Hard to love, Love too hard

Lauren, 29, Feminist. Aries. My mental health is a mess so lets not talk about it. 18+

[absoluteconceptofbeauty]

How about Other people start worrying about how I perceive them

[anglaised]

it is so annoying being so self aware about all my issues like okay what now girl

[transjudas]

never take for granted the moments when you’re not nauseous

[drunkvanity-deactivated20161113]

shout out to the girls that hate their bodies but are trying really really hard to find the beauty and comfort in them because that shit is hard and takes a lot of time and is emotionally exhausting. i’m proud of y’all.

[aaaangel444]

[sawed-on-shotgun]

the human body when you use it and exist in it

[fairycosmos]

hey is anyone else sick of having to adapt to horrible conditions over and over again

[a-mind-in-ruins]

[draconym]

It's nuts how common it is to not allow children to be angry, even (especially) in households where adults are angry all the time. As a child I knew my own anger was unacceptable--not just expressing it outwardly but feeling it at all. So now as an adult my immediate reaction to my own anger is often to feel guilt instead of like. Noticing when someone is being rude or unfair or my boundaries are being violated or whatever. fucked up.

[achillesinhighheels]

[eri-keke06]

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

Isn’t it kind of fun how when your life sucks you just can’t talk about it with anyone

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

I’m serious though. When your life reaches a degree of suckage, you find yourself having to look elsewhere for anything at all to talk about. The things going on in your life are trauma dumping. Your past is probably also trauma dumping. So you have to get really weird about specific things or hope that others want to talk to you, because very quickly people are going to develop an aversion to you and the way your life sucks. Unless you just don’t talk about it

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

It’s socially isolating, which is dangerous—when you’re in this sort of situation, community is the difference between life and death, housing and homelessness.

I think the collective prioritization of comfort first is hurting people in a real and material sense

[pricklyheart]

Hey, sorry, your picture didn't scare me away lol. Life got in the way. A colleague's patent passed away and I was the only person that could cover. Exhausting few weeks. Then my computer decided to die... Just ugh.

Your face looks familiar, but I can't quite place it, making me feel very mean, but I blame my ever-melting brain.

How's life treating you?

Aw that's okay! It was a fairly long time ago so don't stress haha.

I'm good thanks ☺️ I'm very busy now (I have 4 kids under 7 🫣) but still am around on here occasionally, you're one of a handful of people I remember chatting too but most people aren't around anymore. I'm sorry if it seemed like I was prying at all.

[mondo-grosso]

[noknowshame]

resurrected dead wife watching her own montage: wow I looked so hot in that

[pricklyheart]

What's outfit of the day in this 35 deg heat?

A pink bralette & a pair of pants.. and I have AC at home. It is still BOILING 🥵

[fairycosmos]

you literally have to unironically listen to some shit like party rock anthem so you don’t kill yourself