gave me a yuck feeling but as per my boss he was testing my creativity and boldness. Intimidation scared me to death I wanted to run away but my feet were shackled out of fear of losing my job which I had got after great difficulty. I had my family to look after as I was the sole bread winner of my family. Then came the ultimate. He came and stood behind me. He put his hands over my hands guiding me draw the intimate portions and suddenly he came so close to me that I had to literally push him aside. I immediately got up and left the room feeling cold in my bones. What the hell did I face? I was in a state of complete shock and dizziness not knowing what to do next. The realization of what I had experienced inside that cabin dawned upon me much later. But the creepiness of that incident disturbed me for a long time as every male gaze razes my self esteem in destructive ways even today. I had a glass of water and rushed home never to return to that office. Today I am working at another respectable place where thankfully such monsters are not around.” This was an extreme case of sexual harassment but this comes in various subtle forms too. Touching inappropriately, forcing you to smile and sit close, making objectionable sexual gestures, holding your hands for no reason and various other things causing discomfort and uneasiness can be termed as sexual harassment. Tackling Harassment No level of sexual harassment can be labeled more or less in comparison to others . Sexual harassment is difficult to explain and all the more difficult is convincing people about it. Statements like “don’t overreact”, “take it easy”, it’s no big deal “it’s normal” are often heard while explaining one’s case to people as they fail to understand the mental and emotional trauma the victim is going through. Because of the above remarks the victim herself becomes so confused that she passes this off as normal behavior and sometimes ends up with more severe circumstances and results at times leading to rape or murder. This often starts with making sexually objectionable statements, slight flirting, cracking dirty jokes, in front of other males and by the time it takes a dirtier turn it is too late to return. So this should be nipped in the bud. The stigma attached with this, stops women to bring it in public. They also fear loss of dignity and humiliation. Sexual Harassment in disguise of ‘Work Culture’ Work culture varies from industry to industry. When we talk of advertising agencies, modeling world, film industry, etc. the women are required to prove that they are fit for the work culture followed by these industries which includes liberal views, boldness, the art of getting along with their male counterparts, exhibiting chemistry in their love making scenes etc. In the struggle to prove this they have to continuously keep bearing the harassment subjected on them. Women are often commoditized and they are expected to get used to derogatory remarks made for them in the name of work culture and trend. Women who belittle and criticize this work culture are shown the door. So if they want to be a part of the industry they have to gag themselves and move with the flow. Breaking free The first step is to understand the hostile environment and the derogatory behavior towards women associated with it. Anything from obscene sexual gestures, comments related to appearance and clothing, staring or smiling in an unfriendly manner etc. come under sexual harassment. Once this step is successfully completed , the next step involves sharing this with your friends and family who understand you. The last is to break away from this vicious cycle of torture and associate yourself with something healthier and meaningful. Tolerating this intimidating behavior for need of money may completely ruin your self esteem and self confidence which will leave you depressed and victimized. ‘Don’t feel ashamed’ There are hardly any redressal cells for this in offices and the only route is the court which is a lot of hassle. Social media has come as a great respite for sexually harassed victims who can speak up openly on it. They many a time garner a lot of support from social media to take it boldly to the courts for further fight. I have read umpteen number of  stories of women who have faced sexual harassment at work place but due to lack of support were not able to follow it up till the end. It is not easy to pour your heart out on such a sensitive issue publicly specially if it deals with your dignity and self esteem. I do not expect or force any sexually harassed victim or survivor to give any justification. It may jeopardize one’s career, ruin one’s peace of mind etc. It’s OK! It’s their life. The trauma that they go through while putting up with all this nonsense is unexplainable. Sometimes sharing adds to their agony and distress . But one thing is clear that they should walk into the office with their heads held high. The perpetrators should be ashamed and not you. It is never your fault . I would definitely request all the women to discourage such act to save their self esteem and dignity. This article aims at empowering sexually harassed women and sensitizing people towards them. 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Smartphone Addiction: Are You Addicted To Your Smartphone? - Pinkdomblog

