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Λ ΰΌβ‘ βο½‘Λ you do not need a new face you need a face card routine Λqβ β‘ΰΌΛ
posted by mindy β‘
there is nothing wrong with wanting to look prettier. i think sometimes we get so deep into staring at our faces, comparing little details, saving pretty girl after pretty girl, that we start thinking the answer has to be a completely different face.
but most of the time? you do not need a new face. you need a little routine that makes your face look awake, soft, clean, glossy, and loved on.
the girls with the face cards are usually not doing twenty confusing things at once. they just know their little details. they know which brow shape makes their eyes look lifted. they know their lip combo. they know whether gold makes them glow or makes them look slightly unwell. they sleep. they moisturize. they stop wearing colors that drain the life out of their face.
it is very unglamorous, but it is also very fixable. β‘
β§βΛ ΰ¨ΰ§ the skin is the entire mood
you cannot concealer your way out of skin that is thirsty, irritated, or never given a chance to rest. you do not need a twelve-step bathroom-counter situation either. the prettiest skin is usually just calm skin with a little bounce to it.
your basic face card skincare routine:
β‘ cleanse at night, especially if you wore makeup, sunscreen, or spent the day touching your face. go gentle. your cleanser does not need to leave your skin feeling squeaky, that is usually your skin begging for mercy.
β‘ moisturize every single day. even oily girls need moisture. when skin is dry underneath, makeup clings weirdly, texture looks louder, and your face starts looking dull by lunchtime.
β‘ sunscreen in the morning. i know, i know. but protecting your skin from sun damage helps so much with uneven tone and stubborn little marks, which means you eventually need less makeup to feel polished.
β‘ pick one concern to work on instead of throwing every active ingredient in existence at your face. breakouts, texture, dark marks, dryness, choose the thing that bothers you most and give it time. pretty routines are boringly consistent.
β‘ do not punish a breakout. skip picking, use a pimple patch if that helps you leave it alone, and let your skin heal. a spot lasts much longer when it becomes a little excavation site, unfortunately.
a little concealer around the eyes and mouth, and cream products on top of hydrated skin? genuinely so much prettier than trying to cover every centimeter.
β§βΛ ΰ¨ΰ§ your brows introduce your whole face
i have a very strong opinion about brows: they should look like they belong to you. not like two sharp little stickers that arrived before the rest of your face did.
the goal is soft, groomed, slightly lifted brows. brush them upward and outward, fill the sparse spots with tiny hair-like strokes, then keep the front lighter than the tail. a brow that is too dark at the front can make your whole expression look harder than it actually is.
a tiny face card map:
β‘ the inner brow should begin around the side of your nostril.
β‘ the little arch should happen around two-thirds of the way through, not right in the middle, unless that is naturally your shape.
β‘ the tail should travel outward, not droop dramatically down. a softly lifted tail makes the eyes look brighter and more awake.
if you are always rushing, getting them shaped or tinted by someone whose work you genuinely like can make your everyday face feel done before you even touch makeup. bring reference photos, but also let them work with your actual bone structure. your best brows might not be the brows you saved from a girl with a completely different face, and that is okay.
β§βΛ ΰ¨ΰ§ lip gloss is a tiny personality transplant
there is something about a hydrated glossy lip that makes a bare face look intentional. you could be in a hoodie, hair in a clip, no makeup on, and suddenly you have brown liner and clear gloss on? different girl. she has errands. she has secrets. she probably smells good.
find a lip combo you can do with your eyes half closed.
for soft vixen pretty, i would start here:
β‘ a brown, rose-brown, or cocoa liner that is close to the natural shadow around your lips, not necessarily the darkest brown pencil you can find.
β‘ a nude pink, caramel, peach, or mauve in the center if you want a little more color.
β‘ a shiny gloss or lip oil over everything, especially in the center of the bottom lip.
you only need to overline a little, if at all. keep it mostly at the cupidβs bow and the center of the bottom lip. when you trace a huge new outline around your entire mouth, it tends to look obvious in real life and photographs in a slightly sad way. we are enhancing, not doing architectural renovations.
also, lip balm at night. exfoliate gently only when you actually have flakes. cracked lips plus six layers of matte lipstick is not the feminine struggle aesthetic we are going for.
