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[psychophile]

Things that disgust Emilia:

Military people who take rape as something to brush off

Military people who take mental illness as something to brush off…

[psychophile]

Things that still disgust me even more 5 years later...

[asianamidala]

GOT actors & actresses recast to fit their book counterparts better »  Part (2/2)

Requested by @rhaenys-martell-targaryen​

Tom Hiddleston as Edmure Tully 

Jessica Parker Kennedy as Jeyne Westerling 

Jack Hathaway as Tommen Baratheon 

Quvenzhané Wallis as Missandei

Katrina Law as Nymeria Sand

[psychophile]

Someone hit my car yesterday

It killed me emotionally

Then I got told I am a shit person yet again 

It also killed me emotionally

[psychophile]

Might go to the UK soon

I really want to do the spa at the Oxford St Lush

[buzzfeed]

Sometimes it’s good to talk to strangers.

[dominantlife]

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Communication is Key Phone calls and video chat apps such as Skype and the iPhone’s FaceTime are key to maintaining healthy long distance relationships. Both partners should get a laptop, tablet, or smartphone to keep regular visual contact with each other. Trust Each Other This may seem like a no-brainer, but avoiding jealousy in a long distance relationship is very important. After all, it’s impossible to know who your significant other is hanging out with at any given time. As tough as it may be, you have to be supportive of your partner’s social relationships; they can’t become a shut in just because you can’t go out together. Do Things Together This may seem like an impossibility with distance looming between you, but distance dates are actually possible. Use online communication to do things together such as cooking the same meal at the same time, watching the same movie at the same time, or sitting outside and looking at the stars together. Online dates are a great thing for distanced couples. Visit Frequently Doing things together virtually is great, but it’s no substitute for true togetherness. Take turns visiting each other, or meet halfway as often as possible to restore intimacy in your relationships. Scheduling these regular visits, even short ones, should be a priority in managing your relationship. Stay Positive The loneliness of a distance relationship can sometimes feel more depressing than that of being single. Stick with it - things will get better. Plan for the Future Talking about the future and making plans for how and when you will eliminate the miles from your long distance relationship can help make the separation more bearable. Appreciate the Distance There are some positives to a long distance relationship. You can appreciate your partner more (absence makes the heart grow fonder), and you avoid all those petty fights over little things. It’s also great for couples who need a certain amount of personal space. Provide Personal Comfort Give your partner a personal object to wear, carry around, or cuddle with for those moments when the distance just seems too great. Be Supportive Be there when your partner needs you. Even if you can’t be there physically, be available to talk on the phone, chat online, or video call. Being part of a relationship means providing emotional support, even when its inconvenient. You may not be together physically, but you’ve made an emotional commitment.

[psychophile]

When shit gets tough I need to remember these things.

It’s hard, and has been hard through the years.

Soon we will be together. Soon I won’t have to worry about these things.

[psychophile]

Yeah... so I posted this 5 years ago... clearly that was a disaster. 

HOWEVER

Now I am finally in a long distance that works and we follow all these things!

Jonathon and I video chat every day, sometimes three times a day.

I trust him completely and he trusts me, he is working on his insecurities but he is actual friends with my friends so he knows who I am with and encourages me to go out and get out of my room. 

We do things together even over video, the other day when I was sick he put on Return of the King and we watched that over whatsapp for the whole thing. British commentary is the best. 

We see each other as much as we can, and he will be accompanying me to the states very soon. He bought/buys his own tickets so I know he wants to actively visit me. 

We try to be as positive as possible. He is more positive than me because my work life sucks

We definitely plan for the future. We have been looking at houses recently and recently we have talked about what visas I need to move to the UK. We talk about future vacations. Future houses. Future weddings. Future children. 

I am glad of the distance sometimes because we don’t fight ever. We don’t fight over stupid shit. We appreciate each other more. 

The support is some of the most important for me. He supports me in everything and he is there to talk when I need him. I support him in all he wants to do. All the courses he wants to do, schooling he wants to pursue, etc. 

This is what a healthy and loving relationship is. It is my time to enjoy this. 

[ladolceluv]

 F I N D I S

Findis did not join the Revolt of the Ñoldor, but went with her mother after the slaying of Finwë and they lived among the Vanya, grief-stricken, until such time as it seemed good to Manwë to restore Finwë to life.

