Project Chastity

NSFW 18+ Only - This blog is going to serve as my kind of online diary covering my interests in the world of BDSM and documenting my journey as a submissive. I am a slave looking for a master to serve. In the mean time I am self locking myself in chastity and attempting to beat my personal best each time. If you wish to chat with me you can message me on KIK: northie91

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Tasked to post this black cock meme. Not exactly my feelings on this matter but a task is a task…

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I obey the law !!

[thepleasurequotient]

My apologies to the vast majority of cocksuckers out there that don’t need to be told these things, but clearly there are some of you out there who need to be told. 1. Be available. You know you have competition. Even if the number of men and cocksuckers were equal, you would be at a disadvantage. You can probably suck 5+ cocks a day, he probably can’t provide 5+ loads a day. If you are not available when he wants, you will lose more than he does. When he calls, stay at your sister’s wedding, but leave the gym even if you just got there. 2. Be on time. This is especially true of you’re meeting at your place. A text message five minutes after you were supposed to meet is not acceptable. 3. Be prepared. In most cases, you have more than five minutes to get ready. Use this time to make sure your mouth doesn’t smell like a place he will be afraid to put his cock. Make sure your place isn’t so messy he feels he’s taking his life in his hands just by walking in. Go to the bathroom. Put a pillow or cushion on the floor to pad your knees. 4. Don’t do things that will detract from his experience. Don’t use throat spray to numb your throat. It will get on his cock, and neither of you want him to have a numb cock. (Wear a sore throat as a badge of pride. It means you got his cock deep enough to reach your throat.) Don’t get drunk, stoned, or high. You will not be able to provide the level of service he deserves (even if you think you are). 5. Pay attention. If he gives you instructions (before, during, or after), make sure you follow them. Listen and watch how he reacts to what is happening, and do whatever you can to enhance his enjoyment. 6. Don’t get distracted. Turn your phone OFF (not just set to vibrate). Turn the TV off (if it is your place). Don’t play with yourself. 7. Think ahead. If you’re meeting at his place, it wouldn’t be a bad idea bring an extra shirt, and if you are likely to cum while sucking him, a pair of pants. Don’t embarrass him by letting his neighbors see you leaving with cum all over you. If you meet at your place, the time to look for a clean wash cloth to wipe him up is not when he’s ready to leave. 8. Swallow. Any cocksucker deserving the name should swallow. If you won’t, it should be very clear very early in your discussion. Don’t spring this on him at the last minute. You will need to find out what he considers acceptable if you won’t swallow; never spit it on him unless he has agreed in advance. (This applies only to cum. If you are expected to swallow piss/spit/snot/other things, that should be arranged in advance.) 9. Be pleasant, accommodating and respectful. Your competition is as much a cum rag as another cocksucker. Cum rags are convenient, do what is expected, don’t spit, and don’t create drama. That is the minimum you need to do. To get the cock you want, though. you need to exceed that level of service. If you have a chance before his cock is in you, thank him for choosing you. When he is done, thank him again. Let him know he has done you a favor, not the other way around. As you know all too well, a cum rag is not a substitute for a man’s cock. Make sure when he leaves, he feels you were worth the effort, wait, and inconvenience. 10. Don’t ask. For anything. Ever. Unless he allows it, don’t initiate contact. Don’t ask him to go easier on you, or to be harder. Don’t ask to use the bathroom. Don’t ask for a towel to clean up (that’s why you have an extra shirt). If you are at his place, leave quickly and quietly when he is done with you. if he is at your place, your duty to devote 100% of your attention to him ends when he leaves, not when he cums. Wait to wipe your face, send a text, or masturbate until he is gone.

A feeder (via thepleasurequotient)

Listen up faggots…best summary ever.

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I agree. All faggots should read this.

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faggots memorize this list.

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yes SIR

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Fortunately my fag has made all of these rules an inherent part of his service over the last 5 years. It took some training, but it was worth it. 

Sir

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Learn

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600 days !!!!!!

I can’t believe it, but what started as a kinky experiment in December 2014 has become my new way of life, I never masturbated again since then !!!!