β§βΛ ΰ¨ΰ§ sleep makes your face look more expensive
this is the least exciting answer and maybe the most noticeable one. when you are running on no sleep, it shows up everywhere: under-eyes, puffiness, dry lips, dull skin, a short temper, that strange βwhy does every makeup look look wrong today?β feeling.
you do not need to become a 5 a.m. wellness girl with lemon water in a glass jar. just make sleep feel like part of your beauty routine.
wash your face. put your lip balm on. moisturize your hands. put your hair up in something that will not snap it off. dim the room. get off your phone a little earlier when you can.
a rested face photographs differently. it moves differently. you look more like yourself.
β§βΛ ΰ¨ΰ§ water is not magic, but being dehydrated is very rude to your face
drinking water will not suddenly erase texture, change your nose, or give you a brand-new jawline by tuesday. i hate when beauty advice makes hydration sound like a magical personality trait.
but when you are dehydrated, your lips can look drier, your skin can look less fresh, and you may feel generally blah. keep a water bottle near you, sip through the day, and eat real meals too. fruit, vegetables, protein, carbs, little things that make your body feel supported instead of surviving on iced coffee and vibes.
β§βΛ ΰ¨ΰ§ knowing your colors is basically cheating
some colors make your eyes brighter, your skin warmer, your lips more defined, and your whole face look like it has a candlelit filter. some colors make you look like you have been standing under office lights for seven hours. this is important information.
try this in daylight: hold different colors near your face and take little photos.
look at:
β‘ crisp white versus creamβ‘ baby pink versus dusty roseβ‘ chocolate brown versus cool greyβ‘ gold jewelry versus silver jewelryβ‘ warm red versus blue-redβ‘ peach blush versus berry blush
do not focus on rules like βyou are definitely a soft autumn princess moonbeamβ because those systems can get weirdly strict. just pay attention. which shades make your skin look even and alive? which ones make your under-eyes look darker or your complexion look flat?
once you know, build a tiny pretty-girl uniform around those colors: your blush, lip liner, favorite tops, jewelry, nail polish, even your hair color if you dye it. having a palette makes you look more intentional before you have even done anything dramatic.
β§βΛ ΰ¨ΰ§ your little face card routine
for the everyday days when you want to look like yourself, just prettier:
β‘ skincare + sunscreenβ‘ brushed, softly filled browsβ‘ concealer only where you need itβ‘ a warm cream blush or bronzer placed high on the cheeksβ‘ curled lashes or a light outer-corner lashβ‘ your signature liner + glossβ‘ earrings, a cute hairstyle, and a color that loves your skin
that is it. no new face required.
the prettiest thing you can do is become familiar with your own face. learn it when it is bare, when it is happy, when it is sleepy, when it is glowing, when a certain blush placement makes you go ohhhh wait⦠there she is.
because she was always there, babe. you just needed a routine. β‘
β tiny vixen note: this week, pick one detail to become known for. your glossy lips, your brows, your gold hoops, your soft pink blush, let it become your little thing.
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Back to school reminders
this school year, remember:
you don't need a completely new personality.
you don't need to be friends with everyone.
you don't need to look perfect every morning.
you don't need to have your entire future figured out.
make memories. take the pictures. wear the outfit you were saving for βa special day.β talk to the person you've always wanted to talk to. join the conversation. buy the cute stationery just because you like it. stay after school and laugh until you forget what time it is. study hard, but don't forget to actually live.
some of the best parts of school won't be the grades you'll remember.
it'll be the random Tuesday when everyone was laughing, the song you played every morning, the friend you weren't expecting to make, the hallway conversations, the inside jokes, and the little moments you didn't realize you'd miss.
make this a year worth remembering. β‘
The Art of Becoming the Woman You Admire
One day, i realized that the women i admired weren't necessarily the prettiest, richest or most popular.
