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Kite 🪁 Transsexual boygirl/bigender/systemfluid, unlabeled. | It/He | 21 | Taken!!!!🩷4.20.26 | Plural system | No DNI, will block freely. Pro endo / Pro willo.

[positivitygenic]

you matter. you are important.

yes, even if you are a fragment.

yes, even if you've only fronted once.

yes, even if you're unlikely to front again.

yes, even if you exist for only a day.

you are important! you matter!

[leathersys]

💥REMINDER:

[leathersys]

our thoughts all sound pretty similar so this happens a lot

[pluralpet]

I wish more people talked about headmates who handle romantic relationships and it being their role.

[dearie-drop]

I hate how people assume that being endogenic means you never struggle with your plurality ever. It just means your plurality wasn't ORIGINATED from trauma, it doesn't mean you have no struggles at all. I'm endogenic (sort of, mixed origins!) and I struggle a LOT with my plurality! It's not something you can generalize! Don't put people in boxes, ok?

[filmphotofranz]

[pluralpet]

I got some 10 pound weights from the thift store, and they r so heavy. this body is really weak, but I'm really excited to hopefully get stronger using them.

I really want to start working out. There are so many different reasons why I should, but I just don't because I am mentally ill and whatnot. but I believe I can do it!! - 🍔/💚

[pleasantlyplural]

You are valid regardless of reason. Your headmates / alters / parts / fragments are very real. They exists and so do you, that’s proof enough 🩷

[gremlinz-yapz]

"sex should be less stigmatized and talked about more" and "you should always make sure people who dont want to consume sexual media that you present dont have to see it" are two statements that can and should coexist. by the way.

[artbylittlebug]

[pluralpet]

compare to the other headmates, I probably feel the least dysphoria about the body. while I do look different in headspace, I don't feel bad about having to be in a body that looks like this. For one particular headmate, his dysphoria is so painful and so much louder in comparison. - 🍔

[pluralpet]

we really have been thinking that there are just the four of us in the system now, but it could also be that the four of us are hogging front. it's also hard to tell who is a headmate or if it's something else.

it feels strangely fine thinking that there's only four of us. I don't feel much of a pushback when saying the statement. it's kinda nice that we're a smaller system in a way. I would like to know what happened to the other headmates/fragments. Maybe it's dormancy, or they fused together, or it's just like I said before, and we're hogging front. I don't really feel the need to dig into too much. if I was meant to know, I would know. - 🍔

[radqueer-princess]

hi ,, elliot is plural but not 4 realizes yet ,, he wants transplural ( specifically transdid ) tipz,,, <33 thank yew...

Transplural/transDID tips 4 Elliot!!

~ BAH blogs are a GREAT place for alters, but I also recommend adding front triggers so you can do something to get your alter to front ~

~ A lot of systems journal things that happen to them, so write stuff down and try to assign an alter to it! ~

~ A headspace isn’t required, but it can help you communicate with your alters! We started making our headspace by just imagining a blank white room with the current fronters and kept slowly adding details until we were happy with it! ~

~ Since DID is usually caused by childhood trauma and I assume you’re past childhood, try making up past traumas, but slowly! DID forms to protect you from trauma so you won’t get all your traumas back at once, and the more you try to convince yourself happened at once the less of those memories will actually stick, and if you already have trauma you can always use that! ~

~ Save BAH templates for later stressful situations to get into the habit of splitting from stress or trauma ~

~ Let your alters have relationships with each other! This could be anything from Jason and Kipo always fighting over which show to watch to a group of animal alters forming a pack/herd together and always looking out for each other! ~

~ Think about what your brain would think it needs! If your trauma had a lot of dehumanization you may have many nonhuman alters! If you have hyperfixations on fiction you could have a lot of fictives! If you have another disorder you could have an alter to hold symptoms of it! ~

You’re always welcome in the palace~ visit the princess again soon!

[positivitygenic]

the pains of being percieved will never erase who you are, as long as you live as yourself. other people not understanding you or misunderstanding you will never change the truth of your being, of who you are. and inevitably, eventually, you will find someone who will accept you and every aspect of you.

[pluralpet]

gay flag pfp for pride month <333

[sysresources]

FICSPIRED

A term for headmates who are brainmades or otherwise nonsourced, but have traits of a fictional sourced media/concept. This can be in appearance, name, personality, anything that the headmate believes applies to them. Can also describe previously sourced headmates becoming nonsourced, but still associating with sourced traits.

requested by : no one f2u! credit is appreciated but not required.

[pluralpet]

I've been playing baby steps most of today, n omg!! I love how beautiful this game is. I'm currently working to get all the achievements in the game and hopefully make a youtube video from the clips I've recorded.