My latest orgasm was in August 2015, so it had been 600 days without any orgasm !!!

And just this morning I experienced the 5th wet dream of my life (I had never experienced that before being chaste, even as a teenager). See a screenshot of my kinky schedule below, you can also find me on MaleProtect and the online version of this spreadsheet is available (link on top of the page).

I am still seeking the pleasure from behind as I no longer get pleasure from front, the closest I approached it were through milkings during fist.

And yes I am now constantly horny and excited, becoming bolder and kinkier, and I love it !!!

[projectchastity]

It's achievable! Something to set my goals to

[melbournebator-deactivated20181]

The Orgasm Manifesto

Sit up boys and men, hands off dicks and listen. I am going to tell you a few things about your orgasm. I am a sensei of technique, a solosexual with 25 years of experience masturbating and there are things that I have learnt, things I will impart here, that will blow your mind before you blow your wad.

CUMMING IS A BUZZ KILL

My friend, you are putting too much stock into your ejaculation. Cumming is fun, yes, it feels good, yes, but it is a buzz kill. Think about how fleeting ejaculation is. How it kills off your solo fun! Your first point of order is to stop loving ejaculation so much. Yes, it’s the old “it’s the journey, not the destination”, mentality. But I really mean it. Stop rushing to the end. If you don’t conquer this, you will never reach higher plateaus of your masturbatory potential. If you are to be a sensei of technique, you need to learn to edge. 

EDGING

Next time you bate, analyse it. Think about the rising crescendo of pleasure. How does it move through a bell curve? You hit stages from 1-10. If 10 is the full blown sticky mess, then your 9 is that point of inevitability that you’re gonna sperm. You need to make 8 your goal. If you can hover yourself on an 8 for longer than 30 minutes, or even better 60 minutes, or even better than that, four hours, then a whole plethora of pleasure will become available to you. If you are a “bat it and blow” guy, then little fledging, you have practice to do. If you last two minutes, then try next time to last four. Then eight. Then twenty, thirty, and so on. You have to be dedicated. If you are finding it too difficult not to rush to blast your wad, then refer to the first point I made above. Experienced edgers who can easily edge an hour or more can then proceed to the more advanced lessons below. 

THE THREE TYPES OF ORGASM

What you’ve been told about your orgasm is a lie. Your orgasm is far more mysterious and varied than you ever imagined. There are three orgasms men experience: 

1) The ejaculation orgasm. 2) The non-orgasmic ejaculation.  3) The non-ejaculation orgasm. 

I can teach you to have all three. Well, you surely know how to have the first one. That’s easy. You taught yourself that at age 12 or whenever it was you began bating. But the other two are trickier. But please get this in your mind, ejaculation and orgasm are not one and the same. You can separate one from the other. You can experience one without the other. To do so you need technique, will power and the intelligence to understand your body.

SPLATTER BATTER

Let’s look at the non-orgasmic ejaculation. This is when sperm spews from your penis but is not accompanied by muscle throbs to eject the shot out. I call this the cute term “edgegasm”. Why does the body do this? Because as you bate, your body prepares for ejaculation. You are telling it that it will sperm soon, so it moves sperm from your testes into the tubes and sacks below your shaft. It does this in preparation to shoot.

Now If you deny the ejaculation but keep bating, more and more sperm pools down there ready to go. It pools until your body just cannot pool more. You will by this stage be in a frenzy of self-love. If you aren’t, then you are not bating hard enough. So long as you don’t buzz kill by ejaculating, you will have one or more non-orgasmic ejaculations. Sperm will just ooze out. It’s a physical reaction to too much stimuli. And it’s fucking hot to behold.

THE HOLY GRAIL

You can have multiple, beautiful, endless orgasms. This is the Holy Grail of male sexuality. A multiple non-ejaculatory orgasm. Or dry orgasms. Men can train themselves to orgasm without ejaculating. It is different to what you’ve been doing since you were 12 years old, but it is possible. Train yourself to do this and you will have an enhanced, more varied and satisfying sex life (either solo or partnered).

