Plural Positivity 🎉

A place to share positive experiences with plurality of all kinds <3 // PRO ENDO // SOA, it/its, hx/hy/he, NO they/them, NO it&/you&, NO human terms.

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Help Us Get Safely to Oregon & Into Stable Housing

Hi everyone — We're asking for help for ourselves.

We are currently working to relocate from Arizona to Oregon to access mental health support and transitional housing programs that aren’t available here. This move is incredibly important for our safety, stability, and long-term future.

We're doing everything we can to be prepared — we have basic belongings, and travel essentials. But the reality is, starting over in a new state comes with immediate costs that we can’t fully cover alone.

We are raising funds to help with:

Safe travel to Oregon

Temporary lodging while we wait to get placed in a program

Food and daily essentials

Transportation once we arrive

Basic stability while waiting for housing approval

Our goal is to make sure we have a safe, stable landing — not just getting there, but getting through those critical first days and weeks.

If you’re able to donate, even a small amount helps more than you know. And if you can’t, sharing this would mean just as much 🩵

Donation accounts in the comments

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Help Us Get Safely to Oregon & Into Stable Housing

Hi everyone — We're asking for help for ourselves.

We are currently working to relocate from Arizona to Oregon to access mental health support and transitional housing programs that aren’t available here. This move is incredibly important for our safety, stability, and long-term future.

We're doing everything we can to be prepared — we have basic belongings, and travel essentials. But the reality is, starting over in a new state comes with immediate costs that we can’t fully cover alone.

We are raising funds to help with:

Safe travel to Oregon

Temporary lodging while we wait to get placed in a program

Food and daily essentials

Transportation once we arrive

Basic stability while waiting for housing approval

Our goal is to make sure we have a safe, stable landing — not just getting there, but getting through those critical first days and weeks.

If you’re able to donate, even a small amount helps more than you know. And if you can’t, sharing this would mean just as much 🩵

Donation accounts in the comments

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We will be essentially homeless by the end of next month. So sometime before then, we will be checking ourselves in to some kind of facility in order to seek emergency and residential housing assistance.

At this time, we don't know exactly where we'll go, and aren't quite prepared for it, so we don't have an exact ETA. We also don't know what our situation will be like in terms of our ability to continue running our blogs for the near future, and assume it will at least be a month or so that we'll have zero access to any devices.

That said, please continue to send in submissions to any of our blogs. Just be aware that once we give notice, it may be a long time before we're able to get to it. Most of our blogs are currently empty, but the queue for @syscord-out-of-context will last into September as is.

As for our other blogs, I have privated almost all of them. They will be unprivated once we're settled.

As for our Discord servers, they are still open, as there are other staff members. We entrust any important decisions to them.

Please do not try to give us any comfort or condolences. This is fine. We will be okay. We merely want to give notice before a potentially long absence, as we were unable to give any explanation before we were hospitalised for a year in 2023.

Although if anyone knows about / has recommendations for any housing and disability/SMI services in Oregon, preferably around Eugene, please reach out to us either here or preferably on Discord at hydorsoa.

Please follow this blog for updates.

-- Itsuki // he/hxm

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FANTASTIC news we have a partner system now!!!!

We HAD an alterous gf. But she either split or has discovered a headmate that's been there for a while (presently unsure), AND NOW WE HAVE TWO PARTNERS!!!!

🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

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My husband and I never had an actual ceremony. We decided we didn't need one. But then we had a pretty bad fight where we needed a friend to help us not end up splitting up. And now we're having a wedding. We're in the same system so it'll be in headspace. But our singlet friends agreed to do a little at home reception for us. I'm so excited. We're going to draw the "photographs" from the ceremony to show them. And we have a friend who is an actual artist who said as a present they're gonna draw us a wedding portrait. I'm just so excited. My husband is gonna marry me. ❤️

-Achilles 🐀🌊

!!!!!

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I'm finally making progress dealing with my. complicated. feelings about my source :]

sure i still don't like it but this is the first time in months i've heard about it in passing and didn't feel sick right after!!! progress!!!!! - @ifwewerekingsoftheworld (etho)

(there was maybe even a sense of pride that i could be held in high regard. maybe. idk i'm so tired and need 25 hours of sleep)

🎉🎉

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The host was front locked for two months while hang a depressive episode. We couldn't even get in to him. He was essentially isolated in front. For context.

We finally got in again a couple of days ago. And it's been so nice to cuddle him again. And for him to play in the background while I front again. To be able to take front from him for a while.

He's finally out of the episode and we're all just so happy to be back with him. I keep stopping and just checking back in headspace to watch him laugh. He's got my husband running around like a crazy man playing.

I don't know. Maybe this isn't positive enough for this blog. It's on the heels of something so negative. But I'm happy. And I wanted to share that.

