how to shift for perfectionists
full transparency, this is me. i get into cycles of wanting to shift but it’s not the “perfect” time. it’s always “i want to shift tonight, i have to meditate before hand, but i have to clean my room first for optimal relaxation, if im cleaning it i might as well clean my closets ? oh ! clothes ? i should do laundry too ? i should shower beforehand so i can put the clothes im wearing now in the laundry so i dont have to worry about starting another load already.”
so i think myself up into a state & nothing gets done. i freeze, do it halfway then because it’s not all done, im not allowed to shift or do whatever iI intended to do for that night. & that day repeats itself until weeks turn to months. call it perfectionism or adhd — either one will do, as it’s most definitely both.
you don’t have to finish a script. you can shift anywhere & everywhere no matter how vague. possibilities are endless, you can go full god mode on the sims in your dr if you want. the lifa app exists. there are so many options to switch things up while your existing in your desired reality already.
you’re shifting regardless. under the multiverse theory, you shift every second. so why not just rip off the band aid & let go of the reins ?
dumb your “routine” down. you don’t have to do everything perfect every night or attempt. at this point you’re putting more energy into perfecting the ambiance instead of shifting. treat it like any other time — because it is. if you feel like you have to do something, make is small & within arms reach. not something so complex it becomes a burden.
don’t ritualize the concept of shifting. lighting a candle, getting glass of water, writing out a script, breaking out the crystals & tarot cards. this isn’t a spell or a checklist. you aren’t packing for a trip, rushing to the airport & internally rolling your eyes at how long the security line is. you’re already on that airplane regardless of where you are.
that feeling of being “ready” is already in you. mindset is everything. the 3d does not create feelings: you, yourself do. you can adapt that feeling of being “ready” anytime you want, on your terms.
shifting is as easy or as hard as you make it, redefine it. if you believe in order to shift it’s as simple as rolling over & declaring you have shifted or as complex as on the thirteenth of every month you must sacrifice a lamb for twenty seven consecutive years in order to make it to your waiting room alone.
have a designated day / time to shift. like the first saturday of every month. focus on getting mental clutter out of the way the other six days out of the week.
recognize your need for control, when you already have it. your actions, your viewpoints, your emotions, your perception of the world around you. you have a lot more control then you think. manifestation & alignment is proof of that already. you just may need a little brush up on how to hold it.
let your dr not be perfect. let go. release. you’ll be okay. you’ll figure it out as you go. you can go back & fine tune your dr once you’re there. (as mentioned above)
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