Again, think about the crescendo of pleasure from 1-10. Get to an 8. Be on that 8 for half an hour or more. Now here is where I ask you to really pay attention to your body. Pound, pound, pound yourself and then stop… When you stop pounding your hand momentarily, can you feel your body respond with a jolt? A throb in your penis? That throb is your orgasm. It is masked when you are pounding away at it with your hand. You just feel your hand’s pressure/pleasure. But your orgasmic response is happening waaaaay before you shoot. Edge and hover at an 8 for long enough and you will feel that throbbing become increasingly involuntary. It will pulse away inside you several times when you stop pounding. You’ll get 2 or 3 beautiful, orgasmic, non-ejaculatory throbs. Notice it and cultivate it. In doing so, you are teaching yourself to orgasm without ejaculation.

DRY IS THE FUTURE

Expert edgers are not born that way. They become experts through experience. Expert edgers have spent many, many hours perfecting their craft. And you may laugh at this, but an expert edger is having way more fun than you. You know how I asked you to hover on an 8, well an expert edger can hover on a 9. Experts can edge within the fraction of a single stroke that will either keep them edged or send them over. That kind of power and control is rare. It is the realm of the technique sensei. A non-ejaculatory orgasm achieved on a 9 is a full blown dry orgasm. Sperm will not erupt but you will have an overwhelmingly pleasurable, throbbing, special, beautiful, mysterious and amazing orgasm. The best part is there is no refractory period. You do not go soft and need to wait an hour before you can have another one. You can have as many as one a minute! Have ten of these and you will not even need to ejaculate. It’s just a question of how you wrench yourself away from giving yourself another ten more.  Think about the implications for your pleasure if you can orgasm without ejaculation. That you can have multiple orgasms in one session. Believe me, I have been with men who have witnessed me doing this and it drives them crazy. I have been with men who, like me, are able to orgasm repeatedly, endlessly. It is beyond your imagination. Imagine the pleasure you could give to a partner if you can control your ejaculation masterfully.

IN CONCLUSION

Though I have learnt many things in spending hours touching myself, there is only one truth. Your body is endlessly capable of tremendous pleasure and your sexuality is a deep well spring of mystery that you should dedicate your life to mastering. I never wish to gain all the knowledge of my sexuality. For if I did that, then I would certainly prefer to die. Instead I live each day in the secret hope that I push further in, open further out and make connections with myself that I never thought were possible. I wish the same for you.

Write to me any time. I love to hear your experiences, your lessons and will answer your questions. Now stop reading, and get your hands on your dicks.

-MB

[latrineus]

Save in a tab and reread this daily for while. You need to absorb the wisdom. Follow the path of edging bliss. Come with us.

[chastitylycralove]

[masterboss84-deactivated2016121]

All fags should have their little clits locked up. Respect real men. We don’t like it when you touch yourself. It’s annoying. I don’t want to wait for you to adjust or stop for a second while you feel good. I don’t want to see your faggot cock. Lock it up. Put it in a jock. No questions. No excuses.

[lockedboi-deactivated20191001]

Listen to Masterboss84, lock your boi clit

[chastityguy716]

Masterboss84 speaks the truth. Stay locked!

[lockedboi-deactivated20191001]

Chastity is easy, right?

Ready to Be Used …

On one hand, chastity is really easy.

One day your lover/Master/Owner locks you up in a chastity device and tells you to forget about touching, getting erect, or even cumming for the near future.

You’re turned on for a bit right from the get-go and you probably get resoundly fucked then fall asleep in each others arms.  You wake up a few times with some burning or pinching.  But, you feel good about living out your dream of being locked'n'denied.

That’s the easy part.  Then …

After a few days you start to miss touching, fondling your cock.  You miss that exciting feeling as it grows stiff in your hands.  And you say to yourself “God, I wanna cum.”

You figure your keyholder will be back on the weekend and he’ll let you out.  He’ll let you stroke your hard cock and bust a nut whilst he’s fucking your hole.  But Friday night comes and he’s tired from working all week and he just wants to have a nice meal, some cuddling and a good night’s sleep.