Smartphone addiction is a growing problem in today's tech savvy world. Smartphones have become indispensable in our lives. No friend, food or entertainment can ever replace it. The world is moving towards digitalization and we are in the rat race with our smartphones intact in our hands. Jumping on to the bandwagon without realizing its repercussions is a sign of an addiction. We all need a digital detoxification to go back to the happier and carefree days. Ooh! Living without smartphones…...Impossible! Can anything be scarier than this? We are all in a state of digital delirium and the problems that arise out of this, are thought of as common life problems. It is similar to an intoxicated man under the effect of liquor. Check the below points to find if you are an addict or not Checking your phone the moment you get up:  If you enter your bathroom with the phone in your hand, it can affect your cognitive abilities, thinking and emotions. Is phone the first thing you look for in the morning ? Using cell phones for entertainment:  Using smartphones gives a feeling of euphoria and excitement. This high or kick is very addictive in nature and the person feels like repeating it again and again. Unable to live without your smartphone:  “Restraint is required to overcome the urge of using the phone again and again which gives an ever-increasing kick and high similar to drug abuse. New uses of the cell phone, and the excitement of new downloads, lures us to our smartphones increasing number of times and further strengthens the smartphone addiction. Anxious and perturbed without the smartphone:  Peevishness, tension, anxiety and panic that creeps in when people are separated from their smartphones indicates that they have become dependent on it. At times some become short tempered and violent too. Others start complaining of your increased time with your smartphone :  If your near and dear ones start complaining that you are spending more time with your smartphone than with them then it is time to rethink about your lifestyle. Excessive Smartphone use could be destructively impacting your social life or family time. Helplessness in reducing the use of smartphones:  When restraint to control your urge of using the smartphone brings it back with double the force and you are unable to live without your phone, it is time to take it seriously because you are already in the trap. Some other signs of smartphone addiction include using them to overcome negative emotions or forget a trauma, losing track of time while with the smartphone. Neglecting physical impacts such as eye strain, back pain, and many more. After reading the above you will know if you are a victim of smartphone addiction or not. If yes then resolve to overcome this addiction to come out of it in one piece. If you do not then it will completely paralyze your brains. Sharing is Caring! Please do like us on Facebook -> Pinkdomblog Read the full article

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Is Your Child Drifting Towards Pornography Addiction? Beware! - Pinkdomblog

