āāTHROUGH A RAPISTāS EYESā (PLS TAKE TIME TO READ THIS. it may save a life.) Reblog this!
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It seems that alot of attackers use some tactic to get away with violence. Not manyĀ people know how to take care of themselves when faced with such a
situation. Everyone should read this especially each n every girl in this world.Ā THOUGHT THIS WAS GOOD INFO TO PASS ALONGā¦
FYI - Through a rapistās eyes! A group of rapists and date rapists inĀ prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victimĀ and here are some interesting facts:
1] The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle.
They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun! , braid,Ā or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely toĀ go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not commonĀ targets.
2] The second thing men look for is clothing. They will look for womenĀ whoās clothing is easy to remove quickly. Many of them carry scissorsĀ around to cut clothing.
3] They also look for women using their cell phone, searching throughĀ their purse or doing other activities while walking because they areĀ off guard and can be easily overpowered.
4] The number one place women are abducted from / attacked at isĀ grocery store parking lots.
5] Number two is office parking lots/garages.
6] Number three is public restrooms.
7] The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a womanĀ and quickly move her to a second location where they donāt have toĀ worry about getting caught.
8] If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouragedĀ because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that goingĀ after you isnāt worth it because it will be time-consuming.
9] These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas,orĀ other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in theirĀ hands.
10] Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close toĀ the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convinceĀ these guys youāre not worth it.
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POINTS THAT WE SHOULD REMEMBER:
1] If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage orĀ with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and askĀ them a question, like what time is it, or make general small talk:
canāt believe it is so cold out here, weāre in for a bad winter. NowĀ that youāve seen their faces and could identify them in a line- up,Ā you lose appeal as a target.
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2] If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front ofĀ you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked toĀ said theyād leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she wouldĀ
not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASYĀ target.
3] If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate ofĀ it and carries it with him wherever he goes,) yelling I HAVE PEPPERĀ SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.
4] If someone grabs you, you canāt beat them with strength but you canĀ do it by outsmarting them. If you are grabbed around the waist fromĀ behind, pinch the attacker either under the arm between the elbow and
armpit or in the upper inner thigh - HARD. One woman in a class thisĀ guy taught told him she used the underarm pinch on a guy who wasĀ trying to date rape her and was so upset she broke through the skinĀ and tore out muscle strands the guy needed stitches. Try pinchingĀ yourself in those places as hard as you can stand it; it really hurts.
5] After the initial hit, always go for the groin. I know from aĀ particularly unfortunate experience that if you slap a guyās parts itĀ is extremely painful. You might think that youāll anger the guy andĀ make him want to hurt you more, but the thing these rapists told our
instructor is that they want a woman who will not cause him a lot ofĀ trouble. Start causing trouble, and heās out of there.
6] When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushingĀ down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using
much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles crackedĀ audibly.
7] Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware ofĀ your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see anyĀ odd behavior, donāt dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel
little silly at the time, but youād feel much worse if the guy reallyĀ was trouble.
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FINALLY, PLEASE REMEMBER THESE AS WELL ā¦.
I know you are smart enough to know these pointers but there will beĀ some, where you will go āhmm I must remember thatā After readingĀ forward it to someone you care about, never hurts to be careful inĀ this crazy world we live in.
1. Tip from Tae Kwon Do: The elbow is the strongest point on yourĀ body. If you are close enough to use it, do it.
2. Learned this from a tourist guide to New OrleansĀ : if a robber asksĀ for your wallet and/or purse, DO NOT HAND IT TO HIM. Toss it away fromĀ youā¦. chances are that he is more interested in your wallet and/or
purse than you and he will go for the wallet/purse. RUN LIKE MAD INĀ THE OTHER DIRECTION!
3. If you are ever thrown into the trunk of a car: Kick out the backĀ tail lights and stick your arm out the hole and start waving likeĀ crazy. The driver wonāt see you but everybody else will. This hasĀ saved lives.
4. Women have a tendency to get into their cars after shopping,eating,Ā working, etc., and just sitĀ (doing their checkbook, or making a list, etc. DONāT DO THIS! TheĀ predator will be watching you, and this is the perfect opportunity forĀ him to get in on the passenger side,put a gun to your head, and tellĀ you where to go. AS SOON AS YOU CLOSE the DOORS , LEAVE.
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5. A few notes about getting into your car in a parking lot, orĀ parking garage:
a. Be aware: look around your car as someone may be
hiding at the passenger side , peek into your car, inside theĀ passenger side floor, and in the back seat. ( DO THIS TOO BEFOREĀ RIDING A TAXI CAB) .
b. If you are parked next to a big van, enter your car from theĀ passenger door. Most serial killers attack their victims by pullingĀ them into their vans while the women are attempting to get into theirĀ cars.
c. Look at the car parked on the driverās side of your vehicle, andĀ the passenger side. If a male is sitting alone in the seat nearestĀ your car, you may want to walk back into the mall, or work, and get aĀ guard/policeman to walk you back out. IT IS ALWAYS BETTER TO BE SAFEĀ THAN SORRY. (And better paranoid than dead.)
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6. ALWAYS take the elevator instead of the stairs. (Stairwells areĀ horrible places to be alone and the perfect crime spot).
7. If the predator has a gun and you are not under his control, ALWAYSĀ RUN! The predator will only hit you (a running target) 4 in 100 times;Ā And even then, it most likely WILL NOT be a vital organ. RUN!
8. As women, we are always trying to be sympathetic: STOP IT! It mayĀ get you raped, or killed. Ted Bundy, the serial killer, was aĀ good-looking, well educated man, who ALWAYS played on the sympathiesĀ of unsuspecting women. He walked with a cane, or a limp, and oftenĀ asked āfor helpā into his vehicle or with his vehicle, which is whenĀ he abducted his next victim.
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Send this to any woman you know that may need to be reminded that theĀ world we live in has a lot of crazies in it and itās better safe thanĀ sorry.
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