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" dni harmful paraphilias " oh my virtue、harmful paraphilias do not exist in any realm。attraction cannot be harmful、actions can。
You are plural.
You are a system.
Yes, you are polyfrag. Why are you asking? Did you forget about it again?
Yes, those things did happen to you.
"is it okay to identify as ___?" YES!
NO exceptions!
TRANSDID TRANSITION GUIDE
Except no bullshit and easy to follow.
(the transdid doc is still a wip and will be made, I just wanted to get something out for everyone to use until then)
INDEX
1 — what is DID
2 — terminology
3 — how to form alters
4 — how to become polyconscious
5 — how to dissosicate
6 — how to create amnesia barriers
7 — tools that may help
8 — how to create a headspace
transplural tips from a cisplural
-> the biggest one is faking it until you make it. seriously. in my experience of helping transplurals, this has been the biggest part. but a question i often receive is: what does that look like?
"fake it until you make it" is very vague. so here are some things you could do:
1. use simply plural. Of course, it helps you keep track of your alters, but the chat feature is often underutilized. spend some time chatting with your alters. even if they're not conscious yet. even if you're basically just roleplaying for them. this helps you develop relationships with them and helps them develop a voice. let your alters talk to each other too.
2. give them differences. if you love sweet foods, make one of your alters hate them. if you have a specific music genre you like, make them like a different one. and stick with these differences. if you taste something thats just a little too sweet, oh suddenly you've switched and now you're this alter. if you hear the music your alter likes, suddenly youve switched.
3. you dont have to feel like youve switched. if you're still at the stage where you're roleplaying a switch, that's fine. go ahead, it doesn't hurt anyone. if you have to pretend to be an alter after encountering one of their triggers, do it.
4. make them their own internet presence. whether it be a blog or a social media account or even just a pinterest board, let them curate their own internet experience. and if you have to pretend to be them to curate that experience, go ahead.
5. just pretend. switches? pretend. likes? pretend. how they feel about someone? pretend. pretend long enough and itll come true.
-> think about them as if they're a real person. one of my system's most commonly used phrases is "oh x would like this." we buy things for each other, save images/posts for each other, and even make things for each other.
-> allow different alters to have different friends. this is a big thing for separating you from your alters. let them make their own friends. you can still be friends with them too but make sure its primarily the alter talking to the.
-> review your alters' info religiously. this is mostly for when you're first making an alter but constantly look over their info. try to utilize it in real situations. ex. "x likes this. x wouldnt like this. this would make x front. x hates this person but loves this other person.
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how to form alters pllss
How Dissociative Identity Disorder creates alters is creating dissossive states which form conscious Invidiuals to function normally due to trauma. Over time, they may form more origins and not always form due to trauma.
However, theres is dissossive barriers between alters (such as a cisendogenic who is cisdid may have formed due to other causes and trauma created the barriers).
So, here's some starter tips to understand how to create alters:
— You are aiming to create dissossive barriers between you and the other alters
— Traumagenic alters normally have reasons why they are there. Are they there to protect? Care for the body? Etc! This doesn't apply to all but they always have a cause why they're here.
— Often alters are polyconscious and multiple. This isn't often the case but it is quite normal/common!
Now, how to actually form alters? Instead of being broad and just saying there is many ways to do this, we will being to an genuine tutorial.
Step One — Create the alter
One common tactic that we as a collective do is firstly, create the alter. BAHs can be quite helpful for this process!
What is their name(s)? Pronouns? Gender identities? Any xenogenders? What about transids, cisids, etc? Age? Species? Boundaries? Term preference? Clothing preference? How do they type? Personality? These are all questions to so consider when first creating them.
Now, create the plan. You can write this in a notes app or docs or send a bah in. Once you receive the bah pack or finish them, now is the next step.
Step Two — Creating the alter
Although, there is many ways to do this, we will stick with one tactic. So, you have created the plan, now you have to create the alter.
To do this, you firstly start an conversation with them. Think what would they respond with? How would they react?
Pretending is one of the key steps into creating alters in general, however, are helpful especially in transdid plurals.
Some conversation starters can be:
— Can you help me with this?
— What do you want to do?
— What do you want to eat?
— Want to find a movie with me to watch?
— What video do you want to watch?
Make sure to think of them as already formed and conscious. You can also think of them as separate and already have anmesia barriers. This includes talking for them and forming those barriers such as responding as if they do not know where they are, ask about people around them, etc!
This can extremely help out with creating amnesia barriers when creating them. The brain will trick itself into forming their consciousness and making them an consciousness and sentient alter.
How long this takes will differ! However, here's some tips to help out:
— Talk to them constantly
— Affirm amnesia barriers (you can also wait after creating them to do this as a collective!)
— Make them a blog! When people talk to them, it can help form them along the process as you can't control what others say, they will eventually respond on their own
— Ask them constant questions to affirm identity, sense of self, and personality!
Step Three — Creating anmesia
Not everytime, you will form anmesia when creating them. So, you will have to create it yourself. Anmesia barriers are barriers between alters dividing memories, skills, etc!
Anmesia barriers can be black out anmesia or grey out anmesia or both. Emotional anmesia is also common in DID and OSDD-1.
Now, how to create anmesia? Firstly, you can pretend. Pretending often causes genuine anmesia and is a common process when transitioning to DID.
If the other alter can front, even if you can remember what they did, pretend you know absolutely nothing. Be confused when people ask anything when they're front.
If they can't front, you can still do this but with random parts of the day! The drawing you drew? You look at it confusingly when you flip to that page, etc!
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It must be so nice that all of you can steal from oppressed groups and cosplay their oppression, thereby fulfilling your victim complex, without actually experiencing the consequences of marginalization.