Have you ever felt or caught your child watching pornography online. If yes then you need to prepare yourself for the battle ahead. A tough one but inevitable. Brace yourself to face the harsh truth of pornography addiction. We happen to live in the dark, appreciating our children’s online adventures and boasting about it to our peers. But the day we stumble upon him watching pornography online our rose tinted glasses shatter and we are in for a rude shock. The site could be an ‘accidental find’ leading to a lifelong pornography addiction. His inquisitiveness may expose him to the obnoxious side of pornography unless something is done about it. A pornography website traps a child. by providing objectionable links and provocative popups to explore, which are very luring to a naive mind. They are projected in such a way that it traps a person into visiting it again unwantingly. If your child has already tasted the enticing flavor of a pornography site, then the only way is to be candid. First take him into confidence so that he divulges his feelings to you without any inhibitions. More importantly teach him to separate shame and sex. Gain his trust and let him pour out his feelings to you in a tension-free environment. Then try to explain to him the deceptivity of these sites. Some of the things that will help you in such a situation are: 1# Haste is waste so don’t react hastily The child has unknowingly done the act. The steps cannot be retraced now. Though it is hard to accept this reality it has to be accepted with a cool head. Reacting immediately will further worsen the situation. Talk to him at a suitable time when he is in a cheerful mood. Initially talk to him indirectly about it and convey your feelings to him but in a non-threatening manner. Make the child understand what pornography is - an obscene digression of reality. Give him some time to react. If he still continues with it then have a face to face discussion with him explaining to him about the inappropriateness of pornography online and its perilous effects on his mind. 2# Have an open sex discussion with your child Talk about sex and pornography addiction with your child. Bring him a book on sex and discuss terms like ‘penis’ ‘breasts’ and ‘vagina’ with him. Involve him in this open discussion. Also explain to him about sexual intimacy and intercourse. Show your child that sexual intimacy and mating should not be belittled as it is an act of love and derogatory words like  ‘dick’, ‘pussy’ and ‘boobs’ should not be used. Next tell him that you are aware of his exposure to pornography online. Encourage him to discuss about sex and tell him that he should not be embarrassed to talk about sex. You should act as a source to satisfy his eagerness to know about sexual acts and sexual mating. He should be encouraged to come to you in case of any doubt about sex. Emphasize more on the emotional importance of love making. Convince him that pornography never depicts the reality. The bodies shown in the act and the sizes of the sexual organs shown in the pornographic online sites are never real and he should not base his self esteem on it. 3# Become a sexual dictionary for your child. Your child is bubbling with questions. Give straight forward answers to all his sexual queries Talk to him like a friend so that he comes running to you for his answers. Never put fear or shame in his mind while talking about this otherwise he will never stop watching porn. He will rather ensure that he is not caught while doing so.. And that is rather risky. 4# Warn him about its ill effects A child is after all a child. Involve him in interesting activities and try to divert his mind from porn. Involve him in something productive which he is passionate about. Try to be around as much as possible and try to bring him out of this pornography addiction. You can also share stories of children who watch porn and how they ruined their future. 5# Stop further exposure Find out the source or the root cause.. Check his browser history and try to ascertain how it started. Whether he stumbled upon it or he searches for such sites which will be clear from his browsing history. The next step should be to install a parental control. There are various controls available in the market. Keep the system in the living room or your own room and limit his time on the net. Try to keep him away from the system in the night. His net surfing should be monitored and supervised. Most of the parents face this situation in their life. It is better to be prepared rather be caught unarmed. 6# Open the lines of communication This Situation opens up a huge opportunity to open the lines of communication between you and your child. They sometimes go through weird feelings and they do not understand that what they are feeling is normal or not. This is the time when your role comes into picture. His trust in you should bring him running to you to sort out his embarrassing and sensitive issues without being scorned. Teach him about the mutual respect between opposite genders. Teach him accountability for his actions. He should be freely able to talk about contraception and other sexual concerns openly with you. This will make him a psychologically strong person. 7# Developing morality in your child. Shock! Agony! Fury! Disgust ! and Concern! are some of the emotions that raise their head in a parent when a child is caught watching porn. Blame game further worsens the situation. Please follow the above guiding steps to constructively rectify the unwanted situation. Please do forward this message to all the parents to help them bring out there children from this perilous pornography addiction. Read the full article

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Dream Interpretation | Do You Dream? Explore More About Your Dreams - Pinkdomblog

Our subconscious mind is at work when we are asleep. We always underestimate the power of our subconscious mind which is a million times more than our conscious mind. Our subconscious mind hides the treasure of our future which we are unable to decipher. It hints us time and now but we fail to learn from it. Dream interpretation helps us learn from it. Our subconscious mind lives in the form of dreams warning us about our future but we, being the ignorant ones discard its signals and fail to benefit from it. To help you decipher the meanings of your dreams we have compiled some of the common dreams which many of us dream about along with what it signifies. You may be able to unravel a few mysteries about your past and the future. It is not the dream, but purely the dream interpretation that can foretell the future. More importantly one can get the hidden truths from one’s dreams.  Bare in public Bare in a public place signifies that you are finding yourself completely exposed. If you see someone else nude then it means that you are anxious or worried about exposing someone else. Babies It signifies  a wish  to produce a child, or a need to be loved. It may also signify a new beginning. Death Death of a near and dear one signifies endings and new beginnings. It also could be coming to terms with some kind of parting. Clothes Clothes suggest about how we want people to perceive us. If you are shabbily dressed in your dream, you feel unattractive or ignored. Changing your dress sense will portray a change in your lifestyle. Exams Exams can signify self-evaluation, with the content of the exam reflecting the part of your personality or life under inspection. Falling Falling is a very common dream  that shows  our worries about letting go, It could also mean losing control over life and failing. Food Food is life for foodies. If one dreams of food it may signify knowledge because it nurtures the body just as information nurtures the brain. It could also be just food. Hair Hair is related to sexuality, according to Freud. Excessive hair  signifies virility, while shaving off hair  in a dream may signify loss of libido.  Killing Killing is a negative emotion and in dreams shows hostility towards a particular person. Mountains Mountains are obstructions, so a dream of successfully crossing a mountain can symbolize achievement. Sex Sex dreams reveal  intimacy and a desire for sex. It may also mean merging of hidden emotions with conscious feelings, signifying  a new knowledge and personal growth. Being trapped  Trapped (physically) and unable to escape is a common nightmare, It reflects your inability to escape or make the correct choice.  Being chased It signifies your response to pressure and fears of day-to-day life. It reveals that you have a tendency to shy away from issues rather than handle them. This dream can be recurring until you find solution to your real life problem. Hope the above dream interpretation will better your lives and benefit you in the long run. We will continue this series depending on your views. Please do comment and let us know. Please like us on Facebook -> Pinkdomblog Read the full article