Laying in bed, spooning with him, you reach behind to feel his cock because you miss the feeling of yours.  Even though he’s tired, his cock responds … hardens in your hand.  It’s then that your cock suddenly swells in the cage … almost hurting.

He turns to lay on his back and you turn and duck under the covers.  You hold his hard cock at the root and bring his swollen, hot, soft cock head to your lips.  You breathe in the smell of him.  Your tongue darts out to touch the tip to find he’s already oozing.  You open your lips and let his cock slowly enter your mouth.

You start to suck his cock slowly, respectfully … enjoying the feel of it as your throat relaxes and more and more of it slides deeper down your throat.  There’s a deep sigh from him.

As you suck him your cock swells and fills every bit of space in your cage.  Your hole twitches and your mind suddenly screams in need.  You want to leap up and drop yourself on his pole, rape yourself on him.  Your body desperately needs release … you’ve never gone this long without cumming.

You’re a good boy and you focus on his cock. You feel it thicken, harden.  He’s moaning now. His body squirming.  You suck harder. You feel that tube in his cock swell.  He grabs your head with both hands and fucks your throat.

With several ecstatic grunts his load explodes in your mouth and you swallow every drop.

After a few moments letting his cock soften in your mouth you pull up while he turns away and falls instantly asleep.  Sated.

You’re left there, cock still swollen in its cage, hole still twitching, and your whole body yearning for the exciting, explosive ending.  You spend the next couple hours trying to get back to sleep.

Then it gets worse … 

You wake up in the morning with your cock trying to burst out of the cage with a morning hardon.  Groaning in pain you run to the bathroom … but you can’t take a piss cuz you’re all swelled up.  You splash some cold water on it, and that helps a little.

You jump in the shower and distract yourself with that at your cock finally calms down.  You relax and the piss jets out of you splashing everywhere and you sigh with relief.

Just then your lover opens the door to the shower, his turgid cock swaying deliciously.  He grabs you and kisses you passionately making your cock swell again - it’s been a whole week since it’s been free of the cage.  He puts his hands on your shoulders and pushes you down to your knees.  "Open" and you obey and open your mouth.

He puts the tip of his semi-hard cock on your tongue, sighs and a torrent of bitter morning piss jets like a firehouse making you choke and sputter.  His piss is everywhere, mouth, face, soaking your hair.

When he’s done he pulls you up and kisses you and rinses you.  He begins soaping your body and you are so turned on by him, by your need than you moan just from his touch.  You turn and present your ass to him; he knows you need his cock.  With a bit of soap for lube he works his hard cock into your needy hole.

Ecstasy spreads through every pore of your body.  His need is such that in no time at all he’s no longer making love to you he’s fucking you, shoving his cock as hard and deep as he can get it in you.  Your hands are gripping the shower walls.  You moan, whine with the aggressive fucking you’re receiving, and you hear yourself beg for more, beg for release.  Even though his pounding has knocked everything from your mind; your body remembers the dozens of times this exact same thing has happened but you were free to grab your cock and cum with him.

But no longer.

You feel him rush.  You can tell his cock is going to explode a load of his cum deep in your bowels.  He can no longer hold back and he screams his orgasm into your shoulder.  The two of you vibrate together in the final surges or cum and orgasmic energy.

He holds you  for a bit, gathering his strength, his heart rate and breathing back to normal.  He pulls out of you and a gush of his sperm squirts out, plopping on the shower floor.  He steps back a bit and rinses his cock.  He steps out of the shower and goes back to the bedroom.

And you’re left wondering when he’ll unlock you and let you cum…

[flashdoggy]

@thekinkygrad

[thekinkygrad]

Wow…just wow

[bbrznla-deactivated20181216]

Worth to reblog

[chastechron]

[willingboy89-deactivated2017042]

Locked and fucked

I spent all my Friday being horny as work, even if i hadn’t cummed for only 48 hours, it was enough to make me very horny. I was decided to try to keep my balls as full as possible, the longer the better. Around 5pm, a guy texted me on Grindr to propose me a fuck. I wasn’t sure that it was a good, but he insisted a lot, telling me had his balls were 6 days full and that he really needed to unload it, so I finally accepted.

