Or to put it more succinctly: Men have been forcing women to do all the work since the beginning of the gender binary and if you as a trans woman say that you don't really like being forced to do all the work you get accused of being male socialised, because men don't like doing work. (You certainly don't get the benefit of the doubt that you were talking about it being unfair to all women that literally anyone else would get.) And this is seen by some as a feminist position, rather than telling women to stop complaining about having to do all the work.
And it's not just open transmisogynists who are like this. Everyone does this. Everyone scrutinises trans women and thinks the absolute worst of anything we do. A cis woman or someone AFAB complaining is normal, EVEN if they word it weirdly. A trans woman could word something perfectly and have academic citations for it and still be accused of being a newcomer to oppression by someone labelling themselves an ally to us. You are not immune to seeing the worst in us. It's not just terfs. It's everyone. It's friends and family and the people we love and date. It's other trans women even. We are scrutinised as "male" in a way men never are. Because it's not actually about men. It's about having a way to force women to do all the fucking work! Especially for people who usually don't get that kinda power over women.
"Women you can force to do the dishes. Women you can force to do all the dishes." or something like that.
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