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Shout Loud against Reservation in India, Join Us!

Dr. Bhimrao Ambedkar, had suggested 10 years for reservation system till equality is established in the society. Since then reservation in India has strengthened its roots to such an extent that it cannot be uprooted so easily. It has become the bread and butter for politicians. Talk about equality and not reservation in India Getting into the details of why reservation and why not is a waste of time as we have talked about it since ages. Now the time has come when we should talk about equality and equal opportunities for all. Despite reservation, equality has still not been achieved as it is the general candidates now who are facing discrimination now. The clock has completely reversed. Here is an amazing interview of a general candidate which will reflect the thoughts and feelings of all generals of India. A journalist asking questions to a general candidate Journalist: Who is a general category citizen of India in your view? Candidate: A general candidate of India is a discriminated and a repressed lot. She/he is the most disadvantaged and the underprivileged category of India. An unreserved category is the one who is given least importance in India. Journalist: But why so? Candidate: They constitute a very small vote bank for politicians as they are not united. Hence the politicians focus more on reserved categories to win elections. SC/ST/OBC constitutes about 70% of the total population which is a big chunk of the population. Journalist: What is unreserved? Candidate: It means 'no reservation ‘These seats can be taken by any reserved category candidate. Journalist: Why don't you also ask for reservation? Candidate: Our politicians thrive on reservations in India.They think that a general candidate is intellectually and financially more capable. Hence he should not be given reservation. But they forget that why would we want to work for a country where we are discriminated against the reserved. Journalist : We ape the west in all the other things but not reservation. Why? Candidate : That’s a great question. Even in America Anglo Americans were the more privileged class in matters of education, citizenship etc till 1990’s. Other Americans were not treated as equals and some were even treated as slaves but none of the leaders brought in the policy of reservation based on caste, creed , religion etc. Later laws were framed to establish equality. Journalist: Elaborate further. Candidate: We Indians want to be a developed country but our politicians will not let us. They want to adopt western policies but do not want to abolish reservation. In the west the governments strives to establish equality but in India divide and rule has become the weapon of politicians. They believe in establishing discrimination to win the seats. This hypocrisy will lead us nowhere. Journalist: Will this not lead to a decline in the prosperity of the country? Candidate: Politicians except a few are only bothered about votes and their power. They have least interest in the progress of the country. That day is not far when no general candidate would want to serve his country and would move to greener pastures where he is given importance and value because of his intellectual capabilities. Journalist: Will this country be dominated by the reserved category which gets admissions or jobs at much lower marks. Candidate: Yes! A reserved category dominated country will lag behind other prosperous countries of the world which would use the brains of the capable and talented ones (general candidate) and put India at the very end of the success ladder. Journalist: What do you feel for your country? Candidate: Pity! Its future is dark because of reservations. Changes in society bring about progress. It’s time our government should abolish reservations ensuring India’s progress and as citizens of India we should understand that reservation in India is not meant for a society which preaches equality. It should be only given to handicapped people to help them sustain their living. In the end I would also like to add that Generals are looking forward to a creation of party opposing reservation in India and supporting equality. We are lagging behind in all areas because of reservation and despite our capabilities we are not able to utilize it for the betterment and progress of our country. If you agree with the above point of view then let us all together make it an engaging discussion by sharing and commenting on this article for further engagement to spread it like fire. Sharing is Caring! Please do like our Facebook page -> Pinkdomblog Read the full article