I cleaned myself, lubed my hole and put a buttplug. I also locked my cock in one of my cage to be sure that he will make me cum when using my hole, and ruining my efforts to keep my balls full.

When I arrived at his place he was already jerking off. I immediately got naked and when on the bed, on my 4. When the guy took my boxer off and saw my locked cock and plugged ass, he whispered “Oh my god! So good!”. He played a bit with the plug inside my hole, then took it out and then he penetrated me.

The feeling of his big and warm cock banging me was great, even if it was a bit weird to not be able to touch my cock. I told myself “try to focus on your ass, discover the pleasure you can get by, without touching your cock!” At the same moment, the guy screamed “I’m coming!” and I felt his cock throbbing inside me. It was a bit disappointing because I was just starting to really get some pleasure being fucked. And also very frustrating. I touched my locked cock, I was very hard inside it. Gosh, wanted to cum soooo muuuuch!

The men finished to cum, and I looked at the condom: big load! I felt happy that I helped this guy to get some pleasure. We discussed a bit, he thanked me, then I left, still locked and horny.

[lockedanddeniedcub]

Do you ever get hard when your Sir removes your cage for cleaning? If so, is there a punishment or some standard thing he does to make you go limp in order to reinstall the cage to its proper place? A friend of mine has a protocol he uses on his permanently locked pup if the pup gets hard. He'll use ice, a few thumps to the balls, or (if he's feeling frisky) a generous application of Bengay on his pup's penis and balls.

I will occasionally feel myself get semi-hard when the cage is removed for cleaning.  I can’t see it, but I can feel it.  Usually, though, Sir has no problem reinstalling the cage.  However, we have used an ice pack or frozen peas before.  Again, I have not seen my erect cock in almost a year, but Sir has mentioned that it does not get fully hard anymore.  Just sort of fills in with blood a bit.  That’s a big difference from when I used to sport a seven inch raging hard-on.

[lockedanddeniedcub]

Have you had one of those moments of realization that you may never, ever, ever have another orgasm for the rest of you life? When that recognition sets in, how do you feel? Sadness? Panic? Loss? Being honest, you could probably service a Sir just as faithfully and dutifully and still cum periodically. I mean, you bottom or give head generally once a week and give foot massages and make drinks. Down deep, does giving up your male birthright make you give head that much better? Just curious.

Occasionally I will think about it… especially on days when my balls feel really full and ache.  It is not like that all the time, but there are days when I really fantasize about having an orgasm just to empty my balls fully.  Then, I think about the fact I have given up orgasms and I will have that moment of deep realization.  But, usually it is only a moment.  I chose this lifestyle and if I really wanted to I could end it.  I don’t see it as giving away a birthright.  I see it as an act of devotion and sacrifice that I am making to be a better sub/slave.  It shows a level of commitment that i have to my role and the service that I want to provide to my Master.  Every time I service a dom, hear them moan / see shear joy in their face as they climax, and feel their cum in my throat or ass, I am reminded of what I have given up to help them experience this.  I am a part of their release and it makes me feel proud to provide that service.  It’s all about the mindset and where I see myself, ultimately.

[czboyinchastity]

Collection of my vids

It seems that some of you may not see the vids I post here :( I don´t know how to solve it :( so here is a link to my xtube video collection :P

[lockedboi-deactivated20191001]

Chastity is easy, right?

Ready to Be Used …

On one hand, chastity is really easy.

One day your lover/Master/Owner locks you up in a chastity device and tells you to forget about touching, getting erect, or even cumming for the near future.

You’re turned on for a bit right from the get-go and you probably get resoundly fucked then fall asleep in each others arms.  You wake up a few times with some burning or pinching.  But, you feel good about living out your dream of being locked'n'denied.