<3

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FINALLY managed to get two headmates who hate each other (well. A despise B, B loves A but also has complicated other feelings because of A hating B, they're twins/mirrors of each other) to get along for half an hour (by playing music and making them dance in headspace). now if i could just get them to get along all the time... (<- that would require them actually talking about their feelings and A actually unpacking its trauma which will take. A While. but we'll get there eventually!)

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I mean this happened a while ago, but I think it'd delight somebody to know that the way I stopped my can't-deny-can't-accept bullshit was literally just because I loved my sysmates so much that I decided it didn't matter whether they were real, my feelings toward them were real enough to matter.

Love conquers all, I suppose. Syscovery was a painful process for everyone involved, and yet they were there the entire time, and I hope I've ensured their patience was well worth it.

-"Trent", of the Android System

🩷🩷🩷

[problematicpluralculture]

Welcome to Problematic Plural Culture, a culture-is / confessions blog for those in the plural community who are labelled "problematic" in contrast to the broader community.

This blog is run by one collective. No pronouns or any pronouns.

We are pro-endo. Anyone can send asks.

We accept:

"Culture is" style asks.

Confessions.

Rambles and rants.

Positivity.

We do not accept:

Hateful, rude, aggressive, or otherwise inflammatory asks. This includes anything directed at any sub-group of people, other submitters, or ourselves.

General, vague expressions of violent and homicidal urges are allowed, but the moment it becomes targeted your submission will be removed and you will be blocked from this account.

Anything disrespectful or insensitive towards victims of real crimes or their families.

Promoting a certain viewpoint or stance, discourse or otherwise. Don't bring discourse here.

Vents that include asking for advice, expressions of self-harm or suidical ideation.

We reserve the right to not publish any ask and block any sender, for whatever reason, without having to disclose why.

@problematic-fictive-culture-is @popular-introject-culture-is @natalgenic-culture-is @problematiccallcentral

[daily-plural-questions]

Coming to you from the creator(&) of @plurality-pet-peeves, daily plural questions!

Here we'll post a question everyday at 12 AM and PM CET for plurals of any kind (including polyminds, transplurals, and anyone else!), where others can reblog and/or comment to answer!

Feel free to send in asks for suggestions on what questions we should post :)

Question suggestion asks won't be answered, we will just post the questions without the ask! If you send an ask off anon we'll mention you in the post! (We will say in the post if it was a suggestion btw! Just like, "suggested by anon" or "suggested by @ user" unless requested otherwise) (Also if this is a terrible system let me know lol)

Anti endos are free to interact and send suggestions, I just ask that you remain respectful of others experiences and don't try to start anything please! This is intended to be a lighthearted blog

Questions should be like "How much amnesia do you have?", "What's your favorite thing about being plural?", etc. this isn't a blog to ask if you're a system, or things like that, so please don't bombard us with those kinds of questions!

More info on the owner and blog under the cut

Hello! We're a DID system, we use He/Him and Hy/Hymn! (Yes yes, I know that's the same as our other blog but give me a break lol) We've been seeing a lot of drama in the community, and we kinda wanted to make a place where stances can just be voided and everyone can talk about their own experiences freely :) I hope this blog can do that!

We may try to add our own answers to questions if we feel like it

Our base: @the100percent

Tags:

"#Daily plural question" The daily plural question!

"#Not a daily question" Posts for anything that aren't the daily question! Like answering asks, making announcements, etc

"#Daily silly question" Daily plural questions that are silly/non-serious

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we love bah blogs! we enjoy looking through them, looking at what others have requested, and from time to time we request something too!

and it especially sparks joy when we think that someone else might use the outcome of our request to help themselves: be it to flesh out a fragment, or to form a whole new headmate from scratch!

even when they might not turn out identical to the post, we're glad that somewhere out there can exist a source twin to our headmate :D

🩷🩷🩷

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SoSorry for tthe writing. We we'll trtranslate it. It.

But. AfAfter missing my lovlovely boyfriend, I decided to introject him. Noww we cause chaos together :33

(Sorry for the writing. We'll translate it. But. After missing my lovely boyfriend, I decided to introject him. Now we cause chaos together.)

🎉🎉

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One of my mutuals has no idea how to refer to us collectively so he just calls us "chat" I love it he isso silllyyyy <3

🩷🩷

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system owned and aimed crochet server!!!! or rather "physical crafts". aaaaaa we've been wanting one for so long but thought there would never be one i'm so 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

– Spencer M. // cy/cym/cyr // @huddycule

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came out as plural to our third ever irl, and the first that wasn't super close to us pre-syscovery to hear all the "it's not normal to have more than one voice in your head?" stuff

AND IT WENT WELL

We didn't use plural/system terms, since we weren't sure if she'd be familiar, but explained our experience, and!!! She asks about us individually now, refers to us as "all of you", "you all", and is very quickly adjusting to the idea of us being multiple people <<33

Literally dream scenario AAAA

@une-collection-des-etoiles

🥳🥳🥳

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The collective relief we all felt when outside stressors finally decreased enough for us to not feel blurry at all moments of the day...

🎉🎉