They simply carried themselves differently.
They spoke with intention. They had hobbies. They read books. They knew when to leave. They didn't beg for attention. They treated themselves with the same care they gave to everyone else.
For a long time, i thought admiration was something that happened from a distance. I thought i would always be the girl looking up at those woman.
But becoming her isn't a single decision. It's a collection of tiny choices.
The book you decide to read instead of scrolling. The boundary you finally enforce. The promise you keep to yourself. The way you speak when nobody is around to hear it.
Little by little, the gap between who you are and who you want to be begins to close.
The art of becoming the woman you admire is realizing she was never someone else.
She was always a future version of you
every time you hesitate, someone less talented takes your spot. the world rewards audacity and confidence, NOT potential alone.
Maybe growing up is simply learning that not everything beautiful has to be witnessed.
The Truth About the Clean Girl Pandemic
Somewhere along the way, being ''the clean girl'' stopped being an aesthetic and became a lifestyle everyone was chasing.
Suddenly, every morning looked the same ; the slick back, the gold hoops, the matcha, the pilates class, the expensive skincare lined up perfectly on a marble counter. It was beautiful, it was aspirational.
But I don't think that's why so many of us wanted it.
I think we wanted what it represented.
Peace.
In a world that moves too fast, where everyone is expected to be available 24/7 and constantly reinvent themselves, the clean girl felt like someone who had it all figured out. Her room? clean, her mind? quiet. She drank enough water, she had her goals, she looked after herself. She was suppose to be the definition of the word perfect.
The truth is, none of these things come from buying the right products.
The clean girl isn't created by a serum, gym membership, or a pinterest board.
She's created in the ordinary moments.
She's the girl who washes her face even after the longest days. The girl who chooses to study because she cares about her future. The girl who makes her bed, puts her phone down, goes for a walk, and slowly but surely builds a life she doesn't feel the need to escape from.
Maybe that's why the ''Clean girl pandemic'' happened in the first place.
Maybe we were never obsessed with looking perfect. Maybe we were all just looking for a softer way to live.
And maybe the real glow up isn't becoming the girl on your For You Page.
Maybe it's becoming the version of yourself that feels at home in her own life.
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π gloss pages vol. 1 -- the audrey effect β§
hey lovelies! iβm so excited to share the first ever issue of the glowettee magazine! it's called "gloss pages" this first issue is inspired by audrey hepburn, quiet confidence, soft girl, and becoming the most elegant version of yourself β§ 7 pages of vintage tips, dreamy rituals, audrey quotes, and coquette-style guidance for girls who want to glow up from the inside out. take what you need, screenshot what you love, and share it with your soft girl circle π€ xoxo, mindy π
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β§γ»γ: how i'm using this season to shed old identities that no longer serve me :γ»γβ§:γ»γβ§
hey lovelies! β¨mindy here!
i've been sitting on my little balcony this morning, watching the sunrise with my iced matcha, thinking about how summer always feels like nature's permission slip to reinvent ourselves. there's something about the longer days and warmer air that makes everything feel possible, you know? like we can finally shed the heavy coats of who we've been pretending to be.
β.ΰ³ΰΏ:ο½₯ realizing i've been wearing masks ο½₯:ΰΏΰ³.β
honestly? i had this moment last week where i was getting ready for a friend's party and literally tried on seven different outfits, not because they didn't fit but because i kept thinking "does this look like me?" and then i had this weird breakdown moment where i was like⦠wait, who even is "me" anymore?
i realized i've been cycling through different versions of myself for different people - the perpetually positive girl, the aesthetic overachiever, the one who never needs help, the girl who has it all figured out. it's exhausting trying to maintain all these identities when deep down i just want to exist without the pressure of being consistent with who i was yesterday.
