prettyboy . non binary . likely undead

unhealthily obsessed with coffee, dragon age, and horror movies . they/them, he/him

[vacuumchan]

midnight snack

[thatdiabolicalfeminist]

basically:

it is not a virtue to not set boundaries

ignoring your own wants and needs is not a healthy way to show love

people worth loving will respect your boundaries

people worth loving will not want you to set aside your own wants and needs to make them more comfortable

‘having no boundaries at all’ describes a person who is very hurt, not a person who is very virtuous

suffering for others’ comfort is not how you be a good person, it is just how you become very hurt

sometimes you need to make others uncomfortable in order to get your needs met

your needs are more important than others’ comfort

your comfort is equally important to others’ comfort

making other people uncomfortable is not, in itself, ethically wrong or morally dubious

[puolikarhu]

Life skill

Learn to kindly but firmly say “that’s personal”.

You owe no one information about your body, your opinions, your family, your health, not even your favorite food if u dont wanna share.

A kinda creepy guy at work asks what u did on the weekend? A well-meaning relative asks abt your health problems? A friend of a friend asks about your partner? Maybe smile for a second and then say “you know, that’s actually kinda personal” and change the subject or give a very general answer if u want.

You are entitled to privacy and to choosing who to share what with.

[shuugaze-deactivated20150727]

[gif87a-com]

[catchymemes]

[lopezornopez-blog]

I cannot believe in 3 whole seasons of Hannibal no one has made the joke “where there’s a Will there’s a way” I mean like they would probably be murdered that night but what a way to go

[itskyalenotkyle]

Dance to anything

[theoldestchorusgirlintheworld]

I feel fundamentally dishonest using the phrase “low key” so often because inside my heart and soul I’m actually and unambiguously and inappropriately obsessively 100% full scale high key about literally everything I ever think and feel and look at.

[juansendizon]

“I’ll pull down the curtains then make my room dark then put my phone inside the refrigerator then make myself some coffee then listen to some music then lose myself into some books then sleep for a day or two then maybe I’d find myself some gentle sanity.”

— Juansen Dizon, Introvert

[thefruitthatgodforgot]

Funny how sex is an irresistible human urge when a man rapes a woman but when a woman gets pregnant and wants an abortion she should have been smarter and thought twice before having sex if she didn’t want a child

[feminismcollectives]

My reblog speed tho -

[kingbuckley]

It bugs me when people are unnecessarily mean. Like, you didn’t have to make that comment. You could have just kept your mouth shut and left that person not feeling bad about themselves. What do you gain from making someone else feel like shit? Nothing of substance. Maybe a fleeting moment of power but that’s gone as soon as it comes so why? There’s enough unhappiness in the world without you adding to it.

[catchymemes]

Heat index was 110 degrees so we offered him a cold drink. He went for a full body soak instead

[theforce]

i never chased after anyone bc i heard the chain by fleetwood mac at like age 9 and when stevie nicks (only her) sang “and if u dont love me now u will never love me again” and like .. SHE WAS RIGHT and i KNEW IT 

[the--girl--in--yellow]

Don’t you dare believe for even a second that my healing means any forgiveness for you

[the-devils-sin-deactivated20251]

I just want someone to choose me out of every other possible choice there can be to make.

- Makenzie Hipple

[aus-yeezus]