Purple Pleaser

oooo oooweeeeeooo ] they/them 30s do not follow: under 18, terf, swerf, nazi, etc. light NSFW possible, mostly art

[korabebe]

"Angel Caído", Herneval es tan precioso como todas las obras que hablan de Lucifer.

[clownfactories]

there should be a second pride month in fall or winter for people who have heat intolerance. no other reason.

[piranesies]

they should invent putting on sunscreen that doesn't feel like putting on sunscreen

[ponderosa121]

Be supportive.

(Hi. I can't stop thinking about Widow's Bay.)

[esoteric-kolerik]

I can't believe this entore site is not talking about Widow's Bay. Nautical folk horror, it's stephen king it's midnight mass it's also somehow an office comedy. Stephen Root is there. What more could you want?

[vrag-veshtica]

everyone please get on board asap 😭

[fawnsbriar]

the queen of widows bay

[cali]

name your baby boy gargoyle. do it for me. and if its a girl... hmmm... name her gargoyle

[cuppydogshane]

all the rights that come with marriage you should be able to have without marriage btw. you should be able to designate a person who can visit you in the hospital regardless of your relationship to that person.

[ramshacklefey]

They should also be assignable individually. "This person has medical poa for me, but we do not file taxes together." "We file taxes together because we operate on shared incomes, but my survivor's benefits are going to my sibling who will need them more."

The US government assigns over 1,000 rights/privileges for being legally married to someone. There's no reason they need to all be in one bundle.

But actually, the assignment of those rights and privileges IS marriage in legal terms.

So really, if you want them available without marriage, what you want is to get fucking rid of marriage as a legal construct and set up some better way of distributing rights and privileges necessary for adults to effectively form interpersonal care networks.

Highly recommend Elizabeth Brake's book Minimizing Marriage if you want to hear more on it.

[gummybearattacktheworldofdespair]

[sapphic-gengar]

BRING HIM BACK

[gummybearattacktheworldofdespair]

[sapphic-gengar]

oh thank goodness

[pinkertoast]

Sighs loudly and dramatically in a way that suggests I desire attention

[cyphir-spacerobot]

Victor Frankenstein after achieving the impossible and building a fucking person from scraps of the dead: Oh god, ew, ew it's ugly! Yucky! Yucky! Gross! Ew! Ew! Yucky! Yucky! Gross! Ew!

[koiagain]

[chrispineofficial]

saw an annoying post. but i’m being so brave about it

[chrispineofficial]

i’m obsessed with you. shall we get married

[cuppydogshane]

all the rights that come with marriage you should be able to have without marriage btw. you should be able to designate a person who can visit you in the hospital regardless of your relationship to that person.

[hyperlexichypatia]

People in the notes are saying "You can!" referring just to the hospital visitation part, and sure (depending). But people should have access to ALL of the benefits of marriage without needing to be married.

You should be able to add anyone you want on your health insurance plan.

You should be able to sponsor the visa of anyone you choose to move to your home country.

You should be able to name anyone you choose as the legal-from-birth legal coparent of any child you give birth to.

You should be able to apply for student aid on your own at any age.

And yes, yes, ideally healthcare and college should be free, international migration should be unrestricted, and the entire concept of legal parenthood should be rewritten from the ground up. But right now we're talking about marriage benefits.

[wibblyrlin]

florence welch photographed by janine.v.photography

[drachenmagier]

More glow?

More glow.

[whyenn-reader]

''what if you regret it'' then you will expirience regret - a normal and unavoidable part of the human expirience.

[whyenn-reader]

the more you twist yourself into a pretzel to avoid regret the harder it will hit when it eventually catches up to you.