That’s the easy part.  Then …

After a few days you start to miss touching, fondling your cock.  You miss that exciting feeling as it grows stiff in your hands.  And you say to yourself “God, I wanna cum.”

You figure your keyholder will be back on the weekend and he’ll let you out.  He’ll let you stroke your hard cock and bust a nut whilst he’s fucking your hole.  But Friday night comes and he’s tired from working all week and he just wants to have a nice meal, some cuddling and a good night’s sleep.

Laying in bed, spooning with him, you reach behind to feel his cock because you miss the feeling of yours.  Even though he’s tired, his cock responds … hardens in your hand.  It’s then that your cock suddenly swells in the cage … almost hurting.

He turns to lay on his back and you turn and duck under the covers.  You hold his hard cock at the root and bring his swollen, hot, soft cock head to your lips.  You breathe in the smell of him.  Your tongue darts out to touch the tip to find he’s already oozing.  You open your lips and let his cock slowly enter your mouth.

You start to suck his cock slowly, respectfully … enjoying the feel of it as your throat relaxes and more and more of it slides deeper down your throat.  There’s a deep sigh from him.

As you suck him your cock swells and fills every bit of space in your cage.  Your hole twitches and your mind suddenly screams in need.  You want to leap up and drop yourself on his pole, rape yourself on him.  Your body desperately needs release … you’ve never gone this long without cumming.

You’re a good boy and you focus on his cock. You feel it thicken, harden.  He’s moaning now. His body squirming.  You suck harder. You feel that tube in his cock swell.  He grabs your head with both hands and fucks your throat.

With several ecstatic grunts his load explodes in your mouth and you swallow every drop.

After a few moments letting his cock soften in your mouth you pull up while he turns away and falls instantly asleep.  Sated.

You’re left there, cock still swollen in its cage, hole still twitching, and your whole body yearning for the exciting, explosive ending.  You spend the next couple hours trying to get back to sleep.

Then it gets worse … 

You wake up in the morning with your cock trying to burst out of the cage with a morning hardon.  Groaning in pain you run to the bathroom … but you can’t take a piss cuz you’re all swelled up.  You splash some cold water on it, and that helps a little.

You jump in the shower and distract yourself with that at your cock finally calms down.  You relax and the piss jets out of you splashing everywhere and you sigh with relief.

Just then your lover opens the door to the shower, his turgid cock swaying deliciously.  He grabs you and kisses you passionately making your cock swell again - it’s been a whole week since it’s been free of the cage.  He puts his hands on your shoulders and pushes you down to your knees.  "Open" and you obey and open your mouth.

He puts the tip of his semi-hard cock on your tongue, sighs and a torrent of bitter morning piss jets like a firehouse making you choke and sputter.  His piss is everywhere, mouth, face, soaking your hair.

When he’s done he pulls you up and kisses you and rinses you.  He begins soaping your body and you are so turned on by him, by your need than you moan just from his touch.  You turn and present your ass to him; he knows you need his cock.  With a bit of soap for lube he works his hard cock into your needy hole.

Ecstasy spreads through every pore of your body.  His need is such that in no time at all he’s no longer making love to you he’s fucking you, shoving his cock as hard and deep as he can get it in you.  Your hands are gripping the shower walls.  You moan, whine with the aggressive fucking you’re receiving, and you hear yourself beg for more, beg for release.  Even though his pounding has knocked everything from your mind; your body remembers the dozens of times this exact same thing has happened but you were free to grab your cock and cum with him.

But no longer.

You feel him rush.  You can tell his cock is going to explode a load of his cum deep in your bowels.  He can no longer hold back and he screams his orgasm into your shoulder.  The two of you vibrate together in the final surges or cum and orgasmic energy.

He holds you  for a bit, gathering his strength, his heart rate and breathing back to normal.  He pulls out of you and a gush of his sperm squirts out, plopping on the shower floor.  He steps back a bit and rinses his cock.  He steps out of the shower and goes back to the bedroom.

