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[This user is Latino/Latina.]

questioning (sorta? Not really anymore but still confused) pmos culture is having high testosterone levels but all other tests for pmos and even ncah coming in normal and the endocrinologist just kinda saying “ur fat thats why ur T is high” and not knowing what to do with that cuz like u know fatphobia in medicine is a thing but if all the tests return nothing then what else is it

questioning pmos culture is...

mothersdarling

Reminder to all disabled selfshippers:

Your f/o adores you. Period.

Even if you can't do things the "normal" way.

Even if you can't do certain things at all.

Even when your bedbound.

Even when your cranky from pain.

Even when facing the world hurts.

Even when going in public feels like a humiliation ritual to you.

Even when the doctor appointments fill up the calendar and the medicines fill up the kitchen counter.

Even when you cry from doctors not listening or understanding.

Even when the test results come back normal.

Even when your life seems so utterly chaotic, unpleasant and miserable.

Your f/o cares about you. They want to weather every storm with you. They want to advocate for you. They want to fight for you. They want to be in your life. They want to be by your side, holding you hand, facing whatever challenge the future will bring. Not out of obligation or pity, but because they truly love you.

You are loved, disabled selfshipper. It's hard not to.

avpdculture

Sorry if im sending too many of these..

Suspected/Undiagnosed AVPD culture is telling people that i’m suspecting i might have “something”, describing the symptoms i’ve been experiencing, but never actually saying the words “i think i have AVPD.”, yknow, juuust incase i’m wrong and fake and a fraud,which is a completely normal thing to think when you’re researching a disorder you might have,ofcourse

-💻💭👁️‍🗨️

~

ur-fav-pirates

Nightcrawler/Kurt Wagner from X-Men evolution online piracy.(especially for a fictive if that's not a problem).

-🫐&🛸 (Kurt and Ziv)

Nightcrawler, aka Kurt Wagner from X-men evolution pirates online!

plural-this-user-is

"This XYZs Pluralspace is a work in progress" with various terminology for collectives and headmates

plural-this-user-is

a little sunshine, as a treat

plural-this-user-is

"This User is... uhm... what was I talking about?" with various terminology

do you ever just... uhm... does your.... what...?

Free to use by anyone. I don't have a DNI. Credit not necessary, but heavily appreciated.

plural-this-user-is

Hi! So I'm a newly discovered stressgenic system and your open to all stance makes me feel less like an outcast, so thank you! /gen

Not a request, as I'll come back when those are open if you don't have one; do you have stressgenic userboxes? /genq

I know it wasn't a request, but seeing other stressgenic systems makes me happy, so stressgenic userboxes for you

and of course, I'd always prioritize function over my own stances with my userboxes — they're meant to help the community, not separate us even more

Free to use by anyone. I don't have a DNI. Credit not necessary, but heavily appreciated.

purpuracluster

This is Necro

#plurality #endo safe #userboxes #pro endogenic #endogenic friendly #pro endo #stressgenic #pluralgang #plural community #radinclus #anti rq

plural-this-user-is

"This User has memory issues not related to their plurality." -🎴

Versions for Systems and Collectives:

Versions for Plurals and Constellations:

Requested by anon!

Feel free to use! Credit is not necessary, but always appreciated!

mothersdarling

Hey, your f/o doesn't think less of you because you can't work because of your disability. They don't think you're lazy or a mooch because you use government assistance like SSI or LCWRA. They don't expect you to "compensate" for your time at home while they're at work by doing errands and chores ; they know you're disabled and don't have to be productive to be worthwhile as a person. Your validity isn't measure by your capital output and they're a firm believer in that.

Never feel ashamed about not working because your f/o surely isn't. They're proud of you for resting and taking care of yourself. That's all they could ever ask of you.

Pro/Dark/Comship DNI

mothersdarling

Disability Imagine

If you have a psychiatric disability...

Imagine your f/o knowing exactly how to bring you down from an event (panic attack, PTSD flashback, psychosis, mania, etc). They know how to bring you back to reality and soothe you. All the right things to say, how to hold you, what to do.

Knowing all your triggers and expertly avoiding them in everyday life. They have no issues watching/listening to media before you do so they can scout out any potential triggers.

Always escorting you to your therapies, waiting outside with a treat for you and a big hug, knowing how hard and draining these appointments can be.

Helping you remember to take your medications on time because they know how important your psychiatric meds are.

Holding your hand on bad days, weeks, months. Guiding you through the dark times, even when it feels impossible for you to ever make it out into the light again. But you always do, in part, because of their unwavering support.

You aren't crazy, worthless, a burden, insane, a lost cause to them. You're their world and they're so lucky to go through each day with you. You're so worth the effort.

DNI Pro/Dark/Comship

mothersdarling

Disability Imagine

If you are cognitively/intellectually/developtmentally disabled...

Imagine your f/o happily translating things into easier, simpler language for you and not thinking less of you for it.

Helping you with executive dysfunction by getting you up and onto whatever task needs to be done and helping you stay focused.

Getting mad for you when text is in a unaccessible font on a menu and making a complaint to the manager of the restaurant.

Writing down on their phone or a notepad all the things you may have issues remembering and reminding you of them when needed. And they never get upset when you forget something, even when it's big like an anniversary.

Not getting embarrassed when you act "inappropriately". They know your brain is different and can make you do things that others may find to be weird or off-putting. Not them though. They find you to be charming no matter what.

Being attuned to your sensory needs. Whether you're sensory seeking, sensory defensive or a bit of both, they always know how to get you regulated. Carrying around aids like sunglasses or fidgets for you. Or moving you to an appropriate setting when you start to get unsettled. No big deal!

Your f/o cares for you so deeply. It's not a bother or a hassle to accomodate you. It's an honor you trust them so much with your wellbeing. They do what they can to help you out happily and proudly.

Pro/Dark/Comship DNI

mildly-inconvenient-plur-is

mip is "oh fuckk am i a fictionkin or did a fictive form in like a day 😭"

and then boom, it's both /j -Moros

mothersdarling

Disability Imagine

If you have a visible disability...

Imagine your f/o helping you do boring maintenance on your mobility aids. Changing the tips of your canes/crutches. Cleaning the wheels on your wheelchair. Tightening the screws on your walker. All without a sigh or complaint!

Imagine them staring daggers into the rude adult who is staring at your skin disorder like a fool. Eventually spitting out, "Is there a problem?" puffing their chest out until the loser walks away, scared and ashamed.

Imagine them doing the sometimes difficult job of putting a shoe on your prosthetic foot for you, so you don't have to deal with the frustration. Or painting the nails on your arm prosthesis so they match your other hand.

Imagine them sharply correcting someone who starts speaking slowly and loudly at you once they find out you are blind/visually impaired. "Hey, asshole, they're blind, not deaf. They can hear you just fine."

Your f/o is never embarrassed to be seen with you. Never. You are perfect and beautiful to them. All the negative attention you get in public only makes them defensive of you, as you're their precious person who they would do anything to protect. They love you so deeply, every scar and lost screw (seriously, why do screws for mobility aids always get lost?!?) and wouldn't change a thing about you. They are proud of you and proud to be with you. Always.

Pro/Dark/Com Ship DNI