[just-shower-thoughts]

Thirty-two years since Chernobyl and still no superheroes

[adult-sasuke]

that post was right i wouldn’t have a sense of humor without spongebob. its still some of the goddamn funniest shit i’ve ever seen. spongebob almost dying because he’s too polite to ask for a glass of water at sandy’s house. mr. krabs and spongebob killing the health inspector. smittywerbenjagermenjensen. “I was born with glass bones and paper skin. every morning I break my legs. and every afternoon I break my arms.” the perfume department on the flying dutchman’s boat. that time spongebob cleared his mind to be a fine dining waiter and forgot his own name because that’s how customer service just BE. the ugly barnacle that was so ugly everyone DIED. the END. the one where squidward buys a pie but it’s actually a bomb. and the MUSICAL numbers like??? the fun song. the christmas song. tony award winning song “this grill is not a grill”. the entire band geeks episode like…this is all from the top of my head!!!!! just from the top of my head!!! there’s so much more!!! thank god for stephen and all the laughs i’ve had because of him.

[kitty]

[sushinfood]

FLOOFLE TAIL

[alisonzai]

why dippin dots always at obscure places. never just at the store. just wondering

[wombat-annihilator-deactivated2]

So youll buy it when you see it since you never know when you’ll see it again

[slimegargoyle]

while we’re on the subject of catholicism…

[ghostwmost]

[psychophile]

Being educated with a brain means nothing in the Army. 

Good to know if someone fucks up on awards and is super substandard at their job and is garbage at other things, can just get promoted. 

This is why I am getting the fuck out. 

Oh yeah and the fact that the Army has given me the worst body image on the face of the planet. 

[tendie-defender]

[catchymemes]

[captainsnoop-deactivated2020041]

i’ll never understand why we don’t call countries the names they actually call themselves 

like, i know this is a weeaboo-sounding example, but let’s start with Japan. They call themselves Nippon or Nihon depending on… i guess, the speaker’s accent??? or their level of formality while speaking??? I dunno. But we still called them Zipangu for like a few hundred years. And now we call them Japan. 

All because Marco Polo asked someone in China about that island over there and they said “oh that’s Cipangu” and Marco Polo was like “Oh, Zipangu, cool.” And then he went back to Italy and said “Y’ALL THERE’S THIS DOPE-ASS ISLAND CALLED ZIPANGU” and people back in Italy were like “An island called Giappone? Dope.” 

And this pattern of people mishearing people kept repeating until we got to “Japan.” 

And we still call them Japan even though we know better. Because fuck you, Marco Polo asked the wrong person 500 years ago and misheard them and we’re sticking to that, I guess. 

[toast-potent]

that was literally just the world’s worst game of telephone

[absolutelad-deactivated20200425]

Because thats how language works? You pronounce and name things based off of your language’s structure and capacity to pronounce and sound things out, its by no means exclusive to English

[positivity-roses]

Making fun of girls who dream of being a wife and stay-at-home-mom actually doesn’t make you progressive or feminist or cool, it just makes you a person who shits on someone else’s dream, a.k.a an asshole 

[weirdhumansweallare]

Whenever someone says that I say “Okay, whatever floats your boat, I guess” and then I think “Why would she want that? Isn’t it boring to just sit around all day and do nothing?”

[ablogforyoungmommys]

Moms don’t “sit around all day and do nothing” - they have a incredibly important 24/7 job: raising little human beings. Don’t devalue that by calling it “nothing”. 

[shaycode]

Man, my mom cooked, cleaned, paid the bills, went grocery shopping, did my hair every morning before school and every night (which, as a white woman with no prior experience of doing black hair, especially on a tender-headed child, is no easy feat). She helped with my homework, consoled me after a bad day, frequently volunteered at the school. She even picked my anxious, crying ass up from kindergarten early nearly every day for the first semester and would lie down with me every night when I was a child until I fell asleep (and that usually took several hours). That’s not even scratching the surface of all the things she’s done for me and my siblings. She was always the first person up and the last person to go to bed. Nothing about what she did, and continues to do to a lesser degree, is easy.

[corihasastory]

Domestic work is constantly undervalued even though every family depends on it. My grandmother on my mom’s side would go hungry just so her kids could eat - that is not nothing.

Also, if you would commend a man for being a stay at home dad and doing exactly what women have been doing for centuries, don’t pretend you care about women’s labor.