And you’re left wondering when he’ll unlock you and let you cum…

[flashdoggy]

@thekinkygrad

[chastitylad]

This sounds like an incredible week 😳

[chastechron]

[sqwhirlly]

Any time mates

[projectchastity]

Locked for 7 Days so far! Tumblr keeping me horny looking at all these guy that are able to wank and cum as they please.

[chastechron]

The Key Elements of Male Chastity

1. Discovery
2. Understanding 
3. Fantasizing 
4. Lamenting 
5. Research 
6. Objectification 
7. Communication 
8. Breaking (Submit)
9. Purchase (Execution) 10. Happiness and Relief

1. The initial discovery and interest of chastity can be quite an epiphany. It can be eye opening and more than often unlocks a myriad of unrealized sexual feelings and emotions all tied to looking at that first device. To some chastity for the first time is very shocking and enlightening. Some men not only like it but also have to come to grips with why they like it as well.

2. Like with anything that a male has a serious interest about he will research and find out as much as he can about a topic. The history, the methods and how it relates to their interest in it. This is the beginning stage of developing a chastity persona. The male who is interested in chastity needs to unlock its secrets and unlocking it requires understanding the context of all the elements.

3. Not always but usually ones mind starts to wander and imagination takes over to the desires and intense feelings towards experimenting with chastity. The male masturbates to chastity pornography wishing it was his cock locked away. It’s ironic but it’s an exploration into trying to make sense of all these sexual feelings. The fantasy grows and becomes more elaborate as time passes.

4. What can best be described as chastity cravings takes over. It is a compulsion to be locked and it continues to grow as the male obsessively goes over all the elements. The male is addicted to a drug he’s never taken yet. It’s a unfamiliar kind of suffering that almost seems both mental and physical.

5. Now it is time for the male to get serious and figure out what is the best device to have. This and is more of a logical methodical element and it is put here after the last two emotional elements because it is definitely useful but it also an attempt to try and get a grip on these seemingly uncontrollable cravings if only briefly.

6. This brewing emotional pot now causes a a definite change in the way the males sexual identity and also on how he views his penis. He is in an intense process of redefinition of what it actually is in relationship with his manhood and personality. A sexual self realization takes place with very new drastic perceptions of ones self. Bravado, submissiveness and male roles all swirl around with this new idea of chastity. The male will ask internal questions like “is there something wrong with me be cause I want this?”

7. In order to find validation one will seek like the minded. Even if it is done anonymously one will want to know they are definitely not alone in this new erotic world they’ve found. Some will communicate with others to find specific answers and sense of belonging others will watch from afar, all seeking the element of understanding.

8. One way or another the pot boils over. It can be like a pressure cooker or a tea kettle but most likely will be like the slow lava flow of a Pacific volcano. Anyway you look at it, it’s an intense experience for the male. Some may feel they are losing control. The intensity to bring this about varies from individual to individual. Now is the time and the trigger is pulled.

9. All elements come together in the action plan of obtaining a device. This is becoming a serious reality and it is under way. Once a chastity device is in the males possession the next element takes place.Execution is on! Whatever regiment the male has created it will be individual to the chastity taste of the person. It doesn’t mater if the male is gay, straight, bi, pan, or all colors of the rainbow. Chastity does not know what sexuality is nor does it care. After all the elements that have pleasured and tortured the male reach its apex, the first locking of the device on his penis can be one of the most erotic experiences they have ever experienced.

10. It’s no secret that there’s more stress now than there ever has been. Maybe it’s a result of having more things than ever to pay attention to, or perhaps it’s the increasingly panicked way the information comes at us, or maybe it’s that people are feeling more alone today than ever before. Whatever the reason, one thing we now know is that a very simple type of connection actually reduces activity in the area of the brain that is responsible for releasing our stress hormones. For some, male Chastity is the key. Chastity brings balance.

The discovery of enforced chastity begins the methodical creation of a focused modern gentleman. Accepting his inadequacies with grace and honesty. Being comfortable with it makes him submissive with his sexuality. The lock and the cage fulfill him now. The concept of chastity is all consuming. A man in chastity is not only willing to pay for every one of his sins, he wants to, he has to. Chastity is the shackle of a civilized male.