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You are not who you aspire to be, you are your habits.
We will not be girlrotting in April. We will be girlblooming girlburgeoning girlflourishing
”I will be withering away in bed” no. You will be out there under the spring sun. With the grass between your toes
Yes it is and so it’s yours
It already is.
looking for closure is basically making an excuse to hold on to that person. the disrespect is the closure. the closure you should seek is the one with yourself, and saying good bye to the version of you that allowed the disrespect to happen so that you do not put yourself in the same position again.
BOUNDARIES. Examples for when to say NO and when to say YES.
When to say NO:
When you're already committed to too many tasks and taking on more would be overwhelming.
When you need time for yourself to relax, recharge, or pursue your interests.
When someone invades your personal space or asks intrusive questions.
When someone asks for something that's beyond your capacity or comfort.
When someone tries to involve you in gossip or negative conversations about others.
When someone uses guilt, threats, or manipulation to pressure you into doing something.
When your generosity is being taken advantage of, and it's affecting your own needs.
When someone asks you to do something that goes against your values or principles.
When someone borrows money from you without a clear plan for repayment.
When someone consistently disrespects your boundaries or treats you poorly.
When to Say YES:
When a close friend genuinely needs your support and you're capable of providing it.
When you're passionate about a cause and want to contribute your time and skills.
When an opportunity arises that aligns with your goals and helps you learn and develop.
When you're invited to gatherings or events that you genuinely enjoy and benefit from.
When saying "yes" to social or professional opportunities can help you make valuable connections.
When your family members or loved ones need your emotional or practical assistance.
When saying "yes" involves trying something new or acquiring useful skills.
When taking on a new task or responsibility can push you to grow and overcome obstacles.
When saying "yes" to maintaining healthy relationships involves compromise and mutual understanding.
When you're confident that saying "yes" won't negatively impact your overall well-being or other important obligations.
Our hands contain our humanness. Sometimes they give us away. They clasp a chair while we pretend not to be scared. They sweat from the palms while we beg our foreheads to stay dry. They also hold. They pray. They dance along the keys of a piano. They tickle. They dust themselves in flour. They shape bread. They scratch the back of a lover. We hide so much in this life, but I don’t know if it is possible to hide the way a hand can open and close itself out of care or loss or love.
Devin Kelly, from Ordinary Plots: "J. Estanislao Lopez's 'What the Fingers Do'"
I see no reason why I can’t have everything I want.
none.
I think social media loves to romanticize the idea of marrying a rich man, but I don’t think that women really understand what this entails.
Most women want a man that treats them well, respects them, gives them gifts, attention, affection etc. and assume that they need to marry a rich man to have these things.
While any man can, they prioritize their life differently. You do not have to marry a wealthy man in order to have the life you want. You can marry a man that’s in a financially superior position to you, where you are comfortable enough to have the life YOU want.
A generous man and a rich man are two different things, although they may sometimes overlap. The main difference between the two is that a generous man is characterized by his willingness to give, while a rich man is characterized by his financial status.
I think a lot of people haven’t experienced being with someone who’s crazy about them and loves them deeply. They believe that they need to date certain types of men to get the treatment they want, and while some things come easier to wealthy men- they actually mean less to them than they do to you. Most of the things I see women asking for isn’t too much, they’re just asking the wrong person. And if I’m being honest, a lot of people need to start by dating someone who actually treats them good because too many women make excuses for bad behavior.
A generous man is someone who is willing to share his time, resources, and energy with others, often without expecting anything in return. He may give to charity, volunteer his time, or help those in need in other ways. Generous men often have a sense of empathy and compassion, and enjoy making a positive impact on others.
On the other hand, a rich man is someone who has accumulated a significant amount of wealth or financial resources. While he may be generous with his money or resources, this is not always the case. Rich men may prioritize their own financial success and may not necessarily have the same level of empathy or compassion as a generous man.
Both generosity and wealth can have positive and negative qualities. A generous man may sometimes give too much of himself, to the point where he neglects his own needs or wellbeing. A rich man may sometimes prioritize his own financial success over the needs of others, which can lead to selfish behavior..
How did sumire went through it all at tokyo uni and harvard? I wanna know. I gotta know
i sit in the sun. i drink tea. i recieve a message from my friend. i read a book. i take a walk. i fall in love with life a little bit.
your opportunities are not limited. you don’t have to rush into something because you believe you’ll never get that chance again. reverse this scarcity mindset into one of abundance. the earth is fruitful, plentiful and your opportunities are limitless. if it came once it will come again. it’s ok to turn down things before your ready, or because you feel unprepared or disinterested. be patient until the time is ripe. what is meant for you will never pass you.
people are so used to online content being curated for their consumption that they forget tumblr isn’t like that… this is my diary. I don’t post for other people. if you find the stuff I post depressing or annoying or too much or u don’t agree or whatever whatever…. that’s fine it’s not For You? it’s for me. there is no audience I’m performing for. feel free to unfollow me if u don’t like, I’m not a carefully crafted online persona I’m a real person
yes yes yes
random things i learned in my self-development journey
how you love yourself is how you teach others to love you
fall in love with the process of whatever journey you’re on. if you’re in love with it, you won’t get bored of it and want to stop. you’ll continue to work on the journey every step of the way until you finally get to your destination.
a fresh start is a mindset— actions come after
social media should not be your only escape— get a hobby, find some friends, or spend time with family.
the energy you give circles back
it’s okay to outgrow people, and it’s also okay for them to outgrow you too
speak to people and treat them in ways that if they were to die tomorrow, you would be satisfied for what your last memories of them would be
you don’t have to be extreme, just consistent
discipline is the highest form of self love
you can’t become what you want while maintaining who you are
routines are important— cleaning routines, workout routines, morning routines, evening routines, etc.
having a daily, weekly, and monthly “to do” list makes life much simpler
books are your best friend
know how to observe and not absorb— they are totally different things
if you leave out soft bread, it gets hard, but if you leave out hard bread (crackers, etc), it gets soft. and you're telling me we can understand anything in this world
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