β.ΰ³ΰΏ:ο½₯ summer as a season of shedding ο½₯:ΰΏΰ³.β
i've been thinking about snakes a lot lately (stay with me lol). they shed their entire skin when they outgrow it, and there's something so beautiful about that natural process of release. summer feels like the perfect time for us to do the same.
i started making a list of identities i've outgrown but have been clinging to:
the girl who says yes to everything because she's afraid of disappointing people
the perpetual optimizer who can't enjoy anything without trying to improve it
the one who needs everyone to like her (this one's been the hardest to let go of tbh)
the person who derives all her worth from productivity and achievement
these old skins have been suffocating me, and i didn't even realize how much until i started consciously peeling them away.
β.ΰ³ΰΏ:ο½₯ my gentle shedding rituals ο½₯:ΰΏΰ³.β
i've been creating little rituals to help me release these old identities, and it's been kind of magical? here's what's been working for me:
morning journaling where i write from the perspective of my authentic self rather than who i think i should be (sometimes i literally don't know what to write and that's telling)
a social media cleanse where i unfollowed accounts that make me feel like i need to perform a certain version of myself (cut my following list in half and my anxiety improved immediately)
practicing saying things like "i don't know" and "i changed my mind" without offering explanations or apologies (terrifying at first but gets easier)
creating a "permission slip box" where i write down things i'm allowing myself to be/do/feel that the old me would have rejected (currently on my nightstand and it's getting fuller every day)
asking myself "whose voice is this?" whenever i hear that critical inner monologue (turns out most of my inner critic speaks in borrowed voices)
β.ΰ³ΰΏ:ο½₯ growing pains & gentle reminders ο½₯:ΰΏΰ³.β
can i be honest? this shedding process isn't always pretty. there have been days where i've slipped back into people-pleasing or perfectionism because those old identities feel safe. there have been moments where i've felt completely lost without my usual masks to hide behind.
but i'm learning that this discomfort is part of the process. that weird in-between stage where you've outgrown who you were but haven't fully become who you're meant to be? that's where the magic happens. that's where we get to play and experiment and figure out what actually feels true.
i keep reminding myself that authenticity isn't a destination, it's a practice. and summer, with its forgiving warmth and abundant light, feels like the perfect container for this messy, beautiful transformation.
so i'm curious⦠what identities are you outgrowing this summer? what parts of yourself are you ready to shed? sometimes naming them is the first step to letting them go.
sending you all the courage to become more of who you really are.
xoxo, mindy π€
p.s. if you're feeling brave, write down an identity you're shedding on a piece of paper and bury it in your garden or a potted plant. let something new grow in its place. (i did this with "perfect girl" last week and i swear my lavender plant is thriving)
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How to manifest anything.
saying this AGAIN as a reminder to myself and anybody else out there. γ
Figure out what you want γ
Make the decision to detach from the 3d declare to yourself that you will no longer look towards the 3d for it anymore or concern yourself with whatever's going on in the 3d. detach from it, it no longer matters to you since you have what you want now. γ
Also make the decision to let go of the old story declare to yourself that whatever happened or was true a moment ago is no longer true for you anymore now. whatever happened no longer matters anymore since the story has changed now. γ
Claim you have whatever it is you want just start telling yourself you have whatever it is you want. that's it. don't go back on that decision or concern yourself with anything else anymore since you have it right now. γ
Extra: If you ever doubt, just remind yourself you have it. anytime you might have a doubt or opposing thought just remind yourself that you have it by telling yourself again "i have _ right now". that's literally it. you don't need to fight yourself on it, just remind yourself and move on. γ
β‘ πγExample
I want long hair γ
i will no longer look at my hair in the 3d or even care what my hair looks like in the 3d. the 3d doesn't matter anymore and it's time for me to decide the new story for myself, despite what the 3d shows me now and later, cause i'm the one who makes the decisions here. γ
i will also no longer care about the fact that my hair used to be short. that news has expired and i am now someone who has long hair, so goodbye old story. γ
i am now someone who has long hair. i have long hair. my hair is long now. done lol, it's so easy. γ
if i doubt i'll just tell myself again "no lol i have long hair now, that's my story now, that's true for me now, and i have it."